#(not my mom's fault

[maxgicalgirl]

Being a “Fun Fact !” kind of autistic is all fun and games until you get halfway through sharing an interesting tidbit and realize that it probably wasn’t appropriate to share in polite company and now you have to deal with the consequences :(

#autism #neurodivergent #adhd #fun facts #GOD I’m such an idiot #anyways now a 10 year old is out there looking up swear words online and it’s all my fault :( #I got so excited by the fact that I knew a fun fact #that I didn’t stop to think that maybe not everyone knows that fun fact for a reason :( #it’s like explaining how to successfully bury a body at a book club #or explaining the dangers of Scientology to your sister’s boyfriend the first time you meet him #or debating gay sex positions with your best friend in front of your mom #no matter how much I wish to be a beacon of knowledge in this world #sometimes there are things others just don’t want to know #and consciously that’s valid but the autism ? I does not care

[femmeconomics]

hate to say it, but part of ending the stigma around sexual assault means not assuming every woman blames herself. yes, female socialization encourages it, but that doesn’t make it a given, and the goal of all of these campaigns is to eventually diminish the proportion of women who do blame themselves. it is entirely possible, and increasingly common, for women to experience sexual assault and not feel shame or guilt, which we should be happy about. but instead, there are only so many times you can hear “you know it’s not your fault, right?” before it sounds like “it was your fault”. and there’s only so many times you can hear “don’t blame yourself” before it sounds like “you should blame yourself”. because it feels good to say, doesn’t it? sure, you don’t believe she’s guilty, but you do believe she should feel guilty, so that you can disabuse her of the notion. just something to consider.

#i think we are very pleased with the idea of female shame #even among people who genuinely do not believe women are at fault for being assaulted #you are still meant to pay the penance of suffering and self destruction #god fucking knows why #“i got mugged” “aww don’t blame yourself for walking around with those fancy shoes and visible wallet okay? it’s not your fault” #you’d be like girl what. i didn’t fucking say it was my fault but your mind sure jumped there fast 🤨 #“my mom died” “wow. do you feel terrible crippling shame for everything you’ve ever done wrong in your life? #up to and including causing your mom’s death? because that would be totally wrong if you did” #like how could that possibly be an appropriate response #genuinely i think the feeling that i was going completely insane post-being raped because no one would believe i didn’t blame myself #was like. solidly half as traumatic as the actual event #like. it is okay not to feel guilty and shameful. it’s great actually. you’re not having the wrong response.

[shalpilot]

worst wine mom of all time

#one piece #doflamingo #genderbends #[@ law on top of the castle] SO I GUESS IM JUST THE WORST MOM EVER HUH????? SO THIS IS ALLLLL MY FAULT?????? #geese art

[sleep-nurse]

hey, everyone. thanks for the support. i figured i might briefly explain my situation, although there's way more layers into this, the post would be way too long if i explained everything though

yesterday, after days of family troubles (or years, rather), me, my brother and my mom found out my dad died of suicide and left us with no money. we are all honestly shocked and my mom has to now find a job to survive, may i also add how she actually studied in university in russia and has all the shit to get a good job, she just doesn't have a citizenship because our dad didn't ever give a shit about giving her one in 20 years, so she has trouble finding jobs.

if you want to help in some way, my brother is taking comms and he draws dinosaurs and stuff alike, i might consider opening them too if i figure out stuff but i already stress myself with drawing for free

in the meantime i probably won't be as active as i was. i read all your messages and asks, i just really need some time to recover. thank you and i'm sorry for making you worry

#important #i'll be more active if i feel better but for now i'm just seeing how stuff goes #i'm just. we're all just. confused. and angry. and shocked. i really can't believe this #after years of showing no respect to my mom; not giving a shit; not ever helping her #he just does this? to escape it all? it seriously just. says how he never really cared about this family #i learnt to see that. it wasn't really my mom's fault. it was my dad's

[torukmaktoskxawng]

Keep scrolling if you blame Spider

Spider, who is literally still a child by human standards.

Spider, who never gave away Jake's or the Omatikaya's location.

Spider, who cares about the Sullys' safety over his own.

