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apenapaperandadoofus · 3 years

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hiii 🥺

school started around a month ago for me and its been stressful so may i ask for some comfort headcanons of the rfa + v, saeran and rika and how theyd comfort a reader who is struggling with adhd/add and feels useless because they cant get anything done and keep getting distracted bdkdjhdjevejjdheue

Ahh I got chu, it happens to me all the time with literally e v e r y t h i n g

AND can I just say I luv how we included Rika in here :3 I absolutely love writing her character when she's actually mentally and emotionally stable, she would be one heck of a partner 😆

RFA+minor duo+Rika comforting a stressed reader (Part 1!) I'll post the other parts soon!

Zen:

The two of you had been fairly busy with work and school, only having dinner time to spend together. Still, Zen didn't fail to notice that you seemed to be feeling a lot more down lately.

He tried asking about how your schoolwork was going, to see if you wanted any help, but you just quietly mumbled a no and changed the subject.

Zen couldn't help the frown that appeared on his face, but he decided to not say anything until you were ready to talk. He still made sure you were taking care of yourself though, and tried to help you with any chores around the house.

Eventually one night, he was on the couch, trying to memorize a few of his lines, until you came in the room quietly and straddled him, hugging him tightly.

"Y/N? Is everything alright?" He asked, his tone worried, and you only sighed, tightening your grip on his neck.

"I can't focus on school. I keep trying to do my work but I just...I can't. And the project is due in a few days and I haven't even started. Zenny...I don't know what to do." You sobbed and Zen felt his heart clench. He pulled you away gently and held your face, caressing your cheek.

"It's alright. I'm glad you asked me for help. I know how hard school can be sometimes, how stressful it is, but I want you to know that you can always ask for my help alright? Now why don't we go and try to work on that assignment of yours, I'll be more than happy to help you."

You smiled. "Really Zen? Thank you. I love you."

He chuckled and kissed your nose before standing up and carrying you towards your bedroom princess style. He tried his best to answer any questions you had, but it turned out he didn't really know about the subject and you had to call the RFA for help, BUT you managed to finish the work in time and got a pretty good grade! Zen spun you around in circles when you told him, and then he kissed you to congratulate you!

Yoosung:

Oh the stress it is to be a college student. Especially if your partner is a college student too, and the two of you always get distracted by one thing or another.

Yoosung and you had been together for a while, and you managed to make him want to change, to become a better person. He started doing his assignments in time, and stopped playing as much LOLOL. For him homework seemed to be easy as heck.

For you though? You wanted to throw yourself out the window. Everytime you sat down to do your work, you suddenly got this urge to read, or use or phone, or paint or even learn how to play the cello for some reason. You seemed to want to do anything else but homework, and so, your once messy house suddenly became spotless. You had been cleaning for hours, everytime you finished something exclaiming that oh, the kitchen is actually pretty dirty, or the floor could use some vacuuming.

Yoosung had been a bit stressed from his work to notice at first, but at one point he looked up from the table to see you furiously mopping the floor for the 5th time that day. He wouldn't have thought anything of it except that, you had an expression of anxiety and stress on your face, and he also knew you absolutely hated cleaning, so clearly something was wrong.

He stood up and gently took the mop from you. "MC? Are you alright?"

You slowly looked up at Yoosung and let out a forced chuckle. "Of course I am! Why wouldn't I be?"

Your boyfriend raised an eyebrow and looked around the house. "You're cleaning."

"So? It was getting dirty and I-"

"MC you hate cleaning. C'mon, what's going on? You can talk to me!" He had a determined look on his face and you felt yourself smile as you saw how adorable he looked. But then once you remembered why you were cleaning in the first place, your smile faded and you sighed.

"I'm just....I haven't been doing any work for school. Whenever I try to, my mind suddenly wants to do another completely different task, I just can't focus on anything and that is only making me feel worse because I know that the work is due soon, but I still haven't done anything and it just- it makes me feel so bad and stressed so now I'm just panicking about everything!" You started pacing around the room quickly, speaking faster and faster. You kept doing it until Yoosung get to grabbed you by the shoulders.

