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your f/os share your kinks btw. yes, even that "embarrassing" one you're too humiliated/scared to tell anyone about. maybe they've never heard of some of your more obscure ones, but the first time the two of you try them out they go 'oh, fuck.' because now you've unlocked something new for them too.

#🐇💕 #nsft #mdni

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If it brings you joy it's not a waste of time.

If it brings you joy it's not a waste of time.

If it brings you joy it's not a waste of time.

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hello! you have a lovely blog, it's really cute and i love the blinkies/divider things you've made! is there any chance you could make one with the phrase "ship & let ship"? totally cool if not, still wanted to show you some appreciation <3

Thank you so much, I'm glad you like them so much! I made it and more for anyone who wants to use them!

#proship #proship safe #proshippers #proship positivity #proshipping #anti anti #ship and let ship #proshippers please interact #pro shipping #pro selfship #sweet lady blinkies #proship blinkies #blinkies #🐇💕 #happy sweet lady #sweet lady interviews

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April is sexual assault awareness month so here's to my fellow proselfshippers who are survivors

💚 Your F/O believes you. Regardless of what the situation was, your F/Os know that there's honesty within your words and they'll always be supportive of you. They care about you and your safety!

🍓 You aren't broken, dirty or lesser than because of what happened to you. Someone hurting you in that way has no correlation to your worth and humanity. You are seen, heard and loved!

💚 It wasn't your fault. Each situation is unique and complicated, but regardless of how it happened, it wasn't your fault in any way shape or form. You deserve to allow yourself to live a guilt free life.

🍓 Your F/Os love you more than life itself. Nothing will ever change that fact, and they're willing to show how much they love you for each and every single second you get to spend together!

💚 Your F/Os will always respect your limits and boundaries. Your comfort will never be too much for them, and they're willing to do anything in their power to make sure you're as happy and safe as you can possibly be!

🍓 You are more than what happened to you. Never forget your worth, potential and importance. Those around you and your F/Os love and care for you very deeply!

#profiction #proshipping #profic #pro fiction #pro ship #pro ship safe #pro shipping #proselfship #proship #proship please interact #proship positivity #proship safe #proship selfship #proshipper

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I MADE AN ANTISHIP BINGO BOARD!!

Feel free to use this anytime, no credit needed ^_^

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Characters that are definitely proshippers

Antis: Do not read beyond this point or you’re a pro-shipper <3

Luz (The Owl House)

Tinella Nosa (The Owl House)

Camila (The Owl House)

Ginny (Harry Potter)

Luna Lovegood (Harry Potter)

Helga (Hey Arnold)

Heavy (Metal Family)

Mabel Pines (Gravity Falls)

Barbie (Sauce Family)

Junko (Danganronpa)

Hifumi (Danganronpa)

Mikan (Danganronpa)

Tsumugi (Danganronpa)

Ibuki (Danganronpa)

Teruteru (Danganronpa)

Hiyoko (Danganronpa)

Monaca (Danganronpa)

Toko (Danganronpa)

Ch!Connor (DSMP)

Ch!Karl (DSMP)

Pinkie Pie (MLP)

Sweetie Belle (MLP)

Yona (MLP)

Steven (Steven Universe)

Connie (Steven Universe)

No, I will not argue on this /lh

#i would like to add niffty from hazbin hotel #proship #proship safe

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Unironically it's genuinely so much more fun to be a proshipper....I lowkey feel bad for antis they must be so bored!!

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To anyone who has ever lost any “Friends” for being Proship

I’m sorry. I’m sorry that instead of seeing you as a person with thoughts and feelings, you were seen as a villain and evil person.

You are NOT any of those things. You are a BEAUTIFUL person who has a heart kind enough to know that people are NOT their fictional preferences.

You are an AMAZING person who NEVER judges anyone for their fictional tastes.

Fuck the Antis who dropped you like a hot potato just because you’re proship. They are not worth your time.

You are KIND

You are BEAUTIFUL

And you are LOVED ❤️

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For my fellow plus size proselfshippers:

🧡 There's no size limit when it comes to your F/Os' love for you! It doesn't matter at all to them because they know you're an absolutely astounding and gorgeous person and they're forever grateful to be with you!

🎩 Your body doesn't have to look a certain way for your F/Os to be enamored by you! Small chest, no curves, anything that you may consider a flaw just gives them another reason to kiss those insecurities away!

