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what is the truth

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Reassurance to age regressors with trauma:

You are not a burden to your friends, your partner, your caregiver, or anyone else when you regress. If anyone in your circle has a problem with it, that's THEIR problem, not yours.

Your regression is not 'dirty' or 'gross' or any other word like that. You are free to cry, and scream and fuss during your regression if you need to. Regression is not always happy, but that's okay. You do what you need to cope.

Once you regress, there's no rush to go back up in age, or be an adult. You can be regressed for weeks or months, however long you need is fine.

No one is going to take away your toys or comfort items. They're right there with you, and that's where they'll stay, I promise.

It's okay to talk to your caregiver about boundaries your regressed self has. Boundaries count during regression as much as they do when you are big. Example: My little doesn't like timeouts, they make her upset so when she gets fussy, I ask her to "draw papa why you're frustrated instead." And then she explains it to me.

It's alright to have a loud outburst while you're regressed. Sometimes, it may be scary to do that if it's always been met with negativity, but it shouldn't have ever been that way.

It's okay to ask your caregiver to hold you, or tell them you need attention, or a hug. If they can't at the moment, that doesn't mean they don't love you though. Still, any caregiver will understand if you tell them that.

No one secretly hates you. I promise you, no one secretly hates you, or your regression.

I'm so glad you were born. Thank you for making the world a more beautiful place because you are in it. I care about you and want more than anything for you to be safe and happy 💝

#sfw agere #agere aesthetic #agere blog #agere community #agere caregiver #agere cg #age regression #age regressor #agere positivity

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Tips for cgs: nini time!

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Make sure..:

- [ ] they have their comfort objects if they can sleep with them! (including comfort stuffie and blankie!)

- [ ] they have an air diffuser or fan on if they need it, or anything scented if it helps them sleep such as a wax melt!

- [ ] if they are noise sensitive they either have noise on such as the tv on or if they can only sleep without noise turn anything that may make noise off if you can

- [ ] if it helps them the nightlight is on !

- [ ] they have taken any meds they may need to take

- [ ] brushed their teeth

- [ ] gotten in jammies!

- [ ] tried (or did) to go to the bathroom

- [ ] their sippy is full of water or juice! (no caffeine!)

- [ ] they’re all ready for tomorrow if they need to have anything ready (such as an outfit to go where they need to, or their backpack and / or lunch packed for tomorrow etc)

How to help a kiddo at bedtime!:

- [ ] read a bedtime story! (if you don’t live together you could call and then read it!)

- [ ] tuck them in !

- [ ] cuddles!!

- [ ] make sure you say I love you !!

- [ ] sing lullabies!

- [ ] give them warm milk!

- [ ] FOREHEAD KISSIES

#reblog! #for my baby

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૮꒰˵• ༝ •˵꒱ა shy baby -

◌ always nervous to be small around anyone

◌ hides under blankets or behind stuffies

◌ sleeves over hands

◌ hates asking for help worrying they’ll be bothersome

◌ lots of soft giggles and blushing cheeks

◌ always has comfort item when small

◌ “nuh mm not cute!!!”

◌ big hoodies and long sleeve sweaters

◌ secretly adores attention but never admits it

#reblog! #sfw agere #my little does this #for my baby

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Phrases that make my heart go 🦋🦋🦋

“who’s my good girl/boy/little one?”

“oh yeah?”

“babies don’t swear.”

“ah ah, that’s too sharp for you little one.”

“that’s my angel.”

“i’m sorry, would you repeat that for me?”

“come here.”

“i’m so proud of you.”

“look at my pretty baby.”

“precious.”

