#terfs in the notes

[butchdykekondraki]

8k+ note butch lucifer

#[ren] #i hope every terf in the notes kills themself and never finds joy in their life godbless amen <3 #notes are a free blocklist btw

[glumby]

I love the concept of exile. like dude just get out

#text post #edit: the notes are an absolute warzone and i cant believe this has to be said on 2 line joke post but go trans rights and fuck terfs 💀 #edit 2: changed back to original post because some people wanted it

[reactionimagesdaily]

#if you are a terf please get out of my notes thank you #reaction image #reaction meme #daily reaction images #image mood: ah shit

[sarahbara]

oh so the writer who put extremely offensive jewish stereotypes in her book is also denying things that happened during the holocaust what a surprise 🙄

#GOD PPL IN THE NOTES ARE SO FUCKING STUPID. I AM JEWISH YOU ABSOLUTELY FUCK WADS. GROW UP READ A NEW BOOK KILL YOURSELVES #TERFS TOO. TERFS KILL YOURSELVES. IM NOT KIDDING

[subspaceskater]

if your girl doesn't have a medical license she is not legally allowed to rearrange your guts

[molsno]

I think that tme people have heard a lot of things about terfs that give them a false impression of who can be a terf. yes, most terfs are heterosexual. but there are bisexual and lesbian terfs. yes, terfs are racist. but there are still terfs who are poc. yes, terfs are antisemitic. but there are still jewish terfs. yes, terfs are intersexist. but there are still intersex terfs. yes, terfs are ableist. but there are still disabled terfs. yes, terfs are transphobic. but there are still nonbinary and transmasc terfs. if you're not transfem, and especially if you were afab, terfs will happily accept you into their "sisterhood".

like, if you think I'm being harsh here, you need to understand that for trans women, we have to see them all. you might think that because you're [insert marginalized identity], you couldn't possibly be a terf. but I can guarantee you I've been personally harassed by a terf who shares that exact same identity, and a lot of trans women can say the same. are they less common than the stereotypical cishet white christian perisex able-bodied women that you imagine all terfs to be? absolutely, but they still exist. and it doesn't particularly matter if they don't check all those boxes, because at the end of the day, they're still calling me a male-socialized rapist who will never be a woman and telling me to kill myself! it doesn't matter to them that the movement they're a part of harms people like them - people like you - because they hate people like me more.

it would be nice if we could all pretend that terfs are this tiny group of ultra-privileged conservative women but when you're transfem it becomes so glaringly obvious that that's nothing more than an illusion. terfs are a fairly large hate group, one that includes people from any background you can imagine, excluding transfems. if it bothers you to be reminded that there are terfs who share the same background as you, then do something about it. they're everywhere - they could be your family, your friends, your co-workers, your classmates. start advocating for trans women, especially the ones who also share the same background as you, and shield them from transmisogyny. learn to actually recognize transmisogyny and nip it in the bud when people start spouting off terf talking points - it's better not to let them become terfs at all. you're not helping any trans women when you plug your ears and pretend that people just like you can't possibly be violent transmisogynists.

#my writing #transmisogyny #since I've been going on a terf blocking spree with them popping up in my notes for the past 2 days this has been on my mind #I feel like it really needs to be said because these things are not as uncommon as some people seem to think they are

[gremlingirlsmell]

queer tme ppl when they see an extremely transmisogynist TERF movement in a different country: "this is so punk rock" "based" "heck yea" "faith in humanity restored" "this is so cool to see" "literal history happening there right now"

#im not gonna lie seeing that post has almost 30k notes makes me not feel any safer here #i can just hope that most of these are ruisa's addition #but just going through the notes theres SO MANY tme queers cheering this shit on like ??? #so you hate trans women. cool #transmisogyny #jeady rambles #these are all from the tags and reblogs of that post #the version without the edition the one that says 'no this is definitely not a terf movement just ignore them literally saying transfems ar #male spies and checking new members for adams apples and shit'

[sourisking]

how to avoid becoming/getting back into any harmful community

go offline (seriously. Online is not necessary)

block tags and block people. (Your online safety does not have to cater to others I promise)

Follow unrelated tags to drown it out (like art tags, Uhm… gardening?)

