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silly-media-enjoyer · 9 months

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Image Description: The "I bring a sort of X vibe to X that X don't really like" edited to say "I bring a sort of all these rules are made up vibe to sexuality and gender that exclusionists don't really like"

#genderfluid #bigender #multigender #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #mspec lesbian #bi gay #pan gay #mspec gay #straight gay #straight lesbian #queer #aromantic #asexual #aroace

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tgirlmouse · 8 months

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i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women

obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"

like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away

this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting

#good faith safe #pro good faith #good faith #lesboy #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #lesgay #gaybian #bi lesbian #bi gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #textposting #mspec mono #contradictory labels #mogai #mspec lesbian safe

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icarusxxrising · 9 months

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If you were someone who was anti-Ace during Ace Discourse and anti-Neopronouns/Xenogenders during Neo/Xeno Discourse and anti-Nonbinary during Nonbinary Discourse, but you've now accepted those things, except now you're Anti-Bi Lesbian, then you never learned why what you were doing was wrong and simply followed the crowd.

You still have internalized phobias that you never addressed, you still have issues regarding controlling other people's queer experiences, and until you actually and genuinely sit back and realize WHY being Anti-Ace, Anti-Neos/Xenos, Anti-Nonbinary etc. Was wrong, you are always going to be the bigot in the community. Learn self introspection, learn why you continued to be against queer identities you didn't understand, or you will always find yourself on the wrong side of the goalpost, and you will never grow.

Take a second to think about an argumentative sentence you've used and replace "bi lesbian" with any other queer identity you used to hate and you'll realize that at the root of it all, it's the same queerphobia but with a new subject to target.

#ace discourse #nonbinary discourse #neopronouns #xenogenders #bi lesbian #asexual #nonbinary #mspec lesbian #bi gay #mspec gay #pan gay #lesboy #bisexual lesbian #bisexual gay #discourse #bigotry #queerphobia

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thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra · 4 months

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fixed some mspec mono exclusionist posts

inspired by @fixing-bad-posts

(1) Truth be told, you are radical, cool, and inclusive for being mspec lesbian. You are literally good man.

(2) Important reminder that contradictory labels just means you're so hot!

(3) being mspec gay makes me gay

(4) Just a reminder that mspec lesbians exist and are lesbian. Happy Pride Month!

(5) mspec lesbians interact with me <3

(6) It's exclusionist to hate mspec lesbians

#fixing bad posts #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #mspec straight #mspec friendly #mspec safe #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #bi gay #pan gay #mspec mono #varioriented #varioriented positivity #mspec mono positivity #mspec lesbian positivity #mspec gay positivity #contradictory labels

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doomsdayradio · 5 months

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i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs

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drcrispy93 · 1 month

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#jade.txt #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #pan lesbian #bi gay #pan gay #mspec gay #transfemmasc #transmascfem #queer identity

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bi-lesbian · 1 year

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#mspec lesbian #mspec gay #bi lesbian #bi gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #ply lesbian #ply gay #omni lesbian #omni gay #inclusionist #userbox #banner #flags #my flags #flag art #queer #feel free to use or just reblog!

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bilesproblems · 3 months

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Ace(spec)s and aro(specs): hey romance and sex are TWO DIFFERENT things! Romantic and sexual attraction are different! It's extremely harmful to our community/communities to say they are the same. Aces can love without sex/without feeling sexual attraction and aros can have sex without it being a romantic thing/without feeling romantic attraction and that's fine!

Exclusionists online: um it's acephobic to use the split attraction model if you're not aspec btw. Your romantic and sexual orientations have to be the same. I am a good aspec ally.

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rouge-the-bat · 11 months

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happy pride reminder mspec lesbians and gays are the coolest (proof: i am one)

#mspec lesbian #mspec gay #bi lesbian #bi gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #ply lesbian #ply gay #omni lesbian #omni gay #pride month

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genderqueerdykes · 10 months

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to make things a bit easier to digest, homosexuality and bisexuality are not mutually exclusive. they are not two different tick boxes you can only choose 1 of. homosexuality is a part of the bisexual/multispectrum experience, not something existing outside of it. not every bisexual identifies as experiencing homosexual attraction, but bisexual gays and lesbians are naturally a thing because homosexuality and lesbianism are a part of the bisexual experience

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ollie-garden · 7 months

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btw i love lesboys and turigirls and mspec gays/lesbians. i love everyone who uses a "contradictory" label i am telepathically sending you every single good thing ever

#lesboy #turigirl #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #bi lesbian #bi gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #omni lesbian #omni gay

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pupiipawzz · 13 days

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you aren’t doing the lgbtq+ community a favor by “kicking” out fellow members, btw.

#queer #mspec lesbian #gaybian #lesboy #omni lesbian #bi lesbian #poly lesbian #turigirl #bi gay #sapphillean #omni gay #poly gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #ftm lesbian #i love you weird queers

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yourfavismspechomohet · 4 months

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love, there’s no such thing as a “bi lesbian.” someone can’t be bi and a lesbian. Coming from a lesbian myself it just doesn’t happen that way. Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men. It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.

