#this is only a meme. it doesn't fully convey what i intended and now it almost has 10k notes and what can you do

[sharkinlovewithadolphin]

And that's my tea on that

#fandom #shipping #lgbtq #memes #my posts #i was talking to julia about rinharu and how much we sometimes hate the fandom #and well ofc i made a meme about it #rinharu #harurin #sharkbait #victuri #edit: i don't care about specific fans having fun with this #but i hate it when a majority of a fandom as a whole starts to treat it as something canon #''she's not scared of bugs so she must be masc and practically a husband and not a woman'' #''he's emotional so he must be a bottom since emotions is feminine and so is bottoming'' apparently #etc #creating this whole delusion that characters (and real people too at times) have to be one of two opposites and not complex beings #that aren't necesarrily one or the other. sometimes neither. sometimes a mix. sometimes something else entirely #also i know queer couples aren't heteronormative but as this is about fandoms i guess i'll still stand by it tbh #this is only a meme. it doesn't fully convey what i intended and now it almost has 10k notes and what can you do #stop putting words in my mouth guys it's exhausting #and stop assuming you know the context of a a mere image and accuse me of whatever #i don't blame people who do it #since most of it stems from gender norms and we all know how deep rooted those are in all of us #i'm just tired of seeing it so much