Get hobbies (seriously, distract yourself if possible!)

anyone else feel free to add on (or don’t idc)

Also: things like discourse can be addictive and detrimental to one’s health, remember to put yourself first!

uhm… this is probably not gonna get much traction but this is also kind of a me thing so yea :3

#anti radqueer #anti transid #anti proship #anti radical feminism #anti terf #anti prat #antiship #<- I hold the keep it to yourself stance on shipping. If you’re gonna dark/pro/com ship do it in your notes app not on tiktok

[rcedge]

#this has been slowly gaining notes so i am going to amend the tags with a preemptive terfs kys now .

[un-monstre]

If there's any terfs following me or reblogging my stuff please know that I love + care about people of color, trans people, sex workers, and all sorts of kinksters and dykes and my posts are not for terfs 😌

#seeing terfs in my notes and wanted to make things clear #monstre.txt

[transandrophobia-truther-turtle]

"Kill all men" is transphobic, even as a joke.

If you don't include trans men, you obviously don't see them as men.

If you do include trans men, you're calling for mass murder of a marginalized group.

Stop it. Do better.

#transandrophobia #transmisandry #anti masculism #original #i'm blocking terfs as they pop up but still be careful if you check the notes

[adaginy]

The Big Guide to Humans: Sex and Gender

It is mostly true, and yet very over simplifying, to say that humans have two sexes. More accurately, sex has a very strong binomial distribution on a spectrum from male to female. Sex is determined before birth based on genes and hormones, resulting in specific internal and external genitalia. A person at the far male end of the spectrum will have "XY" chromosomes and the hormones they produce, outward-extending external genitals, and relatively simple internal genitals. A person at the far female end will have "XX" chromosomes and their respective hormones, and will have external genitals that tuck inward to become their large and complicated internal genitalia (see reproduction). It is, however, possible to have internal and external genitalia that do not match each other or that combine features of each, hormones that do not match the chromosomes, genitalia that do not match the chromosomes, "XXY" or "X[null]" or chromosomes, chromosomes that appear as a second X or a Y but are combined, and perhaps other irregularities not adequately described in research accessible outside of Terra. These persons fall outside of the two peaks. In these cases, sex is determined medically by internal genitalia and culturally (more on this below) by external. If a person feels strongly averse to being their birth sex, adjustments can be made to their hormones, sexual dimorphism, and genitalia (mostly external) to move them toward the other end of the spectrum. That said, unless you are 1) medical personnel, 2) able to produce offspring with a human, or 3) unwilling to be surprised during sexual encounters, human sex is mostly irrelevant. Asking about their genitalia, if they have not displayed interest in mating (see flirting), is considered extremely rude. The primary way a human's gender (overly simplified as "the sex they feel they should be") affects you, a non-human with questions about humans/a human, is only in how you refer to them conversationally for languages that mark gender (languages that usually mark sex are expected to use gender for humans). This information is usually included in introductions to specific humans, or may be available in files your translation dock will pull automatically. The broad categories of human gender are Man, Woman (these two approximately equally common), Both, Neither, Unclear/Other, or Varying (these last 4 together not as common as man or woman). A human may feel some level of distress determining their gender, especially if they are not a male man or female woman, and it can take years for them to be certain. Or they may know it so instinctively and intrinsically that they never think about it. As with genitals, it is considered rude to be curious about further details — unless the human considers you a close friend and/or offers explanation on their own.

If sex is a spectrum, the details of a human's gender are an n-dimensional color-coded time-lapse graph, representing how one feels about their genitalia/dimorphism, whether they think it's relevant that they have/haven't made deliberate moves along the sex spectrum (or do/don't want to), their feelings about their "traditional gender role" (a reference to complicated human history of treating sex like speciation or a caste, and assuming sex predicted gender), how they demonstrate that they agree/disagree with their sex and/or gender role, how strongly they feel about these things, how much they've thought about them, whether these feelings have changed over time, and infinitely more details based on the human's personal experience, culture, medical history, etc etc. Where/how a person's gender details appear in this hypothetical graph is not predictive of which of the categories they will place themselves under, and a person with complex feelings about their gender may use words that will lose nuance in translation if they can be translated reliably at all.

