#why is it full of gay ppl

[shrimpfriedeggs]

jillma... jalma...... whatever their ship name is

#va11halla #my comfort game #jill stingray #alma armas #jillma #my art #clenches fist why did they make her straight in a game full of gay people #update ppl who dont like them please get out my tags thanks <3

[charmac]

thoughts on the people harassing glenn and rob on twitter from the macden fandom? they gave us so much s16 and ppl throwing it in their faces by tagging them and asking if they hooked up irl

Context:

Don’t care how famous they are, how old they are or how married they are, it’s literally never okay to directly tag and try and out someone. You said it, that’s harassment.

And what’s the end goal here? Like at best they don’t see it and you just look like an asshole, at worst they do see it and feel extremely fucking weird about it. At like, extreme worst, if either of them are queer, you drum up enough weirdos to back you (the Heartstopper kid situation) and you force one of them to out themselves.

This pisses me off the most because, like, it’s all fun and games to call MCD their ‘failsonas’ or whatever, but Glenn especially hates people comparing him to Dennis. How is this any more ‘ok’ than commenting on instagram that he’s D.E.N.N.I.S. System-ed Jill? (Hint, it’s really not). In both cases, it’s people trying to apply the character to the actor to entertain themselves and justify their fantasies of Glenn’s real life. Dennis is not. Glenn.

Again, what’s the end goal here? Like what’s the ideal situation you get out of this if one of them sees this and, god forbid, responds? This is such an icky sticky thing to even want to touch on publicly.

So they give us gay content and in return they get Reddit complaining about it and Twitter demanding they ‘admit’ that they’re actually gay themselves. Huh. Wonder why we haven’t gotten anything explicitly gay on screen from Mac yet? Huh. What a mystery?

#iasip #rcg #stop fucking globbing in public it’s embarrassing as shit #god are you people TWELVE? #once a 12 year old directly asked me if i was gay in front of a ton of people and i was like. i had to have a convo w them immediately #about why it’s not a question to ask someone in a room full of ppl #but like. you’re all supposed to be adults!? #how do you not realise what a major fucking line this crosses #in 2023!??? #god forbid one of them. . is actually queer they’re NEVER coming out with this shit #can these people please read the experiences of any gay man in hollywood ever. #PLEASE? #yeah this works me up #as a gay man !! who is a v private person! #sorry this is just a personal rant at this point sorry #but yeah seriously fuck off withcthis shit

[gaydogmarriage]

ppl are always depicting cyno in fanon as a comic relief annoying idiot partner to tighnari that cannot read the room and is always making him angry and yeah he doesn't have the best social skills and doesn't understand other people that well, but he knows that. and he also knows tighnari well enough to know that if he truly was annoyed with his behavior to the point of getting angry, he would shut that shit down real quick. he's not the type of person to just sit there and take it if he's genuinely bothered, i think. cyno's just putting himself out there without letting himself be paralyzed by his own shortcomings or insecurities, and it's pretty clear tighnari doesn't want him to repress himself either.

if anything, i can see tighnari being the one with an annoying habit in private that he has 0 self awareness about because he's so used to being the one dealing with other people's bullshit that he may not realize when he's the culprit for once, and cyno is too much of an unbothered king to say anything about it, and too madly in love to stay annoyed for long lol

#cynonari #its especially baffling when ppl make tighnari be annoyed with cyno playing his funny card game and being goofy when at the end of his sq #tighnari shows up and sees that cyno isnt being his goofy self and immediately prescribes him playing cards to feel better. doctor's orders #and he plays with him himself. why would he participate in and encourage his friend's hobby if he hated it #i think they both smell like autism and both deal with socializing by projecting a lot of confidence and being bluntly honest #but in tighnaris case the way he expresses himself makes the confidence kinda mask the autistic vibes while cyno's puts them on full displa #basically i think cyno is fully self aware about his own autism swag he just doesnt feel like hiding it because that would just #make everything worse and more awkward #it rly sucks when people reduce their differences to tighnari being the smart mature adult and cyno being the idiot unserious manchild #feels like one of those situations where people are moreso applying fandom tropes that have been flanderized over time onto characters #without actually considering those characters as characters #i need to stop thinking about gay dog men and go to bed #occurs to me i should probably tag this as the ship in case someone's just looking up the characters and wants to filter it out? #idk tumblr's inconsistent about when it throws my posts into the spotlight and when it lets me stay in my corner

[thrilling-oneway]