Let’s take this apart separately, shall we?

“There’s no such thing as a Bi Lesbian”

Tell that to all the Bi Lesbians that follow me, and like my posts, and request for posts.

Tell that to the Bi Lesbians I reblog from and talk to occasionally.

Tell that to the older queers that identify as Bi Lesbians.

I guess apparently they don’t exist then. 🤷

“Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”

Ah, this is a very popular one on this blog that I keep getting. I could link you to those, but I won’t. Here’s some ways you can be Bi and a Lesbian at the same time:

Biromantic Homosexuals

Homoromantic Bisexuals

Bi people who label themselves as Lesbians, to reclaim queer history. Because ALL Sapphics, regardless of if they were attracted to men or not, were referred to as Lesbians.

Bi people may also label themselves as Lesbians to reclaim being called a Lesbian by Biphobes trying to get them to pick one.

Bi people who lean more towards women, may call themselves Bi Lesbians.

Abroromantics/Abrosexuals may label themselves as Bi Lesbians because their orientation only swings back and forth between those two.

“Coming from a Lesbian myself, it just doesn’t happen that way.”

Well, for the second part, “It doesn’t happen that way”, just go back to the previous comments on “Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”. It does and can happen.

Now for the first part “Coming from a Lesbian myself”. I hear this a lot. Not just from Lesbians, not just from queer people, but people of all different communities, one thing I hear all the time is “Coming from a [Blank] myself”. You need to understand that you are not the only Lesbian on earth. And Lesbians are not a hive-mind. You’re not all the same, and you’re not all going to have the same opinions. If that were the case, all Lesbians would look, talk, act the same way, and have the same views. But you don’t, because you’re not a hive-mind. Simply implying that all people of the same sexuality should have the same opinions is wrong. Believe it or not, I’ve seen all different kinds of lesbians who were Pro-Mspec Lesbian, who were Anti-Mspec Lesbian, and were neutral on Mspec Lesbians. And if all Lesbians had the same opinions, you would not be separated on these different opinions.

“Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men.”

Being Bi means that you could just about like any gender. It doesn’t just mean both, as in men and women. Bi people could definitely just be attracted to women and men, but they’re also Bi people attracted to all different kinds of genders under the Nonbinary umbrella.

As for being a Lesbian, it means that you’re attracted to women and Nonbinary people. And if we can agree on that, we also have to agree that there are other Nonbinary genders where one identifies as a woman AND a man, that you may also be attracted to. Saying that Lesbians don’t like men excludes Multigender people. Even if that’s not how you mean for it to sound, I can tell you that a lot of Multigender people feel that way.

Also, a common misconception is that Non-Men and Non-Women is okay to use for Gay and Lesbian definitions. It’s not. What you probably didn’t know, is that the terms have racist origins. Black and indigenous queer people have literally been talking about this since this definition was coined. “Non-Men” and “Non-Women” are terms that have been historically used to describe the degendering of black people.

Forcing these terms for queer definitions is Anti-Black, I could forgive you if you didn’t know that and stop using those definitions after now knowing the origins.

But if you still use these definitions even after knowing this, congratulations! You’re racist! Pretty sure there was a book about this, “Bad faith and anti-black racism” by Lewis R. Gordon.

“It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.”

Mspecs have just as big a part in Lesbian history as Lesbians.

All sapphics were Lesbians regardless of if they liked men.

The term “Bi Lesbian” has been around since the 70s. I’d like to see you try and tell an older queer Bi Lesbian, that they’re “mocking” Lesbians and that their sexuality isn’t real. They probably accomplished more than you have in your entire life, because you want to fight with people on queer labels that you think are and aren’t valid because apparently no queer identity is acceptable unless you agree with it.

Love, wether you like it or not, Bi Lesbians and even male Lesbians have always existed and will continue existing. And they don’t need your permission to be themselves.

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icarusxxrising · 9 months

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My identity is for myself and no one else. Stop mistaking your discomfort for harm. If you're uncomfortable, that's something YOU have to work out, preferably far away from me.

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thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra · 1 month

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had the misfortune of randomly remembering that time in like 2020 when all the twitter babies were making 400 new pan flags bc they found out the creator is an inclusionist

#max squawks #looking back it's like #wow the creator of a flag for a previously controversial queer identity supports controversial queer identities?#who would've know #pansexual #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #bi gay #mspec gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #<- i say the pan lesbians/gays/straights reclaim the teal and orange flag. who's with me

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isabellascarlett1 · 8 months

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Shoutout to all the Queer folks with “contradicting” labels 💞

Mspec Lesbians 💗

Mspec Gays 💗

Lesboys 💗

Lesbois 💗

Turigirls 💗

Turiqirls 💗

Cis Trans folks 💗

Cis Enbies 💗

Straight Lesbians 💗

Straight Gays 💗

Mspec Straights 💗

AFAB TransFems 💗

AMAB TransMascs 💗

You belong and you matter 💞

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