🧡 If you want to lose weight, your F/Os will be your biggest supporter. They will make sure you're going at your own pace and taking care of your health as well, they find you attractive and lovely no matter how you look!

🎩 If you struggle to lose weight, your F/Os will always be understanding and kind. They'll never force you to progress faster than you can handle and they'll always keep in mind to prioritize your safety and comfort!

🧡 If you don't want to lose weight, your F/Os absolutely respect and cheer you on with your decision! They'll always make sure to remind you of how wonderful you look and how you deserve all the love in the world!

🎩 Your F/Os understand that it can be hard to love your own body sometimes, but they'll always make sure that you know that there's nothing wrong with your body or appearance. They want you to know that you're always deserving of praise and affection!

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🥪🥪 THIS IS A REMINDER 🥪🥪

ANTIS DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOUR TRAUMA!!

Please don't disclose your trauma to Antis as a way to make them understand your point. STRANGERS AND ONLINE DEBATES ARE NOT WORTH YOUR SAFETY AND METAL HEALTH.

Antis don't care about your safety and your personal life from the get-go, they only care about themselves and the victims who AGREE WITH THEM. THAT'S NOT PEOPLE WHO DESERVE TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR TRAUMA!

#seeing as many of them tell others to kys this is completely true #proship #discourse #profiction #proshipper #proship please interact #proshippers please interact #pro shipping #proshipping #proship safe

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Would you be okay with someone drawing your sona/characters?(if you have one or any) I’d love to be able to (I also love your aesthetic, it’s very girly pop and as a fellow girlypopper I envy) 👉👈

I'm so glad you like my aesthetic, I absolutely adore anything and everything pink! And yes! Go right ahead!This is my sona sweet lady:

She's a pink bunny and inspired by the 40s cartoon style. Although I'm not too good at art I like drawing her a lot.

If you decide to draw her I'd love to see it!

#proship #proship safe #proshippers #proship positivity #proshipping #anti anti #ship and let ship #proshippers please interact #pro selfship #pro shipping #🐇💕 #sweet lady interviews #happy sweet lady #sweet lady art

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I'm getting so tired of callouts like "(X person) got caught with zoo porn!" And then you're thinking, wtf, that's awful. And then it turns out being about TWO FUCKING CARTOON ANIMALS. I DO NOT GIVE A FUCK. YOU CANNOT PAY ME TO GIVE A FUCK ABOUT SOMEONE DRAWING CARTOONS FUCKING. Like god fucking dammit, get some real problems.

#it sucks now because whenever i see a callout post #my first thought isn't “omg thats awful!” #its “is this person really bad or are we just talking about fiction?” #vent #rant #profic #proship

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*pssst*

Pass it on, you don't need to have trauma to be allowed to engage in super taboo kink scenes or fiction.

The burden and onus of proof that something is the direct cause of harm is dependant on the person who believes that it is harmful.

Kink is a healthy expression of sexuality, and fiction is one of the safest ways to indulge in kink. Have fun, drink water and keep it peachy!

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I genuinely want to know what antis are telling their therapists for them to say that comshipping is bad. I literally told my therapist today that I ship incest and why and his response, no joke, was: "Ok."

#my therapist is chill #proship safe #proship #proshippers #proship positivity #proshipping #anti anti #ship and let ship #proshippers please interact #pro selfship #pro shipping #🐇💕

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Just a friendly reminder to all,

The only harm that comes out of proshipping is being harassed by ignorant people who are against it!!

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I'm so sorry to say this but, your trauma is not an excuse to dictate what other people can consume in fiction or not.

Your abuser was a proshipper, I'm so sorry you had to endure that, but before being a proshipper, they were, simply, a piece of shit!

The problem is, they'd have been a piece of shit whether they consumed that kind of content or not. People are not black and white. You don't exclusively consume content that you think is right to replicate in real life (you would leave like 90% of anime and fiction out that way), nor do you suddenly start think problematic content is okay to replicate just because you consume it already.

What you experienced is horrible. It was wrong and I'm so so sorry you had to endure that, I really fucking am. But this, applying your trauma-born logic to a bigger population and liking a bunch of strangers online to your abuser because of the media they consume, is not how you cope or deal with the situation.

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“Dark fiction grooms you into a toxic relationship irl” is the new “violent video games make you violent” which is the new “playing DnD will turn you into a satanist” which is the new “women who read and have black cats are witches” which is the new—

Oop. Time is a circle.