#bi lesbian

[sapphic-boy]

unironically, good cishet allies that support identities even if they dont understand them are more valuable to the queer community than the exclusionists that are trying to tear it apart

#mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #omni lesbian #abro lesbian #lesboy #radinclus

[lockandkeyhyena]

i stand by the hate for mspec gays/lesbians being at least partially respectability politics. i’ve seen the argument so many times that ‘oh its giving the cishets the excuse that gays/lesbians can be attracted to the men/women and so is going to make it so that lesbians/gays who would never be attracted to them are forced to have sex with them’ and like… no is a full sentence. you can say that you personally are a gay who would never be attracted to a certain gender. and that’s extremely valid. no lgbt person is forcing you to be attracted to a gender you don’t want to be. they’re just saying they they personally identify a certain way

#yeen rambles #sorry i might delete this later theres so much i could say on this topic its insane #anyway its fine to rb #mspec gay #mspec lesbina #bi gay #bi lesbian #this is incoherent lol

[noahizslay]

happy lesbian visibility day to ALL lesbians! ❤️🧡🤍🩷💜

#lgbtq #queer #nonbinary #trans #asexual #aromantic #aro #aplatonic #arospec #ace #acespec #lesboy #bi lesbian #straight lesbian #poly lesbian #male lesbian #lesbian #omni lesbian #abro lesbian #pan lesbian #mspec lesbian #disabled #lesbian visibility day #aspec

[lesbianpolls]

Aesthetically (irregardless of how problematic) what is your favourite lesbian flag?

Labrys

Lipstick lesbian

Lesbian pride (lipstick minus lipstick mark)

Warm butch

Dark/cool butch

Emily gwen’s, 7 stripe

Emily gwen’s, 5 stripe

Double venus on rainbow

Sappho lesbian

Sappho lesbian + white stripe

Other

See results

//another poll for the one people like to use wld be cool. But t.b.h. I can’t be assed. Love this blog!!! Thanks for the good time.

#poll #polls #lesbian #butch lesbian #butch #lesboy #male lesbian #transmasc lesbian #inclusive lesbian #mspec lesbian #abro lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #omni lesbian #straightbian #gaybian #dyke #femme #femme lesbian

[lesboyofdeath]

Just saw a post that was like,,, Luz Noceda hates mspec lesbians,,, and like did we watch the same show?? Her whole thing is being a weirdo?? Lmao she loves mspec gays.

#anti exclusionist #inclusionist #mspec lesbian #queer #anti exlusionist #bi lesbian

[morutefawnn]

꒰ ೀ‧₊˚ emobian ೀ emocian !!

emobian •｡ꪆৎ ˚⋅ when one is exclusively attracted to people who are not men, but can feel attracted to men they have formed a very deep emotional bond with. / demiromantic specifically towards men.

emocian •｡ꪆৎ ˚⋅ when one is exclusively attracted to people who are not women, but can feel attracted to women they have formed a very deep emotional bond with. / demiromantic specifically towarss women.

emobian was coined 4/21/24, emocian was coined 4/23/24 both by me on my twitter morutefawnn

#lesbian visibility week #mspec lesbian #lesboy #lesbian #bi lesbian #bi lesboy #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtq #lgbtqia #arospec #aro pride #aroace #aromantic #aromantism #demiromantic #demiaroace #mogai coining #mogai label #mogai term #mogai flag #mogai community #mogai #coined by me #coining post #my flags #flags

[silly-media-enjoyer]

Image Description: The "I bring a sort of X vibe to X that X don't really like" edited to say "I bring a sort of all these rules are made up vibe to sexuality and gender that exclusionists don't really like"

#genderfluid #bigender #multigender #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #mspec lesbian #bi gay #pan gay #mspec gay #straight gay #straight lesbian #queer #aromantic #asexual #aroace

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

what happened

#max squawks #anti gatekeeping #anti exclusionist #anti exclus #critinclus #anti transmedicalism #anti transmed #anti truscum #bi lesbian #mspec mono

[genderqueerdykes]

Dykes to Watch Out For #323 "I.D. fixe?" by Alison Bechdel

Illustrated in 1999, this strip features character Sparrow discussing being a bisexual lesbian, how she is not suddenly straight because she is dating a man, and the struggles she faces because of this. This strip also discusses the validity of gay trans men and transmasculinity, a very powerful comic for its time.

