#(i think that counts)

[skraeet]

jellie gets all the kisses

#mcyt #mcyt fanart #gtwscar #goodtimeswithscar #gtwscarfanart #dlsmp #grian #grian fanart #desert duo #scarian #I think that counts

[robynator]

lila, who is considered the smart one. lila, who is the first one to learn how to read. lila, who is the older sister that is seen as the leader by her sibling. lila, who is unafraid to take initiative and set high goals. lila, who would never hurt her younger sibling for standing up to her. lila, who values her family above everything else

phoebe, who was considered the smart one. phoebe, who was the first one to learn how to read. phoebe, who was the older sister that was seen as the leader by her sibling. phoebe, who was unafraid to take initiative and set high goals. phoebe, who ripped her younger sibling's jaw and tongue out for standing up to her. phoebe, who valued her ambition above everything else

#going insane about this #burrow's end #burrow's end spoilers #dimension 20 #tw gore #i think that counts #tw mild gore

[sirskinnyjeans]

i keep forgetting to post my art here myyyy bad

#homestuck #homestuck art #artwork #hs art #digital art #dave strider #dave strider hs #hs dave #dave hs #so many dave tags #scene kid #i think that counts

[starglowwos]

tommy: —you can speak out. one at a time. tommy: if anyone speaks over anyone else, you will be kicked out of here, and banned. tommy: is that understood? scott: yes oli: yesowi owen: yes tommy: you all- okay. who said ye- tommy: scott, you're out scott: [scoff] tommy: littlewood, you're out martyn: I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING! tommy: who else. you all said ye- tommy: i don't like the look əyə. ("of you") martyn: [puts on a TV player head] tommy: i l- god, you're hot tommy: alright—

#rats smp #inthelittlewood #tommyinnit #c:/sgos/clips #suggestive #i think that counts #c:/sgos

[mbrainspaz]

What do you mean I’ve never been a mother? I’ve dated at least 7 men.

#I think that counts #personal problems #ace #dating is the worst #it’s not that serious nobody hurt me

[artfool]

Crawling my way into the hermitcraft scene on tumblr. Hey guys!

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Do not repost my art! Reblogs appreciated!

#the fool draws #mcyt #hermitcraft #grian #watcher grian #grain fanart #hermitcraft fanart #evo smp #I think that counts

[idontreallywanadotheworktoday]

Yo here's my essay I wrote about mental illnesses/disabilities being portrayed in media, if any of y'all wanted to read it. It's around 1500 words, so it's a bit to read. I got a 98 on this though so I'm kinda proud

With so many people advocating for their disabilities online, why is it that other people, people without these disabilities, want to police how someone’s disability makes them disabled? Not to mention, people online tend to only post the “quirky” part of their disorders, leading people to believe they either want to have a friend with their disability or that they themselves want/ have that disability when they do not. Sometimes they also end up adding more stigmatization to already demonized disorders, such as Cluster B disorders (Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), etc.). While some people do a great job of advocating for themselves, people need to see both the “quirky” and the serious side of a disorder in order to truly understand the disorder they are idolizing/ demonizing.

One of the bigger issues with only “quirky” symptoms being shown online is that people end up idolizing the disorder shown, either wanting a friend with the disorder or they want to have the disorder themselves. This has led to the rise of people faking serious disorders online, either because they see the attention people with the actual disorder are getting, or because they just truly believe they have a disorder they do not because they only see “quirky” symptoms and they end up pathologizing these symptoms to suit them, often times to negative effects for themselves and the people around them. As a result, many people tend to worry that people putting themselves online with a disorder, with either serious or “silly” symptoms, are faking it for attention to spread misinformation. A good example of this could be the Tik-Toker known as Tics and Roses. She has become very well known for faking an illness to gain sympathy and to sell more of her stuff from her yarn business, going as far as to film herself “ticcing” while packaging her orders to get more orders. This has made people think that anyone that has tics is now lying or calling them a grifter. However, all this does is make people less likely to show more serious symptoms of their disorder, thinking they will be called fake for exposing the serious side of their disorder. Another issue is that if they do not convince themselves they have the disorder, they want a friend that has the disorder, much like “having a gay friend,” which was a big thing a couple of years ago, and still is now. I know when I mention that I have ADHD or tics, people have said to me “Oh I’ve always wanted a friend that has that” or “oh I wish I had that” which is extremely weird to say to someone with a disability. I once had a friend that purposefully triggered my “cute” tics to get a good laugh and go “oh you’re so cute,” not knowing how it affects me. This is because people mainly see “cute” tics on social media and believe that those are the only symptoms that a person can have, causing people to hide parts of themselves in order to not be treated like a zoo animal. However, by showing other, more serious symptoms online, it can help people be more open about their disorders. Even worse, people want a friend with a disorder or disability until it starts affecting their friendship or just affecting their friends. For me, I can tell when people get a bit uncomfortable when uncommon or “serious” symptoms occur, such as rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) or emotional dysregulation. Many people just tend to think “your disability/disorder is fine until you show symptoms.” Overall, people convincing themselves they have the disorder or that they want a friend that has a disorder/disability ends up hurting people with the disorder/disability in the long run because it makes us feel as though we are just an object to entertain or to be a diversity friend.

