if you canāt eat a whole meal, eat half. you ate, thatās what is important.
if you canāt get out of bed, try and sit up instead of lying down. itāll be better for your back and your blood pressure.
if you canāt shower or have a bath today, try and brush your teeth and clean your ears. itāll keep you a little cleaner, and we often forget those areas.Ā
if you canāt get dressed today, change underwear and use some deoderant. itāll leave you a little fresher until you have the strength to change fully.
and remember, iām very proud of you. your best will look different every day, and thatās okay.
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Vent post, TW Seizures:
Itās so frustrating being chronically ill, being disabled, and being told that nothing can be done about it.
āIf you seize for over five minutes, call 911ā
I constantly seize for over 5 minutes. After having 3 back to back seizures all over 30 minutes, and two other seizures later that day without warning, I went to the ER who told me ātake your anti-depressants. Everything looks fineā.
I get that Iām not epileptic, I get that my seizures are non-epileptic. But theyāre long and painful and disabling. I lose my memory, I aspirate, I contort and convulse. Anti-depressants arenāt going to help that. Especially when I feel perfectly fine, Iām just sending a text and then I fall and seize for 37 minutes!
I try not to complain. I try to grin and bear it. I know thatās all I can do. But itās frustrating. I was doing better. I was getting better. And now suddenly Iām worse than ever before. Itās so discouraging. And I ask my neurologists for opinions and they say ātake the anti-depressants, call us back, go to the ERā. The ER says, āyour labs are fine, go home.ā. All Iām asking is ācan I go back to work this week or not?ā
The anti depressants arenāt helping the seizures either. Tried that.
Iām tired of being told I canāt do anything. Iām tired of getting better and then getting worse. Iām tired of not being listened to. Iām tired.
Anyways, Iāll hop off my soapbox.
To anyone else who feels trapped by their chronic illnesses and disabilities, I see you. I understand you. Iām so sorry you have to go through what youāre going through. Youāre not alone.
Stay strong.
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My birthday once again falls on the summer solstice!! Wahoo!!
2024 Witches' Calendar
For all my witches out there, here's a handy list of the 2024 dates for the solstices, quarter days, full and new moons, and special events. I've listed my sources at the bottom.
Dates and times for all events are calculated for Eastern Standard Time, USA, Northern Hemisphere. Adjust for your location as needed and check the DarkSky Placefinder to see what special events will be visible in your area. Enjoy!
Solstices, Harvests, and Quarter Days
February 1-2 - Imbolc / Candlemas
March 19 - Spring Equinox / Ostara
April 30-May 1 - Beltane / May Day
June 20 - Summer Solstice / Midsummer / Litha
August 1 - Lughnasadh / Lammas / Summer Harvest
September 22 - Autumn Equinox / Mabon / Fall Harvest
October 31 - Samhain / Halloween / Final Harvest
December 21 - Winter Solstice / Yule
Full Moons
January 25 - Wolf Moon ā
February 24 - Snow Moon ā
March 25 - Worm Moon ā
April 23 - Pink Moon ā
May 23 - Flower Moon ā
June 21 - Strawberry Moon ā
July 21 - Thunder Moon (aka Buck Moon) ā
August 19 - Sturgeon Moon* ā
September 17 - Harvest Moon* ā
October 17 - Hunter's Moon (aka Blood Moon)* ā
November 15 - Frost Moon (or Beaver Moon)* ā
December 15 - Cold Moon ā
*- Supermoon
Fun Fact: The title of Harvest Moon is given to either the September or October full moon, whichever falls closest to the autumn equinox. Once again this year, that month will be September.
New Moons
January 11 ā
February 9 ā
March 10 ā
April 8 ā
May 7 ā
June 6 ā
July 5 ā
August 4 ā
September 2 ā
October 2 ā
November 1 ā
December 1 ā
December 30 (black moon) ā
Special Celestial Events
January 3-4 - Quadrantids meteor shower peak
March 25 - Penumbral Lunar Eclipse
April 8 - Total solar eclipse
April 22-23 - Lyrids meteor shower peak
May 6-7 - Eta Aquarids meteor shower peak
August 11-13 - Perseids meteor shower peak
August 19 - Sturgeon Supermoon / Seasonal Blue Moon
September 17 - Harvest Supermoon / Penumbral Lunar Eclipse
October 2 - "Ring of Fire" solar eclipse
October 17 - Hunter's Supermoon
October 21-22 - Orionids meteor shower peak
November 15 - Frost Supermoon
November 16-17 - Leonids meteor shower peak
December 13-14 - Geminids meteor shower peak
December 30 - Black Moon
(Check the DarkSky Placefinder to see what will be visible in your area!)
Mercury Retrogrades (in case you need them)
April 1 - AprilĀ 24
August 4 - AugustĀ 27
November 25 - DecemberĀ 15
Happy Witching!
SOURCES & FURTHER READING:
Bree's Lunar Calendar Series
Bree's Secular Celebrations Series
Moon Info - Full Moon Dates for 2024
Calendar-12 - 2024 Moon Phases
Full Moonology - 2024 Full Moon Calendar
AstroStyle - All the 2024 Full Moons
Your Zodiac Sign - Astrology Calendar 2024
Old Farmer's Almanac - Mercury Retrograde Dates 2023-2024
Lonely Planet - Best Star-gazing Events of 2024
Sea and Sky - Astronomy Calendar of Celestial Events 2024
DarkSky International - Dark Sky Placefinder for Stargazing
Pagan Grimoire - Wheel of the Year: The 8 Festivals in the Wiccan Calendar (2024 Edition)
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EDIT: Mercury is stationed direct on Jan 1st, 2024. The source I used which stated it was in retrograde until the 18th had a typo.
EDIT: Fixed the zodiac signs for the full moons using a new source.
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