It's so interesting and so exceedingly frustrating how agab is being utilized now within the queer community as a way to isolate and sort nonbinary and genderqueer folks into binary boxes that determine their moral purity levels, and their authority to do and write and exist.
The way nonbinary writers are being put under accusation of fetishizing gay men while their AGAB is continually brought up in a way that feels like queer-space-approved misgendering.
The way feminist circles that are supposedly trans-inclusive will use the word AFAB in a way that implicitly but intentionally isolates nonbinary people who aren't AFAB from joining. It's for women*.
The way the language is already flawed and leaves out intersex folks from the conversations while focusing on a binary of sex that isn't truthful.
The constant obsessing over whether someone is AFAB or AMAB and whether or not that gives them the privilege to join, do, write, or be present in certain spaces really really concerns me. How are we supposed to dismantle a binary system of gender if we can't even move past forcibly assigning and focusing on people's genders assigned at birth?
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how would you guys feel if i posted a 9 page comic about trans adam and eve how would that make u guys feel
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I’m starting HRT soon!!!!!!! 🥺🥺🥺
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I’m trying so hard to let the kids who dressed up to see fnaf know that they’re so cool and neat n that they’re little rockstars 👍👍👍
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Stop whistling bitch go watch animorphs or something
DIE,
sorry liberals thats just dark humor for you, if ur offended leave
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eating a yummy little tomato sandwich tonight <3
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I want to explore every creative outlet possible I want to have time to do ceramics and sculpture. Overcome the sensory nightmare of painting and crochet a whole wardrobe </3 I want to learn how to cook full meals and share them with people I love and share clothing and physical items with those I care for alongside creating in a digital space. I want to hold these things, and know these things and know each fingerprint and missed loop </3333
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Still reeling over Minnesotas state drink being “Milk” like. Okay thanks for sharing.
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I feel so weird writing an essay about my experiences growing up with the expectations of being the perfect little girl, only to then realize I’m not a girl, but still having it instilled into myself how I “should behave” as someone viewed by my parents and the schools and everything as a girl and then giving this essay to my cisgender teacher who constantly misgenders me like. Eileen i pray to god you don’t think this is me telling you I’m a little girl and always will be but instead trying to explore a really nuanced and frustrating part of my identity in the context of my families culture.
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Hey guys! I have a google survey about the trans experience and i was wondering if you would be willing to participate in it. It’s for my drawing final and i elaborate more on the survey itself! Tysm!!!
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdcvl5g_emXyp2vpeVLEjXEGGoELCkf1EIZ_Z8z4W-sLxpTvA/viewform?usp=sf_link
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it’s 1am in the morning. N I wanted to let u know Stevie’s a cool name please call me Stevie from now on until it becomes my new cishet world name
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One day I’ll fully script one of my stories and start drafting comic pages but until then i suffer silently and slowly write a sentence once a year
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