"Whoa whoa, alright let's just calm down, just take a deep breath alright? Breathe in, and breathe out, we can't solve anything if you're panicking....are you feeling better now?"

After you did what Yoosung had told you, you slowly looked up at him and nodded. He gave you a reassuring smile.

"Good! It's normal for you to feel stressed like that...I understand, I've been in your position far too many times to count. In fact, if I had a dollar for every time that's happened to me then I'd be richer than Jumin"

You giggled and Yoosung chuckled. "Anyway the thing is, next time this happens please tell me, alright? If you ever feel stressed or anxious, just know that I'm here for you. You're an amazing person, you're so smart and beautiful, this is just a little bump on the road. Now, why don't we go and start working on your project hmm? I promise I'll be there to help you, and make sure you're working of course!"

You hesitantly nodded, still a bit nervous about the work, but once you started, you began to feel a bit more confident. Yoosung was there, every now and then letting out some cheers and just helping you on any questions you had.

Thankfully you managed to finish your work in time, and once you were done Yoosung rewarded you by giving you a free cuddle session!

Jaehee:

That woman knew what was going on before you could say anything. She was all too familiar with the look of stress and anxiety from having far so much work.

You were in the kitchen, baking brownies and cookies non-stop. She knew it was something you normally did whenever you were stressed, so she placed her hand on top of yours and said. "MC? Is everything alright?"

You immediately stood up straighter and nervously looked at her. Then, you bit your lip, knowing you couldn't really lie to her. "Uhm....I'm...I'm really not. School has really been taking a toll on me, and I can't seem to do any work. Jaehee I...I feel so useless right now..." You tried your best to breathe and to not break down in from of Jaehee, who was now holding your hand tightly.

"I see....is it about that big project you had been talking about last week? I can help you, if you want....listen to me MC." She gently raised your chin and smiled. "You're an amazing person, don't ever say that you're useless ever again. You're the very opposite of that in fact, you're so important to me and the RFA, I honestly don't know where we would be if it weren't for you. You're a very smart and capable person, and I'm sure soon enough you'll have all of this figured out. Why don't you start working on the project while I clean up over here, and then I can help you with anything you need, is that alright?"

You nodded and Jaehee gently led you to the kitchen table and helped you get your computer. Whenever you'd feel down of unmotivated Jaehee would grab your hand and squeezed it, then she'd help you with anything you were having trouble with and honestly? Jaehee was an amazing teacher, and soon enough you managed to get back on your feet.

Once you were done, the two of you made a victory night! You both baked together and watched musicals and danced around the room. Jaehee also made you some very delicious brownies when you got back your final grade, since you nailed it!

Jumin:

Jumin had just finished signing the last of his documents, and he leaned back in his chair. Ever since you moved in to the penthouse he started working a bit more from home. Of course there'd be days where he'd go, but once in a while he took a few breaks (this man also needs to rest once in a while)

Which is why, he had noticed that lately you had been feeling pretty down. School had just started, and Jumin could tell you were a bit stressed, and super anxious about school.

He was thinking of ways to help you, when suddenly he heard a knock on the door. He looked up to see you opening it a little and looking around, as if asking for permission to come in. He nodded and you quickly walked over to him, straddling his lap.

"Is everything alright love?" He asked, as you ran your hands through his hair.

"Yeah everything is fine. It's great. Really nice. Yup."

He raised and eyebrow and pulled you away so you could look at him better. He looked up at you, and you tried to look anywhere else that wasn't him.

"MC...." He caressed your cheek and glanced at you with a worried expression. "...There's something bothering you, isn't there? Why don't you tell me, and I promise I will try my best to fix it. It pains me to see you like this."

You sighed and slowly looked up at him, biting your lip.