Also shout out to the person who said in the tags of that airi post who said that half the debates in this fandom are over gender or sexuality because that’s true and it pisses me off immensely

#all the debates over whether VBS is gay coded or not and that their fans are biphobic if they don’t like m/f vbs pissed me off enough to #make me leave the fandom one of the times i left it. it’s also the reason I dont really like interacting with the fandom anymore LMAO #the thing is I don’t think it really matters lol #like mizuki is canonically trans but no one else is and I genuinely don’t get why people get so heated when ppl don’t have the same gender #hcs as them like it’s a HC not everyone has the same one as you. obviously this happens with airi a lot but with the boys being hc’d as #tfem as well? like I’ve seen people get SO up in it about them being called boys and it’s like full respect for your HC but #…they canonically are? #sexuality is a bit more complex bc while nothing is canon there definitely ARE things implied and since nothing is canon I don’t think it #really matters what ur HC is but at least be able to recognise what’s in the game? like kohane and minori showing attraction to multiple #girls but never to any guys. or an being canonically interested in kohane romantically or bad dogs being implied soulmates #and like it doesn’t matter what you ship or HC but loads of ppl try to claim this doesn’t exist for the sake of winning internet arguments #which is just So stupid #specifically i see this in the wxs fandom a lot over ppl HCing them as not mspec. especially with rui like ive seen loads of arguments #caused by people pointing out that he is actually gay-coded and then people trying to counter that. usually with shipping as evidence lol #and like sure ship him with emu or nene who cares but the coding is there so maybe don’t pretend it isn’t #this fandom is weird there’s like two sides to it of ‘everyone is bi and if you don’t HC that or like m/f ships ur biphobic’ and then #there’s ‘every character should be exclusively gay and if you disagree ur homophobic’ #both of them are wrong #also i doubt clpl gives a shit about any of this #tag ramble over this fandom annoys me

[pansyfemme]

height of my night is my dad talking abt the gay bars in town and being like ‘oh that ones a straight meat market!! naked guys dancing on tables and all that!’ and then i was like. isnt the one you used to go to. and he was like. yeah

#before my dad met my mom he was deeply in love with this trans woman who did drag shows at this local gay bar #and he would go every night. she died of aids but he still speaks abt her so fondly its sweet #but this particular club is what he calls ‘full of old fashioned queers’ #the windows were still painted so no one could see inside type old fashioned. #and he talks abt it so fondly but also he’s like. a bit more open abt why he visited so often #now my brother and i are older and also gay #men lmaooo… #my dad straight up told me the best cruising spots one time. that was fun #i think a lot of time when ppl think of older bi men they think of guys who identified as straight or gay then settled down and #figured out when they were older but my dad’s known he’s bisexual since he was #15. and like. he was rlly in gay culture at the time #and its tbh nice hearing abt it. its not like. #super graphic what he says but i acknowledge that my dad had other partners before my mom. some of them men. #and its just like kinda cool to have that elder queer prescense in my family #of course my moms the same way. she talks abt her life working on all #women farms. and living in san francisco and . #being in this lesbian scene in the 80’s and its so cool.. #i will admit. i didnt know my parents were queer until i had already come out #but they never. hid it from us it just never came up. #but once it did it was rlly nice to have that perspective. #bc my parents are from a different era of queer ppl it was hard to get them to understand transition at first #bc my dad didnt really know the difference between trans people and ‘crossdressers’ bc a lot of ppl considered themselves as both #when he was in the scene. #but they learned and its just nice to have multiple generations of queer ppl in the family #its comforting. #knowing that my brother and i are educating them as much as they are to us.

[berrymeter]

i understand ppl steering clear from musicals for all kinds of reasons but goh youre missing out

#perth.txt #falsettos is literally so good. listening to it in full again rn & fucking hell its glorious #i forgot so much of this stuff but its so good. theyre all flawed ppl who suck (not jason hes a kid & he rocks) but theyre so good. #theyre so attaching. their relationships are so interesting. fucking obsessed w jason's bonds w mendel & whizzer #ESPECIALLY jason's bond w whizzer. i love how things are said implicitly. #like jason saying his father's 'not a man at all' & you could think it's bc marvin's gay but NO! it's bc he cheated on trina! #& it's made obvious by how much jason loves whizzer & cares about his opinions! marvin's gay lover! #& jason & mendel!! trina & marvin both think jason is too smart or too idiotic depending on the moment #but mendel!! the shitty psychiatrist (he is SUCH a bad psychiatrist. its funny.)! he thinks jason is Reasonable! he actually respects jason #& hes not a good psychiatrist for jason at all which is WHY its so good that he becomes his step father! hes a much better step father! #& JASON IS SO GOOD!!!!! AUTISM BE BLESSED MY BOY IS THE BEST CHARACTER OF THIS FUCKING MUSICAL #GMGRGRGRGRGR TEARING THIS APART

