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genderqueerdykes · 2 days
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if you are a trans boy, especially a teenage trans boy, i wanted to say that as a trans man in their 30's, you have my deepest respects and condolences for what you may be going through right now.
it has become socially acceptable and basically online custom to bully teenage trans boys & mascs, call them cringy, or excuse misgendering them for whatever reason. people put trans boys on this pedestal of "must perform masculinity and manhood to cartoonish degrees" even though they're still children.
people make trans boys fight for their manhood before they can even be boys. i am sorry people can be so judgmental and harsh on you. you are not wrong for wanting to be a boy. you are experiencing something wonderful. it's okay if you still want to be a boy even if people have treated you poorly, or tried to make you feel bad for being a boy. there is nothing wrong with being a boy.
it's okay if you never socially transition. it's okay if you're afraid to come out because it's not safe. it's okay if you never change your outward appearance. it's okay if you try very hard to pass but struggle to. it's okay if you wear "women's" clothing and shoes, bras, makeup, etc., it's okay if you're gay and love other men. it's okay if you're scared of hrt. it's okay if you don't want surgery. it's okay if you mainly occupy girl's spaces still. people will find every reason to pick these things apart and ridicule trans boys for, but they are all perfectly fine experiences that do not make you any less of a boy. you are the one who is in control of your transition, presentation, and state of being- you should be able to prioritize your safety over the comfort of random strangers who have no impact over how you live your life.
i've been put through this too, but later in life as i came out when i was an adult. people still try to make me feel bad for identifying as a trans man, for whatever reason they have in their head to justify hatred of a trans person. i've had enough. there will never be an excuse for how people try to excuse the infantilization and abuse that trans men and trans boys face.
take care of yourselves, no matter what age you are, if you are a trans boy, man, or masc you deserve to know that other trans men care about you, especially when people are scrambling to find ways to punch down on you. there are people who suck, but there are also a lot of people who care about you. keep your chin up. you know who you are
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dixie-the-pixie · 1 day
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chat, why does my shirt keep coming up in my sleep
the last two days i’ve woken up with my boobs basically out for anyone to grab
what boob demon is haunting me?
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ashes2caches · 2 days
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they had to kick me out of the art museum because I kept on markering top surgery scars on all the depictions of jesus
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ever-compare · 3 days
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https://christina-346.tengp.icu/ls/uVT2pBa
https://christina-346.tengp.icu/ls/uVT2pBa
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teenage trans guy here with a burning question (btw crazy ive never seen a blog like this before. you are doing wonders)
what should i resort to for binding if :
a) i have rib damage and breathing problems due to my inexperience binding and lack of research
b) have tried transtape with terrible results
c) physically cant bind with sports bras due to previously mentioned lung issues
i cant afford top surgery. im not even out to my family as a trans man, and i know i dont have to bind to be able to pass but its getting increasingly harder to be in public and pass as a man. thanks for your help if you end up responding to this 🏳️‍⚧️
Hey there dude, welcome and thanks for your support. I try and get through all of my asks, but I am doing full-time school at the same time too, so sorry for any delay in responding. Since you seem to have not seen many of these style of blogs, I'd recommend @our-transgender-experiences @our-transmasculine-experience @our-trans-punk-experience and @our-queer-experience .
This is a difficult ask and first let me take a moment to warn people against unsafe binding because of this.
Now for my advice to you - don't double down on the bad binding practices - no duct tape I REPEAT NO DUCT TAPE - I suggest trying to create an overall boxier, angular less curvy silhouette - this can be done by working out, particularly chest and other upper body exercises - or by layering clothes that have structured fronts (tshirts with large laminated design panels, utility vests, jackets with big chest pockets) Also, I wouldn't completely write trans tape off, it's a skill you can get better at with a little practice :)
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Got my first "Are you a boy or a girl?" today! I tried to play it cool and just say "Neither, actually", and then my dad kinda ruined it by saying "She wants to be both" lmao. (I am not bigender and I definitely don't use she/her pronouns, but at least he's trying lol.)
I was out kayaking and I had my rashie, boardshorts, and life jacket on, with my hair in a lil bun. I'm a little insecure about how I look in swimwear, so that made me feel happy.
It's funny how complete strangers ask you these questions. But I'll take the free androgynous gender euphoria!
I'm glad you had a good experience, but I agree, it's definitely weird that strangers ask things like that, luckily it worked out for you!
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Non-binary lesbian culture is everyone asking you how you can be a lesbian if you’re not a woman
#132 ❤️🧡🤍🩷
Lately my comeback to everything is saying, "I do what I want."
You may use it the next time someone asks this 💜
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mymymya1 · 2 days
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Would you expect this girl to have a huge dick?
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genderqueerdykes · 1 day
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you're not getting revenge on or rebelling against the patriarchy by holding trans men down, belittling us, treating us like we're demons, and not letting us speak. you're being transphobic and harming queer people. youre targeting the wrong kind of men. trans men are not the men who are oppressing you. trans men are also affected negatively by the cisgender patriarchy we live under. remember this.
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prionfromspace · 22 hours
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My Minecraft treehouse 💛🤍💜🖤 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
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nathalia06 · 2 days
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Reblog if you would date a trans girl 🥰😊
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ashes2caches · 3 days
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hold on, let me just check you for fleas real quick
*inserts entire face directly into his dogboy pussy*
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transaffirmations · 2 days
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you will make it. you are amazing and im so grateful you're here, you are important
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while i was in philippines my ma encountered an old friend and she introduced me like "this is my kid" and the friend looked at me and called me guapo (handsome)
literally cannot get better than that
That's awesome my guy!
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mangomagicaart · 2 days
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I drew them with different hair styles. It’s good to at least shake it up a bit
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apparently I am going to be related to a new child imminently and so I need a nonbinary or otherwise gender neutral word for aunt or uncle. Have any of you got any suggestions? :)
Unfortunately I don't know of any! If anyone knows, do share!
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