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this is the best album release of all time because where else are you going to get unironic takes like this and then even get a few hundred people to agree with it

#this has the same vibe to a tweet I se that was like… every people with at least second grader reading comprehension could tell that ts is #desperate to marry and have kids since forever… #and the I tuned out because. every people with a second grader reading comprehension just wouldn’t be engaging like this with her lyrics #which are the mit straightforward you’ll get… like #*most #my point is that there is a lot of high moral and weird superiority in engaging with her music. which is so ridiculous because… that’s like #thinking watching mr beast is like difficult and only worthy of intellectuals… likeeee lmaooo

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my brutalist son just killed my rococo son with his gray concrete alphabet blocks

#poetic justice

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#now these are bars #lit

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#oh so this happens to all of us?? #i thought i was just failing constantly at the kitchen lol #see this is why we need community!! #art

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Life is suffering. It is hard. The world is cursed. But still, you find reasons to keep living.

PRINCESS MONONOKE (1997)

#princess mononoke my beloved!! #movies #princess mononoke

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okay we've done a thousand polls on this and they never cover everyone so now tag what your first musical was (stage or movie)

#love this question even though i dont remember the real answer #stage wise I have that engraved! It was Mamma Mia! #probably watched many more before in film... but couldn't say which was the first one for sure.... does Hunchback of Notredame counts?? #like the disney movie? lol I know thats the first film i remember going to a cinema to see #musicals

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Not the Sherlock episode 4 conspiracy repeating itself but with swifties…

#oh you are in for disappointment I’m afraid… #like. speaking from experience. sadly #I have much more to say……… but I won’t say it… I WONT #I’m even afraid to tag it even though is nothing negative? but like no thank u

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Gay asf to be a dentist. Why you wanna drill another man??? Why you wanna make him scream? Why you wanna put your hands in his mouth? Anyway I’m here to shoot you because you’re mistreating your girlfriend who Im in love with and I need fresh human blood to feed my gaint talking plant from outer space

#i dont think i have mentioned here that i watched little shop of horrors in NYC like a couple weeks ago #with darren criss starring... which if you have been an og follower of this blog. u would know that was peak for me #like darren criss was two rows of seats in front of me... i could see his spit. i transcended... ANYWAY #I think i have seen the movie before but havent really paid attention lol needless to say the story of this musical is CRAZY but it works?? #i had so much fun. and now i get vague posts like this... can u believe? #also the actor playing the dentist and litterally every other small role KILLED IT. he was amazing. big fan #evan rachel wood was also fine. i dont know. dont really cared. I WAS IN THE SAME ROOM AS DARREN CRISS WATCHING HIM PERFORM #im a changed woman now #little shop of horrors #musicals

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“In a 1994 Harvard study that examined people who had radically changed their lives, for instance, researchers found that some people had remade their habits after a personal tragedy, such as a divorce or a life-threatening illness. Others changed after they saw a friend go through something awful, the same way that Dungy’s players watched him struggle.

Just as frequently, however, there was no tragedy that preceded people’s transformations. Rather, they changed because they were embedded in social groups that made change easier. One woman said her entire life shifted when she signed up for a psychology class and met a wonderful group. “It opened a Pandora’s box,” the woman told researchers. “I could not tolerate the status quo any longer. I had changed in my core.” Another man said that he found new friends among whom he could practice being gregarious. “When I do make the effort to overcome my shyness, I feel that it is not really me acting, that it’s someone else,” he said. But by practicing with his new group, it stopped feeling like acting. He started to believe he wasn’t shy, and then, eventually, he wasn’t anymore. When people join groups where change seems possible, the potential for that change to occur becomes more real. For most people who overhaul their lives, there are no seminal moments or life-altering disasters. There are simply communities⏤sometimes of just one other person⏤who make change believable.

One woman told researchers her life transformed after a day spent cleaning toilets⏤and after weeks of discussing with the rest of the cleaning crew whether she should leave her husband.

“Change occurs among other people,” one of the psychologists involved in the study, Todd Heatherton, told me. “It seems real when we can see it in other people’s eyes.”

The precise mechanisms of belief are little understood. No one is certain why a group encountered in a psychology class can convince a woman that everything is different, or why Dungy’s team came together after their coach’s son passed away. Plenty of people talk to friends about unhappy marriages and never leave their spouse; lots of teams watch their coaches experience adversity and never gel. 

But we do know that for habits to permanently change, people must believe that change is feasible. The same process that makes AA so effective⏤the power of a group to teach individuals how to believe⏤happens whenever people come together to help one another change. Belief is easier when it occurs within a community.”

⏤ The Power of Habit, Charles Duhigg

#important stuff

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severance watercolor sketches

#damn! #severance #art #still can’t believe we are actually getting another season of this series after so long

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#lmao #the goldfinch #lit

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#you go in Twitter and everyone is like war! drones! WWIII!! #and you come here and find stuff like this… and like… this is why I’m still in the website #you know what I mean???

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"We'll be back to rebuild it" Gaza, 2024

#!! #free palestine

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anecdote of the pig, tory adkisson // achilles & partoclus // house of dragon, 1x07 // plainwater, anne carson // the truth about forever, sarah dessen // lighthousekeeping, jeanette winterson

#that achilles patroclus quote killed me #I grieve our future every day???? i dont want to grieve our past as well?????? #lit

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Mean Girls (2004) House MD (2009)

#like where else can u get these top tier comparisons?

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uterus during period: Ohmygod I’m so embarrassed. I thought we were having a baby. DONT LOOK AT THIS! *rips down baby wallpaper* PLEASE JUST IGNORE THIS! *tears apart baby room* LETS PRETEND THIS NEVER HAPPENED.

#i love this website

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I don't have any glasses for the eclipse someone relay it to me when it happens

#better than pictures