[boylikeanangel]

you all need to open your eyes to she/her ed I'm so so serious about this. its not even that difficult to understand honestly. people acting like he/him is "correct" for ed but when you think about it we actually dont know if ed identifies with or against he/him pronouns so far, we just know that other people use he/him for ed. we never actually hear ed call herself "he" to my knowledge. whenever she uses "he" to refer to herself its never actually referring to ED, it's referring to blackbeard or another personality like jeff at the party. she refers to the kraken (another facet of herself) as "it". there's actually no textual evidence to prove that ed thinks of herself as a he. the ONLY time ed actually refers to herself it's when she says "be careful what you ask your god for, she might just answer", which only makes sense when you realise she's playfully referring to herself as god here. ed HAS referred to herself with she/her pronouns in the show, this is not some wild concept picked out of thin air! at the very least ed does somewhat identify with she/her pronouns even if she's also ok with/identifies with he/him. that at the very least is textual

#i need ppl to understand that pronouns do not equal gender they are just a form of presentation #and ed for whom gender is such a performance already. it makes sense for her to play around with pronouns #even if youre not fully convinced by the transfem reading. ed using she/her IS textual and its not a stretch to believe #shed enjoy using them more often or even full time over he/him. its just presentation #this is the most barebones analysis of eds gender and if it still makes you uncomfortable when i call her she #then i think you might need to unpack why you have such a kneejerk sort of ick to the idea of a gay man being called she #its literally just pronouns babe. pronouns shes used for herself in the show. why is that such a wild concept #our flag means death #meta tag #transfem ed #wails from the abyss

[bixiaoshi]

its weird to me that ppl use china as a scapegoat to be homophobic

#i just saw some comments abt genshin and why aether is the ''canonical twin'' and man. #'china has laws against lgbtqia thats why picking lumine is weird' like ? no u just dont like wlw #'it's weird if female characters flirt w lumine' LIKE ???? #im not saying lumine is confirmed wlw but its weird to me that ppl use the argument that lumine isn't ''canonical'' bcs hyv is chinese and #since china ''has laws against lgbtqia'' she cannot be the main twin #like. honkai impact 3rd exists and its full of gay couples these ppl just want to be homophobic and not recognize it #jo.txt

[gawayne]

ughh SORRY BUT I HAVE TO SAY IT the people you meet in engineering are just by and large so unpleasant I hate it here

#DONT get me wrong there are at least three very cool eng students here #but fuckign. come on we have to admit it. the structure of the program makes you worse and more annoying #out of stress out of competitiveness whatever #yknow what I’ve never heard in english class or art club? earnest discussions of crypto #elon musk fangirling #clique-forming based on whether you have a fucking pilot’s license #using gay as an insult like it’s 2014 #physical assault #etc #christ be normal for a bit!! talk about something that doesn’t make me wanna kill myself! #tbh think the issue might be that smart mean rich kids either go into mech/elec or medicine #and there’s nowhere else in the country for aero freaks to go so they all end up here. revving their audis at 10pm and cutting off busses #no joke every few months I’m like huh I should try to make friends in this program. and I go to a social event or talk to someone or w/e #and then I remember that they are not fun to hang out with because I don’t invest or like cars or want a plane or drink #and I am not willing to sit thru that discussion until someone brings up something more interesting. usually there isn’t anything #see our capstone group works bc it’s full of adhd bitches. today we talked about eggs for an hour #ughhhhh. genuinely I think it’s weird how many ppl don’t have hobbies beyond gaming drinking and investing and I fundamentally can’t get #along with them and that’s why all the cool engineers are found in art club #or maybe I’m just insane and annoying who knows

[perenlop]

yeah sorry for all the reborn hate ive been spewing today its just that im honestly really done w this game’s bullshit but im literally at victory road so if i stop now then what was it all for