            Another big issue is with people that are convinced they know a lot about a disorder they do not have because they have watched enough videos about people that do have that disorder. This results in them giving unsolicited advice about how they think the issue could be fixed. While some people may appreciate the sentiment, most people with that disability have heard this advice several times before. I can assure you that we have tried whatever you are telling us to try. For example, people with ADHD, like me, are often told to “just get a planner.” While people telling us this do not mean any harm, they may not know that we have tried those multiple times. I can tell you that every time I get a planner to make sure I don’t forget things, guess what I forget. That’s right, the planner. Another good example of this can be telling chronically ill people “Well have you tried yoga? That helps me sometimes” While you may think you are helping, remember they deal with this every day of their life, where you probably only deal with it for a month at most. You do not have the experience to tell people how to help their disability, one you do not have. Another example is “autism moms,” the mothers of kids who have autism. They insist on making all of their kid’s autistic struggles about them and talking over their autistic child, even if their child can speak up for themselves or is an adult. Some of them go as far as to say to give their kids bleach in order to “get rid” of their autism. Overall, people without a disorder seem to believe that they know everything about a disorder from a very small amount of info they have seen, which is normally a “sillier” side of the illness and insist on speaking over people with the real disorders, causing harm to these already marginalized communities.

While showing more serious sides of a mental illness or disability can help break stereotypes, it can sometimes further demonize certain mental illnesses. An example of this can be with Cluster B disorders (BPD, NPD, etc.). These disorders are already heavily stigmatized and demonized. With NPD, they have a whole other term, narcissistic abuse (Which is just thrown around when the person is just being a jerk). And with BPD, when people share awareness people will purposefully start hating them based off a stereotype of these people being dangerous. This causes unnecessary hateful comments and people purposefully triggering them, causing them to lash out (a symptom of their disorder), so they can turn around and go “see, this person is bad because they just ‘randomly’ started yelling at me” which isn’t the full truth and furthers the demonization of people with these disorders. However, these people are just a small amount in the overall online world. It is understandable that seeing this happen to some online advocates may make others less likely to share their serious symptoms. But I believe that we should still share them even if some people are rude about it. Plus, people also will hate you for only sharing positive symptoms as well, calling you a poser or a fake, so if they are already mad, why should you care what they think.

I believe that we should share more serious symptoms of our disorders, no matter how well known or stigmatized they are. This can help combat the amount of people that wish they had the disorder just because they think it would be fun, and could help people understand the nuances of this disorder as well, so if they have a friend with it, just by chance, rather than looking for a friend with a disorder, they can be more accepting that this is just a symptom as opposed to a failing in being a friend or some other reason. It can show people that insist on speaking about what could help that we have tried that and that we know more about our disorder than they do, as well as showing why that advice does not work. Plus, it can help demonized disorders that already show some negative affects also feel less alone, showing that every disorder has a “bad side” and that we are a community instead of each kind of group fending for themselves. It can help show that while some disorders have “silly” symptoms, it is still a serious disorder. I hope to see people being able to show their whole disorder in order to help one another out and help spread better awareness than we have now.

