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hi-this-is-permabanned · 5 months

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When, I truly felt sorry for Arnav Singh Raizada.

Arnav Singh Raizada. A mere character from an indian T.V series which only ran for about 1 year and 9 months. I know, it's been 12 years, but I don't understand this love that I have felt for this series at all. Maybe, because, there's a connection that this series' characters create with their audience? Dunno.

Here's a moment, that lasts with me to this day. When I could see a naked Battle between Arnav Singh Raizada and ASR. Beautifully depicted, when he was suddenly made a host to Preeto's wedding.

HE WAS GUILTY

He was reminded of the day he married his wife. A day where all of her relationships were put on a test, when he became a Rakshas who ordered her to be his captive. The day about which her girl friends asked, and Khushi lied. She lied that she looked beautiful that day, she lied that her ornaments were pretty, she lied about her favourite coloured lehenga, she lied that her wedding was her most beautiful day.

Arnav didn't want to be reminded of his mercilessness. He didn't want to be the prosecutor that Khushi believes he is.

HE WAS REMINDED OF

Rummaging through his stuff, looking for his file in a scattered room. Wondering, if his crazy wife has kept it hidden somewhere. He looked at a drawer, a glittery sheet peeking out. "Pagal hai..." A slight smirk on his face, disappears when he sees a reality that he keeps at the back of his mind but, tends to forget. A slip on it says, to Khushi ji, with love from, Shyam.

Reminding him, that she doesn't feel for him, reminding him that she is a betrayal. A vile woman that he fell for. And still is a moth to her flame.

Khushi came inside the room. She asked him if he was going to come outside to meet everyone. But, like always, she became the fodder to his rage. "isse pehle mai kuch kru, dafa ho jao yaha se"

HE WAS ENRAGED

What was he gonna do? Belittle her? Insult her again? Or this time, he wanted to grab her tight to shout at her not caring if her family listens. Whatever it was, he was in no mood. He threw her out of her room.

It's always him that is entitled to a place to stay, it's Khushi who needs to get lost whether it's his room or even if it's her own room. That's how it works with ASR. He wasn't going to stay here. He was calling a car to go back.

Avoiding a scene in front of her mother, Khushi leaves, Arnav was packing up when he listens to the worries of the bride's mother. He was interested, interested in the pettiness of the family that Preeto was going to get married into.

Khushi was trying to appease the Classist Mama and Mami of the groom. Until Arnav agressively says "Khushi chup ho jao". Maybe, he didn't want Khushi to appease them? But, it gets countered when Arnav next says "Jao dusri ice cream leke ao" when groom's mama ji says "aap apni biwi ko samjhaye ki bado se kaise baat krte hai" Arnav replies "Koshish karunga" I don't know what to say about this. I think he didn't even try to protect his wife here, he had bigger plans after this. What do you guys think he was trying to do by telling Khushi to shutup?

Khushi was arguing with Arnav for his uncalled rude behaviour and compares him to their ungrateful guests.

HE WAS A HERO

Arnav tells the groom to man up. Fires him, tells him to stand up for his wife to be, in his ASR way of talking. The groom realised this and stands up for Preeto and her family. Arnav saved the day.

Everyone danced, including his wife. His now, ex employee invites him to dace, Arnav complies.

HE FOUND HIS WAY TO HIS WIFE

What will a man do if he found himself in a sea of strangers dancing? He would find his way to his wife. He watched Khushi dancing and found his refuge. Obviously, a husband will follow his wife if he was to avoid any awkwardness. Dancing by his wife could save him from bearing his awkwardness alone. His wife was his obvious partner. Someone gave him a slight push and he collided with his wife. A Rabba ve happens, eye lock happens but, this time. Khushi and Arnav both were complaining to each other. Conflict obvious in their eyes.

Khushi saw the groom talking to Arnav about how he made him realise that he should man up. Arnav talked sense to him, and Khushi was left wondering, Arnav doesn't practice what he preaches. Within a moment he fills her with love, and the next, hates her.

HE WAS GUILTY AGAIN

A mother is always worrying about her kids. Garima, wanted assurance from Khushi, that she is happy with her husband. Khushi makes up a lie. Lie about her happily ever after. Arnav, is wise, he takes care of her loved ones, he gets hurt when she is in pain, he never lets her do anything by herself, she gets whatever she wants without even asking, he was the best husband.

HE WAS SORRY

The events have been a roller coaster ride for Arnav. He was feeling sorry for Khushi because, he couldn't give her the best wedding, he was mad at his wife for betraying him, then he tried to save her family's face, then he felt sorry for her again because, he couldn't be the best husband.

Now, in the pale moonlight he was left with his turmoil. He was left with conflicting emotions. He was not being nice to her. Didn't he always feel that way? Being rude to her and regretting it after? Wasn't his wife his worst enemy? Then why was he feeling so much for today?

IN THIS LOVE, NOTHING ELSE MATTERS.

When he was Ranjha, he admitted, he admitted that, regardless of everything that she did, he couldn't help but love her.

