#consensual but not safe or sane

[n-clair]

"Why do you love me even after everything I've done?"

Does the sun hate the moon whenever it calls forth a violent tide??? Did Adam hate Eve for taking his hand and leaping from Eden? Would the soil reject the rain after it causes a flood?? Do graveyards close their gates to spirits seeking vengeance?? Will the moon hate the sun when the sun incinerates all life on Earth???

#entry #toxic yaoi #toxic yuri #cannibalism as a metaphor for love #consensual but not safe or sane #codependent yaoi #codependent yuri #chainshipping #heathcathy

[pipwasreal]

Febuwhump Day 3: "Bite down on this"

Characters: Jim Moriarty, Sebastian Moran

Content warnings: makeshift gag, dubious consent, burning, branding, sadism

Jim's skin is ivory and amber in the firelight. He's fiddling with a piece of thick copper wire, bending and curling it deftly between his fingers.

It's quiet except for the crackle of the flames. The shadows are velvet deep and dreamlike.

Sebastian doesn't think to resist when Jim pushes him to lie flat on his back, simply stretches out, arms above his head, basking in the warmth of Jim's attention.

Jim lifts the hem of Sebastian's t-shirt and Sebastian arches his back to let him slide it up over his stomach and chest. Jim holds the bunched fabric to Sebastian's lips.

"Open up. Good boy. Stay still now."

Sebastian bites down on the soft cotton, amused and curious. Jim turns back toward the fire for a minute, doing something Sebastian can't see.

He gets a glimpse of something glowing in Jim's hand just before it's pressed against his chest. The pain arrives a moment later and he lets out a strangled scream, muffled by the cloth in his mouth.

He can smell his own flesh burning, hear it sizzle beneath the brand, but he can’t move, can't breathe, only weather the throbbing agony, pinned by Jim's glittering dark gaze.

#febuwhump #febuwhump2024 #febuwhumpday3 #pipwrites #mormor #Sebastian Moran #Jim Moriarty #it's a double drabble today #i couldn't help myself #consensual but not safe or sane

[kaasknot]

durge and astarion experimented with collaring in the early days, back when durge tried to resist his urges. astarion didn't judge him for them, and durge felt safer to be around, more in control of himself, to place that part of his decision making in another's hands.

but it... didn't quite work out as planned. astarion was a little too willing to let durge push his self-enforced boundaries. "the sub sets the pace," after all. it wasn't anything too egregious. a few more goblins than strictly needed to be killed. a renegade no one would miss. little drops of blood shed, hardly worth getting in a tizzy about.

then astarion ascends. and he's more than happy to let durge be his enforcer, to dirty his hands for astarion's enjoyment. it's different when the god is one you choose, durge realizes. when the collar comes off, blood comes out—and it doesn't take long for their enemies to figure that out. it's all for the greater good, and that's what absolves them both.

no one is surprised when astarion ancunín takes a seat on the city council. it IS a surprise when the harpers don't work to stop him.

"he's a fucking ascended vampire and the other's a mad dog, you can't in good conscience let them stay!"

"there are no zhentilar in baldur's gate, anymore. none."

"because he killed them and took their place! it was a bloodbath!"

"...and then he pushed to either legalize their operations or shine a spotlight on them so they can't be exploited anymore. the people love astarion, and we. can't. touch. him."

#bg3 #astarion #durge #consensual but not safe or sane #my posts

[spicywhumper]

frisky february '24: 06. hidden identity + nsft whump bingo: public sex

series: the midnight takes / rating: explicit

trigger/content warning: explicit sexual content, magical cock, blood, mild-masochism, implied past non-con, consensual but maybe not that safe or sane.

The mask’s uncomfortable on her face, presses against her crooked nose and digs into her scar. Every time she get glimpse of her reflection, it makes her frown, forgetting that it’s her under it for a second or two. But she keeps going, keeps moving between sweaty bodies and lets her head be filled with the scent of arousal.

