#dating adventures

[woman-respecter]

A kissed me and i can’t stop thinking about how i wanna kiss her again BUT i also can’t stop thinking about about C. augh

#dating adventures

[kiestrokes]

#keeping the poll simple #b and I are gonna book club read it together after work #and scrub any names #(if any are there) #but the boldness to send a whole ass 1000+ words is hilarious to me #smut #dating apps #dating adventures #dating woes #hud #writing #writeblr #writers on tumblr #writerscommunity #writblr #writer things #writerblr #writer problems #smut inspo #smut imagine #smut ideas #smut cw #cw smut #tw smut #smut irl #smut poll #smut p #smut problems #smut reading #smut stories

[weaver-z]

I think that you should be legally required to go balls to the wall when asked what your most controversial opinion is on a dating app. None of this "well I think vanilla is better than chocolate!" bunny slope shit. Tell me which presidential assassinations you think were inside jobs.

#hinge #tinder #dating adventures

[handsomegentlebutch]

The date went super well! She was sweet and funny and really easy to talk to. I'm gonna see her again Wednesday to grab some dinner. I wanted to kiss her so bad lmao but I fucking flubbed it. Stammered like a clown. She even blatantly said "I'm hitting on you" "if you want to go back to my place just say so" and I. Am such a chicken. I got so flustered. I alsmot don't want to see how pink my face is rn

#butch speaks #dating adventures #god. way to be cringe on main cass #what are u doing #i think she thought it was charming #i think #but fuckin hell #i really thought i was gonna be brave #rip #maybe Wednesday #bc #... a butch is kiss deprived #M #💃🏼 #she does tap so i think that will b henr emoji :3 #hopefully i dont make a clown of myself Wednesday

[everythingbutresolved]

#dating apps #dating #tinder #bumble #hinge #boo #okcupid #match #dating adventures

[teenage-mutant-ninja-freak]

Desperate advice needed!!

I've been talking to this woman for a few days now and it's been going really well but, I messaged her this morning and she has neither seen nor responded all day ((messaged at 7:12 and it's 16:02 now))

Is she just not interested or should I message again??

#dating adventures

[ghostvvitch]

I was with my ex for almost 8 years. I knew deep down that he isn’t really the one for me, but people keep saying that you need to work hard to make relationships work, and that love isn’t easy and so on and so forth.

But honestly, when all you’re doing is just constantly working on it and trying to fix things, it isn’t a relationship anymore. It’s more like a second job that you don’t even get paid for.

He broke up with me through a Facebook message, which just shows what a coward he was, and I was devastated, but also relieved. I knew it wasn’t the thing for me, but I was immersed in the routine of that relationship, so finding myself alone was a shock.

I met my current partner while I was still with my ex, and he was a dear friend to me. And so when I was ready, and our friendship turned to love, I was pleasantly surprised, because it was like nothing I ever experienced.

Don’t settle for someone just because it’s comfortable. I know you think you’ll never find someone else, but you will. Dating is hard, opening up to new people and letting them see the real you is fucking hard, but it’s worth it.

Let go of things you’ve outgrown, and embrace what’s yet to come. It will be so much more wonderful than you could know.

#dating #dating advice #story time #dating adventures #personal #my post #personal diary #memories #thoughts #toxic home #love #love advice #relationship #relationship advice

[jasmineben]

Ocean eyes 🌀

#singleandreadytomingle #dating adventures #love life #findingMrRight #romantic vibes #relationship goals #Dating journey #love and laughter #heart on fire #seeking connection

[woman-respecter]

last night the date with A went well and I scheduled a 3rd one BUT i also had a long convo with C where we were both insane girlies and made it clear we are both dead serious about eachother (aka we would want to move to the “actually dating” phase pretty quickly) so I’m once again caught in the dilemma between them. Obviously I want to meet C in person before committing to anything but if I do think I may have to break it off with A if the first few dates with C go well, which I realize is part of the process but is not something I am looking forward to because I really do like her as a person.

#c and i also were up front with eachother about our dealbreakers #i made sure she is normal about jews and i/p #and let her know some other stuff that could deter one from dating me #the one snag is that she says she eventually wants kids. and i’m not sure that i do #but i reckon that the odds that it goes so far that that becomes relevant are low #and we can cross that bridge when we get to it #dating adventures

[entanglewithme]

15 First Date Pointers for Polyamorous Love Explorers

1) Communication is Key: Be open and honest about your polyamorous lifestyle from the start. Clear communication is essential for understanding each other's expectations.

