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I've noticed that people who consider themselves progressive have become more invested in essentially fake-claiming any autistic people they don't like. Progressive circles that want to seem like allies to Autistic people may agree that mocking an autistic person for, say, missing a social cue, is ableist. But if you claim that person isn't really autistic then not only can you continue to mock them, you're a good ally by doing so.
I dont think it's a coincidence that this is happening at the same time jokes originally made by and for autistic people are becoming more widespread outside of autistic circles.
If you can dilute the common understanding of autism to 'that tism rizz', you can more easily ostracize autistic people for showing symptoms of autism, especially symptoms that are less socially acceptable or 'cute'.
It's the exact same social isolation we've been facing forever, but this time, it's wearing a progressive hat, so we have to pretend it's an improvement.
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Autistic NPD culture is like yeah bro, I AM special
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l0v3sickl0s3r · 3 days
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n is autistic. fight me
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nilla-divergent · 3 days
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When neurotypicals and level 1 autistics say they love autism, what they really mean is that they love the kind that doesn't annoy you. They love the autistics who are quirky and have special talents, who can work independently and read social interactions well enough to fit in.
And then there are the level 2 autistics. They think its okay to bully us and yell when our autistic traits are more debilitating than theirs. When we can't shut up. When we meltdown.
And the level 3 autistics? "Oh, we just forget about them. We don't want to even acknowledge their existence. It's not like they can even think or hear us. We can talk about them like theyre an animal, right in front of their face, because they don't understand us anyway, right?"
When ableist neurotypicals and privileged level 1 autistics say they love autism, they mean they love it until you're an inconvenience.
If you...
Struggle with completing work
Wont shut up about your special interest
Cant regulate your emotions
Have loud stims
Cant mask
Have verbal shutdowns where you can't communicate at all, with or without AAC
Have meltdowns
Cry too much
Say something rude on accident
...you are seen as annoying, embarrassing, an asshole, an inconvenience, and someone to avoid.
If you...
Are semiverbal or nonverbal
Have "embarrassing" stims
Have frequent severe meltdowns
Can't work or live by yourself
Can't make friends
Have weird behaviors
...You're seen as dangerous, less than human, animalistic, and useless.
You are not. You have more meaning than they will ever believe. Your feelings, opinions, and thoughts matter.
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My family is everything but normal
My mum is a conspiracy theorist
My dad is an ex-Ghost hunter and cryptid spotter
My brother is questioning being a crabkin
And I am a cat w wings
+ we are all neurodivergent
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hpdcultureis · 3 days
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AuDHD and questioning HPD culture is completely forgetting my friends exist and therefore not interacting with them, then being upset they didn’t interact with me after I remember them
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disabled-sysboxes · 3 days
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[TEXT ID: this alter is a social alter and still struggles with social interactions due to the system's autism]
[IMG ID: A medium yellow, rectangular box with the autism flag on the left - a flag with 5 stripes, a red, orange, yellow, light green, and green and a white infinity symbol in the middle - with text that reads 'this alter is a social alter and still struggles with social interactions due to the system's autism' on the right.]
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pigeon-cave · 6 months
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Diagrams are helpful to me
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adhdxxsdiary · 1 year
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bli-o · 5 months
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hey autistic people who get overwhelmed by large groups or noise or conversation or etc etc etc you’re not evil for wanting to leave a family gathering. just so you know.
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autismwithoutpremium · 7 months
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Just a thought
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fallenstarcat · 16 days
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sometimes i feel like people forget autism is a disability. and that’s not a bad thing! i’m all for disability acceptance, im proud of my disabilities. but i feel like we forget autism can hurt.
it hurts that i have to put more time and energy into socializing than others.
it hurts when i need to move so bad, usually cause im overwhelmed by either my surroundings or emotions, that i thrash and hurt myself.
it hurts that i cant be in places that are too loud or too bright, which on bad days can be as simple as a small, quiet noise or dim lights.
it hurts that i struggle to tell when im hungry, thirsty, tired, etc. so i can’t properly take care of myself. it doesn’t help my insomnia and i get very nauseas and get UTIs.
i 100% believe in autism acceptance. i don’t want a cure. but i also want us the acknowledge that it can hurt. it doesn’t mean my entire life will hurt, but some parts will. and i want a community where we can see both sides, see the hurt, and celebrate it anyway.
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npd + autism culture is wanting to be the cool mysterious funny version of yourself you have in your head but making everyone uncomfortable because of the autism anyway (i didn't word this correctly rjduwjs)
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awetistic-things · 10 months
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noise cancelling headphones aren’t enough i need everyone to die
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autisticdreamdrop · 11 months
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hyperverbal autistic ✅️ valid
fully verbal autistic ✅️ valid
verbal autsitic with verbal loss ✅️ valid
semiverbal autistic ✅️ valid
nonverbal autistic ✅️ valid
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transgender-png · 9 months
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fuck it. shout out to "high functioning" neurodivergents
the ones who can mask easily, the ones who can get social cues, the ones who have managed to go most of their life not even knowing they were ND because they didn't present as the stereotypical ND person.
the ones who can pay attention in class, understand social etiquette, who understand societial expectations
the ones who don't feel neurodivergent enough bc they don't struggle in the same ways/areas a lot of NDs do, or they can't relate to other NDs' experiences because they always understood these things easily
the ones with high empathy, the ones who DO get the joke, the ones who are constantly told that they can't possibly be neurodivergent because they don't act like what you'd expect a neurodivergent person to act like.
you are neurodivergent enough. you are valid, and so are your experiences. not struggling as much as others do in some places doesn't mean you dont struggle at all. your condition and diagnosis is valid. your symptoms are valid. YOU ARE VALID. not checking all the supposed boxes doesn't mean you aren't neurodivergent. you are enough. you are valid. you are loved. you are valued. you matter. you belong in neurodivergent spaces, you deserve to use whatever resources are available to you, you are allowed to take up space in these communities. and i am so, so proud of you.
feel free to, and actually, i encourage you to reblog this with your experiences. we belong in this community as much as anyone else. please also tag this w/ any neurodivergent conditions i may have forgotten 💙
since this is getting lots of notes I'd like to add, even if you're undiagnosed or maybe self diagnosed, for whatever reason, (i.e. can't get access to a diagnosis, not being taken seriously, or just not wanting an official diagnosis, etc.) this still applies to you. actually especially to you folks. don't think for a second you're not valid just bc you don't have the paperwork or whatever to say it
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