That’s why Zoe’s here, or Midnight, something in-between and something beyond. 

Tonight, she doesn’t have a name – and it doesn’t feel as bad as it should, she wonders what’s really wrong with her. What’s so utterly broken inside her that all she can do is seek for a way to relieve the urges, as she seeks a way to make herself feel empty of the deviant desires so she can be normal , so she can come back to Sienna.

So a sex party where everyone’s wearing blank, creepy masks is tonight’s adventure, tonight’s .

She’s one of the few wearing more than underwear, at least half of the people are naked. Some already engaging in some form or sex. She gets mildly distracted by a man riding what looks like a male werecat as if his life depended on that. Ok, maybe being the one doing the fucking with a man would be interesting.

She’s not sure what she’s looking for. She looks almost normal here, wearing dark wash jeans that fir comfortably and a black hoodie, like she’s going grocery shopping. Zoe decided, beforehand, to try that spell. Sometimes the ‘alpha’ inside her chest wants out, there’s two way: beating someone into a bloody pulp and filling them up with as much cum as they can handle. You can guess the choice for tonight, uh?

She casted it before entering, so the stupid magical cock’s already begging for attention. She doesn’t know why it tends to last so long, perhaps it’s just her weird biology. It doesn’t matter that much, probably would avoid people asking why said member disappears as soon as she cums. 

Thankfully, doesn’t take long for her to catch sight of a woman. Short, small, the kind she can break if she’s not careful enough, and the alpha on her chest roars . It growls in her head, that one, I want that one . She’ll try then, and won’t let the little monster try to convince to insist until she gets what it wants.

She’s a few steps away from the woman when she turns, seeming to notice her attention. The slits for eyes on the mask reveal dark red – of course the beast inside her wants a goddamned vampire. She doesn’t mind. The vampire’s mask only covers her face from nose up, unlike Zoe’s full-face, she smirks and her fangs glisten in the multicolored light of the club. She’s wearing shorts so short that Zoe has boxers longer than those, black like her high heels, and nothing else. Well, she’s also wearing gloves, simple leather gloves and Zoe remembers that many vampires have venomous nails, and half of the people here would have, at least, a mild allergic reaction to a vampire’s venom.

Zoe’s cock aches to be inside her.

“Hello, tiger,” her voice drips thrill, one that doesn’t work on her. 

“Hello, bloodsucker.”

“Hm,”  her eyes roam up and down, shamelessly fixing itself on the bulge for several seconds. “Ya packing, uh?”

“I’m a lucky woman.”

“I see,” she steps closer, her hand hovers above what she was eying. “You were staring at me.”

“You caught my attention.”

“You definitely also caught my attention.”

“Can we get to it, then?”

“Right here?”

“Everyone seems to want to show off their skills at fucking or being fucked. Are you not here for that?”

She shrugs: “You’re not dressed like the others.”

Zoe steps closer, her nose filled by vampire’s arousal: “I’m here to show my dick game, not my muscles.”

“Oh my, you’re bold.”

“You’re the one a centimeter from groping me,” she hisses when the vampire does grab at her erection, firmly checking the thickness, and she purrs . “Like what you found?”

“Very much, come get me, tiger.”

Zoe nods, her hands grab the vampire’s waist and pushes her to the closest empty table. Judging by the empty glass that smells suspiciously like blood, that must be the vampire’s table. 

They don’t need names, they don’t need anything. If the vampire is here to get fucked, and Zoe’s here to fuck, they already have everything they need: interest and permission, matching goals.

The table groans with how hard Zoe pushes her against it. She resists the urge to push her mask up and kiss down her body. The vampire’s eyes  shine brighter when Zoe’s pushes her thumb into her mouth to coat it with venom-laced saliva, left then right. She cups her boobs and touches the already hard nipples. The vampire is shameless as she tries and humps on Zoe, legs around her hips.

