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morsobaby · 1 year
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Trans men/transmascs shouldn't have to change every bit about their mannerisms, speech and clothing just to be taken seriously. You can and should respect someone's manhood regardless of all the superficialities. I'm not specifically talking about feminine transmascs (tho they're still heavily included in this), but just those ones who aren't always able to go 100% into the transition, socially or otherwise. Who still own their "girl" clothes and can't just change out their entire wardrobe just like that. Or hair. And who still feel like and want to be masculine men (/enbies).
It's just deeply depressing to me personally when, I'm feeling dysphoric and try to look for passing tips and then reading them I realize that gender really is an entire fucking performance and I'd basically have to become another person. And it depresses me bc I don't want to change that drastically, I already feel like my gender is valid, I just want others to see it that way too, regardless of how I am. I like bright colors, being extremely emotional and sweet, skirts and dresses (occasionally), and well, all my mannerisms and such. But no, that's not manly enough in the eyes of the cishet society. Even though loads of cis men have these traits, trans men aren't valid with them. And don't even get me started on body types..
Personal grudges aside, feminine transmascs, neutral transmascs, transmascs who can't or don't want to change their mannerisms, walking style, voice, clothing, or anything just to have their masculinity taken seriously? They're valid and deserve so much more.
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citricacidprince · 2 years
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Y'all need to be fucking nicer to men/masc queers
I was talking to an old friend/short lived boyfriend from highschool and the topic of sexualities came up. He identified as bisexual throughout highschool but told me that recently he doesn't know what he was and just preferred to remain 'unlabeled' until he figured it out. I told him to his face "thats valid man and being unlabeled doesn't make you any less queer than when you were labeled"
God you should've seen his fucking face, he looked so happy and also like he was about to goddamn cry. He told me that no one ever told him that. That he tried to join queer spaces but they said he didn't fit in cause he wasn't 'gay' enough. Told me that I was the first person to ever confidently tell him he was queer and that he didn't need to change himself to 'fit in'.
I gave my friend one of my mini pride flags I had lying around and the dopey grin he had on his face while waving that thing around for the rest of the night made me smile too. When he finally went home he thanked me for the flag and for reassuring him when he felt insecure for 'not being gay enough'.
I want y'all to know that whole time he telling me about people not accepting him for "not looking queer" made me fucking pissed. Oh, because he's not petite, feminine, and white he can't be queer? Because he doesn't look like a fashionable and conventionally pretty gay on you'd find on your TikTok homepage he can't be queer?
THIS ISN'T EVEN THE FIRST TIME I'VE HAD THIS CONVERSATION WITH A FRIEND BEFORE
In highschool I had ANOTHER friend who had this same problem but in a different font. He liked cute things, he liked flowing fabrics and skirts, he even liked being called princess! But because he was fat and not conventionally attractive he felt like he couldn't be queer. Because from what he saw, queer people don't look like him.
If you're one of those people who would gatekeep ANYONE who doesn't fit into your Pinterest board ideal version of queer from the LGBTQ+ community, you can fuck right off because anyone who would just shut of someone out of our community for something so petty and dumb and ignorant doesn't deserve the keys to the fucking door in the first place.
Start treating people who don't fit into your saturated and commercialized view of queer with more respect and kindness before I start biting off your fucking arms
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icy-hot-slut · 8 months
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Dude pockets hit different
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lgbtq-userboxes · 25 days
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rodent-king-buunii · 3 months
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heres the first part of my cosplay package.
lolita dress for Crona
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justyourjester · 3 months
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I support and love all kinds of trans mascs btw, gorgeous ass beings
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honestly tho how TF do people think gender is a choice???????? I'm genderfaun!!!!!! My gender is quite literally changing CONSTANTLY!!!
I hate change!!!!!
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catfood-sounds · 5 months
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Been feeling like I have to stop using they/them because it's just turned into another gendered pronoun when like...I explicitly need something that's not. Fuck you if you just treat nb as "quirky third option," because that third option is like always quirky girl too.
I just want to be allowed to reject the whole fucking construct of gender. That's the point. I don't get it. It's not a fucking trinary.
Fuck everyone who's made me increasingly uncomfortable with what's supposed to be a gender-free word. I don't want to use it/its or neopronouns either (though I have absolutely no problem with them I think they're just not for me). This is infuriating.
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blkmogai · 4 months
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☥  ── a flag for black individuals who identify as censari !
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☥  ── Censari: a gender identity where one feels most comfortable within the gender neutral spectrum, but still feels a strong attachment to both masculinity and femininity. it is a combination of cenrell and faesari.
black cenrell , black faesari
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mazyb0i · 2 months
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I need advice or help or just some words of encouragement or analysis from other LGBT people please. 💙💚
Tldr; You have to read to understand because it's complicated
Hi guys! You may or may not know me as the super Rick & Morty / Solar Opposites obsessed fan artist but there's more to me than I let on.