#addie writes #humans are space orcs #big guide to humans #behave in the notes or I will turn this car around <3 #Clarification: by which I mean “fuck terfs” not “oh no my notifications” if you wanna reblog then go nuts

[frenzyarts]

Saw someone reblog one of my posts with an “op agrees with terf posts block and stay safe” or something like that and. What in the utter fuck, tumblr. How did that even happen that someone would believe that about me

#also the person who posted that didn’t even block me #literally wild #frenzy post #tw terf mention #it was in the notes of my Barbie post btw #which already has a bunch of awful bigots in the replies

[4ngelofpurgatory]

IF YOU ONLY SAY "FUCK TERFS" AND DO NOTHING TO SUPPORT TRANS PEOPLE BLOCK ME AND GO FUCK YOURSELF

#original post was me being mad at a terf in my notes but it got a lot of notes so im changing it to this <3

[boxroepe]

i cant believe in the year 2024 there are still binary trans people that bash nonbinary people, or believe that you MUST want every single step of medical transition to be trans, or make fun of neopronouns and nontraditional gender identities. maybe stop obsessing over other peoples experiences of gender more than you think about your own

#do not try to debate me in the notes #transmeds and terfs will be blocked on sight #i wont be forced to justify my existence to some shithead transphobe bootlicker

[iclimbtreestofeelalive]

okay i'm gonna say something and you all have to give me a chance. ready?

we need to stop making fun of poor american southerners who distrust the government. it's real easy to call them all conspiracy theorists and dismiss them, but half the time, its built off of a genuine feeling of being abandoned by the infrastructure meant to keep them safe.

in appalachia, a lot of people lost their homes because of coal mining operations. a lot of people worked in those mines, and then when the mines stopped being profitable, they got tossed out with the bathwater. a lot of appalachia is poor, malnourished, and i don't blame them for not trusting rich politicians who dismiss them as stupid and lower class.

if yall actually listened to half the things poor southerners say, you'd realize that a Lot of common leftist complaints are virtually identical to the rural grandma who doesn't hold with electronic money and politicians. it stems from a genuine feeling of abandonment and ostracization by the people who run the country. functionally, someone living paycheck to paycheck in the city in a tiny apartment has infinitely more in common with someone from rural appalachia than a politician. high rent, high taxes, food insecurity, feeling lied to by those in power, a general sense of frustration. it just sounds fancier coming from a city mouth than one with shitty teeth and a southern accent.

tl;dr stop dismissing southern people as stupid. they're absolutely right not to wholeheartedly trust politicians, because they've been fucked over by them time and time again, and honestly, id rather talk to a southern person who openly distrusts their representatives than someone from the city who wholeheartedly believes that Frederick Jamestown OldMoney III genuinely cares what people think and can be convinced to change his ways.

#appalachia #gettin real tired of this #hot take: southerners were right when they said never trust a politician theyre the devil #its easy to laugh but jesus christ are they wrong?? #those in power rarely came to power through just means #there i rephrased it fancy will you listen now #jesus christ #some people genuinely were never taught the fancy words to make people pay attention so you have to pay attention anyway #please note that i didnt mention race because thats an intersection im not qualified to talk about and would very much like to hear about #but jesus christ. have you all considered that maybe. just maybe #southerners arent stupid. trump was fucked up and awful and a piece of shit #he won because he at least Appeared to be sympathetic #leftists so so rarely try to actually understand poor people they dont like and its gonna be what fucks this country over #edit: hey terfs reblogging this 👋 #fuck right off unless youre prepared to include trans people in this statement #poor trans southerners exist!! i know an awful lot of them!! #im trans and southern and if you touch my post you acknowledge that trans people are breathing thinking people #with our own rational thoughts and opinions and live complex lives and face similar issues