Zoe thinks she can get something slower, calmer with her, or not. It doesn’t matter.

She leaves trails of pink scratches down her sides until she reaches the ridiculous tight, small shorts. A nod is all permission she needs before ear it apart with one pull. She salivates at the sight, and the heavy scent, of the vampire’s pussy.

She knows how it’s taste, that’s the only thing stopping her from eating her out right there.

The vampire purrs again when Zoe pulls out her cock, heavy, hard and needy. She makes sure to rest it against her lower belly for a moment, to show off how deep  she’ll go. And it’s deep, the vampire is probably over a head shorter than her without the heels. And she spreads her legs more, silently begging for the touches Zoe’s withholding.

One sharp, smooth thrust and she’s balls deep into the wet warmth. (Who spread the myth that vampires are cold? They’re almost warmer than half living being she fucked before.) As she gives the vampire time to adjust to the thickness inside her, Zoe reaches towards one of her hands and tugs the glove:

“You don’t need it.”

“I’ve been told my nails are dangerous.”

“I promise I’m pretty much immune to vampire venom,” she tugs again. “Perhaps I like a little pain.”

“I ain’t taking you to healers if you have a reaction.”

“I can handle myself.”

She pulls her sleeves up to her elbows, the vampire eyes her forearms, licks her lips. She knows her whole body is the kind of sculpted muscular shape that some women enjoy a lot, it works with how Zoe is in a mission of finding someone that will make her feel normal, or a little normal (just normal enough to come back to Sienna).

The vampire nods and takes off the gloves, her nails are a beautiful shape of sharp, dangerous claws. 

Zoe leans closer, nodding when the vampire placed her hands close to her elbows, pressing slightly as a promise of hurting her, making her bleed, giving her what she wants. 

She braces herself, the table’s bolted to the floor, she noticed it after throwing the vampire on it. 

She starts slowly, shallow thrusts and making the vampire breath faster. Before the vampire asks her to, Zoe increases the strength and force behind her thrusts. The harder the vampire digs her claws into her skin, the harder she fucks the vampire.

Zoe can feel people watching them, she tries to not be bothers, she did choose to come here.

The vampire cums almost pathetically fast, Zoe can’t judge, nails dug almost into her bones. The blood drips almost dangerously, she won’t complain, not when the pain goes straight to her cock. Not when the pain makes pleasure swelling on her lower belly.

The vampire clutches hard around her, hard like she doesn’t want to let it go, like she’s trying to milk as much cum out of her as she can.

Zoe’s almost surprised when it does work.

The vampire looks pretty good after being filled with Zoe’s cum, she thinks she can do it again at anytime.

#frisky february 2024 #nsft whump bingo #past noncon #smut #consensual but not safe or sane

[lets-go-hurt-someone]

The Dark Urge was canonically into necrophilia and cannibalism, right? Which means if they end up with Astarion, even if they’re a redemption Durge, they technically still get to have a bit of cannibalism and necrophilia as a treat. Which is so nice for them tbh.

At its core, Durgestarion really is the wholesome tale of two mentally unwell disaster people discovering the beauty of consent.

We ask before we bite, but we definitely still bite😌

#consensual but not necessarily safe or sane loool #bg3 #astarion #baldur's gate 3 #baldurs gate 3 #dark urge #durge #bg3 dark urge #bg3 durge #durgestarion #astarionology

[aspiringobject]

Guys, for real though. If you don't have love or care for your sub and constantly see them as inferior, worthless, or just an object, you need some serious help.

Love and care for each other. Check up on your sub. Make sure everything is consentual. Don't be a fuckin piece of shit.

