#munchausensyndrome

[savelonkar]

"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" (Mark Twain).

"You think you know a story, but you only know how it ends. To get to the heart of the story, you have to go back to the beginning" (Tudors, opening scene).

You see, when one of Cherrie (my ex-wife) best friends read my blog, she said this was all too much, and questioned the fact that Cherrie never had cancer. She said that she's a science person, and that "the burden of proof lies with the accuser." See, I wholeheartedly do not agree. If someone tells the world for seven years that they had cancer, then I believe the burden of proof lies with the accused. Besides, how would you "prove" someone never had cancer? Cherrie told the world she had cancer, and she NEVER HAD CANCER. She cannot provide proof that she had cancer, because she never did. It's not like I can call up her breast surgeon, and ask for medical records. If anyone would like to give her breast surgeon from 2016 a call, here is where she currently practices: https://www.elliothospital.org/website/pr-Dr-Emese-Kalnoki-Kis.php

Recently, there was a teen in Iowa that told the world she had cancer, and she never did. That teen is in prison now, and the courts subpoenaed her medical records. I believe that is what should happen in the case of my ex-wife.

For today, let's go back to Cherrie's claims of her childhood. She said that at one time, she was homeless after her mother divorced her father. THAT never happened. Her mother went back into the workforce, and provided a nice home for XW and her brother. They lived in nice middle class neighborhood and had a nanny. Her mother got a nanny, because she did not trust Cherrie alone with her little brother.

Cherrie has told the world that she graduated high school early at 16. FICTION! Cherrie started kindergarten in 1985, right before she turned 5 years old on October 31, 1985. She went to kindergarten, and then did all 12 grades from 1st to 12th. Below, I will provide a link that shows her ID card from sophomore year of HS, and also I have included her HS diploma, which shows she graduated HS in 1998, just months before her 18th bday.

Cherrie told the world that she lived in London for a year. In the document below, I have provided her flight itinerary, that shows she was only in London for about 3 weeks.

Do you know people that are habitual liars? Well, Cherrie is a habitual liar. Her stories tend to morph over time, and they are altered here and there, according to her audience.

These untruths are just a few examples of her lies. She lies lies lies her way to get what she wants. She lied about graduating early, she lied about her time in London, she lies about EVERYTHING. Oh, and yes, she lied about having cancer. A liar's worst enemy is the truth. Cherrie is a liar. I am the truth.

"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" (Mark Twain, no relation to Shania).

Here is a link to the documents referenced above:

#fathersmatter #fathersrights #munchausen #munchausensyndrome

[thelifeoflorna]

~5/11/2022~ I was really sluggish in the morning, and in general really - probably a good thing though as it’s forcing me to rest. Had a quiet rainy day to ourselves as my Pom had gone to work, and the mothership had gone to grandma-sit as they’d been in A&E yesterday evening as my grandma had a ‘fall’ and bruised her leg (nothing broken thankfully) - I use the ‘ ‘ because we believe my grandma most likely has #munchausensyndrome - she tripped over a wire in her room, which multiple people had offered to fix as it was a clear trip hazard but she repeatedly refused, she fell just when my aunt was about to go out for her first physio appointment for a knee injury - and this does tend to be when ‘accidents’ involving my grandma tend to happen - in response to other family members having to seek medical attention. Anyway, left to our own devices, we did some repetitive pattern artwork in a notebook in the morning. Then headed out on the bus early afternoon to get some lunch. Then walked to sainsburys where we picked up a few sweet treat essentials to keep at parentals including some festive hot chocolate powers which were on offer. We then went in Pets At Home and saw some cute little guineas. We walked in the rain to Rustington Village - tried to dry off a bit by going in some of the shops. Then went in Costa to have my first Terry’s Chocolate Orange Hot Chocolate, which was of course more expensive than last year, but at least tasted just as good. Read on the kindle app on my phone as realised I’d left my book at home. When I got back to the parentals I played a lot of Sims then did some late night doodle art work. 🦄 #instadaily #instablog #update #mentalhealth #dissociativeidentitydisorder #cptsd #actuallyautistic #traumarecovery #edrecovery #anxiety #chronicillness #disability #pots #potsie #dysautonomia #positivevibes #recovery #nationaltrust #nymans #autumn #walking #wintergarden #orange #flowerstyles_gf #naturesperfection #natureseeker #naturelove #peachy (at Nymans National Trust, Handcross, Haywards Heath Rh17 6bt) https://www.instagram.com/p/CknclIVKusKInqoEXXBBfxFvfxr3Ydk0YsiBts0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#munchausensyndrome #instadaily #instablog #update #mentalhealth #dissociativeidentitydisorder #cptsd #actuallyautistic #traumarecovery #edrecovery #anxiety #chronicillness #disability #pots #potsie #dysautonomia #positivevibes #recovery #nationaltrust #nymans #autumn #walking #wintergarden #orange #flowerstyles_gf #naturesperfection #natureseeker #naturelove #peachy

[cocukklinigi]

👍Münchausen Sendromu, psikolojik bir rahatsızlıktır.

