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#System positivity
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shoutout ro systems with no friends at all. shoutout to systems who rely on each other for friendship. shoutout to systems who cant do that because they dont get along.
also shoutout to systems who dont want friends. who dont feel the need to rely on anyone, internally or no, for friendship because you just dont want it.
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tpgk · 1 day
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Shout out to the system who ;
Have no littles in their systems
Who mainly have littles
Who have some littles
Who have mostly Persecutors
Who have no/very few Persecutors
Mostly Protectors
Very few protesters
The systems who only have very few alters
The systems who have more then 5 alters
The systems who remember their trauma
The systems who don't remember their trauma
The systems who aren't out as being systems to their friends / families
The systems who are out as being a system
The alters who are misunderstood
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You guys are valid.
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wxrmeaterz · 3 days
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Hey persecutors cmere a sec...
I have no clue what your history is and why you feel the way you do,
But I promise you, you are not evil. Even if you are actively hurting the people in your system or around you, you aren't evil.
You deserve to heal from everything that caused your defense mechanism to be pain.
I hope you heal.
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collectivewarmth · 2 months
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one of the most important things about dissociative identity disorder and generally being a system that i wish people would understand is that it truly isn’t as cut and dry as it may seem for member count.
you’ll see people who say they have “six alters” and then immediately assume it’s six fully fleshed out equal individuals with no confusion or fuzziness regarding identity. that’s simply not true in a majority of cases, as i have seen.
most systems still VERY much deal with confusion regarding potential splits, go through dissociative episodes where they’re unsure of who they are, sometimes feel no attachment towards any identities, feel like they might have split and then suddenly that person is gone, unsure if alters they haven’t heard from often have gone dormant, not sure how to react when alters do come out of dormancy, etc.
it’s not a fun feeling and it’s genuinely unfair in certain situations to force systems to list every single alter to you with full certainty, as if it will never change. because it will. for so many different reasons, systems will grow, they will shrink, they will fuse, they will develop. you can’t expect the person with the dissociative disorder and lack of core identity to be able to keep up a perfected list of forever, it’s simply impossible. you may have alters who stick with you, but that doesn’t mean changes won’t happen.
and systems who may be reading this — please don’t feel bad. you are not a hassle, you are not a headache, and you are not an inconvenience for simply coping with something like this. it’s out of your control and the only thing you can do is continue to cope to find ways to help yourself retrain from these reactions. please don’t allow yourself to be harmed by others who don’t understand what you are going through. there are people who will accept and love you for who you are, all of you.
past, present, and future.
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loveloveplural · 2 months
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plurality is not defined by switching.
plurality is not defined by headcount.
plurality is not defined by an inner world.
plurality is not defined by distinct headmates.
plurality is not defined by communication.
plurality is not defined by getting along internally.
plurality is not defined by an origin.
plurality is defined by multiple consciousnesses/identities in one body. if you say you’re plural, we and many, many others will always believe you. no two plurals are the same, and no one can tell you what you are or aren’t 💞
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You are allowed to love being a system, after all, it is what saved your life
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“THE FUTURE IS PLURAL”; All plurals deserve acceptance, The world will be educated
Flags from left to right: Quoigenic, Mixed Origin/Multigenic, Endogenic, Traumagenic, Plural
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positivitycombopack · 7 months
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Shout out to systems whose abusers tried their best, but failed.
It can be so, so hard to have the good with the bad. You’ll remember the good times — the things they did right, the stuff you remember fondly — and think “it couldn’t have been that bad, if I still have these good memories.”
It can be. Two things can be true at the same time. Your abusers could have loved you so, so much, and done so much right — and still fucked up.
Shout out to all those with a complicated relationship with their abusers. Shout out to those whose abusers did their best to love you, but never could the way you needed. Shout out to those who weren’t purposefully abused, but still suffered.
Your suffering is seen here, and it is just as valid as anyone else’s.
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hi hello everyone! here we have a positivity post for systems who struggle with identity things! enjoy
divider by @/cafekitsune
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heres to systems who don't have a collective identity!
heres to systems and sysmates who don't or can't label themselves!
heres to systems who can't seem to find out their positive or negatuve triggers!
heres to sysmates with no name or a name they aren't attached to!
heres to sysmates with no pronouns, who can't figure out their pronouns, or who use a set of pronouns they don't really care about!
heres to systems who struggle with social situations in the outer world due to their lack of name, pronouns, or other identity things!
shoutout to cdd systems who struggle with these things!
shoutout to endogenic systems who struggle with these things!
shoutout to plurals who are insecure because they struggle with these things!
shoutout to systems who want to find out these things but really have trouble with it!
shoutput to systems who don't really mind that they struggle with this!
shoutout to systems who dont feel welcome in the plural community because they struggle with this! you're welcome here!
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i like this one a lot
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thexspiral · 2 months
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I'm being so real with you all, stop trying to appeal to fakeclaimers.
I am diagnosed with DID, in treatment, have an extremely covert presentation, and pretty much ONLY talk about having DID online. I got the trauma to show for it, which I've been open about before, and I'm heading for final fusion. I don't get mad when people fakeclaim me and just shrug it off bc I know I'm not.
I still get fakeclaimed.
You're never gonna win. You're always gonna be faking in their eyes, whether you are or aren't. No matter how many qualifications you have, they will never believe you.
So just stop trying. Be yourself, be weird about it.
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wxrmeaterz · 9 days
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I love you systems who...
- Cannot cope with alters going dormant
- Are afraid of switching out and "letting go" of front
- Are almost always blurry
- Have demonised and stereotyped alters
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collectivewarmth · 4 months
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please do not let online system spaces convince you that you need to label and have every single thing in your system figured out. that’s an extremely unrealistic goal and you’re not any sort of faker for not knowing every single thing.
just be.
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king-system · 8 months
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SYSTEM ASK GAME!! FOR SYSTEMS OF ANY ORIGINS!! SYSMEDS DNI!!
Which headmates are the iconic couple
Which headmates are the unlikely couple
Which headmates were enemies at first and now best friends and/or a couple
Which headmate is the most different from the body?
Which headmates are city folk
Which headmates are country folk
Which headmates have the most unique music taste?
Which headmate has the most specific role?
Are there any headmates from a specific state/country/etc different from the body?
Which headmates are emo/punk/goth etc?
What are some pet peeves headmates have about other headmates?
What headmate was the biggest surpise?
What headmate has a skill that the body doesn't usually, but when they front the body gets it (or almost gets it)?
What headmate makes the most typos?
What headmate has the weirdest (/pos) way of talking/typing?
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nyctocollective · 8 months
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symptom holders don't have to be constantly, miserably affected by their symptoms (same goes for trauma holders and memories)
protectors don't have to be constantly on edge and hostile
caretakers don't have to constantly be gentle and patient
persecutors don't have to constantly hate & hurt
socializers can be bad at or avoid socializing
we are complex, we are not always the way our roles are viewed, we are also not JUST our roles in a system, we are allowed to be contradictory.
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wildtulipfield · 24 days
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Another one!
I have lots of fun painting these chibis XD
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some system positivity art!!
(with the lovely "the future is plural" phrase by(?) @sophieinwonderland !! [hope the @ is alright uaug])
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