#dumbification #free use slvt #male violence #men are superior #patriarchy #patriarchy kink #rap3toy #bimbo hypnosis #cnc drugging #degredation kink #fav #i purposely put the worst tags as a wake up call so its on everyones dash #support and love your partners #care for your partners #safe sane consensual

[ex0rin]

No Choice (E) - 6k

Negan/ Carl

consensual non-consent, dubcon, feminization, flirting, bad decisions, tied up, wet & messy, blowjobs, eye socket fetish, skull fucking, grinding, anal fingering, coming in pants, dirty talk, carl is over 18, cell era, cegan bingo, negan being negan, carl is a little freak (affectionate)

for @ceganbingo - full line bingo babeeeee!!

“We doin’ a little roleplay tonight kid? You want me to threaten you a bit while telling you all the worst of the things I thought about back when you gunned down a couple of mine just to get to me?” Negan sees the way the kid swallows, that little bounce at his jugular that makes Negan fucking wish that Carl didn’t have the safety of him being behind bars to stop him from crowding the kid back up against a wall and slotting his thigh right up against –

OR: Negan is safe behind bars, Carl doesn't want to chicken out.

READ ON AO3 HERE

#cara writes #cegan #dubcon tw #consensual but not safe or sane #carl grimes is a little freak (affectionate)

[trustymikh]

they were making out :)

#they are both so deranged and evil #both their romnatic and sexial interactions are consensual but in no way sane or safe #ghetsis wants giovanni bleeding on the floor for stealing his plan in pokemas #and у is taking that attitude to the bedroom #mik draws #terribledadshipping #team rocket giovanni #giovanni pokemon #giovanni #rocket leader giovanni #team plasma ghetsis #ghetsis harmonia gropius #ghetsis #pokemon ghetsis #tw bruises #cw bruises #tf blood #cw blood #pokemon #drawing #digital art #digital drawing

[muchmossymess]

Why is everyone here so obsessed with sex and romance why can't you appreciate the comedic genius of "rivals who fight about parenting to rile the other up to begrudging coparents who bicker like a divorced couple to actually maybe tolerating the other and the insults are now less spiteful and biting to hells first qpr (queerplatonic rivalry) to hells first qpr (queerplatonic relationship)"

#like. gah. there is so so so many interesting ways to take this dynamic and you chose kiss and fuck #i can excuse the aphobia but i draw the line at ooc dynamics (ITS A JOKE A REFERENCE A JOKE I DONT EXCUSE APHOBIA) #sigh #i can excuse all the smut to a point but like. you took the (ONLY) canonically sex repulsed character and made him fuck the dilf #and you didnt even make it an exploration of sexuality with the realisation sex isnt necessary for a relationship #or that its ok to actually hate sex #(when it involves yourself. so long as its safe sane and consensual its not really your business) #ughbkembaalgk ive lost my train of thought i think its late but yeah im just a lil pissy about the casual aphobia #dont even get me started on the blatant stuff ffs #radiostar #radioapple #appleradio #alastor #hazbin hotel #hazbin alastor #moss' madness

[poetry-protest-pornography]

The way that they're talking about consent (in the midst of all the recording and dishonesty) is really interesting and important.

Last week, we had First and Soong doing a lot of roleplaying-- and First asking Soong why he didn't use his safe word if it hurt and Soong saying he liked the pain, and then there was aftercare.

This week, there was the whole really intense kidnapping scene, which required so much planning and discussion. And then later, there was the argument about Soong feeling pressured to perform and faking an orgasm, and First's reaction to that read to me like he was hurt that Soong wasn't honest with him, and shame that his desires were causing Soong stress. And mostly, horror at the idea that Soong wasn't an enthusiastic participant in their sex.

I feel like this is confirmed later, when we have this scene, where Soong uses his words, and First is genuinely distressed about their boundaries. (And in his talk with Zouey at the end, but more on that later)

If you've been with your partner for long enough -- or you're naturally observant/careful to pay attention-- yes, you can pick up on the difference between "into it but getting used to what's happening" and "not into it, this is Not Good", but as First points out later, the line between the two is blurry, and that's why safe words exist. So what Siong is asking for here isn't out of the question, but it isn't something that their relationship could manage at this point; they just don't know each other well enough.