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #queer #lesbian #bisexual #bisexual lesbian #bi lesbian #sapphic #dyke #transmasculine #transmasc #ftm #trans man #trans men #gay man #gay trans man #ftm gay #gay ftm #our pics #dykes to watch out for #alison bechdel #dtwof #queer art

[icarusxxrising]

#if the concept of labeling gender is a social construct then so is sexuality! #queer #lgbt #gay #lesbian #bi #bisexual #pan #pansexual #genderfluid #nonbinary #enby #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #bi gay #mspec gay #trans #transgender

[fixing-bad-posts]

My favourite is bi trans lesbians !!!!! We support!!!!

#fixingbadposts #fixing-bad-posts #erasure poetry #pro mspec #bi lesbian positivity #bi lesbians #bi lesbian #trans lesbian #trans lesbians #queer

[everyponie]

2 transgender children have been MURDERED this month and yall are worried about??? labels?? Queer children are being killed, DO SOMETHING!!

#lesboy #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #queer #lesbian #gay #trans #transgender

[saffigon]

reminder that mspec lesbians and male lesbians and he/him lesbians and trans(masc/neu/fem) lesbians have existed for decades and are fucking amazing lesbians that deserve space in the lesbian community

#mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #bisexual lesbian #pan lesbian #pansexual lesbian #he/him lesbian #male lesbian #lesboy #lesboys #transgender #transmasc #transneu #transfem #transgender lesbian #trans lesbian #butch #butch lesbian #boydyke

[old-acc-discourseisdumb]

stop assuming you can deconstruct gender without deconstructing sexuality when its all just people trying to communicate complex identities with limited vocabulary

aka if you can accept gender is a social construct of labels so bigender girlboys make sense, you should be able to accept lesboys

#lesboy #genderqueer #lesbian #queer #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #lgbt #radical inclusivity #gaybian #my posts #nonbinary

[elysianmadness]

"Lesbian means exclusive attraction to women!"

"No, it means non-men exclusively attracted to non-men!"

"It actually means queer attraction to women!"

"Lesbian means women and nonbinary people being exclusively attracted to other women and nonbinary people!"

Lesbian is a multifaceted label that can describe many different experiences. There is no one perfect definition of lesbian that will encompass the entire diverse experiences that lesbians can have.

I'm personally a genderqueer woman who's exclusively attracted to other women, but the lesbian next to me might be a transmasc lesbian who loves all genders except for men. And the lesbian next to them might be a bigender lesbian who's both a girl and a boy, who's exclusively attracted to women. Our experiences can all be described by the term lesbian if that's how we wish to describe it, but we might define it differently based on our own experiences. And guess what?

None of our definitions are wrong, but none of our definitions will encompass every other lesbian's experiences. A word can have multiple definitions without any of the definitions being wrong. And those definitions can be very vague or very specific. Labels are made to fit us- we aren't made to fit labels.

People who may have a different experience with the lesbian label are not your enemies. People in lesbian spaces who aren't exactly like you are not your enemies. The problem comes when you try to force one singular definition on every single lesbian. THAT is harmful. Sending death threats to other lesbians because they don't have the same experience as you is harmful. Not another lesbian having a different experience from you.

#i'm tired of seeing this ridiculous argument online #if you're obsessed with giving every label one rigid definition then fuck you #lgbt+ identities do not always neatly fit into boxes #people seem to understand this with most other identities. i think i can guess why y'all are so rigid about lesbians (it's misogyny) #venus.txt #lesbian #trans lesbian #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #multigender lesbian #bigender lesbian #transmasc lesbian #male lesbian #butch lesbian #he/him lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #genderfluid lesbian

[tgirlmouse]

i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women

obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"

like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away

this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting

#good faith safe #pro good faith #good faith #lesboy #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #lesgay #gaybian #bi lesbian #bi gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #textposting #mspec mono #contradictory labels #mogai #mspec lesbian safe