Your "non-confrontational" choices not to communicate hurt the people you don't confront btw. You're not a martyr for keeping everything inside and then running away when other people don't know what's going on with you. You just decided avoiding rejection and sparing your own feelings was easier than being honest and giving them the agency to respond and make their own decisions. You chose to hurt them so they didn't hurt you. You think your feelings are realer and more important than their own care and love for you. You were always just waiting for a sign to run.
"If they cared about me they would have–" did you tell them that? Did you let them know how you feel? How much importance you place on those requirements they don't know they have to meet? This secret criteria and secret signs for your secret feelings? Or are you making them play a game they don't know even exists?
Your choice not to communicate isn't cute. You didn't run because they didn't feel the same for you. You ran so you wouldn't have to risk rejection. You chose to prioritise your own self-protection over their trust in and love for you. At least own that.
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For Sydney
What do you think of EVERYONE at the camp? (And I mean everyone.)
Oh god- everyone?
hmm.
Adam (C.) - Love you <33
Rose - platonically love you <33
the campers - Eh. Depends on the day.
Sam - Love them but they need to go.
Simon- Same as sam.
Adam (S.) -die.
Pappion (is that her name?)- Pretty cool! Only talked once and it was about Adam though.
Kyro- I've never seen him do his job. nice to know we have a guidance counselor though.
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Literally blocked someone because I'm tired of feeling like I've done something wrong for engaging with a post in a polite and genuine manner and then having my comments deleted. If you hate my presence so much you should block me. It's okay I've done it for you.
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yeah it is a thing. it is weird to me too, but from what other people told me, sometimes people just want to vent out their emotions and get advice later. or maybe they already know what to do, but still need to get the emotions out.
before offering advice, i just ask if the person wants any tbh
I'll start doing that, then.
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Masking my detested
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Tourette's Syndrome Doesn't Equal Coprolalia
I was diagnosed with Tourette's at age 8, in 1987. While I've experienced other vocal tics, not once in my life have I cussed uncontrollably. In fact, the majority of people with Tourette's don't suffer from coprolalia. But go ahead, keep making your stupid, cheap jokes that were frankly tired back then. I just thought things would've changed by now.
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I think it's real obvious that if you actually like Colin you don't belong in the Polin fandom. y'all are all so ableist about him and think the absolute worst of him and a huge number of the posts and fics are romanticizing Penelope straight up abusing him
we should make a new tag because this one is NOT it
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I don't trust people who are obsessed with cleanliness and personal hygiene and rely on their feelings of disgust to make a moral judgement or form an opinion about a person.
I don't trust people who make conclusions about people very easily and like to claim people with one or two words they use to define this person's place in their eyes.
I don't trust people who are popular, sociable and talk about others a lot. I don't trust people who measure everyone by how that person compares to them.
for no particular reason at all :)
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"high empathy autism" this, "low empathy autism" that. you don't even know how fast my empathy can switch on a dime
(*update to this post before i even post it: the day i wrote this, i forgot to take my anxiety meds. oops. this still applies, though)
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@ Pjo stans who think Annabeth is autistic but that Percy isn't:Just say you believe in the stereotype that 'nerdy jerk means autistic' and don't understand that we're a spectrum and go
@genderconfusedhellenic
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ever since we figured out my husband, his sister, and his cousins are all autistic, the possibility that i married into an entirely autistic catholic family where all of the older adults are undiagnosed is kind of objectively hilarious tbh. everyone's autistic drives compel them to need a bunch of alone time but everyone's catholic cultural mores compel them to put family first and repress the hell out of themselves. no wonder they're all passive-aggressive as hell to each other all the time and got mad at me when i didn't pick up on how to do "family" that way. i literally did get catholic religious trauma-by-proxy lmfao
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I don't know how I do that but I'm friends with so many trans people
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crazy how autism/audhd isn't an excuse when it comes to dream or (potentially) George, but it's totally chill to use it to excuse your own actions
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Just a reminder that having ADHD does not mean you're not allistic and that saying stuff like "that's so cringe" or "I'm neurodivergent but not that neurodivergent" when seeing autistics stim is ableist as fuck and you should rethink your life choices because you're just as bad as the people that wants us (ALL NDs) gone :)
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Y’know, I thought this’d stay in my drafts but no:
Full offense meant, the way some of you on here are so fucking desperate that no one sees you as mentally disabled is gross as hell. I’m not even kidding. The desperation to slide the “scary disabled neurodivergents” under the rug so that you personally can look like a quirky badass bitch or whatever the fuck is disgusting.
Like, I know plenty of you are dealing with internalized ableism and external ableism and all kinds of shit. I know people are awful about people being disabled and I understand why you might be scared to be seen as disabled or admit to yourself you’re disabled or whatever the hell but you can deal with that and talk about your neurodivergence without throwing the rest of us under the bus!
Like bitch, just ride on the fucking bus and shut up! No one needs to be sacrificed, just leave us alone, jesus fuck.
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would it be petty if i didn't read a book i was really looking forward to because the author lists "catholicism/christianity" as a trigger warning amongst other warnings such as "murder," "gore," and "ableism"
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