And then, we have Teena and Zouey.

Zouey said he wanted to have sex with Teena, and Teena was a little dubious, but he just got that boyfriend title, and there was no way he wasn't going to take the chance to sleep with Zouey -- the boy is down bad. But, Teena is a smart cookie, and he's also experienced, so he establishes a safe word, rightfully anticipating that it would be a struggle for Zouey to let go and needing to know he was being safe and considerate (and sane and keeping it consensual).

It goes poorly, because Zouey protests, but doesn't use the safe word, so Teena pushes, thinking he's still within established boundaries

But Zouey isn't experienced, and when he gets uncomfortable he doesn't remember to use the word.

(And there was the whole "if we're going to be a couple, we're going to have to do it" bit, which I do believe Teena when he says that he misspoke, because he was so genuine when he said before that they didn't need to have sex, but that's a different post. But, at face value, this idea of "we're already halfway there, we shouldn't stop" is very much about consent and how and why safe words are important.

Discomfort and hesitation are natural parts of sexual experience, especially if it's new, and double especially if it's kinky. Having a word that means "Actually stop now, something's not working/is wrong" is vital to keeping you and your partner safe and feeling good physically and emotionally.)

This conversation with First and Zouey is so important.

They're both struggling with the idea that they've been involved in a sexual situation that veered into abusive, and they both need to hear what happened was actually bad communication.

And then, First wraps it up nicely, when he can see Zouey is struggling a little still.

I'm really impressed by how hard this show is pushing the importance of consent and safe sexual experimentation (especially when these discussions are held up against the not-sure-if-this-is-consensual things that are happening with Many, and with the definitely-not-consensual sex tape Captain made). It's very rare for conversations about sex and kink to be handled so well-- or to be shown at all, really.

Also, Zouey?

Please do, he looks like a kicked puppy.

#playboyy the series #safe sane consensual #consent is sexy

[kakushino]

Farmer's hand thirst thoughts about Gyomei

Because he ain't no boy

Farmhand! Gyomei, who has to duck awkwardly when he enters the room. He's so huge your mouth fell open when you first saw him. He's the beefiest man you've ever seen in your life!

Farmhand! Gyomei, whose one hand could crush your whole head, whose two fingers are enough to fill you up so well and who has to spend an unholy amount of time to prepare you to take him. You have to be shaking from head to toe and babbling, fucked stupid on his fingers before he even allows you to take off his pants (I can see him wearing overalls but not wearing it properly, like the straps and the belly and back cover hanging off - so hot)

Farmhand! Gyomei, whose dick is a weapon of mass destruction and you suddenly know why he spent such a long time preparing you, prying you open with his fingers as if he were trying to open a stubborn barn door open with a crowbar. He sometimes has to use a lubricant even then because "I could hurt you, kitten."

Farmhand! Gyomei, who makes love to you, while at the same time giving you the dicking down of your life, and you have to hang onto him as if your life depended on it, because it kind of does.

Farmhand! Gyomei, who's already given you many orgasms but he unintentionally bullies another and another with his giant dick, apologizing all the while, because "I can't help it- You're so tight-!"

Farmhand! Gyomei, who has to wait until he softens somewhat to pull out, or he'll overstimulate you (again). Cockwarming him is a regular occurrence, especially if he doesn't have any chores in the morning. Why, if he stays in, he doesn't have to prep you again for repeat round(s) in the morning! Smart, and efficient!

Farmhand! Gyomei, who's a huge fan of dry humping, because there's something so hot about the desperation, about both of you creaming in your clothes from being so horny you can't waste another second.

Farmhand! Gyomei, who carries you on one of his arms as if you were a child, your ass/thighs on his forearm, giving you a view from his perspective. It's his favorite way to carry you around, especially when you can't walk after… ya know.

