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theyre besties. theyre coworkers. theyre divorced.

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I might be off the mark here but I feel like so much of what other women call gender envy is just wanting to be sexually desirable without having to be a pristine passive object. It’s wanting to be active and kind of gross and rough around the edges and weird and attractive on your own terms, which is completely understandable, but bleak that those are only considered possible for men. 

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For gyns who didn’t read my other repost, I’ll post it here.

If you want help with your resume, in regards to reading it over or even helping you make one, I will help you.

If you want help with answering interview questions, I will help you.

In high school & college, I studied on interviews and resumes. I studied it for years. I did many practice interviews, both the interviewer and interviewee. I’ve also did the same with resumes, both making my own in different templates, and reading other people’s resumes.

I am also willing to read over essays, read for mistakes, point them out to help you, or suggest edits.

For free. Just let me know. If you want live help, I can call on discord.

❤️❤️❤️

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Is there a way to be critical of gender without denying that trans men are men etc? Let me explain.

Gender dysphoria is real and trans and nonbinary people have to be respected - that's what I believe. However, I see that a lot of discource about gender and identities is focused on stereotypes - like afab people saying thay they knew they weren't a woman because of their interests, personal style and being gnc in general, while all those things can be done while being a woman. Also what I've seen get called woman vibes are mostly stuff like nail polish or a caring nature, which are stuff I actually love seing in men (and everyone tbh, we need more nice people but that's unrelated). Everyone has their own mind and autonomy and freedom to identify as they wish, and it's not my business to inquire why they choose to identify the way they do, I acknowledge that because it's just called being respectful. So if a fem presenting person told me their pronouns are he/they, I'd use that since it's not really something I should dig about. I'll use that and prob see them as transmasc or wtv label they wish to use, and I'd also be normal about that. But I'm also kinda critical of the root of this - like me thinking I was a demi girl or nb because I felt uncomfortable in my body during puberty and tiktok told me it was a sign, but I still identify as a cis girl and I feel fine. I don't think trans women are just porn addicted men or that trans men are confused women, I'm just wondering why it's so based in stereotypes, you know??

TL;DR I don't want to come off as a transphobe, I want to articulate that despite criticising the concept of gender and its stereotypes, people's choices and pronouns should be respected and acknowledged. Is it still gender critical, or is it called something else? I want to find people who think similar as me.

English isn't my first language sorry if I was unclear or used weird words or repeated myself lol

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this is the reason I'm a deist, i create my own god.good luck to rest of you

The abrahamic god is a male power fantasy and I refuse to worship an omnipotent being who treats 50% of his most important creations as inferior, naturally evil beings who’s only value is their virginity, something that most women don’t have a say in within traditional religious societies.

#oh the things we invent when we are scared and want to be rescued

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@stvksn on ig

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heyyyy i love this page I've read so many of the recs you posted thank you so much

are there any social media fics they can be canon complaint or an au.

Hi! I’m so glad the blog helped you find fics to read ❤️

Hope you enjoy these recs! 

5 Times Alex Went Viral (+1 Time Henry Did) by @clottedcreamfudge 8 Of The Best Twitter Threads Featuring FSOTUS And Prince Henry by peppermintpatties 17 Firstprince Moments That Remind Us How Single We Are by peppermintpatties 25 Questions by @clottedcreamfudge Am I the asshole? by @everwitch-magiks and history remembered. by @sherryvalli (WIP) Everyone Knows Who You Are by @smc-27 rwrb media fics by th0ughts (series) Special Edition by @clottedcreamfudge the conclusion literally any normal human being would come to. by @chaa-kiao they'll talk about us by @tarmairons watch before it ends by @indomitable-love whenever you're ready by @tedddylupin With so much of my heart (that none is left to protest) by @kiwiana-writes (WIP)

Bonus Recs: (probably not exactly the social media you were thinking of but thought we’d throw these in anyway 😂)  Going Platinum by @cricketnationrise Hashtag Soulmates by @everwitch-magiks

Huge thanks to my lovely team of volunteers for helping collect these recs ❤️ If you’d like to help out too, check out the Volunteers Page 🥰

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no better words have ever been spoken

#feminism

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so good you puke it out and then eat it again

#wwdits season 5

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I just wanna go crazy and I'm getting worned down of not trying to be alone so

what made u guys pick ur url's !

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y’all the new richard siken poems are so goddamned sad (and also so fucking good, as expected) y’gotta read them.

driveway

heart valve

gun case

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it feels burning red to like men.no,not in the sense that as a woman I have to eventually fulfill some twisted sexism trope(that's a still a fear). no I mean as in I feel like I betray my fellow community.yes ofc I know this man wasn't the one that hurted my best friend a year ago, yes I know this isn't the male celebrity I liked for my while life who gets accused with sexual assault but my subconscious doesn't act like it knows, it's just recognizes the thread pattern.

lets look at the recent example I read Red white and royal blue I watched the movie a day after and I've been consuming media about it for a week now.at first it was all well.yk quotes from the books, movie scenes, some song referances but as the time went on the parasocial relationship effect kicked in and people started posting personal things from the actors like old Instagram ss,singing videos,interviews that got nothing to do with red white and royal blue.that's where my discomfort started,where I questioned how people could trust a man that easily -especially after what we've seen for years with many, many public bknz.johny depp-figures saying things like my pokie boo or started getting aggressive to people who didn't like them. idk I just know when I'm gonna like a photo of the actor taylor zakhar pèrez smiling or nicholas galitzine doing a good recipe video my fingers quiver and i ask myself if am I doing something wrong(patriarchy irrecevablely broke me and I'm never gonna recover me thinks)

#this is gonna be so unrelatable to everyone #I wanna say this situation doesn't happen only with the examples given above #I just came to realization with this one #feminism #barely #patriarchy #red white and royal blue #nicholas galitzine #taylor zakhar perez

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NOOO RICHARD SIKEN DON'T FALL TO THE GLUE TRAP

#UVĞYGP58F8YF THIS IS THE FUNNIEST SHIT I'VE EVER SEEN A POET UTTER #this is my 9/11 #richard siken #steve and bucky #stevebucky

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is it too early for thirst posts-*GUNSHOTS*

#I'm being held captive by the grievers of the fandom #I'll try to get your attention by blinking in morse code #good omens #crowley #anthony j crowley #gos2

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the literal definition of trying to be who I thought you'd need.

see. the issue is what maggie n nina pointed out after three days of knowing aziraphale and crowley. they don’t talk. they don’t communicate. they love each other, sure. they banter and have meals and drinks and would die for each other. but they spend so much of their relationship inferring how the other feels. assuming what the other wants. aziraphale assumed crowley wanted to be an angel again. crowley assumed aziraphale would be able to give up being one. they don’t have a middle ground bc they didn’t know one was necessary

#good omens #good omens spoilers #gos2 #gos2 spoilers #crowly x aziraphale #azicrow #aziraphale #crowley #innefable husbands

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ahh I'm so happy twink death did miss with Michael sheen cause I don't know how I would stay alive without my favorite sissy angel

Michael Sheen as Emperor Nero in Ancient Rome: The Rise and Fall of an Empire

#micheal sheen #aziraphale #good omens

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have u guys heard of the doc going on that claims Neil wrote this season with "bad writing" on purpose and some of the flashbacks are false? cause it's the only thing they talk on twitter

#if u want it I have it #I didn't fully read yet #good omens #gos2 #gos2 spoilers #good omens season two