👍Kişinin ilgi görebilmek için kendini sürekli hasta etmesi durumudur.

👍Hastalık veya yaralanma belirtileri, hastaneye yatırılmak ve hatta invaziv müdahalelere tabi tutulmak için psikolojik nedenlerle kasıtlı olarak üretilir​.

👍Bu sendromun farklı bir türü de Munchausen by Proxy Sendromudur.

👍Ebeveynin çocuğuna hastalık uydurması veya çocukta hastalık semptomları oluşturmasıdır.

👍Psikoterapi ve gerekirse ilaç tedavisine başlamak gerekir.

🫵Sizler de görmesini istediğiniz arkadaşlarınızı yoruma etiketleyerek bilgilenmelerini sağlayabilirsiniz.

#munchausensyndrome #munchausensyndromebyproxy #çocukpsikiyatrisi #çocukpsikiyatridoktoru #çocukkliniği #çocukuzmanları #birannekadargüvenli #çocuklarınızeminellerde #miniklerindoktoru #annebebek #pediatrist #doktor #bebek #bebeksağlığı #çocukdoktorları #annebebek #hamileanneler #uykusuzanneler

[artby-psychic-polyandro]

People with BPD are worthy of respect

People with NPD are worthy of respect

People with HPD are worthy of respect

People with ASPD are worthy of respect

People with DPD are worthy of respect

People with substance abuse disorder are worthy of respect

People with impulse control disorder are worthy of respect

People with factitious disorder are worthy of respect

People with schizophrenia are worthy of respect

People with schizoafective disorder are worthy of respect

People with psychosis are worthy of respect

People with other highly stigmatized and misunderstood mental disorders are worthy of respect

#destigmatize #destigmatize mental illness #destigmatize mental health #mental disorder #mental health #bpd #npd #aspd #hpd #dpd #substance use disorder #impulse control disorder #factitious disorder #munchausensyndrome #schizophrenia #schizoaffective #schizophrenia spectrum #psychosis #actually borderline #actually dependent #actually factitious #actually neurodivergent

[cocaiineblues]

@truecrimegirls episode 32- munchausen is out now 💐😷💉 . . . . . . #mommydearest #munchausen #munchausenbyproxy #munchausensyndrome #TrueCrimeGirls #TCG🔪🔪🔪 #girlswhopodcast #tcc #truecrinecommunity #truecrimepod #truecrimepodcast #truecrimepodcasts #noticemesenpai #allthehashtags #freemelania https://www.instagram.com/p/BwuQPcOH_WM/?igshid=1lalpennjdbr5

#mommydearest #munchausen #munchausenbyproxy #munchausensyndrome #truecrimegirls #tcg🔪🔪🔪 #girlswhopodcast #tcc #truecrinecommunity #truecrimepod #truecrimepodcast #truecrimepodcasts #noticemesenpai #allthehashtags #freemelania

[tanisjustice]

When dealing with a narcissist it’s usually better not to react or even respond. It’s when they put other people at risk that it becomes concerning. These can involve things like Munchausen syndrome by proxy, or other forms of mental or physical abuse. Take a stand and don’t worry about what they say about you. Words are just words when you are an adult. Don’t be afraid to be the bad guy, they already claim you are so why worry? #inmylight #Munchausen #munchausenbyproxy #munchausensyndrome #abuse #stopabuse #love #narsassist #narsassisticbehavior #loveyourchildren #protectthem #protectthechildren #tanisjustice (at Corvallis, Oregon)

#munchausenbyproxy #loveyourchildren #inmylight #tanisjustice #stopabuse #abuse #narsassist #narsassisticbehavior #munchausensyndrome #munchausen #love #protectthem #protectthechildren

[savelonkar]

"The truth will set you free, but first it will PISS YOU OFF" (Gloria Steinem).

Cherrie got wind of my blog. Yesterday, she posted that it was the 7-year anniversary of her double mastectomy, which it was. However, in her 2.23 Instagram post, there was no mention of CANCER. Funny though, Cherrie's been screaming from the rooftops, to newscasters, on social media, and on podcasts, for the past 7 years for the whole world to hear that she DID have CANCER, and that she is a BREAST CANCER SURVIVOR.

This blog does not give me pleasure in the least, but it's necessary. Cherrie went onto her "Cherrie's Tribe" on Facebook, and deleted many of the posts on there.

Well, well, well. That's ok. Because, I saved them. Here is some of the MOUNTAINS of EVIDENCE, when Cherrie told the world she HAD CANCER. In reality, she DID NOT HAVE CANCER.