Farmhand! Gyomei, who's the sweetest, showing you the kittens he takes care of and blushes every time you smile at him. His hot work days are spent daydreaming about you, your tight hole and the date he wants to take you on… if you agree, of course. You aren't just a summer fling for him, after all.

#demon slayer #kimetsu no yaiba #himejima gyomei #himejima gyomei x reader #farmhand beefy men have me in a chokehold okay #i need them to choke me safe sane and consensually #desi writing #smut #kakushino

[smallmeanie]

it’s only cause i need some affection / so i creep

#me #bisexual #lgbtq #body posititivity #plus size babe #handcuffs #safe sane consensual

[hiddengiggles]

Please remember to cater to your basic human needs before engaging in kink!

That means:

Drink water. This is for safety sure, but orgasms are way better when you’ve got the raw materials for it. Same with just wetness/precum, better hydrated than dry.

Have a snack. Your body may go through a lot and you blood sugar being low is dangerous. You don’t need a full meal, but consider a little fruit if you’re keeping it light, and try to have something nearby for afterwards to rebalance your blood sugar.

Check in with your mental state. D/s can be a wonderful way to soften the sharp edges in your mind, but if you’re already feeling off, consider more gentle activity. Adding the risk of drop (subdrop or Domdrop) can make your wonky day into a shitty week. Not worth it, care for your longterm wellbeing above momentary fun.

Plan for rest. You need to give yourself time to recover after engaging! I don’t care if you cum or not, if you’re going to do a scene or session or whatever, plan out time for aftercare and, if you’re a person who needs it, maybe a nap/time to drift. Do not play right up until you have to be somewhere, your endorphin drop will fuck you up.

This probably isn’t an all inclusive list but a good little checklist so you can do fun stuff with a little more care for your health, happiness, and safety.

You may have things to add to this list as you get to know yourself more. For some, their meditation may be a factor. Others may need to plan for a specific ritual to prepare themselves so they feel good. Affirmations might be important to get ready for a scene and still feel good about it. Additional checklist items can be tailored to you/your dynamics/your partners, but the above apply to everyone.

So remember: hydrate, eat, mental check in, rest.

#tips and tricks #ssc #rack #safe sane consensual #kink safety #risk aware consensual kink #not quite sfw #my writing

[yeyinde]

I know you plan on doing a Johnny baby trapping but it would be funny if the rest of the 141 were baby trapping their partners and Johnny and his partner actually plan things out with each other.

could you imagine, though. the plot twist is actually that he's wholesome, down-to-earth, and completely well-adjusted. the cabin in the woods? his family vacation home. his dirty secret?? he doesn't pay his property taxes.

#but the set up would be full thriller/horror #Final Girl x Slasher vibes #only to end it w a long conversation about being sane safe and consensual #soap x reader baby trap #cod

[ninitheastronaut]

Feydpaul with d/s undertones where Paul trains Feyd to be a gentle and thoughtful partner

#using the voice when telling feyd not to bite lol #feyd rautha #paul atreides #feyd x paul #feydpaul #like imagine explaining “safe sane and consensual” to him #it's like teaching a snake to sit on command #he would try to understand tho bc it's Paul

[aspiringobject]

I don't think you people understand the amount of men in my asks and dms who are absolutely vile and don't understand consent or even acknowledge it.

Sure, I love to be an object for someone during kinkplay - but I am still human. I am a human being.

It's disgusting to see people defend or say NOTHING to these people who are extremely misogynistic and actually hate and abuse women.

Don't fucking let that shit slide. If you're a man, I expect you to call other men out on their bullshit. Don't be a fucking coward sheep and hide whenever you see someone do that shit.

You are also part of the problem.

#degredation kink #dumbification #free use slvt #patriarchy kink #men are superior #rap3toy #patriarchy #male violence #bimbo hypnosis #cnc drugging #these tags are just to attract that crowd #i love women #womens rights #consent is important #safe sane consensual