#theymab

[neopronouns]

flag id: eight flags with 5 stripes, with the third being slightly larger than the rest. the top left flag's stripes are faded blue, dull light pink, white, cyan, and blue. the top right flag's stripes are pink, dull light pink, white, cyan, and blue. the upper left flag's stripes are faded blue, dull light pink, white, light pink, and bright pinkish-red. the upper right flag's stripes are pink, dull light pink, white, light pink, and bright pinkish-red.

the lower left flag's stripes are faded blue, dull light pink, white, light green, and green. the lower right flag's stripes are pink, dull light pink, white, light green, and green. the bottom left flag's stripes are faded blue, dull light pink, white, light purple, and indigo. the bottom right flag's stripes are pink, dull light pink, white, light purple, and indigo. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

hemab | hefab shemab | shefab theymab | theyfab itmab | itfab

anon asked for alternate itfab and hefab flags and i figured i'd make alts for all of these flags to match! they use the amab stripes from this flag, the afab stripes from this flag, colors from these pronoun flags, and purples for it/its pronouns (inspired by these flags).

tags: @radiomogai, @genderstarbucks | dni link

#hemab #hefab #shemab #shefab #theymab #theyfab #itmab #itfab #amab #afab #he/him #she/her #they/them #it/its #my flags #my edits #flag edit #flag combo #flag redesign #pronoun flag #new flag #mogai flag #mogai

[genderstarbucks]

Hemab | Hefab

Shemab | Shefab

Theymab | Theyfab

Itmab | Itfab

Villainpunk, also known as evilpunk, is a punk subculture dedicated to the reclamation of demonization, a rejection of the social norm of goodness, taking pride in identities that carry a stigma. It can be shortened to vilpunk.

#villianpunk #vilpunk #evilpunk #he/him #she/her #they/them #it/its #hemab #hefab #shemab #shefab #theymab #theyfab #itmab #itfab #needs id

[craycraybluejay]

I'm just gonna start calling people theymab till they realize that being referred to by your agab is a particularly fucked up version of midgendering

#theymab #ok fine you want to be transphobic i will play ball #same with degendering. ok ur pronouns are they/them now too have fun. #i am SICK of people walking all over us #i like trans women but if you randomly reference someones agab against their will and invent slurs for people like.. #its fucking annoying how many of you just let someone talk to u like that just bc they claim 'more oppressed' title by some ideology #u can say black people are more oppressed than latinos but if u call them slurs and are racist ur still fucking racist even if ur #'more oppressed' #your token oppressed status does not make your bullying and hate and discrimination not that #youre still a bully and bullies deserve to get hit back #literally the only way someone will stop bullying you ime is strike back physically or otherwise #ignoring them or 'laughing it off' or going full doormat just makes them do it harder bc they think they can get away w it #the reason i wasnt bullied? because someone tried to fuck with my property and i very near punched them in the face #and purposely caused a scene #and you know what? no one ever touched my shit or said rude shit to me again. everyone got very kind and civil #self defense is all about losing the guilt smart bullies will try to put on you so you dont fight back #nevet ever let someone walk all over you or your friend

[mephorash]

this has to be a psyop to make us look worse. this is real life bait

#buzgie ❁ #trans #people want to find excuses to rage at trannies so bad #its kind of pathetic watching them flounder around #i doubt any actual tranny was involved with this either #maybe a theymab idk

[mosquitinho]

met a theythem whos also an artist that dropped out of art school like me tonight plus they put irmãs de pau on the aux+ i put Linn da quebrada + my gf put Sophie and also Her Original Music which was good as Fuck and we danced we talked we fooled around we made stupid henna tattoos on eachother.I love my fat beautiful trans life

#theyre a tattoo artist wlas well and their work is so beaitiful im getting tattoed by them for sure . #the theymab theyfab alliance . the way all the nbs had 3-4 letters #3-4 lettered name. #bro im getting sober piterally rn and realizing im making no sense here wtf am i talking abrt

[katrafiy]

Hiya tumblr! Let's have a talk about bioessentialist enbyphobia, transmisogyny, and how to make sure transfeminine people, enby or not, feel completely unsafe and unwelcome at your events. First take a look at this group description, and then lets get into it.

First some context. Those of you who know me know about the kinds of clubs I go to. This screenshot was taken from a local event page, and I've blocked out their name because in the months since this event was hosted the group has updated their description to be more inclusive.

Seeing that description, I avoided going to events hosted by that group.

"But Kat, why? You're a woman and it says women are allowed!"

It also implicitly lumps all nonbinary people who were assigned male at birth with men and calls them males.

So why is this a problem for me? Well, if this group sees all AMAB nonbinary people as "male" then it says a lot of things about the ways the see trans women.

Many, and I would venture to assume most, trans women know well the feeling of our womanhood treated as conditional, subject to immediate revocation without warning.

Spaces that are "Women and AFAB exclusive" are often rife with this, and often lead to a lot of really gross and abusive power dynamics where transfems get treated as second class to anyone who was assigned female at birth.