You are going to want to see this. You are not going to believe your eyes: https://docs.google.com/document/d/111nN2IXRDV4BazMZVdjxwjEQcCwYrvYeyxqmITfj5vY/edit?usp=sharing

The evidence is clear. I rest, your honor.

#armyveteran #fathersrights #fathersmatter #cancersucks #munchausensyndrome

[artby-psychic-polyandro]

Münchausen syndrome (factitious disorder imposed one oneself) is more than feigning/self-inducing symptoms! It’s also:

• Severe emotional difficulties

• Feelings shame & remorse

• Which lead to sense of worthlessness and suicidal ideation

• And make it difficult to get help

• Along with fear of being misunderstood

• Obsessive thoughts and desire of making yourself sick on purpose that cause severe emotional distress yet being unable to get rid out of them

• Regretting lying/ making damage to your body but being unable to stop

• Restlessness and anxiety

• Underlying causes such as depression, personality disorder or history of abuse that make it particularly difficult to identify and treat

• Having other unhealthy coping mechanisms, like disordered eating, cutting, reckless behaviors etc

• Huge stigma attached to it, that makes it hard to get proper diagnosis and treatment, and makes one feel worse about yourself

• Being more vulnerable to harassment and cyber bullying

• Having hard time dealing with health care professionals

• Dependent/avoidant behaviors

• Skipping (regrettably) school/work/social events

• Which make it hard to perform and therefore finish a school, keep a job or maintain friendships

• Social and relationships difficulties

• Negative impact on one’s health, that can include permanent, irreversible damage to one’s body, disability, and even death

#munchausen #munchausensyndrome #actually munchausen #actually factitious #factitious disorder #factitious #actually borderline #actually dependent #actually avoidant #actuallyneurodivergent #mental health

[artby-psychic-polyandro]

How to overcome self-harming/self-injuring thoughts and urges in Munchausen Syndrome (Factitious Disorder imposed on oneself)

• Try to recognize your triggers. It might be certain situations, thoughts or people. What thoughts does it brings? What helps you cope? Try to figure it out. Keeping a journal may help.

• Try to find a safe place that you may visit whenever you feel the urge in order to self sooth. It might be place inside your house, a park, favorite coffee shop or a library. If you are at school or work and you can’t go out, take a quick brake if you can and find a quite place. Give yourself a moment to calm down. You can listen to music, bring back happy memories or imagine something nice, like a beautiful flower or waterfall, for example.

• Express your thoughts and feelings in a creative way - through art, music or poem. You don’t have to be skilled or gifted at all, you’re not signing up for art competition

• If you don’t know how to express it this way, you may search for art/images/music/poems on the internet that would best describe what you are going through right now

• You can look up images of medical equipment or hospital wards if that’s what helps you. In my case, these pictures makes me feel calm and safe, they are also aesthetically pleasing. But remember, you do it in order to self-soothe, so if it triggers your urges even more, then find another way

• You can also watch medical documentary or medical-themed shows. But again, if you do it, do it for right reasons. If these shows trigger unwanted thoughts and desires of feigning/self-inducing illness, then find something else

• Redirecting your thoughts onto something else may also help - read some book, watch favorite movie or learn new skill

• Try physical exercises - it helps to relieve stress and tension

• Try volunteering in charity work - it would help you to redirect your attention on other people’s needs and make you feel important and needed

• You may volunteer, for example, in a children’s hospital or nursing home. Helping vulnerable would help you get out of the „sick role” and give you a sense of belonging

• Choose a one skill and master it. It might be a foreign language, playing guitar or pottery. Whatever make you refocus your mind and energy on something creative. Presenting your skill to others may bring their interest and attention. You can help them improve as well

• But first at foremost, remember to seek professional help and stick to your treatment plan! Always be honest with your doctor and/or therapist, despite the shame that your disorder might cause. You deserve to get better!

Munchausen Syndrome self-help resources:

• https://www.munchausen.com/

• https://www.routledge.com/Dying-to-be-Ill-True-Stories-of-Medical-Deception/Feldman-Yates/p/book/9781138063839

• https://youtu.be/8j8GAFr04Qs

• https://www.secretsunraveled.com/

• https://www.smartrecovery.org/individuals/

#munchausen #munchausensyndrome #factitious disorder #actually borderline #actually dependent #borderline #self help #self help techniques

[artby-psychic-polyandro]

Someone: puts “funny” and “relatable” content about self-harm and suicide

Everyone: omg so funny so relatable like totally me *giggles*

Me: makes a serious post about getting help for my factitious disorder

Everyone: omg that’s so disgusting stop attention seeking you munchie

#munchausensyndrome #munchausen #factitious disorder #actually factitious #actually borderline #actually dependent #actually avoidant #mental health #mental disorder #actually munchausen