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This year I want to highlight and prioritize my self care. Health and wellness is key. And that can be a beautiful journey. I’m starting my weight loss journey. I am in love with the Pink Pilates Princess aesthetic. So I am trying to romanticize my weight loss journey and truly enjoy it. Losing weight for me is more about just being healthier. I need to take care of my body since it is my temple. I am not as depressed as I have been in previous years so there’s no reason or justification behind my depressed habits that I’m carrying right now. Waking up earlier, journaling, praying and meditating, doing some stretching and having a healthy breakfast. That’s just one step for me to improve. I pray to God for the self-discipline I need to truly conquer my goals this year.

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Pink Holy Girl 🌸

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Traveling Fashion & Entertainment lawyer✨🌸

My new career goal is to be a traveling fashion, entertainment, intellectual property, and sports lawyer. I think people sign so many bad contracts and I want to help aid young models, authors, sports players, and musicians all arts.

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The feminine urge to fall in love with the color pink.

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Stop trying to humble yourself or downgrade yourself to make other people feel better. That isn’t right. You are smart. You are educated. You are full. You are enough. You are worthy. Who told you that you were anything less than amazing, not God. So stop. Stop downgrading yourself as a daughter of God. That is rude to downgrade the masterpiece that is his creation. God said he created us in his image. Why would we knock that firm building down because other outside forces tried to blow our house down. No pick back up or just turn around and see that your house is still standing. You’re still standing. You still are reigning queen. Don’t forget it!!

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God’s yoke is easy and his burden is light.

God will never promise you something such as rest and not give it to you. Know that through Christ, you will gain true honest rest.

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The Blessing is coming y’all 🥰

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I am reclaiming my desired relationship!! I almost gave up hope but I am too young to be giving up on love. I desire to be a wife and divine partner one day. I am a divine feminine and I will have the love of my dreams. I’m not settling and I have strategy. I will win this battle for a true love. I hope to give inspiration to you about keeping your standards high and not settling but not giving up hope and faith that it takes to get what you want. Which is the best 🥂💜 — A Graceful Belle

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This is not a matter of whether not you are capable to do it, it’s whether or not you will do it. It’s up to you darling. The ball is in your court. You can call the shots hunny. God is giving you permission to rewrite the narrative of this next chapter of life. You can change if you want to. You can grow. Give yourself permission to grow beloved. It’s time to make dynamic change hunny.

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Start prioritizing wellness above all else please.

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Mother Daughter Duos are my favorite🕊🌸 ma mère est ma préférée 🤩 J’adore ma bon chéri mère

It’s a blessing to have a loving, caring mother.

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What are you willing to compromise?

In love relationships there is always a need for compromise. We live in a society that says zero compromise, but I think we are forgetting the importance of true “language”

Zero compromise is not me saying no to your high standards. No, have high standards. That’s where we do not settle for the bare minimum and our high standards are ones that align with our values and morals. But compromising is when preferences are different than standards. Standards are the line and preferences are the design. You may not get the design but you do get that perfect line. If you want what’s perfect for you, you get someone who is aligned with you, your values, and morals. I think the last persons I dated never aligned with my true values well they acted as if they were in alignment with my values and morals. However, ideally they did not match my standards when they were put through the vetting process. So I did not compromise my values or morals when it came to these suitors but I did compromise the design/preferences I have.

When I aimed for a relationship that was the preferences and the values and morals I messed it up because I compromised our shared values and morals. This is the issue. The issue isn’t that he didn’t “fit” the part. The issue lied in the fact that I did not uphold my standards for myself. This is a part of truth that I feel like is the hardest to face. I can only speak for myself but I know a lot of people could relate if they have the soul to change rather than a mind stuck on one thing and ears stuck to their own detachment from reality.

This is a hard pill to swallow, the pill that we all make mistakes so when we talk about compromise we have to bring up that—

Look at yourself in the mirror: Ask—

what areas do you need grace in? What areas do you need an understanding heart, mind, and soul to empathize or at least sympathize what you’re going through?

So back to my first question, what are you willing to compromise? When it comes to relationships, our dream relationships we typically despise the idea of letting go a piece of that master piece. But we want a collaborative piece from both artists when it comes to making a relationship. This is not a one size fits all kind of thing darlings. We want real vibrant, authentically beautiful, joy-filled love. That is healed and sealed. Signed, sealed and delivered to be yours…

For example, I’ll show you a couple of things I’m willing to compromise.

Now mind you, no one likes compromising. Like Eartha Kitt literally laughed at the idea of compromising for a man.

But if we really want a healthy love, we won’t have restrictive love environments. We will have to cultivate a space that allows the ability to breathe.

So boom here we go…

What is a Graceful Belle willing to compromise…

Time. If my man is a hard working man, I understand that time is something I will have to sacrifice. I may not be able to have him to myself all the time. But he is doing what a man is supposed to do, work hard. This isn’t isolating because as a powerful woman, I’m working hard too. So it’s a partnership in conquering the world ya know? Lol. This is a joint effort to empower the next generation. So that one-on-one time is something I will sacrifice for his goals to be met and for my own goals to be met. Of course in the beginning of the relationships you will need that time to build. But I think it’s better when you are letting both parties build an amazing empire because they are both kings and queens. Now not every relationship is a king and queen relationship. Now I’m getting into my Glamorous Academia type of content because I’m really teaching right now. Lol!

That’s just one example.

I pray that this blog post can really set someone free from their past ideologies so they can truly get what they want 😂

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Eunoia— Greek word meaning A pure & well-balanced mind, a good spirit. “Beautiful Thing”

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Soft girls are strong enough to let go and let God

if you have been delivered from a narcissistic relationship or family, do not turn back. You cannot save them because they do not want to be saved.

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222--Biblical Numerology pt.2

Biblical Numerology

22 this number is master number that connects to Jesus and the pilgrimage.

Matthew 2:2 NLT “Where is the newborn king of the Jews? We saw his star as it rose, and we have come to worship him.”

Cross reference -- Zechariah 9:9 NIV Rejoice greatly, Daughter Zion! Shout, Daughter Jerusalem! See, your king comes to you, righteous and victorious, lowly and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey.

This is to us as Daughters of the most high living God, Abba our Father in heaven sent his only son to us!!

For further research click the link below

If y’all don’t know, tumblr is like my first draft before I put stuff on my website. Y’all get it when it’s hot and fresh off the skillet lol. 👏🏽 Glory be to God In the highest🕊🌸

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Runaway

Sometimes I just want to run away. Runaway from all the promises God has for me because I know for much is given, much is required. The weight that comes with being a chosen daughter of God and understanding the responsibility that comes with it.

Matthew 11:28-30 New International Version

28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Amen ament and aments

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