"No one remembered my birthday-" Well, but did YOU tell anyone it was coming up and you wanted to celebrate it with them?
"I wish someone would see through it when I tell people I'm fine-" Well, but have YOU considered not lying when people ask you how you're doing?
"I am so resentful of my friend because they keep doing this thing that really bothers me-" Well, but have YOU directly communicated that the thing is bothering you?
"I am burning out because my friend keeps expecting me to help them with serious struggles-" Well, but have YOU tried to establish the boundaries you need to feel okay?
"No one ever asks me about this thing I really care about-" Well, but have YOU brought it up yourself?
"I miss my friend but they haven't texted me-" Well, but have YOU been reaching out to them?
Sometimes people are mean, uncaring assholes, in which case you get to be mad. But sometimes you just need to communicate better. Try communication before you assume someone doesn't care!
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the black-tipped diadem (hypolimnas monteironis) | source
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primary color patchwork beetle plush 馃 by friskwolfiecustoms on ig
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I have weirdcore posts on my blog, but it鈥檚 not like鈥he whole point of the blog. May I still interact?
Yes. Thank you for asking anon :)
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a blue jay taking a bath 馃泚 | source
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It's hard to want to stay in the welcome home fandom :( people on tiktok are getting harrased. Kids keep invading the playfellow xxx tag, one "fursuiter" for the welcome home fandom was getting hate comments and constantly called ugly. The shock value au, the rampit disregard for boundaries both AU makers and Clown's. The infantilizing of Wally like he's some helpless baby. Shoot we have our Fictive Walden on lock down and close supervision because some people have gotten really creepy towards him :( I'm trying to hold onto hope and just ride the waves out but frankly, this fandom is almost as bad as some I used to be in back in the day.
I'm at the point where I'm sticking to the main Welcome home itself and the rainbow factory au by dodozoi (mostly because I sadly relate to Rf!Wally pre-skeleton hand.)
I want to like Welcome Home but the fandom is just not it. And the harassment that person I know who you're talking abour? mouseorchin? The hate that persons getting for their cosplay is EXACTLY why I scrapped my sons Barnaby fursuit in favor of just a generic beagle.
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So the Barnaby cosplay my son was gonna do is bow scrapped. The welcome home fandom has gotten toxic to where I'm no longer comfortable with my baby being in the fandom.which sucks :/
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