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Ideal self | PAC

I have felt disconnected from the other pick a card I was about to post, however! I will be posting it when I feel connected to it again.

Until then, I will make a pick a card on how to achieve your ideal self, how to be your own dream girl, dream boy, dream non binary person, dream non-label, I don't really care, this is all to help you become happier and more comfortable in yourself and in life.

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sections ༉˚

‐ description of your ideal self so you know this is for you

- tiny steps towards it

- what will make it work

- how to personalise it

- how long it will take

- are you already on the journey?

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— have fun!

꒰ pile 1 ꒱

clothes on a hanger, backfacing the camera

cards the hermit, three of swords, the moon, 'manifest your dreams', 'i am the presence', bee, rabbit, snake

description of your ideal self ༊*·˚

To be honest to you, I do not see much of your ideal self. The problem and solution came through more, but I will do my best to give you as much as I can.

So, your ideal self is someone that is independent, their own person, beautiful, confident, out going and sort of an angel? There is a huge sense of kindness to others and confidence in yourself, as in the you you would like to achieve.

Maybe you wish to be happy as well? I feel a lot of melancholy self doubt.

That you will never be able to achieve what you wish because it's too good to be true.

That is not true though, don't look down on yourself, your ideal self might be different, but they are still a part of your soul, they are inside of you.

Maybe you have a role model you would like to be similar to? Don't think they are better than you, you are both humans, just acknowledge you are a human too and it will take a bit to reach to the point they are at.

Sorry! This was more advice than description, I just felt like some of you needed to hear these.

tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚

So, before anything else, I do think you need to work on self love. You want to be this confident and free person, but you don't allow yourself to feel confident.

You are your own biggest enemy, starting to bully yourself each time you love something about yourself. You have to remember that ALL those mean thoughts are not facts.

They are assumptions and things you know would bring you down.

From now on whenever you have a negative thought, say no to it. Tell it to fuck off. Whatever suits you. Make it go away in a way that is comfortable for you.

When you are in a good mood and confident about yourself write down what you are confident about in that moment. On a note, journal, an app... wherever you actually want.

Now, don't read them when you are in a bad mood rather when you are bored and ask yourself why would you ever think other wise.

Doing shadow work is healthy, but make sure it's done in a way you don't take away your achievements from yourself.

Something like this would be a great step, you don't have to follow this advice if you don't want, but if you have anything similar to it you think could help you, do it!

what will make it work? ༊*·˚

Belief in yourself really. You can ask for validation from anyone, but the only person who can truly make you feel yourself and support you is YOU.

You rely too much on other people to make you feel like yourself, it's time to stop that.

They will die one day, they don't matter. They will either look at you in a good light or a bad one, you cannot depend on their validation, people change their mind quickly, but you will to live with yourself for the rest of your life. The only person's opinion you need to care about is yourself.

Practice a little self love and don't worry much about what people think.

There is a specific manifestation method that might work best for you? Pretend that you are already this person that you want to become.

Pretend they already exist, and you are just acting like them. Think of what they would do, think of what they would think and what they would be proud of.

Just do it. They would wear that cute top and be unapologetic? Do it.

If they would easily reject someone, work hard, do their research, work out in the morning, watch that show... do it.

Transform yourself, be them. Go on. Who is going to stop you? Only you can, other people who bring you down are irrelevant, they are just as insecure as other regular people.

how to personalise it ༊*·˚

Don't fall into fake positivy. You might tend to think that in order for something to work it needs to be done in a specific attitude that cannot be anything else other than cheerful positivity.

Which is absolutely not true. You can be sassy, calm, passive positive... you can do manifestation with any attitude you wish as long as you don't bring anyone down, including yourself.

how long will it take? ༊*·˚

Not as long as you would think! I am seeing four months, although it could take longer.

However I don't think it's more than two years, if you do everything correctly, next year you will be a completely different person. Just trust yourself.

are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚

Yup, you most definitely are, half way there I believe.

Thank you for your time as well as reading!

꒰ pile 2 ꒱

close up of a necklace hanging in a feminine person's neck

cards eight of wands, knight of pentacles, king of cups, ant, grey squirrel, goat, mahatma energy, creative solutions, cosmic sapphire

description of your ideal self ༊*·˚

Someone elegant, strong, responsible, hardworking and beautiful in every way possible.

Someone that is not scared to enjoy life and do so as they think it's right, someone strong who everyone adores and looks up to because they earned it.

tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚

So, surprise! You are almost there. Only almost, don't get ahead of yourself.

