ndntighnari

[ndntighnari]

God I hate that I have to make ANOTHER post about this. But hi, the only food I've had for the past several days is soup, ramen, and saltless saltines. I have no money, I'm being dicked around with by my uncles life insurance and the provincial government, and I'd really like to actually eat something besides, basically, just liquids.

I also have like. Maybe a week of sleep aid shit left and can't afford to get more so I also have to somehow get that.

Hoping for some help, ideally... Like. 150 CAD or smth? Enough to get my meds and some food until my dad gets paid and we can buy groceries.

Here's the link

0/150

Even a reblog helps in this situation, and I've got commissions open if that's more your style. Its a bit of a pay what you can thing, and I'll do what I can for the price.

[ndntighnari]

God I hate that I have to make ANOTHER post about this. But hi, the only food I've had for the past several days is soup, ramen, and saltless saltines. I have no money, I'm being dicked around with by my uncles life insurance and the provincial government, and I'd really like to actually eat something besides, basically, just liquids.

I also have like. Maybe a week of sleep aid shit left and can't afford to get more so I also have to somehow get that.

Hoping for some help, ideally... Like. 150 CAD or smth? Enough to get my meds and some food until my dad gets paid and we can buy groceries.

Here's the link

0/150

Even a reblog helps in this situation, and I've got commissions open if that's more your style. Its a bit of a pay what you can thing, and I'll do what I can for the price.

[ndntighnari]

God I hate that I have to make ANOTHER post about this. But hi, the only food I've had for the past several days is soup, ramen, and saltless saltines. I have no money, I'm being dicked around with by my uncles life insurance and the provincial government, and I'd really like to actually eat something besides, basically, just liquids.

I also have like. Maybe a week of sleep aid shit left and can't afford to get more so I also have to somehow get that.

Hoping for some help, ideally... Like. 150 CAD or smth? Enough to get my meds and some food until my dad gets paid and we can buy groceries.

Here's the link

0/150

Even a reblog helps in this situation, and I've got commissions open if that's more your style. Its a bit of a pay what you can thing, and I'll do what I can for the price.

[ndntighnari]

God I hate that I have to make ANOTHER post about this. But hi, the only food I've had for the past several days is soup, ramen, and saltless saltines. I have no money, I'm being dicked around with by my uncles life insurance and the provincial government, and I'd really like to actually eat something besides, basically, just liquids.

I also have like. Maybe a week of sleep aid shit left and can't afford to get more so I also have to somehow get that.

Hoping for some help, ideally... Like. 150 CAD or smth? Enough to get my meds and some food until my dad gets paid and we can buy groceries.

Here's the link

0/150

Even a reblog helps in this situation, and I've got commissions open if that's more your style. Its a bit of a pay what you can thing, and I'll do what I can for the price.

#mutual aid #artists on tumblr #emergency #emergency commissions #crowdfunding

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Ayo heads up if yall do find me on discord don't just send the friend request. Lmk you're from tumblr or smth so i dont decline + block bc I'm assuming you're spam or something like that. Just turned down like 6 requests bc idk if they were spam/hacked accounts or if they were legit just ppl from tumblr

#my discord handle is the same name as my main blog #like its fine for tumblr ppl to add me just like. tell me ur from tumblr #and respect i dont accept requests from minors unless we've talked before

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tell me

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God I'm so fucking tired of family and the fucking government screwing me over. My aunt probably hasn't done the shit she said she would so I can. Yknow. Have the inheritance from my uncle (not one she was married to) and the govt was like yeah we'll send you stuff in 4 days uwu and its been a week and a half and i only just got confirmation that they even Saw my application. I have meds to pay for, bills to pay, and absolutely every source of "yes this is going to be in your bank in less than a week" income that's been promised is screwing me over and I'm about ready to fucking cry

