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#once again for the people at the back
not-so-rosyyy · 1 year
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Well, the thing is that people adhere to a theory and ignore any evidence that may contradict their theory. They think that just because Z is taller than Tom, she is the "man" of the relationship, a very old-fashioned term. So they heavily comment on pics of her having her arm around him, but not those of him having his arm around her, or caressing her, or grabbing her from behind. It's just a stereotype of taller women being "more masculine". We even have now "trans detectives" claiming that all tall women in the industry are trans. So yeah, I'm not just giving a pass to people spouting this bs. I'm not claiming that Z is a full submissive like some tumblr tomdayas like to claim, but I dislike the complete erasure of all evidence showing Tom taking the initiative and becoming highly protective of Z
sorry for responding to this late, my friend. anyway, what you're describing here is also part of the larger perceived gender role discourse and I agree it is icky. but let's not get sidetracked. this topic started because of the "babygirl" comments on that tweet. and I feel that you are grossly misconstruing what babygirlism actually is 😔
for you to be convinced that it's not the most problematic label for Tom to be called, you first need to understand the nuances of current internet slang, specifically stan talk.
you see, "babygirl" today is used for both male and female personalities and/or fictional characters. when people call someone a babygirl, it means they find that person cute/adorable/attractive and they feel great affection and protectiveness for them. Beyonce has been called a babygirl. Pedro Pascal is a babygirl. Wanda Maximoff is a babygirl. Kendall Roy from Succession and Roy Kent from Ted Lasso are both babygirls. kpop idols no matter the gender are all babygirls. literally anyone can be a babygirl.
it is a term of endearment for someone you'd go feral for, it's not that deep at all 😭
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posting this with absolutely no context
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lesbaurinkos · 1 month
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knight of wands
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marisatomay · 2 years
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so cool that fanfiction won anne rice’s war on fanfiction
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ninemelodies · 6 months
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you ever think about how donna noble was so influential in the doctor’s lives that a lifetime later he regenerated with the face of a man she begged him to save. because at that moment, both in pompeii and when he regenerated, the doctor needed a reminder that it’s always worth trying to save someone
and then do you start crying? i do
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knifearo · 2 months
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ultimately when it comes to shipping and fandom space treatment of aspec characters i just don't accept "aro/ace people can still date/have sex" as an answer from nonaspecs. like yeah. mhm. okay. now i think we both know that you're not saying that out of real interest in the diversity of aspec experiences. so you can turn in your seventeen-page essay on why and how you plan to examine this character's aspec identity within the context of a romantic or sexual relationship complete with evidence from canon and peer reviews from multiple aspec people within the next week or i'm putting you in the pit from the edgar allen poe story
#you know. the one with the pendulum#'hey. why are you as an allo person shipping this aspec character like this'#'oh aspec people can still date/have sex!'#'yeah. now can you answer the question that i actually asked you'#like goddamn just say you don't care they're aspec and you want to fulfill a sexual/romantic fantasy with them. that's Fine#it like. sucks. for sure. lotta aspec people will be unhappy with you. but everyone is entitled to their own wants and experiences.#but i'd prefer you just be honest with it rather than using our community's conversation points as retroactive justification#and ONCE AGAIN. you guys are real fucking cavalier with this shit and it shows a real fundamental lack of respect for aspecs#when most of you would NEVER ship a canonically gay character with the 'other' gender. cause again. it would suck.#you can do it. nobody's Stopping you. but it would suck.#and we understand that putting a queer character in situations that erase that queerness is shitty! until it comes to aspec characters!#and whoa... there it is again... people don't consider aspec identities to be queer... crazy how it always comes back to that#anyway. you all know what i'm talking about. have seen many posts about this lately#it is [ long sigh ] unfortunately a very hot button issue with the advent lately of alastor hazbinhotel#which. again. god i wish there were other canon aspec characters to be having this conversation about.#but we'll have to do our best with what we have#aromantic#aromanticism#arospec#aroace#talking#aspec#asexual#asexuality
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turtleblogatlast · 2 months
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AU starts here!
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Here we have just a taste of Path A - also known as “All Together Now.” If you’re confused - good! Things will make sense in time, trust me.
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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 8 months
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True love is possible only in the next world. For new people. It it too late for us.
(Redraw for @pakhnokh's DTIYS post!)
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writhe · 3 months
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really fighting to accept & make peace with the ways i will never find the things i lost, or never again have them in the same way. also trying to be liberated by this
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aroaceleovaldez · 4 months
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listen i think we should bring back some of the like 2012-2015 era pjo memes and trends so the show folks can get a taste of what the fandom was like back then.
Persassy, "fish jesus," Soldatino, some of the popular ships from then just for fun (remember when Travis Stoll x Katie Gardner was a thing? the extremely brief period of time when people shipped Jason x Butch Walker because Butch is described with "a face like a pile of bricks" so it was a convoluted Brason joke?). i hear people are calling show percabeth "smartwater" so that's coming back already, that's fun. there's potential here.
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kristalijah · 8 months
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HE'S CHECKING OUT GARY!!!! I REPEAT, HE'S CHECKING OUT GARY!!!!
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hanadoesstuffwrong · 1 month
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How the atla fandom thinks the zk fandom is:
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How (the majority of) the zk fandom actually is:
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A¤ng is a fictional cartoon character guys, and in fiction, being annoying is a greater crime than murder and being interesting/entertaining is a greater virtue than saving the world. Our problem isn't with a fictional thirteen year old, it's with the professional, adult writers who made some very irritating character choices.
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medicalunprofessional · 2 months
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wingl3ssthing · 10 months
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okok so i was having a Conversation and now i’m curious:
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puppetmaster13u · 22 days
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Prompts in Memes 7
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hajihiko · 2 years
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back off our boy!
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