#i dont expect to be done soon bc apparently they made victory road several hours long and full of contrived puzzles #bc it would not be reborn if it didn't do that bc reborn is difficult and being difficult inherently means well designed #i honestly feel like i could make a whole essay on this game which feels mean bc its afan project at the end of the day #but like story wise at least im being reminded of that ableist lion show on youtube #and how ppl think its fine bc its like dark and edgy and has gay lions (that are ableist) #and also has a lot of abuse apologism #i dont think reborn is quite as bad as that but im tempted to just like. really dig into why reborn just does not work as a story #the same way that one video essay by detective calico took apart said lion show #echoed voice

[orcelito]

I love openly identifying as gay/vaguely bi & still openly talking about potentially being attracted to men. Like I Do lean towards women, but I also can be attracted to men, & I'm not gonna deny acknowledging that to myself

#speculation nation #and there r gonna b All kinds of ppl saying 'if ur bi u cant identify as gay 😤' but get this #im nonbinary. possibly even genderfluid. it all feels gay to me. #which is why i kimda vague hand wiggle when ppl ask my sexuality irl #like. bisexual I Guess. it's the word that makes the most sense to them. #i spent a long time with internalized biphobia feeling like i was gross for potentially liking men too #literally let a relationship fall apart when i was 19 when some1 i started dating as a girl turned out to be a trans guy #and i was like 'FULL support for u. but also . Oh No . the Man...' #post brought to you by me wearing a very flamboyantly gay sweater to the work party #but still openly talking about my dating history with both guys and girls #& no one said a thing about it. that was pretty nice.

[kavehater]

Thinking about the fact that my ex hs classmate probably thinks I’m gay

#why ? cause I had mentioned about what happened with me and Eris as if experiencing that makes me gay LOL #but that’s not the main reason I think ; it’s cause I said I’m scared of guys . . . #like sorry bff I’m not a ( redacted ) like u 😇🫶 #btw it’s insanity cause ms girl disses gay people to me and I’m like uhh yeaaaah ( sobbing ppl are so weird ) #then after going on about such vile things tells me it’s okay to tell her the truth if I’m gay or not HUH #first of all babes I owe you none of that info seeing as to how foul you are second ; let’s say I WAS what makes you think I’m daft enough #to come out TO YOU when you were so hateful girl take a hike #ykw I pull girls + boys young + old them knowing how I look + without knowing so bbg I think you need to just hush ( 🙄 ) #istg girl comes at me with full audacity and gumption ; she’s never spoken to me since then actually lols #she sent me a dm then unsent it #and we never spoke again ✨😇🫶🏻 thank GOD. #dora daily

[235uranium]

bangs my head against the wall

#☢️.txt #i genuinely find aspec communities insufferable. only aroallo spaces are okay but theyre #usually dominated by cis straight men and like. ok good for them i do not relate tl a si #to a single thing here! #and some aroace complaining about ppl seeing ace and/or aro as modifiers. bitch it is a fucking modifer for me #if you get to call them full identities i get to call them modifers! why can no one here stand to have a single fucking disagreement! #'oh its the aphobia' shut the fuck up biphobia hasnt made bi spaces turn into this nightmare #where two ppl seeing their bisexuality in different ways causes them to downplay another #if you say ace/aro arent modifers you are doing the same shit you complained about. #theyre modifers and identities #'but these other-' shut the fuck up! plenty of ace/aro people see lesbian/gay/bi/ect as modifers. #whats with certain aroace ppl and being incapable of understanding their experience is not universal #why do i even try. my personal experiences with being aro are so far outside the norm that it barely matters #i need to just accept that i fit in more with trans bisexual spaces and kink spaces than aspec spaces #btw i know there is discourse around bisexuality but its definitely not to the level i see with aspec spaces.

[alle-ni]

My thoughts about goodomensverse (I'm clinically insane) (my personal opinion) (long post)

Book Crowley:

- absolute disaster

- lonely boy

- grumpiest

- he's so in love with Aziraphale but didn't even realised yet

- a bit dumb sometimes ngl

- very tired

- he's trying so hard save earth and everything he knows but everytime he tries to explain why it's always AZIRAPHALE

- sometimes he's like... your old gay uncle, the old gay uncle of the family except it's a 6000 years old gender fluid demon

- HISS LIKE A SNAKE GANG

- got called dear once and them died (figuratively)

Radio Crowley:

- flirty

- "Humm have you ever seen me in a dress~~??"