AHHHHH

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🌸💕 Caregiver Ask Game 🌸💕

1. How did you discover the community?

2. What is most appealing to you about being a caregiver?

3. Do you regress yourself?

4. What nicknames do you prefer to be called?

5. How would you describe yourself as a caregiver?

6. How do you take care of yourself when you need a break from looking after others?

7. If you have a little one, do they help you destress?

8. Would you like for someone to look after you in any shape or form from time to time?

9. Do you have any personal comfort items?

10. What helps you enter your caregiver headspace?

11. Is being a caregiver a gratifying or joyful experience for you? Why or why not?

12. If you could change the way caregivers were treated in the community, how would you do it?

13. What are some of your triggers/personal boundaries?

14. Do you prefer to babysit, or do you have a regressor/dreamer of your own?

15. What fictional characters do you headcanon as caregivers?

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A little tip to regressors of all kinds!

If you aren’t comfortable or too shy to explicitly state you’ve regressed, you can establish a keyword or add an emoji to your messages to signify you’ve entered your headspace!

For instance, I’ll message a friend “strawberry” or “bunny” to notify them I am regressed, or add a 🧸 to my messages!

#good tip! #reblog! #for my baby

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Nightmares With Bubba

You had a bad dream little one? That’s okay, bubba’s here now. The monsters can’t get to you anymore, you have me to protect you! That’s right, your stuffies will keep you safe too!

How about I make you some warm milk for you to drink before you try to go back to bed? I’ll read your favorite story too! Don’t worry little love, bubba’s here and I’m not going anywhere! Just stay comfy under the covers for me, okay?

I’m back! Now how about you take a sip of your milk while I read you your favorite story? Hold your stuffie really tight, this is a great chapter! And don’t forget your paci, silly baby!

Bubba loves you, sweet dreams little one!

#reblog! #for my baby

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You're just a tiny little babie

#for my baby

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My little colored some pictures!!

#age regression #my little pony #agere #sfw agere #sfw regression

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✨ My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic DNI banners (please reblog if you save)! ✨

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Things For Ageregressers To Do When Stressed!

Cuddle with your stuffies or caregiver!

Hide under some vv soft blankets!

Talk to or call your caregiver or friend!

Doodle or color!

Watch your favorite TV show or movie!

Tell your stuffies what's wrong!

Change into ur softest or comfort clothes!

Write in ur agere journal!

Listen to ur favorite or comforting music!

Play with ur favorite toy or videogame!

Do ur favorite hobby!

Eat ur favorite food and make some angel milk! (or ur favorite drink)

Stress gets us all ur not alone fellow baby! <3

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Reblog if you're not homophobic

Every url that reblog’s will be written in a book and shown to my homophobic dad. 

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#for my baby #reblog!

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Importance of age regression

I recently came to some pretty big conclusions that have possibly changed my life! You see for a long time I thought of my time regressed as a special treat. I always felt like it was a bad time to regress and that I had to earn it. And that’s so wrong. I didn’t even realise at first but it actually had a negative effect on my mental health. I would go way too long without allowing myself to regress because I felt like I didn’t deserve it. And most of the time it ended in me regressing involuntarily. And at that point it wasn’t fun. No, it was the sad kind of regression. Crying, hugging my stuffies, feeling scared and alone. I didn’t even realise why it was happening.

 But it all changed when I started thinking of little me as a separate person. As an individual child. And I realised how messed up it was. You wouldn’t deny an actual bio child play time for several days. That’s like, literal child abuse and neglect! So why did I think it was ok for me to suppress my little side like that. Of course I felt so scared and alone when I’d finally regress involuntarily. Because I was told I’m not allowed to be a kid and that playing is a privilege, by none other than myself. 

Since realising this, I’ve become much kinder to myself. I regress when I want to, ofc if I don’t have other important adult stuff to do, but then I do it after I’m done with adulting. And I feel so much better now! Playtime is so much more fun and more fulfilling now because I don’t feel like it has to be perfect. I’m not rushing to do everything I want because I know I can do it all over again tomorrow!  

I think this works in general not just when it comes to age regression. Take some time to look at yourself from an outside perspective and ask yourself “Am I treating this person well? Am I neglecting them? Are their needs being met?” basically if you wouldn’t treat someone else, especially a child, like you treat yourself, you need to rethink your actions.

 Don’t be your own abuser. I was for a long time, and I’m trying to heal.

#reblog!