#not incels or andrew tate guys. normal guys

[maddy-ferguson]

#me

#this is what the average person on tumblr is missing. what i meant when i said the average person on tumblr should see misogynistic men talk #on the internet regularly they would benefit from that #not incels or andrew tate guys. normal guys #in november #and like i say: brf slt #i remember in 2016 when i was just getting into feminism as like a thing of the present the big thing on french twitter was for guys to say #meuf = pute: girl = whore. they would just say this. 24/7. not even a creative way to be misogynistic. but i was like oh! #then when girls would talk about getting harassed they would be like you made this up you're too ugly a film directed by quentin #tarantino etc. i think one of the most frustrating things they do is say no boy has ever sexually harassed a girl in middle school because #all they thought about at that age (that age being. from 11 to 15) was football and video games like OH MY GOD we were literally there #i mean no there's worse a lot worse but it's one of the most annoying ones like how are you all coming together to collectively #gaslight us #i could give more examples but it's not that interesting just these people HATE US!!!!!! #it's never just one or two guys or even ten or even twenty it's SO MANY PEOPLE just united by their hatred of women...heartwarming #in a way #but whatever i know people are awful on the internet or whatever but these people exist irl i'm pretty sure. im just not blissfully unaware #i'm sure that's nice. it's probably a bliss even. frustrating for normal people who have to interact with that though #or maybe not for normal people misogyny is a very widespread thing idk if you know this...frustrating for me! #like why does seeing frankly misogynistic tweets kinda not bother me as much as seeing posts that act like misogyny isn't a thing. at least #they're honest!!!!! #like it does feel very bad. but i'm used to it. kind of

[k0kichiimagines]

this ai trend is sickening, ive seen so many tiktoks of girls having these non consenting porn pictures made of them. literally anyone, if a guy wants to hurt you it doesn't take long and boom it's out there. its already illegal, please please i hope police and etc enforce it because its plain sickening and disgusting, can't even exist online anymore. yes, deepfake was a thing, but ai just makes it even easier to do. the WORST part of it, is sick fucks trying to actually pretend they have a right to this. incels are absolutely vile, i feel sick. im so angry, i feel like misogyny is honestly getting worse, especially with andrew tate dick riders. its beyond ignorance or etc there's more men that just plain hate women, especially online. its so depressing, makes me so angry

'oo oo we'll get robot wives then you'll see--' good riddance. go fuck off with your ai wives and leave us alone, i will celebrate the day they're all busy with Elon musk brain chips and vr and robot wives so the rest of normal human society can function without them.

#makes me so angry #misogyny #women's safety

[negativepeanuthoarder]

not only that but having to delete the tweet bc of being clowned by Minecraft stans so hard like that's just make him lose respect of any gamerbro too

Exactly like even the guys who aren't the annoying redpilled andrew tate stanning incels will laugh at that. Normal guys laugh at that. I told one of my extremely normal coworkers and he laughed so hard he almost threw up

#asks by peanut #anon tag

[gate4043]

Andrew Tate is the weird friend you had in school that you don't talk to anymore and is an incel now

Andrew Tate would've been the kind of kid to whine about the fact nobody's playing Duel Masters because everyone's playing Yu Gi Oh instead, and then because he's rich he would've shown up to school with a bunch of Duel Masters cards and nobody would've taken them because they preferred Yu Gi Oh.

Andrew Tate would've been the kind of kid to brag about how he got everyone at his old school into the thing that he really enjoyed, but it's an obvious total lie, but you go along with it and nod your head because this is the rest, it's either be kind of friends with this guy or don't have any friends at all, and you need someone to come to your birthday party.

Andrew Tate would've been the kind of kid to ask incessant, stupid what-if questions that everyone finds annoying, and then in class, he would've been the kid who asks the teacher an inappropriate question regarding the latest rude word he learned.

Andrew Tate would have had an anime girl profile picture, but not a normal one, specifically one from a hentai that he read and would bring to school. Andrew Tate might have been the kid that jerked off every day in the bathroom at your school.

Andrew Tate has been using the phrase "Top G" since he was seven.

Andrew Tate would have been the kid who your mum forced you to hang out with when you were little, and then subsequently were made to watch him play video games for several hours despite the fact he owns a console.

Andrew Tate would have been the kid who made an effort to start fights, saying "you wanna go?" when he was little, and then proceed to get immediately knocked out.