"Well...." You sighed. "I.... I really don't deserve you Jumin...you're so...do amazing and incredible and I'm just...I'm so useless. I can't even do my school work right...." You ducked your head and looked at the ground, feeling ashamed.

Jumin gently lifted your chin and held you tight. "MC....you...how could you say that?" You looked at him in surprise and he only shook his head, and then leaned his forehead against yours. "You are the most intelligent and beautiful person I have ever met. It's so amazing that I get to be with someone as extraordinary as you. MC, you are not useless. Not at all. You are a very capable person, and you never give up, no matter what. School may be really hard right now, but I promise that you will get through it, and I'll be beside you the whole time if you need someone to lean on." He softly kissed you and you immediately felt a load of your back disappear. Itfelt so good to finally tell Jumin how you felt.

"Jumin...." You whispered against his lips, and he smiled.

"My love....everything will be alright, and if you need my assistance please don't be scared to ask. I'd be more that happy to help you."

Yoy wrapped your arms around his neck and smiled. "Oh Jumin! You are so adorable, I feel like my heart will explode from how much I love you! I'll take you up on that offer!"

"But of course my services don't come for free..." He smiled and you chuckled, shaking your head.

"Fair enough, what would you want in exchange?"

He pulled you tighter against his body and whispered in your ear. "I want to stay like this a little longer. Let me hold you for a while."

You blushed and then the two of you pulled away to kiss.

After a while, finally the two of you got down to business to defeat the awful project your teacher had assigned.

You had to admit it was a bit hard, since everytime Jumin would explain something to you you'd suddenly get distracted by how handsome he looked, and you'd pull him in for a kiss in the middle of an explanation.

Somehow you were able to finish the project and you got a good grade! When you try Jumin he picked.you up and spun you around, kissing you passionately. Then he'd smirk and grab you by the hand. "You deserve a prize after all your hard work."

And then he'd lead you to your room and the two of you would cuddle close in bed, the covers around you.

And you'd watch cat videos because thou shall not sin in this house.

(I'm just kidding you totally banged afterwards.)

For Saeyoung I already made a lil one shot with the same situation jsjsjsjs so I'll link it here! For the other characters they'll be posted soon since I don't want the post to be so long sjdjdbdbd

#mystic messenger #jumin han #saeyoung choi #mysme #yoosung kim #jaehee kang #jihyun mysme #saeran choi #choi bois #mysme zen

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gendzl · 3 years

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How do you thoroughly and efficiently clean?!

This is a binge-cleaning post! I’m someone who prefers to suffer for a few hours straight than to work on a rotating schedule and feel like I’m constantly cleaning something. If you’re like me, welcome.

For an education in bite-sized cleaning and building more permanent neatness habits, please read Unfuck Your Habitat by Rachel Hoffman.

This answer got, uhm. Long.

First, pick up and put away anything that isn’t where it’s supposed to be. Papers in drawers, books on shelves, clothes in dressers and closets and hampers, shoes wherever you keep your shoes, dishes in the kitchen, cat toys in the toy basket, etc.

Depending on the level of dirt, you may need to gather your courage in addition to your cleaning products.

You will need:

dry cloth for dusting (m i c r o f i b e r)

damp cloth for cleaning gunk off crap

extra cloths for the kitchen and each bathroom because those get super gross and you don’t want to spread that dirt elsewhere

Note: use your judgment for which rooms/items will need a dry or damp cloth, but in general you’ll want damp cloths for kitchens/bathrooms and dry ones for the majority of things in living spaces. Keep whatever cloth you’re not using in a pocket.

vacuum

mop and bucket and preferred floor cleaner for the type of floors you have

some kind of bleach-y cleaner for the toilet, toilet brush

Mr. Clean Magic Erasers look and sound gimmicky but they’re actually tiny little miracles. Use these in kitchens and bathrooms.

a multi-purpose spray cleaner (Trader Joe’s has an amazing one, or you can make your own) or different hyper-specific cleaners for counters/mirrors/glass/wood/granite/stainless steel/whatever.

