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“Why should rich people pay more” because fuck ‘em

“So you are okay for paying more when you have money” I am not excluded from ‘fuck ‘em’ when relevant

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you wouldn't last an hour in the asylum where they raised me

#da

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I think one thing we need to address in the US if we want to de-stigmatize multi-generational households that include ADULTS from multiple generations, is that parents need to learn how to have adult relationships with their offspring.

Should my daughter deign to live with me when she's an adult she will not be my some vassal that has to obey my household rules. She graduates into being a peer in setting and managing the boundaries, cleanliness and appearance of our home.

Too many parents want to have relationships with grown ass adults in which the parents maintain control and authority, and in which they leverage money and history to get their way from an adult who, very reasonably, wants to be able to make choices and have influence. And then those parents wonder why their kids keep their distance!

But then people act like I've lost it because I let my 5 year old pick the color of paint in her room- a room I seldom spend time in except to take care of her, and a room in which I want her to be comfortable and happy.

I'm not gonna let her choose a paint color for the kitchen right now, because she's capricious and bad at negotiating so we can pick a color we all like. But when she's an adult, if she's still living here? Why shouldn't she get to influence her environment?

People like to have agency. We limit the agency of children because they make choices without the full ability to understand the results (sorry baby, you are gonna get vaccinated for pollio even if you don't like it. You don't understand pollio).

But limiting an adults choices in their own home, just because you don't think that home should be a real home for them because it's just for you, is kind of an asshole move, to me.

No need to argue with me if you disagree. You can have your own opinion.

But I couldn't treat my kid that way, and I have seen enough to know that not every parent treats their adult children like permanently incompetent interlopers.

I didn't just buy this house for ME. I bought it for MY FAMILY. My baby is my family, and she will be no matter how old she gets.

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Master was hurt

#sw #sw art #art

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what have you done to me?

why can’t i kill you?

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#st

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The parallels in this… Rhaenyra‘s face being basked in sunlight while Aegon is shielding his face from the light, her wearing the crown while he‘s not, blades cutting into green banners etc etc i‘ll never shut up abt this

#hotd #asoiaf

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oh look it's the only man ever

#sw #sw art #art

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Dan Mora just does not miss!

#dc

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"You have rendered yourself unlovable, Mercy," said Augustine.

#tlt #tlt art #art

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Somehow, the playoffs are still a long way off...

#hockey #lgrw

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mo seider wings vs canes post-game interview 3/28/24

#hockey #lgrw

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Rhaenyra with her mother's ring, after her funeral.

Commissioned by rhaenyrasimp on twt <3

#asoiaf #hotd #hotd art #art

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fix-it au problems: anakin must have to lean down for EVERY family photo

(commission info // kofi support!)

#sw #sw art #art

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"What, did you think I was losing it?"

#tf #tf art #art

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Excerpt From the House of the Dragon

"Driftmark" — Season 1 Episode 7

Rhaenyra thanks her father and Alicent feels slighted.

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