Spider, who didn't want any blood on his hands or a guilty conscience if he left someone to die.

Spider, who just didn't want anyone else to get hurt.

Spider, who never betrayed the Na'vi (unlike Jake but hey, who's counting that, right?)

Spider, who had to fend for himself to survive the toughest events because he didn't have an adult who would tear the world apart for him like the Sully children do.

Spider, who loves Pandora and Eywa.

Spider, who just wanted to be one of Her children because he never knew what it was like for a mother to love him.

Spider, who probably understands Eywa's whole "balance of life" meaning more than others.

Spider, who already lost Neteyam but he couldn't afford to lose anyone else in his life, no matter how terrible they are as a person.

Spider, who helped Jake save Kiri and Tuk when everyone else was still too shocked to move.

Spider, who chose mercy over violence/death.

Spider, who did what he could to survive (I'd like to see how YOU would react under such pressure. It all seems obvious and easy watching from the other side of the screen, right?)

Spider, who was likely being misled, brainwashed, and gaslit by the Recoms.

Spider, who is clearly a victim but hey, let's blame him for simply being a decent human being, right?

Spider, who likely thought he owed Quaritch after he saved him from being tortured.

Spider, who likely thought he owed Quaritch for giving him life.

Spider, who just wanted a father who was proud of him.

Spider, who has been clearly neglected by the heroes (Jake and Neytiri) but doesn't openly or verbally blame them.

Spider, who doesn't purposely threaten children's lives like Quaritch and Neytiri do.

Spider, who just wanted to be one of the People.

Spider, who wouldn't have made those difficult choices had he been properly loved and raised.

Spider, who is as easy to blame as Lo'ak for endangering the people they love (but again, no one's counting, right?)

Spider, who is clearly not a villain, just misunderstood.

Spider, who wasn't raised by the village but didn't burn it down to feel its warmth because he's not petty, not vindictive, not evil, and not a killer.

Spider, who is. A. Child.

#i am sick of seeing the exact same comments on tiktok #sick and tired of always see “its spiders fault” #like what??? #no one blames jake for betraying the na'vi but think what he did was better than what spider did #thats fucking crazy #ppl holding the labeled heroes up on a pedestal but forget that spider was literally the one who sunk that ship #ppl praising jake and neytiri for the same things they blame spider for #i hope no one is out there bullying jack champion for portraying a fictional character they simply dont like cause “its his fault” #and yes i understand neytiri went through a lot of trauma and pain #that doesnt excuse harming a child to harm his father #neytiri deserves love and support but so does spider #everyone who says otherwise is a hypocrite #neytiri didnt need to have to stoop to quaritch's level and hurt a child but she did #i hope at least kiri holds her accountable in the future because i would resent my mom for hurting someone i loved #spider avatar #atwow spider #spider soccoro #miles spider socorro #avatar 2 #avatar the way of water #atwow #avatar 2009 #avatar #james cameron avatar #james cameron #miles quaritch #neytiri te tskaha mo'at'ite #jake sully #neytiri sully #no one blames lo'ak for getting his siblings captured BOTH times but ppl will blame spider for letting his father live is crazy

[skyward-floored]

fic idea for lu where all of the Links dead bio parents are chilling up in the sacred realm or wherever and they all get together and watch all of their sons meet and goof off and are basically just the unseen cheering section

#smiles this is slightly you and lofty’s fault you made me too invested in Link parents #I’d write it but we all know the state of my overflowing wip drawer #rambles from the floor #linkeduniverse #linked universe #Warriors dad and legends dad both making bets on who gets more monsters between their sons like gimli and legolas #the moms discussing who was the cutest baby #winds parents seeing him kill all those monsters after wild got hurt: YOU GO SWEETIE #all of them watching quietly as Twilight lays near death and they wonder if he’s going to join them #and then cheering when Hyrule’s spell works and TWI IS OKAY

[rainymoodlet]

these eyes? all the better to see you with, my dear.

these fangs? all the better to taste you with, my dear.

