Ack Lia. I’ve developed a crush on one of my coworkers. We’ve been sending music back and forth and being?? Sorta flirty?? So I’ve been being a little bolder with my song choices but the whole “we work together” thing makes me nervous of just jumping right in. I sent Beth McCarthy’s “IDK How To Talk To Girls” yesterday and unsure how to follow up. Any recommendations? Sending you good vibes and wish me luck! - SMA
APOLOGIES i was on holidays but omg please tell me what else you have sent???
also what sort of work situation are we talking (if you feel comfortable sharing) is it like an office situation with a real HR department, or do you work in the same building, or on the same team for the same boss, or like separate teams and don’t have to day-to-day work stuff together, or ??
i feel like the level of coworkeriness makes a big difference here tbh because i have two coworkers (one of whom was the manager of the other at the time, but isnt any longer) who have been together for well over a year and they’re doing great but the seniority of the one (who is VERY senior and we’re a really small team) has made for a few uncomfortable situations for us all lately
want to paint the back of a denim jackets to say DYKE really big but with beautiful flowers all curled around it gentle and delicate and then wear it to pride . does anyone know any floral focused artists who i can pay to draw this for me mayhaps
Happy Sunday! I went clubbing last night for the first time in probably ever and I feel it so much this morning. Not in the hungover sense but more in the fact my feet ache - how people do this a bunch I’ve no idea. Sending positive vibes your way and hope the week ahead is full of good things! Btw what do you think of the new Hozier stuff?? - SMA
gonna be honest i have not been a clubbing girl for many a year now. part of that is because i live in a city where the nightlife is absolute dogshit and it's just not fucking fun to go to one of the three dreary clubs full of men in their late 30s preying on 19 year olds, but another part of it is just that i am getting old and tired lol. doing it a lot is a Young Person's Game imo and more power to them i wish i had stamina like that
also i am a HUGE fan of Too Sweet, i really like Empire Now, I like Fare Well, and it pains me to say but i genuinely truly do not like Wildflower and Barley. time after time i am just Not Really A Fan of Hozier's collab songs unfortunately (nina cried power excepted, absolutely love that)
Sometimes you meet someone, and it’s so clear so immediately that the two of you, on some level, belong together. As lovers, or as friends, or as family, or as something entirely different. You just work, whether you’re in love or creating things together or foxhole buddies or partners in crime. It’s so clear, right off the bat, that this is what you’re supposed to be doing, that this is what you’re for. You meet these people throughout your life, out of nowhere, under the strangest of circumstances, and they help you make a life. I don’t know if that makes me believe in coincidence, or fate, or sheer blind luck, but. It definitely makes me believe in something.
This morning I decided I needed some different enrichment so I woke up and went to the store, got a tomato, fresh mozzarella, and bread. The tomato was a little unripe and now I have too much bread but my GOD it was a delightful breakfast. Of course now my day feels out of routine but not in a bad way? Anyways hoping you get some good new enrichment in your life and may your vibes this week be impeccable - SMA
absolutely no such thing in the world as too much bread!!! you have good toast ahead of you (or perhaps great french toast depending on the bread type) and i am even a massive fan of just bread with butter at all hours of the day all the time!!!
being out of routine is the best way to be imo i am not a Routine person or i get very bored so i support the sunday adventure wholeheartedly
Just the fact that the moderate, liberal position on Palestine for most of my life was "these millions of people should just endure permanent brutal apartheid without complaint, and also if you call it 'apartheid' you're an antisemite," and now it's evolved to "Israel should be able to kill as many of them as it wants, and if you complain, then you're an antisemite in the pay of Russia and China"
Congrats on the upcoming anniversary!!! I kept meaning to ask but how is the new living space working out? So extremely happy things seem to be on the up and up for you lately! Hope the vibes are most excellent and sending you more just for good measure - SMA
thank you!!! ngl living w my girlfriend is millions of times better than i ever could have imagined, every day is like waking up on a holiday bc it’s so exciting to be with her All The Time and coming home from work to her is like slipping into the comfiest chair or a hot water bottle-warmed bed in the winter it is just so so so so good. several times a week i have this internal (!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) feeling that is basically just my brain spinning the thought [I LOVE OUR LIFE TOGETHER!!!!!!] in 3d words at the speed of light
eventually!! in the next few years for sure but there is a many month lead time on the custom ring i want to order and also weddings and said ring are expensive so not like Tomorrow
gay people in my phone how do i incorporate pieces of stone (quartzite i think) from gf's grandmothers' 18th century stone cottages into an engagement ring without it looking like shit