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asinglesappho · 2 years
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I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.
Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.
The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.
I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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Someone i can raise a dog with, have morning sex, travel and go to festivals.
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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if you make me a playlist you don't even have to try I'm already in love with you
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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...by me
If you’re reading this you need your pussy ate
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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Kiss me if i’m wrong but 2+2=7 right?
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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honestly: watching netflix together, you’re naked on my lap, shamefully exposed, while I’m fully clothed, I lazily suck on your neck, kiss your shoulders and tease your ear with my teeth. One of my arms is wrapped around your waist to keep you in place, my other hand is busy between your legs but only with very slow, soft motions, not nearly enough to get you where you want to be. Every once in a while I speed it up and start whispering dirty words right into your ear in between some harder bites - and then I stop, whenever you’re almost, almost there
now imagine getting played like this for two or three episodes… or more
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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Reblog if you support squishy bellies, have a squishy belly, or have the desire to summon satan
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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What's your type?
the type that stays
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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I’m just tryin to own some dogs and marry the girl of my dreams.
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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Really in the mood for some reach around masturbation. Let me sit between your legs, knees propped up and open by yours, your hands free to touch me as you wish. Grabbing my throat with one while the other gropes and grabs my body. Slipping your thumb into my mouth for me to bite and suck as you pleasure me. Shushing me after I cum the first time, then the softest, sweetest overstimulation into orgasm after orgasm
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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Need me a pb😔
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Them💕
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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i wanna be wrapped up in blankets with someone that cares about me
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asinglesappho · 3 years
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Feeling bored and lonely
Lonely gays hmu
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