#actually mentally ill #actually tourettic #mental illness #i mean its a bit long #its almost 1500 words #crompson's real life #i think that counts

[onboardsorasora]

this is a little sad question, but I'm wondering how Maxy, who loves Daniel, will react when he finds out that his lover is gone just like

 If all your AU's Daniel disappears in the universe, it's like being deleted by the universe

Sorry if the grammar is bad, English is not my native language

Oh no! :((((((((((( this one's achey (also, please don't ever feel the need to apologize to me for your languages/grammar. I'll refrain from going into a passionate rant about languages, but just know that its not something you have to do or worry about with me)

Ok lets run through them and I'll attempt to not use the word depressed for all of them lol

Enchanted Max would be like spiritless, he'd feel empty and sad. Because Daniel brought so much light and colour to his life and then its just....gone.

Sponsor Max would go feral. Possibly enraged and take it out on someone else. He'd be livid, big fucking mad.

Harem Max (well, all the boyfriends) would probably stay together to console each other truly.

Horny Wag Max would probably waste away a little, Gemma and Lindsay would try their best to like distract him but whats the point if Daniel isn't there? What's the paddock without Daniel? the Daniel room without Daniel????

Alpha Max would focus on consoling the grid kids so that he doesn't have time to break down or be sad for himself :(((

Tennis AU Max would probably drive mad for a while before picking up padel. Tennis would be too hard emotionally for him

Mob Wife Max would probably kill people. Like actually.

Adore you Max would become like a machine. No emotions, doing whatever jobs they give him so he doesn't have to think.

Reclamation Max- assuming this is before they reconcile, he'd wonder if he should still be angry. it would war with his grief. post reconcilliation he would just be depressed. probably slip back into the old coat of being angry all the time and treating people badly.

is that everyone? oh gosh thats a lot of AUs

#anonymous #answered #maxiel multiverse #i think that counts #all the max's

[delphiniumblu]

#Spider-Man #Star Wars #Peter Parker #Luke Skywalker #uncle ben #obi wan kenobi #ben kenobi #is this something? #Also Obi-Wan is technically Luke's Uncle Ben because he did say anakin was his brother #after cutting off all his arms and legs but still #I think that counts #shout out to my bois who watched their Uncle Ben die and then became heroes in his memory

[unluckyerror404]

Zloy's cool maybe you guys should watch R3spawn [please]

#zloyxp #r3spawn #mcyt #<- ig #art #I actually doodled this back when the video about the new fallen kingdom song came out but I finished it while watching r3spawn so #I think that counts #Please watch r3spawn

[stellacaerulea]

Leaked DMs from the Justiciars command

#shining nikki #incorrect quotes #i think that counts #shining nikki zoey #shining nikki caprico #i mean #as long as it works it works

[antisocialcactusfriend]

Oh, to be a young woman in the late nineteenth century sending beautiful handwritten letters to my woman crush as my parents become concerned about whether or not I may marry a man in the future as I steal an orchid from my mother’s flower bed.

#this was a strangely vivid dream I had last night #I guess my subconscious wanted to dream about women #Anyways #nice dreams go brrrr #historical fiction #i guess #sapphic yearning #I think that counts #lesbianism #please don’t attack me #I’m just gay

[aruemon]

hi, this is the WORST WAY TO DEMONSTRATE THIS

#kirby #body horrow cw #i think that counts #better safe than sorry #science #this is genuinely disturbing

[equinoxclangen]

What's the first thing Pigeonkit is gonna do now that he's all alone?

He doesn’t seem to have many good options

#clangen #equinoxclan #pigeonkit #squirrelgraves #tw animal death #maybe? #I think that counts #warriors ocs #warrior cats

[trashogram]

Idea: A slasher movie where the *final girl and the slasher are love at first sight but it doesn’t make a dent in the victim tally bc everyone is doomed like a twisted Romeo and Juliet.

*Used as a gender neutral term.

#slashers #slasher x reader #I think that counts #it would just be wild to me #especially if the killer is a supernatural entity like Jason or Pennywise or something #it’s so confounding and doomed to fail but the journey is immaculately entertaining

[aclownsclownery]

Nothing strengthens a bond between a gay man and a lesbian than talking about their favorite fictional men together

#I dont know why this is common place #this also applies potentially to a gay man talking about fiction women #I think that counts #every sapphic I know has their fictional man #I just put lesbian here because the joke works better