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Sleeping cat, 1922, Louis Icart

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AI this AI that. i don’t care. call me when they invent a strap you can feel

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so like as a stone femme i know we get flack for "not doing anything" or like, acting like straight women?? idrk. but regardless, i don't feel like im not doing anything. i like to think of it like music. "play me like a violin" was written for a reason sjdjdk like i want to be yours and yes the violin doesn't make choices or take its own action but you can't say its not doing anything. i want to be your performance, your music. i give myself to you, do with me what you want, and i will lead by making music. i want to show you how active i am by whining, moaning, begging, i want my voice to send shivers down your spine and heat to your core. i want the motion of my hips and legs to be the dance you watch, hypnotized by its beauty. beauty that i possess but that you create. we perform and view together, both of us audience and actor

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Jay Shin for Elle Vietnam, January 2013

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i love you stone bottoms!!!!! to think that there are people out there who want me to fuck them and understand that that's just as pleasurable and meaningful and intimate and vulnerable to me as it is to them!!?? that a "now it's your turn" is not required for our encounter to be complete and fulfilling!! the fact that you exist helps me remember that i'm not broken or weird or an inadequate partner!!! that in fact the things i want to give are the exact things someone else wants to receive!! i love you stone bottoms!!!!!!!

#personal #butch #femme #lesbian #dyke #ofos #femme4butch #femme4femme #femme4both #<3333

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We need to be more realistic about lesbian sex, too, because sometimes it feels like this huge expectation to maintain a certain level of stamina looms over us, simply because we're more prone to practice what the straights think is foreplay and we consider full on sex.

Some of us have chronic pain. Some of us have past or present injuries. Some of us are on medication that screws with our libido or the amount of time we can last and keep going. Some of us simply don't feel that much of a desire to fuck. Some of us are on the ace spectrum. Some of us are more than content with frotting and kissing and calling it a good intimate moment 20 minutes in. Some of us have vaginismus or other conditions that make sex uncomfortable to some extent.

It's OK to not go on for 1 hour. It's OK to tell your partner to stop. It's OK to ask them to change positions if you have a bad knee or back. It's OK to not last, and to be too sensitive to go on, and to call it a day.

Don't feel pressured to perform. Sex is good when there's enthusiastic consent and enjoyment from both parts, no matter the amount of time it lasts.

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The Princess Collection by Zurc, 1988.

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i wanna finish this and make a playful lil print out of this ;>_>

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A short (26min) video on Leslie Feinberg, author of Stone Butch Blues (available for free from the author's website). I really loved this vid ❤️

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Serena, Found of Savages by Thomas Benjamin Kennington

#fav

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oh that fun home excerpt reminded me. something y'all wouldn't know about me is that both my parents are queer and nonmonogamous. and i didn't find out about any of it until after spending several years in the closet and having a tearful forced coming out. like damn... you couldn't have like normalized that for me when i was growing up??? i mean they were quite transphobic before i came out but at least i would've known it was okay for me to like girls??? anyway now for the past couple of years my mom especially has not been able to shut up about all the girlfriends she had when i was a kid. which is kind of fun to be fair. especially since i know she had a lot of internalized homo/biphobia... when i asked her about why they didn't come out to us earlier she was like "well you [me and my little sibling who's also queer] were kids! and children usually don't want to hear about their parents' sex lives anyway!"... ma'am.

#anyway my sibling gets the award for first out the closet in the family #they told my mom they liked boys and girls when they were like 13 and my mom's response was like #'that's totally okay! but you should marry the opposite sex because that's much easier' #like hello are you projecting a little bit perhaps 😭 #personal

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excerpt from alison bechdel’s FUN HOME

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Joan Jett, 1976

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does ur love and appreciation for fat bodies go beyond how they can personally benefit u? do u respect fat bodies in contexts that arent sexual or fat body types u dont personally find sexually attractive? do u include those in ur art too? do u really treat us like people and not just a body?

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one of my favorite things about bjork is that she just beat the shit out of someone in public

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Goodnight to the ghetto black girls

Goodnight to the queer black girls

Goodnight to the autistic black girls

Goodnight to the weird black girls

Goodnight to the nerdy black girls

Goodnight to the strong black girls

Goodnight to the mentally ill black girls

Goodnight to the trans black girls

Goodnight to the crybaby black girls

Goodnight to the black girls all about self-preservation

Goodnight to the artistic black girls

Goodnight to the "fast" black girls

Goodnight to the nonbinary black girls

Goodnight to the black girls, who had to grow up too early

Goodnight to the fatherless black girls

Goodnight to the motherless black girls

Goodnight to the black girls, who are the eldest sibling

Goodnight to the black girls who have made it this far

Goodnight to the black girls that don't fit in