He didn't want to love her, but, watching her cocoon inside her blanket because of cold, he turned off the AC. He layed besides her, looked at her innocent face lit by the moonlight. She was sleeping peacefully now. He put his hand in her. Held it lovingly as if saying "I am sorry Khushi". And slept watching her.

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What's amazing about this episode is that, even after watching her worst possible avatar. He was capable of holding her on to himself. He was capable of loving someone, even if they have hurt him. He could not forgive her but, he could sure still want her. He was not someone, who could let go of his strong emotions so easily. His love was bigger than anything, any mistakes, any sins and any relationship. Just like he said during second marriage.

Mere pyar ko kisi suboot ki zaroorat nhi hai.

Or wakai mai nhi hai, haina?

#arnav and khushi #ipkknd #rabbave #barun sobti #arshi #sanaya irani #khushi kumari gupta #arnav singh raizada #iss pyaar ko kya naam doon #tellywood

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flwersgarden · 2 years

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Omg happy birthday!!! I hope you have a amazing time being 19 and all your birthday wishes come true!

I was wondering if I could get a ship for a elvis era? I'm a Aries sun, Virgo moon. I love all things fashion and history. I love being out in nature, gardening or walks. I love watching movies, reading and writting. I would say I consider myself a very spiritual person(i.e pagan, loves ghosts, astrology and meditation). I'm quite shy and introverted but once u get to know me I don't shutup, and I'm the mom of the friend group! Oh, and I love baking! Tysm<3<3<3

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE CC 💞🏋‍♂️💗👏💫🎂🎈🥳🎊

thank you so so so much, my love! here is my choice for you <3

i ship you with late 50s elvis!

you love gardening, being out in nature???? well buckle up because elvis is about to buy a whole ass garden for you... it's not a joke. run.

okay, in all seriousness. elvis actually love how green you are. he always associates that color with you, says everytime he sees something green he has to stop himself from screaming your name in delight. (hey, nothing dirty!)

he finds your shyness so adorable and the way you never stop talking with him comforts him in a way. he doesn't like being in quiet places since his thoughts are not very... good, so your beautiful voice filling that emptiness makes him feel so happy.

he also adores your love for history, he would be so interest! yes, tell him about how the film industry changed entertainment forever. yes, tell him about marilyn monroe's impact in EVERYTHING. yes, please, tell him every single fashion change in history and it's eras.

he would propose a fashion course for you to take, probably to be a fashion designer — he just loves how much you love fashion, he can't help it, okay?!

and he wouldn't make fun of you for being into spiritualism. he would ask you stuff about it! he is very curious so just satisfy his curiosity, you're dealing with a 10 yr old here. (he would probably get a bit scared but it's cute how he holds your hand when the flame of the candle moves, tbh).

elvis would just support you, get you anything you want to make you feel comfortable. just tell him the word and he'll do it. ;)

#olivia's special day! ⊹ㅤׄㅤִ

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they-callme-ami · 3 years

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No one:

My search history in 2009:

#shutup don't flame me #sonic #sonic fandom #sonic videos #sonic x #sonic shorts #nazo unleashed #sonamy #early 2000s #youtube #amv #cascada #everytime we touch #meme #2009

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biromantica · 5 years

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I fucking hate discourse but I'm really sick of being so casual about casual transphobic jokes because the only way anyone can do to stop the cycle, is educate. (...You're also going to run into people who's heads are shoved so far up their ass, they can't hear you through their own bullshit, don't engage, they are morons and will only anger you if you try to persuade them anything else) Discourse/rant ahead. 😒😤

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It's jokes like these that perpetuate transphobia, they don't need to be super obvious, because this is rendered the norm. Trans people will see these jokes and take them a different way than you, and won't them so funny. To conclude ANY joke as transphobic on the internet, will allow you to get flamed by hundreds for being a "stupid SJW snowflake" who's fishing to start drama and discourse. Obviously I'm not gonna attach my response to the original post, like hell I'm gonna be traced back to that cesspool.

To explain HOW this is, a man being mysognistic about women's bodies and HIS standards, and in addition, transphobia, is because her response, the punchline for the joke, is that this old cis man has a vagina he should shave, which is the equivalent of LMAO CRUSTY CIS MAN IS TRANS!!

I know it's supposed to be a "short and witty" burn but it ends up burning trans people instead. She could have gone for literally anything else, yet again, the joke is "dude has a vagina."

Cis people getting so angry at trans people who voice why a joke can be offensive to them are so fucking shitttyyy. Trans people already have a marginally high suicide rate from dysphoria and discrimination, and to tell laugh at their faces and to say to them "SJW LOL SHUTUP" has me questioning whether any empathy still exists in this world. It's almost like they shut it down to remain isolated from people who are disadvantaged, because to take it that, yes other people experience pain, not just you, it'd be overwhelming to their ego/self. We live in such a self centric mindset, helping others, means nothing as long as you are surviving. What people don't realize is that humans are literally meant to work together!! Why are you going to discriminate them? Because it's easy for you, and you're financially/mentally stable enough to do so? Hmmmm. 🤔 Just ranting about the usual, really not looking to spark any internet debates.

#tw transphobia #tw dysphoria #discourse over dinner #thats gonna be my new tag anytime i get extra and fired up like this

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