(Side note: Gretchen Felker-Martin did, I believe, a masterful job of portraying this sort of dynamic in her book Manhunt)

If you are a trans woman in one of these spaces, you quickly learn that you are on the thinnest of ice.

Laugh a little too loud? You're male.

Sit or stand a little too close? You're threatening.

Smile at the wrong person? You're making other people uncomfortable.

Transfems, in these spaces, quickly learn that standing up for ourselves in the face of flagrant abuse is verboten, and will be met with swift and decisive punishment and exile.

I personally don't like the word "theyfab" and don't use it. I'm writing this thread to hopefully help people better understand the social dynamics that were being addressed when that term was coined.

It was coined because transfems are forced to navigate a community of things like "afab only" apartment rentals.

It was coined because transfems constantly have to listen to other trans people implicitly describe us as disgusting, hideous freaks.

In short and in closing: consider that the reason why the term "theyfab" exists and "theymab" really doesn't probably lies somewhere in the fact that the sort of person who would call someone a "theymab" doesn't need to, because they *already* just call AMAB trans people "male".

#transmisogyny #disk horse #seriously though the afab only rental with the trans flag in the pictures #like you can just say you hate trans women its okay lots of other bigots agree with you and will cheer you on #enbyphobia #bioessentialism

[effemimaniac]

I think it's extra funny when ppl who rail against the term theyfab r like "how would u like it if we started calling ppl theymabs" bc it's like yea implying transfem ppl are weaponising their proximity to manhood is exactly the kinda thing a theyfab would do lmao

[chimpanzeedotcom]

Cobson Griffin: ooookay what the actual chungus is this? This is like if tomoko waaaas from OHIO! 🤣

Theymab Elliot Rodger: HEY! Don’t say that about her…

[mist-sterious]

this is who infighting benefits btw.

theyfab and theymab are literally t/rf terms, we shouldnt be weaponizing them.

#transphobia #transandrophobia #transmisogny #transunity #transunitism

[fruitflavoredchapstick]

Hot take but I don’t think trans people should be calling other groups of trans people derogatory terms. Like if u unironically say shit like “theyfab” or “theymab” you’re transphobic and a loser idgaf.

[genderstarbucks]

AMAB Nonbinary | AFAB Nonbinary

This is only for nonbinary people who wear their agab with pride and identify with it in some way, only to be used by the individual themselves and not used against anybody who doesn't want it used on them

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #nonbinary #amab nonbinary #afab nonbinary #theymab #theyfab

[craycraybluejay]

its rly fascinating that when i want to talk about a specific brand of transphobia im an asshole for not phrasing it like a PR team.

but when baeddels are actively transphobic its "just talking about the transmisogyny they face" and its actually just fine that they use slurs meant to degrade and misgender to refer to trans men + use porn terms to talk about us despite saying that using porn terms to talk about them is transphobic and evil + oh they didn't mean it like that.

if i try to talk about transphobia its immediately "piss on the poor website" where every word is under criticism. but on the opposite end even using slurs or being openly transphobic earns some cheers and, well, rare opposition.

i didn't even tag my post with common searchable tags,, y'all just want to be mad because it's a lot more comfortable to see trans men under attack.

if you criticize a few trans women for transphobic behaviour that makes You transphobic for criticizing them. if they call you slurs and other above mentioned things they are not transphobic bc ofc its impossible to be transphobic to trans men.

#i legit dont know any of these people #yet they want to tone police a random fucking post i made after seeing something super fucked up #it is so frustrating #i literally have not seen this happen on any of the wildly transphobic towards trans men posts #like it genuinely boggles my mind that #they can use 'theyfab' as a slur but if i tried something like 'theymab' or 'dickgirl' i'd be covered in angry internet mob for weeks #why? because even people who aren't being blatantly transandrophobic just don't care about transmasc people #because it's not fashionable to care and it won't give you internet virtue points #i know a trans woman who's seen shit in baeddel spaces and talked about it. i know what i am talking about #honestly? she probably knows more than i do. and the things ive heard are dismal #im fucking tired of transmasc and trans men issues being treated as trivial and unimportant #and transfem and trans women issues being treated as most important to the point that No One Is Nearly As Oppressed Or Matters

[pezpenser205]

i wish everyone who uses theyfab/theymab a very Please Realize That Theyre Slurs Invented By 4chan And Stop Using Them

#op

[deirdreskye]

Ishtar gave us theymabs so that trans girls who get scared of men can still know the taste of unestrogenized man-flavored semen

[coughloop]

youre not be a theyfab tho. You’re a theymab.

Actually I'm an nb trans woman. But nice job showing how narrow your view of gender is!

[effemimaniac]

what does theyfab/theymab/theycab mean? (serious question)

theyfab: a person who uses they/them pronouns and was assigned female at birth who leans on their perceived proximity to womanhood because of their gender assignment to exclude or more generally be weird about trans women and nonbinary transfems. kinda hard to define specifically which is why I think it gets misused at times but I guess that's why it's a word.

theymab: the made up inverse to the former

theycab: I think you're just making this one up to be silly