- he's like flirting with Aziraphale 24/7

- 0 patience this man is a BOMB

- if Aziraphale ever EVER got slightly flirty with him back he will EXPLODE

- smartest of them all, he's very intelligent

- HISS LIKE A SSSSSNAKE GANG

- he's so in love with Aziraphale and it makes him SO FRUSTRATED

- his Aziraphale is the hardest one to reach, maybe this is why he's so deliberately obvious and direct with him (he's resilient, he will never give up)

- he's like a tsudere teenager collegial except he's a 6000 years old demon with serious issues

- not called dear yet poor soul </3

TV Crowley:

- SILLY

- he's the dumbest of them all, sorry 😭

- red hair

- he's so in love with Aziraphale and everyone notice it's SO OBVIOUS

- he's the most affected by The Bookshop Burning ™ event

- the only one who got to kiss the angel, good for him ig, or sorry, idk

- anxiety bomb he literally (literally) EXPLODE

- strongest soldier bc his Aziraphale is IMPOSSIBLE

- got dumped 2 times more than the others someone pls help him

- the most brave tho

- doesn't hiss a lot :/ free him from this madness let him hiss

- he's like a puppy with giant yellow eyes except it's a 6000 years old snake demon that lies all the time

- protective as hell this man wouldn't let anyone near Aziraphale if possible

- got called dear but at what cost??????????????

Book Aziraphale:

- Anxious all the time, religious trauma except the god is your father and he left you and never talk to you again and the guard angels are your siblings and they want you do be dead

- He's so soft he wants so bad to comfort Crowley but he's really hard to reach

- his Crowley is the most difficult of all of them, he needs to circle him a lot to get in touch

- this man got called names so often I don't think he even cares anymore

- he's very nerdy

- he's the calmest of them all

- really chill

- everyone is so mean to him for no reason

- he has 1 braincell tbh and it's really bad bc his Crowley is not that brilliant too they're both stupid sometimes

- he really REALLY wants to be with Crowley and Crowley only, he sounds almost obligated to be with heaven

- he is really kind to others even when they don't deserve

- he called Crowley dear once and then implode

Radio Aziraphale:

- full of himself

- bastard

- the most closed and oblivious of them all

- he tries to play cool with Crowley all the time (he's slowly getting insane and someday he will jump on this man)

- he's the most self sufficient one he barely holds on Crowley to anything and they're pretty independent

- Crowley can say shit like "Miss me angel~~??" and he would keep a bored face and not react at all (he screamed with the walls 4 hours later)

- he's also a tsudere collegial but he at least try to look cool and composed in public

- he's the Aziraphale that most believes in heaven, he's sure they are good and selfless and the right side

- he's not so brilliant tbh but he got a lot of spirit

- the most active Aziraphale ?? He really put his hand in the dirt and do the things alone

- the most angry and bad tempered of them all, bro scream "WE ARE CLOSED LOOK AT THE DAMN SIGN" when ppl barely touch the bookshop door

- he has a lot of patience with Crowley, not deserved tbh bc he thinks it's his personal job to get in Aziraphale's nerves

- overall he is polite

- he's really proud of their "arrangement" there not only one chance he let go without saying that

- he likes to provoke Crowley sometimes too but not as much as the other way around

- if he ever call Crowley dear he will explode

TV Aziraphale:

- bitchiest

- this man need to be sedated what the fuck Aziraphale

- most nuts of then all he's CRAZY

- he's the most up to do shit with Crowley they're insane together

- he doesn't let Crowley rest he is flirting and being cute and hitting on Crowley all the time

- he's so obviously in love with Crowley its embarrassing

- he's the fruitiest he's the entire salad

- the most... indulgent, if I can say, of them all

- more like an employer of heaven, different of book Aziraphale

- he's the only one with almost white hair

- he got kissed but at what cost

- he's the most intelligent of all of them how can he be this dumb

- he loves little things about earth and humans and life and he seems to be the Aziraphale that most love EARTH itself, like, the life, the humans, the food, the little pleasures we have, the little time of happiness we have between all the shit that is happening... he really loves humans <3

- he's conflicted about heaven, he seems to know that there's something WRONG with how heaven works but still doesn't understand what exactly it is

- "oh but saving me makes him soooo happyyyy~~~"

- overall kind and sweet, in a excited way

#good omens #good omens 2 #aziracrow #crowley #Aziraphale #radio omens #good omens radio #good omens book #thats my opinion #more like some thoughts i have been collecting since im hearing radio omens #not really accurate #does this count as character study???? #lol I think not #maybe i have a preference for radio Aziraphale i wrote so much more about him and ended up erasing it all bc it made me look insane #shit its 2 am I'm so sleepy