#ts4 #ts4 edit #ts4 cas #ts4 screenshots #ts4 aliens #sim: carmen (adx-169n) #oh man i am like way too ridiculously proud of this dfjkhd #could i have finished the next arc??? MAYBE but i spent two hours on this instead mwahaha #and half of that was being picky abt the kaleidoscope brrr #meet carmen moore! (aka assassin drone x-gen model 16 genetic code 9 subdesignation N) #her moles are 100% tomie's fault brr #she DID NOT land in strangetown with her SPOTTER (masquerading as her single mom) and she IS NOT here for the EXPRESS PURPOSE of #TAKING DOWN DIVISION 47 FROM THE INSIDE #(that also just might mean from inside the general's bed cough) #she's developed alot from the original character she was (some gen 4 heir who ended up romancing buzz and happened to be an alien which #i found OH-SO-HILARIOUS as a bebe) #and now she's just my... mwah my everything #the boooys the giirrrrls they alll like carrrmen #there's a fallen ophanim in her save too 👀 but you'll meet miss salome vega later mwehehee #pls listen to the songs associated with their two personas #the ventures is the theme album for my entire strangetown save 🥰

[dearestdo3]

playing hphm in third year and i cant do this... snape rounded out all of the slytherins in the common room and the prefect said he's angrier than usual so we best behave,,

i thought mc did something to piss him off again, but then...

and now i just

#txt #IM SORRY PROFESSOR #ITS NOT EVEN MY FAULT IVE BEEN BUSY TRYING TO WOO PENNY AND PRATICING QUIDDITCH TT TT #i feel like im getting scolded by my own mom #the asian kid essential core memory

[moeblob]

You know, when I kept getting asked "so you didn't ever have severe pains before now?" in the hospital and I kept replying "I have a high pain tolerance" I meant it. However, there is only so much pain my tiny 4'9" body can hold... (aka I am sweating and in agony bc I'm getting told to use LESS severe pain meds so I don't rely on them too much and it is AWFUL)

#moe talks a lot #i was shaking earlier and despite the fact i sound like im gonna cry #and the fact that my mom can pick out im about to cry from pain bc im trying to take less pain meds #LIKE MY MOM IS INSTRUCTING ME TO DO #shes like well why arent you taking any pain meds #BECAUSE THERE ARE TWO AVAILABLE OPTIONS AND ON A SIX HOUR TIMER #i cant take both at once or else what happens to me if i hurt before the six hours is up #i have to manage them in a way that allows me to benefit from both and being told im doing it wrong #after being told well its your fault it got so bad because you never complained about pain before #YEAH NO JOKE? REALLY? I NEVER DID? because everyone acts like im too young to feel that kinda pain #oh youre hurting? just wait until youre older #and its currently agony to breathe again but that i guess is also my fault bc im trying to use pain meds #holy moly i just want to not get dizzy standing up cause wow dang #sure would be nice if the multiple incisions in my stomach didnt THROB every time i sneezed or coughed or cleared my throat #but since i didnt use much pain meds before because i would be mocked for being too much of a baby its like #welp damn now i could really use some and im being called out for being too reliant #anyway time to sleep more because that means im not noticing my pain #im literally smaller than most children and so i do understand my body size makes people worried about the medication intake #but can i please just go a day without being asked how much im taking or when i last took it or if im gonna cry #anyway sorry for the excessive rant today never really had surgery or anything so this is brand spankin new suffering

[seasononesam]

Sam in season one is so funny his ass does NOT know the horrors that are coming

#he’s like my mom and my gf died the same way and it’s basically my fault and also I’m not a lawyer my life will never get worse #and I’m like hehe 😜 🫢😌 #personal

[incorrect-hs-quotes]

ROXY: [overcooks the dinosaur nuggets]

DIRK, with his head in his hands: My nuggets are burnt. It's so Joever for us, gamers...