You need to be more realistic and socialise more.

You cannot be your higherself you achieve to be if you always do everything alone and push everyone away.

I feel like you fail to realise you aren't forced to do everything alone and you certainly don't need to be defensive each time you happen to interact with people.

There is a valid pain you have to live with, that causes you to guard yourself but if you will always assume the worst in anyone - or everyone - you will never get anywhere in life.

Loneliness can benefit some people you are just most definitely not one of those who happen to grow from it, rather, it will worsen your mental health. It's not something you should just shrug off.

As well as the king of cups and goat shows that you need to stand up for yourself more. You can do this in an educated and good manner. You don't have to be violent.

Use the words you know can be handled maturely, speak with your head rather than your heart, you seem to lack realism and be full of idealism.

It could be hard but you look at life with a lot of negative feelings instead of trying to help your self out.

And when that's not true, you take it too far, you set the standards too high. It's time to change that.

what will make it work? ༊*·˚

Other people. I know, you find that sucky.

However, sometimes there are certain things you need to take onto consideration which are hard to do on your own. In these cases you need to keep your ear open and your mouth shut.

Now, don't just listen to anything anyone says. Listen to your family or your friends who you trust, they trust you too and that's for a reason. Connect more with the people you have a strong bond with.

how to personalise it ༊*·˚

I feel like your self growth journey and shadow work needs to include some sort of visualisation or representation.

Make it in your aesthetic. No seriously, that could help you be more motivated to put things together and listen to yourself.

how long will it take? ༊*·˚

2 weeks - 2 months, you got this.

are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚

Definitely dare I say towards the end of it.

Thank you for your time as well as reading!

꒰ pile 3 ꒱

flower pattern beige plates

cards five of cups, the lovers, nine of pentacles, eagle, snake, ladybird, divine potential, rose-gold cosmic pool, unicorn portal

description of your ideal self ༊*·˚

This pile happens to be the one that thought of a love related question even though they knew they weren't supposed to, correct?

You just want to be over a heartbreak, while I feel like for the most of you this is a romantic one, for some of you this can be related to a friend. - Also, please stop crying, they aren't worth it. You and me both know the person was an asshole. -

Basically you want to just be over it and have more love in yourself rather than just changing your whole being, correct?

tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚

First of all, wash your face and go to eat a fruit. I don't care how many times you heard this and how moody it can make most of you, you heard it because that's what exactly your body needs at the moment.

I know you want to get over that person, so just first write down all your feelings to them and then destroy it.

Yes, it's a dumb and overrated advice which some of you might have heard often, but it can really help letting your anger out.

Also, most of you really just needs to be alone, you don't have to be with your friends 24/7 or over share to anyone you can. Allow yourself to heal, to think about it alone without any influence. You know your own situation the best.

But don't make any rash decisions. If something is out of impulse don't do it.

what will make it work? ༊*·˚

You. You will make it work. In order for that to happen you have to believe in yourself, love yourself more than the person who you lost.

At the end of the day you need to stop worrying about what they think and what they say, how you can have them back. Five years from now it won't matter.

Just be yourself. This person is dragging you and bringing you down lower and lower in life, they are holding you back from true happiness. I mean, this reading was supposed to be ALL you but they affect your subconscious so much they take away all your light. Do you want things to be like this forever?

I know you can do this, you are an unique person full of love and you don't need anyone to convince you otherwise.

You just gotta start seeing that yourself too, you don't need anyone to make you a whole.

how to personalise it ༊*·˚

Just do all the things you love doing and all the things you wish you could have when you were limited.

Be yourself, watch the things you love and rant about your interests. I promise you it's fine, no one will be mad and no one will tell you to stop doing that. Just don't be scared to do the things that bring you happiness.

how long will it take? ༊*·˚

There is no time period I got for this, everyone's healing journey in this pile will be very different.

are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚

None of you are to be honest, or in the very very baby step beginning.

Thank you for your time as well as reading!

꒰ pile 4 ꒱

flat pink pearl ballet shoes on a table

cards three of pentacles, knight of pentacles, the tower, pig, whale 2x, pool of christ light, mahatma energy, pure intentions

description of your ideal self ༊*·˚

Someone academically - or in work terms - confident, someone who achieves their goals easily and maintains a healthy balance in all aspects of their life.