2) Define Boundaries: Discuss your individual boundaries and expectations. Knowing each other's comfort levels helps in navigating potential challenges.

3) Choose an Inclusive Venue: Opt for a date location that is open-minded and inclusive, creating a comfortable environment for discussing polyamory without judgement.

4) Be Present: Give your full attention to your date. Show genuine interest in their experiences and feelings, and listen actively.

5) Avoid Assumptions: Don't assume that your date has the same relationship style or preferences as you. Ask questions and learn about their perspectives.

6) Share Your Story: Share your polyamorous journey, experiences, and the values that guide your relationships. This helps in creating a connection based on understanding.

7) Respect Privacy: Be mindful of your date's privacy. Avoid prying questions about their other relationships unless they willingly share that information.

8) Discuss Safer Sex Practices: If intimacy is on the table, discuss safer sex practices and STI testing. Transparency is crucial for maintaining a safe and consensual environment.

9) Embrace Individuality: Remember that each person in a polyamorous dynamic is an individual with unique needs and desires. Acknowledge and celebrate these differences.

10) Plan Group Activities: If all parties are comfortable, consider group activities to help create a relaxed and inclusive atmosphere.

11) Manage Expectations: Polyamorous relationships can be diverse. Be clear about what you're looking for and manage expectations about the potential direction of the relationship.

12) Be Flexible: Understand that plans might change, and emotions can be complex in polyamorous dynamics. Flexibility and adaptability are valuable traits.

13) Check-In After the Date: Send a message expressing your enjoyment of the date and your interest in getting to know them better. This helps in building communication from the beginning.

14) Learn About Their Other Partners: If your date is comfortable, inquire about their other partners to understand the dynamics and connections in their life.

15) Express Gratitude: Regardless of the outcome, express gratitude for the time spent together. Whether you decide to pursue further connections or not, showing appreciation is a positive way to end the date.

Remember, the key to successful polyamorous dating lies in open communication, respect, and understanding.

FIND A DATE TODAY

#dates #dating #dating tips #dating advice #dating adventures #find somenone #lovers #polyamory #polyamorous

[handsomegentlebutch]

Dating apps are exhausting but I've been talking to someone on there for a hot minute now and we're at the point of talking about our OCs and I'm like.... 👀

#butch speaks #dating adventures #might be something! they love my babygirl dora #shes a femme lesbian a vampire and she loves 2 things: butches and killing fascists

[druckkugelschreiber]

*Ace me on a dating app randomly shooting my shot with very pretty people not thinking much of it*

*matched with said very pretty people*

Me: wait what? What now? What do I do?

Like a) it’s very unexpected and b) they usually don’t have very interesting profiles so I have no idea what to say to them

But also guess this is your sign to shoot your shot, if this confused autistic asexual can do it, you can too lol

#dating adventures #this is a tag I’d never thought I’d use

[teenage-mutant-ninja-freak]

That's it. I'm done. I'm only dating women from now on. After that interaction with a dude on a dating app I'm done with men.

#not turtles #dating adventures

[doctorsabedoria]

First-Date Questions

I have compiled a list of fun questions to ask on dates. Some of these I made up and some of these I read several lists totally 1000+ questions where most were awful. First dates can be pretty awkward (especially when you are socially awkward already), and these have helped break the ice and get conversations going. What I do is write them on pieces of paper before the date, and we take turns drawing out of a bag and answer.

What is the worst movie you have seen and what made it so bad?

What animal would you use to describe yourself?

How many pennies do you think will fit into this room?

Would you rather be a unicorn or a dragon?

What are you afraid of?

What is a boring fact about you?

What abstract or ominous way would you describe yourself?

What do you like to do on a rainy day?

What music would you like to play every time you entered into a room?

What normal thing do you think is not normal?

What is the weirdest food combination you have tried and liked?

What if you never had to work again?

What secret conspiracy would you like to start?

What is something that always makes you feel better when you are down?

If you had enough money to start spending it to spite someone else, what would you spend it on?

What ice cream flavor bests describes your life?

What is the best type of cheese?

#dating advice #dating adventures #lists #thought provoking #first date ideas