To: POC butches/dykes/studs/masculine & feminine presenting sapphics
this post is for you…
hi hi loves I just wanted to make this post for you guys bc I just wanted to say that whatever time of day you are reading this post that you have a good one and that I’m sending hugs and forehead kisses your way ♡
[ post is for poc sapphics / men dni / read pin pls ]
{if any non poc sapphics wanna help spread this pls do thank you}
Feminine & masculine non-binary people are still non-binary! just cause their not gender neutral, doesn't mean their not non-binary or less non-binary then others. - a fem non-binary person
Wore my binder out for the first time. It was comfortable but after 4 hours I was happy to take it off when I got home. I’ll definitely wear it when I go to class, the only time I really leave the house, but no longer than 5 hours for the time being.
What i hate most about transmeds is them thinking you need to suffer and be miserable to be seen as trans. When transness is more about loving yourself and embracing yourself.
It's fine to be dysphoric but it's also okay to be euphoric. If you're dysphoric about your body thats okay, if it's the clothing you wear thats also fine. It's also okay to feel euphoria when wearing fem or masc clothes or feeling euphoric about your body.
Trans people aren't a monolith, you don't have to be trans in one certain way. You can be trans in many different unique ways. Being trans is your journey and yours alone. No one has the right to decide over your identity and how you should live it out.
Also not everyone has the privilege to be trans, and the whole idea that being trans requires for you to transition is total bullshit. Also most POC especially black people don't have the means to transition at all, due to family or doctors being racist.
dysphoric culture is feeling so dysphoric over your haircut starting to grow out on the sides (i have the standard short back & sides masc haircut and it makes me dysphoric to have my hair look like a pixie cut) that you trim your hair yourself in the middle of the day, and, even though its such a small change that literally no one else notices, you immediately feel less dysphoric & more comfortable!
Dysphoric culture is!
Also, great anon! One of mod’s trans friends randomly cuts his bangs whenever they get too long and it looks pretty nice.
Trying to decide on a hairstyle like okay it has to help me present masculine but also have a queer vibe and short hair is easier to deal with but I want to honour my ancestors and have long hair and an undercut is too annoying to upkeep and
Masc people are hot. Masc girls? Hot. Masc boys? Hot. Masc nonbinary? Hot. Masc literally any gender? Hot. People who want to look masc but can’t currently for whatever reason? Still hot!!
Ye.