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【公式】料理研究家 指宿さゆり
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Imagine
People can observe you and be kind
People can see you do something crazy and be kind
People can hear you say something "stupid" and be kind about correcting you
People can see you mess up and be kind about helping you
People can see you being excited and "nerding out" and be kind
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things i like
generating new interesting ai images, and finding ways to add my perspective and
going thrifting and finding the exact peice of clothing that i intended to find ( great material quality and construction, perfect fit and flattering from all sides etc)
Breaking away from thought patterns or beliefs/stories they're not conducive to anything I want. Like I 'can have my cake and eat it too'
I like finding something very valuable for a low price and reselling it
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Back when I want to male validation. I always felt it was so romantic for a guy to accept me for who I am. In the sense of like
" once he says those words to me I'll feel OK and good about myself"
Do you know how CRINGE that is ? Letting my sense of self worth be dictated by some random dude??? Like really think about it. Not some character in a daydream, but just a random dude irl. that's gross and sorta pathetic 😭
Like all that it was taking for me to feel good about myself with one random dude being like "uggh...yeah I like you"
"uhh i think your pretty" because if you think about it, you're taking someone's arbitrary, decision, opinion, and using it as an indicator of how you gonna feel by yourself.
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Deprogram your mind!
not everyone wants to date
not everyone wants to have sex
not everyone is seeking out a romantic relationship/experiences
not everyone is seeking sexual relationships/experiences
there are no "normal" life experiences/expectations to meet
Everything that social media/television/movies/books/people tell you is just a suggestion. You get to choose what's right for you and your life.
Just because it's not being shown in media Or you're not hearing other people talk about it doesn't mean that it's wrong for you to be existing the way that you wish to exist.
Or for you to be wanting the things that you want. Or for you to be planning the future that you want to live.
My biggest wish for my 20s is to live in NYC with 2-3 good friends (Golden girls style), and like have them not want to date or engage in sexual/romantic experiences.
And I thought for a long time that that wish was impossible. Because I felt like I was the only person who was aro/ace ( I was the only aro/ace person in my old friendships and i felt uncomfy living with/being in friendships with allo ppl)
And also all the media that I had seen of a group of friends living in NYC always involved a sexual/romantic, plot line. So my young impressionable brain thought that it was impossible to have an all aro/ace friend group.
It took me recognizing and accepting that, "yes there are other aro/ace people, who are probably more romantically and sexually repulsed/disinterested than I am. People who would want to live out that Golden girls fantasy of mine
so do you want never mind. Start excepting and normalizing that you can have an allo-free friend group.
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One of the reasons why I want to I have my own things, car or house or whatever it is because I want to. Because I recognize that eventually if the owner wants to sell this house I’m at their mercy. They can decide that you know what I don’t want to on this how many more until we sell it to somebody Figure out where to go. Like the same thing with the cards like if they decide that they don’t want any more than want to sell it. I’m trapped. But it does cause some inconvenience at my son inconsistency. I guess I don’t know him so I have consistency in my own Authority and Autonomy
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In high school, I asked out this girl, and I feel guilty because she took time and effort to do something sweet and I feel like my approach was very masculine and like kind of offensive. I thought she didn’t like it because I gave her like a little 💩 because I said you’re the shit. And yeah, I would love to never rember it and this time is until like my insecurity to understand social context.
I always felt like I was a bit too slow in context and upset .
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the only purpose of reality is to accommodate itself to my favor
Imagine, being in a celebrate friend group, celebrate, friend, group, celibate, friend, group, and you, and one of your friends, gus, I have an attraction towards each other and end up developing a secret relationship. It's steammy and gets sexual
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imagine instead of being a negative over thinker- imagining the worst case scenerion
you say "what if it doesnt go wrong"
" what if they dont invalidate your feelings"
" what if they dont judge your living situation"
what if i dont cringe at my behaviors/actions)"
" what if i manifest thousands of dollars in a blink of an eye
what if im not realistic about money and how much i can have and recieve"
what if
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things to get excited about financial stability and independence:
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only person eating my food ( no worries )
ordering food without judgement or guilt (i just eat and enjoy)
walk around the house naked( or however clothed i please)
no more anticipating running into people (i just wont)
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thank you for showing me and scripting me 3rd person and first person and second person visual and tangible markers of success for single black female
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friends/ town that blocks and ghosts people i dont like / say one off thing to me
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It's OK that I don't know our Japanese culture,
it's OK that I don't know all of American culture,
it's OK that I don't know all of astrology,
it's OK that I don't know all of human nature and characteristics,
it's OK that I don't know everything about building well,
it's OK that I don't know everything about self-control,
it's OK that I don't know everything about mental health,
it's OK that I don't know everything about computer science,
it's OK if I don't know everything about match,
it's OK that I don't know everything about history,
It's OK, but I don't know everything about socializing
it's OK but I don't know everything about dating,
it's OK that I don't know everything about men,
it's OK that I don't know everything about women,
it's OK I don't know everything about socializing,
it's OK that I don't know everything about myself,
it's OK but I don't know everything about my parents,
it's OK but I don't know everything about my siblings,
it's OK they don't know everything about people,
it's OK that I don't know everything about the world,
It's OK that I don't know everything about gentleness,
it's OK but I don't know everything about relationships,
it's OK that I don't know everything about building well,
it's OK that i don't know everything about social hierarchies,
it's OK but I don't know everything about magic,
it's OK that I don't know everything about spirituality,
it's OK but I don't know everything about the spiritual world,
It's OK that I don't know everything about Adulting,
It's OK that I'm not admired and loved and seen as cool by everyone
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there is nothing stopping my story of success, not plot block, character blocks, not societal blocks etc
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imagine having ai coworkers!
and you can change their personality setting whenever you want ! !!!
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