Someone who never has to worry about succeeding because they already can do anything and everything they have already set their mind to.

tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚

Stop being so egoistic. Yes, it might sound harsh but that's what the problem is currently.

Your ego is way too high which causes you to be way too ahead of yourself, thinking you have already achieved something when you were never sure of it and you get destructive when you didn't meet your own expectations.

You are too sure of yourself and that's why you never achieve what you want only get very close.

It's okay for you to be confident but you need to know that everything has a balance, which you lack. In order for you to be able to focus better to be the best version of yourself you need to acknowledge your mistakes and learn for them, not ignore them.

If you are religious you should connect with your God/Goddess.

what will make it work? ༊*·˚

Your religion! You definitely need to ask guidance because you are spiritually disconnected from your true form if that makes sense to you.

Even if you are not religious it's still fine to talk to angels or whoever you might find comfort in.

The bottom line is to connect to spirituality so you can have a wider view on what you truly want.

how to personalise it ༊*·˚

I think you know this the best! I think everyone in this pile slightly differs, so you all need to figure this one out! Sorry.

how long will it take? ༊*·˚

Like half a year? No longer than 6 months, but you don't need to worry.

are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚

Not yet, but nothing is stopping you.

Thank you for your time as well as reading!

꒰ pile 5 ꒱

clothes on a hanger, front facing the camera

cards four of swords, the empress, king of cups, hyena, hyena, badger, divine potential, create your own vision, violet flame

description of your ideal self ༊*·˚

There is no energy of your ideal self coming through since you already are it, there is just one giant step you need to take which you might be afraid to do due to the judgement of others, it's something you fear.

tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚

Don't listen to anyone that's negative. You are not dreaming too big, and you are definitely not going to fail.

You are being guided and trusted along the way, your spirit guides are positive you can do this and you shouldn't be scared of any opportunity you come across because of some words others might say to you.

Sometimes they say it exactly because of that, to bring you down. Don't trust it, listen to yourself.

what will make it work? ༊*·˚

Listen to yourself, trust yourself and shut out every negative thought.

That's all you have to do, don't be afraid to step forward. Trust yourself, you got this.

how to personalise it ༊*·˚

I feel like there is a manifestation method involving talking out loud or mirrors which a lot of you thought about doing but never really tried before.

Go for it. Experiment with it.

Do what you think will benefit you the best. It's okay.

how long will it take? ༊*·˚

Really not long, a few days, a few weeks... just the amount of time your Intuition is telling you it will take.

are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚

Yup, you just gotta learn to not be afraid of change, to get to the finish line because you seemed to stop right before it.

Thank you for your time as well as reading!

꒰ pile 6 ꒱

ballerina dancing

cards six of cups, four of cups, queen of wands, archangel lavender, seraphim seraphisa, archangel joules, ascension gift, enlightenment, new opportunities

description of your ideal self ༊*·˚

Someone that is no longer sensitive to the hurts of the past, while they recognise it they don't let that stop them from living in a way that will be empowering.

tiny steps towards it ༊*·˚

Set up habits for yourself which will allow yourself to be healthy. Just small things at once.

If you suffer from depression make a list of small things you need to do, like brushing your hair or teeth.

Don't set up a time limit or a schedule, just acknowledge it. Do it when you know you can, I believe in you, you should too.

If you don't have depression of course you can apply this however it suits your situation and pain, just don't put pressure on your soul please.

what will make it work? ༊*·˚

Looking at it from a different perspective!

You can forgive people if you want, but that's not what I meant. No one should receive your forgiveness if you aren't ready, what I just mean is that you should look at it with the eyes of someone else.

Not a different attitude, but a different state of mind.

Pretend to be someone else for a minute, or two. What would they do in your situation? How would this person comfort you? I mean if should be whomever, but I advise it to be someone you love or look up to.

Just think of how they would help you heal, and take small steps towards it.

how to personalise it ༊*·˚

To be honest, this pile is someone I want to be gentle with, you all have been through hell and worse, and I am not sure if everyone will understand the things I say but I know this will apply to everyone; Give yourself time.

Even if its hard. Don't force yourself to heal, only allow.

You need to give yourself time and make sure to know that everything needs to happen at your own pace.

You define what is good for you, not your worries.

how long will it take? ༊*·˚

This is a different journey for everyone, but I am not going to pretend this is easy because I feel like there is a lot of trauma here. For most of you 2-4 years.

are you already on the journey? ༊*·˚

Yes, in the beginning, but that's okay.

Thank you for your time as well as reading!

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