#submission #dirk strider #roxy lalonde #source: honestly my own mind #my mom overcooked my dinosaur nuggets and they look so pathetic #it's not her fault - she was doing other stuff and forgot about them #and they aren't burnt-burnt #but i looked at her and i told her she's the reason the dinosaurs went extinct 😭 #i was jk ofc and she knew but #also feel free to change dirk to dave idk lol #they both seem like a dinosaur nuggets type to me lol #incorrect homestuck quotes #// #mod kanaya

[cozenveil]

here's my (dummy) gothic interpretation of Team Bucciarati! I'm creating a JoJo Part 5 AU graphic novel some time down the road, but it's very rough atm. I wanna reintegrate vampires. Idk I'm too obsessed. whatever. uhhh muah

also ill try being more active askdjskfl

#artists on tumblr #my art #nonbinary #jjba part 5 #jjba fanart #jjba #jojos bizarre adventure #bruno bucciarati #bruno buccellati #bruno abgjkajfkskf #man bruno is so hot #i love bruno #anyway uhhh abbacchio is hot too #mom and dad #bruabba #bruno #god bruno is everything #aight my fault ill stop skfhks #cozenveil #cozenveil's art

[im-probably-crying-rn-ngl]

will never let anyone forget the mercedes driver and f2 star correlation

#some (my mom) might say this is cope #but it's not my fault merc is king of f2/gp2 #f1 #formula 1 #mercedes amg f1 #nico rosberg #lewis hamilton #george russell #mick schumacher #frederik vesti

[mysicklove]

i sent my mommy the super sexy hot calvin klein video and she didn’t respond 😔😔😔😔😔😔

#🔪 - mello talks too much #is this how society is #it’s partially my fault #she’s on a date #and i said #”watch this before your date. gotta keep ur standards high 💯” #LMAOAOAAOAOAOAOA #BUT THATS GUNNY #MOM PLS

[iron-sides]

shaking and frothing at the mouth like a small rabid dog. i have thoughts about the perfect court that do not and cannot exist in any language but what's important here is that you HAVE to under that fundamentally. fundamentally riko moriyama is a scared little boy who has been told since birth that he is nothing, and that the only way he can change this is to be the best: he can be the best or he can be nothing, and the default state here is nothing. and he knows somewhere deep in his gut that he will never be the best. he grew up with kevin day and saw the way kevin lived and breathed exy and knew there was something different about him, knew that they way kevin lived and breathed exy was somehow more than the way he did. and so he lied, he drew numbers on their faces he beat kevin down however he could because he could not stand to be nothing ever again. and it still wasnt enough.

#GODDDDD IM SO NORMAL ABOUT HIM!!!! WORST GUY EVER FOR REAL #DESPERATE TO FEEL IN CONTROL OF ANYTHING HE CAN BECAUSE HE CAN NEVER CONTROL THE IMPORTANT THING #which is to say he will never understand WHY kevin is better than him. because the answer is so simple and so contradictory to everything #he has ever known: #fundamentally riko plays exy because he needs to be something more than nothing. fundamentally kevin plays exy because he LOVES it because #he knows nothing else because its what he has left of his mom because he is incredibly autistic about it #and that level of love of fondness of drive of passion is not something riko will ever have #because riko doesnt love EXY #he loves BEING THE BEST. he loves the spotlight the attention the being more than nothing #this is why hes better with the media than kevin: he plays exy For This and kevin does media For Exy #aaaaaaa. anyway <3 #riko man. im so normal about him #my thots #aftg #also i think its important to understand that (i think) (to me) kevin KNOWS THIS #he knows exactly why riko does the things he does and thats why he makes so many excuses for him #because that's his brother. because it isnt rikos fault he was raised to believe he could be the best or nothing #but its not kevins fault that hes the best. and its not jeans fault he exists #<- because it was never about jean. it was never even about kevin! they were both collateral damage #of the way tetsuji raised riko #and im not totally sure how much of that jean knows ill have to read tsc again #but yeah. anyway ^-^ #kevin day #riko moriyama

[beanghostprincess]

As somebody with severe mommy issues I consider myself to be a Charlotte Pudding apologist because nobody except us understands how bad your mom can fuck up your brain to the point of doing everything she did

#SHE DID NOTHING WRONG ACTUALLY #my babygirl #she's so real so true #people always reduce her character to sanji but i love her background story and her personality #she's so deeply fucked in the head and it's her mom and trauma's fault and i forgive her for hurting sanji #one piece #charlotte pudding