Please don’t let this list intimidate you! Idk your life, your house, your budget, or your needs. Do yourself a google! Get what you need, ignore the rest!

Just don’t mix your chemicals.

Put on some music!!! Cleaning in silence is just being left alone with your thoughts, which is terrible. Make it fun! Do a little dusting dance!

Clean a room top to bottom, left to right. Or right to left. Pick a direction and stick with it. This keeps you from missing anything, and also from dirtying something you just cleaned because you drop dust on it from something up higher.

You can clean one room at a time or do all the dusting and then all the vacuuming followed by all the mopping, etc. I prefer doing everything that needs doing in each room before moving on to the next. Pick your poison, but develop a routine to save time.

Either way:

Stuff on walls -> stuff on shelves and furniture -> stuff on floor -> floor. Clean doors as you encounter them (dust the little ledges on ~fancier~ doors, use a damp cloth to get smudges off around the door handles). Dust your windowsills. Swipe at the top of your baseboards every month...ish.

Pick up each item on a given surface, dust it or wipe it down with a damp cloth, do the same to the space it sits on, and replace it.

If an item is sitting somewhere visible and is a material that can reasonably be cleaned, you need to clean it.

Unless it’s books. Please don’t dust each individual book you own. Remove the dust gathering along the tops of your books and on the spines whenever you see it, and do the empty bit of shelf in front of the books each time you clean.

Moving large pieces of furniture to clean underneath them is at most a biannual activity. Love yourself and don’t needlessly hurt your back. Who are you trying to impress? Nobody. And if someone is coming into your house and lifting up your couch to count the dust bunnies, they deserve to be horrified by how many they find.

Kitchens: Wipe down the counters and appliances (and under the small appliances! the biggest rule of cleaning is You Have To Pick Things Up). Use a damp cloth to get smudges off the cupboards, suffer thru doing the stovetop, wash the dishes you brought to the kitchen earlier and then clean the sink itself. Don’t forget the inside of the microwave.

Bathrooms: Spray the shower/bathtub with your preferred cleaning product, put your bleach-y toilet cleaner in the bowl, clean the counter and sink and whatever you keep your toothbrush in, do the mirror if it needs it, spray/wipe down the shower/tub and the outside of the toilet. Scrub the inside with your toilet brush. Do Not forget to flush it before you pee.

If you want to get creative, you can do what I do and clean the shower walls while you’re in the shower to actually shower. It doesn’t really save much time in the long run, but you’re already in there so it feels like it does. Spray before you get in, do your usual shower routine, wipe everything down, exeunt.

Vacuum everything. Hardwood floor? Vacuum. Linoleum? Tile? Concrete? VACUUM. Only using them on carpet is limiting yourself. Shake rugs out straight onto the floor, put your vacuum on the lowest height setting, and go conquer your home in a third the time. Brooms are for when you spill a box of Cheerios or cut your hair in the bathroom at 3am.

After you vacuum, mop any floor that is mop-able. Start at the end of the room furthest from the entrance and work backwards, otherwise you’ll have to walk over wet floor to get out. This seems obvious, but experience tells me it is NOT obvious and you won’t think about it until you’re trapped in a kitchen turned slip-n-slide.

After you’ve touched basically every item in your house, you’re done! Sit for a while and enjoy the sense of accomplishment. Go outside to get the mail and come back in to smell the lovely clean smell and really notice the difference in how clean it is. Threaten to stab whoever ruins the pristine state of your kitchen.

Repeat every 1-2 weeks for best results, maximum recommended time between cleans is 1 month. It’s way less work and takes much less time to maintain a state of cleanliness than to start over fresh each time.

Top to bottom and left to right. Every room.

You can do this!! Like everything else, cleaning efficiently is a skill!

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