#people dont fucking trust me anymore w money bc im ALWAYS asking fornit #but i never can catch a goddamn break in terms of things fucking me over w it #90 bucks for the meds and 26 for my credit card and more for Spotify and just. #im tired and ready to cry bc i cant catch a fucking break even when i spend NOTHING #on keeping myself happy #i dont eat out i dont buy coffee i will RARELY spend MAYBE 5 bucks on smth and its just. #fucks sake. #im trying to get a job but no where is hiring and the places that are want me to have a fucking #bachelor's degree for minimum wage customer service!!!! #im trying and every time a new wall is just slamming me into it

[ndntighnari]

So I just saw a post by a random personal blog that said “don’t follow me if we never even had a conversation before” and?????? Not to be rude but literally what the fuck??????????

I’ve had people (non-pornbots) try to strike conversation out of nowhere in my DMs recently, and now I’m wondering if they were doing that because they wanted to follow me and thought they needed to interact first. I feel compelled to say, just in case, that it’s totally okay to follow this blog (or my side blog, for that matter) even if we’ve never talked before.

Also, I’m legit confused. Is this how follow culture works right now? It was worded like it’s common sense but is that really a thing?

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"In a historic “first-of-its-kind” agreement the government of British Colombia has acknowledged the aboriginal ownership of 200 islands off the west coast of Canada.

The owners are the Haida nation, and rather than the Canadian government giving something to a First Nation, the agreement admits that the “Xhaaidlagha Gwaayaai” or the “islands at the end of world,” always belonged to them, a subtle yet powerful difference in the wording of First Nations negotiating.

BC Premier David Eby called the treaty “long overdue” and once signed, will clear the way for half a million hectares (1.3 million acres) of land to be managed by the Haida.

Postal service, shipping lanes, school and community services, private property rights, and local government jurisdiction, will all be unaffected by the agreement, which will essentially outline that the Haida decide what to do with the 200 or so islands and islets.

“We could be facing each other in a courtroom, we could have been fighting each other for years and years, but we chose a different path,” said Minister of Indigenous Relations of BC, Murray Rankin at the signing ceremony, who added that it took creativity and courage to “create a better world for our children.”

Indeed, making the agreement outside the courts of the formal treaty process reflects a vastly different way of negotiating than has been the norm for Canada.

“This agreement won’t only raise all boats here on Haida Gwaii – increase opportunity and prosperity for the Haida people and for the whole community and for the whole province – but it will also be an example and another way for nations – not just in British Columbia, but right across Canada – to have their title recognized,” said Eby.

In other words, by deciding this outside court, Eby and the province of BC hope to set a new standard for how such land title agreements are struck."

-via Good News Network, April 18, 2024

[ndntighnari]

this is going to sound simplistic + i promise you it's not: stop following people whose entire schtick is being cruel or fighting with others online. even if the ppl deserve it! even if it's not a ~problematic~ cruelty! even if you agree with all of that blog's opinions!

it's one thing if someone snaps back when provoked or posts the occasional "get a load of this guy". nobody needs to play up respectability for people who haven't given them respect in return. but if someone's online identity centers around being needlessly mean for laughs + they're constantly seeking out socially acceptable, easy targets for petty cruelty, that's a red flag. there's a huge difference between not taking shit/cracking a joke + mocking others as your several-hours-a-day hobby.

especially if, when they are inevitably in the wrong + mocking someone mercilessly to their 50k followers over something petty goes south (shocking!), they become extremely defensive or block everyone or play the victim or dismiss it as "well, how was i supposed to know they were autistic? i'm autistic + i don't meow in public" or whatever.

this isn't a "well i knew all along" post bcuz nobody should be shamed for being in the dark about something like this but many of the popular bloggers who have later been exposed for serious harassment or abuse should not have shocked us. if someone's blog is 90% shit like "you should light yourself on fire because you watch x anime" or "look at this so-called lesbian bitch + her ugly fucking boyfriend at a kink convention- it's giving drowned rats", should it really shock you that they are also being cruel or abusive in less internet-acceptable ways? if they've already shown you that they get a such a thrill out of being vicious that they do it daily + are regularly rewarded with thousands of followers?