I came here because I trust you guys and I wanna know what you all think. I'm Transgender, I identify as demiboy meaning that I'm half non-binary/Agender and half Trans Masculine. This March I turned 18 years old and my doctor gave me my HRT paperwork to look over and bring in signed when I'm ready. I've talked to my therapist about this for over a year, and I questioned my gender identity since I was 12, when I was 6 I never really thought about gender a lot to be honest I did everything under the sun that girls AND boys had done.
Other things to take into consideration is that I'm also diagnosed:
AuDHD (since 16)
Sever Generalized Anxiety Disorder (since 12)
Gender dysphoria (since 16)
Depressive Disorder (since 12).
I've been really adamant about transition since I realized who I was, around 13, it was a long and painstaking journey; full of loss and gain, disorder and chaos, pain and growth, but I made it through to the other side.
Now that I hold these papers in my hands, I'm scared to go through with it, what if I don't like some of the changes? What if people don't see me as who I am? What if I'm not accepted? What if my bullying gets worse? What if I wake up one day and realize all of this was a mistake and I was wrong? Even though it felt so right. I have a lot of dysphoria but I also don't always hate my body, because a lot of the time I see myself as genderless and it only becomes apparent to me that I'm not genderless when someone points it out and calls me "girly", "sissy", "missy", "ma'am", and the such...
Around trans people I feel like I belong, but sometimes I feel like I'm an imposter, what if my brain came up with all of this as a way to try and find a place to fit in because I fit nowhere? I know I'm Pan-demisexual, when I figured that out I never questioned it again. I feel like I roll with the LGBT people but I just feel so much comfort in the trans community.
I don't think I could live happily as a cis-woman. I hate the labels, I hate the pronouns, and if someone were to strip away my skin and all that was left was a white orb I'd say I was a nonbinary male person. I wish I was born the other way, things would have been so much easier, but at the same time I don't want to be a fully cis male if given the chance. I wish there was an in-between option, a lot of times growing up - I had hoped that I was born intersex; hell, I didn't really even know what intersex was, but I still wished it, I wanted it. I wanted to be the third and most rare option because that is who I felt I was. There's this gut-wrenching feeling that I get when I think about having to sign '• female/Woman' on a piece of paper. Because that isn't who I feel I am. But I also feel that what I am is an immovable and unreachable object that no one will ever be able to conceive or understand, and there's no way that I can reflect my understanding on to them.
I'm not going to go in at a very high dose, I know for sure I want top surgery even if my chest doesn't give me as much dysphoria as it did before my breast reduction, and I want to be happier in my skin. I want a deeper voice, I want the other changes that come with it and the only thing I really worry about is not actually being happy when it's all done and through. Not actually being what I am and looking as I am to others as I feel inside...
Anyways that's enough for spilling my guts, I just needed to talk to someone and I'm completely open with all ears if you guys want to share any input in or share any stories, regards, or advice. Honestly I could use people to talk to right now, I feel kind of alone, I feel like no one will understand me; And I don't know if it's just cuz of my autism, or my anxiety,.or if I'm just stuck in my head rn.
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Boyfenbymasc Pride Flag
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Boyfenbymasc or boyfembymasc: a midterm in which someone is evenic or cusper of boyfem and nbymasc; an experience halfway between azurenby and rosboy; being a feminine man and a masculine non-binary folk (but not necessarily a feminine non-binary or a masculine man); a boyfemme (femme guy) that is parallelly an enbymasc (masc enby).
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stormysage99 · 3 months
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That's me!
Picrew: https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/1265749
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I’ve said it before but we really need more non-androgynous nonbinary characters in media.
We need more nonbinary characters in general and I love the androgynous ones but I’ve never seen a femme presenting or masc presenting nonbinary person in media.
Being nonbinary doesn’t mean you need to make yourself androgynous unless that’s what you want. As a baby enby I was super stressed about changing myself to appear how I thought a nobinary person should and I should have just been embracing myself.
We just need more rep.
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gewaltofwivia · 2 days
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not "they" as in nonbinary but "they" as in biomechanical meat suit mech piloted by a group of aliens men in black style
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rodent-king-buunii · 2 months
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heres the second part of the first package
Kaveh
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Curiosity abounds. Have a poll 😅
You don’t have to specify AGAB/assigned biological sex here, this is just to see if fellow nonbinary people also have confused cis/cishet people unable to clock which direction you’re going or went.
¡Please share for a bigger answer group!
(included my answer too 💜)
~Nico (he/they)
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