Andrew Tate would have been the kid who bragged about how rich his family was and even though I know he's actually probably been rich all of his life, he is the kind of kid who would have gone to the cheapest public school in the area and bragged about how his parents were so rich because they kept making trips overseas, primarily to buy pirated merch from places where it's cheap.

Andrew Tate would have brought a knife to school.

Andrew Tate would have been the kid who poked fun of the boys taking dancing while secretly being forced to take dance classes outside of school, which all the girls know, because he's in their class and that's why they avoid him because he's full of shit.

#fuck andrew tate #honestly the man comes across as so pathetic I don't understand why he has a following #I am going to just tag andrew tate to start shit with his fans if there are miraculously any on tumblr because it's funny #andrew tate #go fuck yourself

[agumonger]

tangent! "being a man".

tangent! how i overthink things

tangent! how i finally figured it out and realized i am, indeed, just a cis dude

it really helped me to realize that while i don't want to be an andrew tate alphahead fast cars football materialism hiding your emotions type man, and i don't want to be a femboy either, i do want to be the kind of man that irradiates a wholesome energy, maybe a bit wacky, but not without a certain kind of wisdom, nerdy but not the petty incel entitled um akshually type, i want to have healer animal talker character type energy, i want to have gentle giant energy, bob ross energy, posy energy, i want to be fascinated by life and by humanity and make people feel like the time they spend with me is time that counts, i want to make them feel safe, loved, supported. i want to create beautiful things, i want to make people go through emotions with what i make, perhaps even discover something about themselves. i want to be warm and approachable and strange and unpredictable and hilarious and idealistic. i want to believe in things like love, honesty and kindness

that's the kind of man i want to be

the detachment that i always felt from traditional masculinity was never truly about aesthetic, or about gender identity, it was always about the toxicity. it's not about dysphoria - i've actually learned to like my body, too. i'm not a demiboy or agender or nb or anything of the sort, i just. don't like the extremely narrow definition of what masculinity is supposed to be, but i don't feel attracted towards the other side either, which is why i always hesitated to speak up about my issues, like "can i really say i'm Not Attached to my Own Gender(TM) if the idea of wearing makeup or a pearl necklace or a skirt clearly makes me glitch out?" was always the question that made me stay silent. "you're overthinking", i told myself, "you're not inventing Masculinity 2 you're just Some Guy. don't be so full of yourself"

and like, actually, yeah of course! of course i'm just some guy! i kept looking at the issue backwards. i kept asking myself "am i really a man?" when the question was "is the stupid ass alpha male method the only valid way to be a cis man, without being labeled as queer?" which, yeah, i am queer (bi) but still!! of course not! of course that's not the only valid way. it's just the most common one that dudes follow, but it doesn't have to be like that

i'm not *not* a man, i'm just not macho and that's different. and yes, 90% of people would consider my outward appearance to still be milquetoast and basic and normal as fuck and that's okay as well. i'm not the type that obsessively hates everything related to the alpha/chad aesthetic thing either

and yeah you might be like "but jojo, you had a gender questioning phase? but you seem as regular vanilla as dudes go! look at you talking about videogames in a hoodie and jeans and a buzzcut" and you would be absolutely right. i just think Too Much About Things

bonus points for reading this: how many male fictional characters with a similar vibe do you know. because i'll probably love them. i love every character that has been written with the understanding that men can be sensitive and sincere with their emotions and vulnerable AND that difference doesn't have to imply any orientation or specific special label of gender identity AND that sensitivity is to be understood and respected and not laughed at

fun fact this is why i love himbos so fucking much. because they got the traditionally masculine aesthetic that i'm hopelessly attracted to (though i wouldn't apply it to myself) but also the potential for genuine sensitivity and kindness and gentleness. emotional intelligence

i think this phase of self-discovery and overthinking that started around lockdown is probably over.

extra bonus points for reading: whatever rappers had goin on aesthetically in the mid 2000s. that. bring it back idc

#MONGER NO #just rambling and stuffs

[maddy-ferguson]

i think the average tumblr user should see misogynistic men talk on the internet regularly they would benefit from that and i would too because then they wouldn't be so annoying

#i think it's great to have a safe space where you're not bombarded with men hating women but at the same time. insufferable people #i don't even mean incels or andrew tate kind of guys just. normal guys. because it feels worse #it's not like i look for the misogyny on the internet i like to ignore it too sometimes but it just finds me. #like what is it with tumblr and acting like misogyny is barely a thing #literally hate you guys #on the internet because that's where it finds me most often #and like i say: brf slt