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Like I don't think what the government says about marginalized groups in bills really fucking matters as well. Like don't use that as your baseline. At the same time though you have to be aware not every member of a group will feel the same about something, and if you listen to only one group about something, you're doing this shit wrong too. Like. Idk gang not sure about this one

I don't think people who aren't part of a group can say what that group is or is not. Especially if you're white and the group is decidedly not so. Like maybe we let people identify how they do, and not paint entire groups with a single broad brush. Especially if you are white/not part of that group.

#like. im more likely to believe someone FROM the culture being discussed #and i tend to trust they have a stronger sense of whats actually going on than other people who arent #but unless you directly are part of the group... you dont get to say what the group is #again im mostly talking as a 2s person who has to deal with people who arent 2s #trying to claim that 2s people are actually just gay men or that theyre just trans women #as if 2s isnt an infinitely nuanced identity that covers a lot of non colonial ideals of gender and sexuality #and from what i know from hijra people ive met. we're not all that different in that sense #of just. people making sweeping statements about what we're ACTUALLY. #like. 2s isnt a 3rd gender its smth else #and from what i know hijra is similar in that it is NOT a 3rd gender #but boiling it down to just a 3rd gender or just binary trans woman just. completely negates a lot of actual nuance

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I don't think people who aren't part of a group can say what that group is or is not. Especially if you're white and the group is decidedly not so. Like maybe we let people identify how they do, and not paint entire groups with a single broad brush. Especially if you are white/not part of that group.

#this is abt the two posts I'm seeing abt hijra people going around #'they are trans women' 'they aren't they're something else!' #i don't think its our fucking business since it's not our fucking culture actually #this is like how i witness people say 2s people are just gay men/just trans women #and its like. sure some are! i don't think we can talk about an entire ethnic identity like this tho #because again. its a cultural and ethnic identity in a lot of cases. #like are we really doing this shit again instead of just. listening to the individuals within the group #and i dont mean listen to just whoever agrees with your point i mean letting each individual #choose if they are x or y or z #anyone who claims to speak for the entire group is shady as fuck because they will be wrong in cases #maybe a few maybe a lot i don't think it's our fucking business anyways

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I don't usually ask stuff like this on here, but like. Does anyone have tips or tricks on how to deal with coming to terms that some of the things you'd thought were just depression clouding judgement are. Not. And actually are things that are happening and that you have to deal with it while clear of mind? Not getting into specifics, but. Yeah. If anyone has anything they do to cope, things that make processing it easier, it'd be genuinely appreciated.

#I'm having a Time of being medicated with therapy and kind of need some extra tools

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Hi, I have 10 dollars left in my bank account after paying a portion of my credit card and I still have bills coming up on the 20th + 23rd. I only need like 50 bucks to cover everything while I wait for approval from ontario works

Even 5 bucks helps a ton, so please help if you can, and if not a reblog will also make a difference.

Here's the link for those able

Again, i should have consistent income + a job within the month, I just need to manage to get out of this month without dipping into the negatives if possible.

[ndntighnari]

Hi, I have 10 dollars left in my bank account after paying a portion of my credit card and I still have bills coming up on the 20th + 23rd. I only need like 50 bucks to cover everything while I wait for approval from ontario works

Even 5 bucks helps a ton, so please help if you can, and if not a reblog will also make a difference.

Here's the link for those able

Again, i should have consistent income + a job within the month, I just need to manage to get out of this month without dipping into the negatives if possible.

[ndntighnari]

Hi, I have 10 dollars left in my bank account after paying a portion of my credit card and I still have bills coming up on the 20th + 23rd. I only need like 50 bucks to cover everything while I wait for approval from ontario works

Even 5 bucks helps a ton, so please help if you can, and if not a reblog will also make a difference.

Here's the link for those able

Again, i should have consistent income + a job within the month, I just need to manage to get out of this month without dipping into the negatives if possible.

#fundraising #mutual aid #artists on tumblr