#disabled diaper

[emp-711]

Triumphs and frustrations with a complex physical disability and a brain at nearly midlife… Searching for a champion to share and grow with

My Cerebral Palsy made life without diapers very traumatizing for me. From age 4–21, I was in underwear with bladder accidents from spasms at least once a week. Toilet training was a point of pride for my mom, even though most doctors and my preschool and elementary teachers told her not to focus on it. She thought I could outthink my body. Instead, having to plan my relief breaks around other people has given me kidney issues at 42 and that is after choosing to go back into diapers as a junior in college. Based on this experience, wearing diapers is healthier than waiting on people to help me to the bathroom. Also, as a guy who is 6 foot 4 and 170 pounds, toilet transfers several times a day are exhausting and potentially dangerous for me and my support people.

There is no correlation between incontinence and intelligence. Mom said she didn’t want me diapered after the typical age because she thought people would perceive me as being stupid…Well I have been wearing 24/7 for over 20 years including under my gown at my Ph.D graduation… 😘 … My advice to emerging adults with disabilities is that your ability to accomplish great things is a product motivation, not the undergarments you are wearing. In my observation and experience, the responsibility of motivation evolves throughout the developmental process. Initially, this responsibility lies with parents and other supports, to explore and educate themselves about success stories of adults with similar challenges, focusing on understanding the strategies that have led to positive outcomes. As youth with disabilities approach preadolescents (middle school), the responsibility gradually for exploration and experimentation gradually shifts from solely residing with the parental figure to a joint venture that increasingly becomes more driven by curiosity of the individual themselves. Today’s adolescent preteen and teenager is constantly engaged with personal technology and electronic media. The focus of at least some of this screen time can be given to meaningful discovery of not only strengths, interests, and abilities but also the possible strategies that can be used to bring abstract dreams into reality. As the time for high school approaches, a portion of this exploration time should be dedicated to experiential learning, this includes testing strategies that will allow the person with self-care challenges to participate in their community with minimal effects from their limitations. Some examples of considerations include exploring methods for community access through transportation, strategies for accessing nutrition while public and elimination (bladder/bowel) management.

My decision to use diapers full-time again with the occasional addition of male catheters, as I eluded to earlier, was the product of a New Year’s resolution in 2002. Ironically, I felt as if this was a means of asserting control over one aspect of my life. It was around the age of 25 that I began to realize that there were some unintended social consequences of my decision that I am still struggling to overcome. I have learned that midstream people are not very receptive to a guy in a wheelchair who needs fed and his diapers changed, but otherwise is completely cognitively intact, even bright with a sarcastic and very dry wit.

 I had to learn to have fun with it along the way, finding companionship from people who will understand my needs and embrace my choices has been difficult. After some research, I discovered that there was a group of people who enjoyed doing the same things I needed and mostly by choice, the ABDL and medfet communities. Happiness for me will be finding a woman who considers the AB and medical needs as normal and has fun doing it. The lifestyle or fetish angle removes the awkwardness for both of us. It would be awesome to be in a crowded public place (i.e. restaurant, sporting event) and know that there is at least one other person there who is experiencing the same sensation I am feeling inside as well as from the diaper against my body and clothing. At last I will not feel alone in the world. There is also some intrigue and humor in the idea that only we know that each other is wearing. For those of you who prefer more crude or masculine visualization, as I used to say in one of my profiles on a certain ABDL dating site, a diaper nor wheelchair should not also be a chastity belt. Just because I must wear for medical reasons does not mean I am stupid or otherwise not worthy of sharing myself with someone. Sexual intimacy alone is rarely the basis for a solid long-term relationship, however human touch is essential for me. Having no inhibitions about giving or receiving a hug or cuddle is a must for me because I have been deprived of it so much because of misconceptions about body and mind. I am looking for a partner who understands my ambitions and is not afraid to explore their own. The ability to have someone who you can share your most intimate thoughts and feelings with even on the worst days would be a blessing for me. I hope to find someone who is willing to learn and grow together.

If you’re still smiling after reading this… DM me or comment below :-)

#incontinent #diaper dependent #adult diaper cerebral palsy #actually disabled #disabilities #ab dl lifestyle #actually incontenent #bed wetter #anxitey #autism #ab dl girl #disabled diaper #diapered girlfriend #ab dl diaper #medfet #incontinent girl #public diaper girl #ab/dl girl #abdlmommy #ab/dl community #ab/dl diaper #ab/dl relationship #cerebral palsy #spina bifida #developmental disabilities #adult diaper lover #disabled student #disabled diapering #ab/dl kink #ab/dl boy

[ang3lspace]

Agere outifit based on us! Not a request

(We don't currently own crutches but need them pretty bad)

#age regression #age regressor #agere community #safe agere #agere #sfw agere #agere blog #babyre #sfw toddlerre #toddler regression #agere outfits #are regression outfit #disabled regressor #sfw diaper wearing #agere diaper

[wheeliecuties]

Paraplegic lady shows how she diapers herself

#crippled girl #disabled girls #handicapped girl #paragirl #paralyzed #paraplegic #paraplegic girl #wheelchair girl #wheelchairgirl #quadriplegic #diaper gal #diaper dependent

[littlecryptidsystem]

friendly reminder that if you're against age regressors/pet regressors who wear pads/pull-ups/diapers then you're ableist. full stop.

#did you guys know that... #le gasp #disabled regressors exist too #and that dementia causes regression #and that there's a ton of disabilities that make it to where you need diapers #and if a regressor regresses so deeply that they need one of those then maybe you shouldn't be telling them that they're gross #age regression #sfw agere #agere #agere community #sfw age regression #sfw littlespace #petre #age regressor #sfw pet regression #pet regression sfw #pet regression #pet regressor #sfw petre #petreg #agereg

[jenny-94]

#disabled girl #wheelchairgirl #disability #disablegirl #paragirl #paralysed #paraplegic #paraplegic girl #paraplegic woman #self love #wheelchairlife #wheelchair girl #wheelchair user #wheelchair #wheelchairgirli #lovemylive #diaper bulge #comicsocks #my pics #disableandsexy #disabilties

[anfisawheel]

be barefoot or in Birkenstock?

#disabled #paraplegic #paraplegic girl #pretty para #wheelchair #paraplegicfeet #women #rollstuhl #birkenstock #bare foot #bare toes #cripple life #diaper pee #silla de ruedas #disabled women

[lumberjackloverboy-moved]

one of the things i see not mentioned a lot abt covid and lockdown is how it severely hindered the development of really little kids. not outgrowing biting or self-injury, or, for kids who are physically capable of not using diapers, still having accidents despite previously showing promise in potty training, or seriously delayed speech for kids that have the ability to speak, or walking significantly later than the usual milestones, or just not meeting milestones in general. kiddos, especially ages 1-5, need to be around other children. they learn through interacting with other kids their age, and their parents' teaching/only interacting with parents isn't enough to help them meet milestones. an entire generation of toddlers lost access to their biggest support during their most formative years. I'm seeing 10 year olds who still bite or self-injure and 4 year olds speaking at the level of 2 year olds. covid hurt our kids, really, really hurt them, and we don't ever talk about it

#i need to stess that outgrowing diapers or kinds of speech or certain movements are not a requirement for a happy child #plenty of kids must use diapers due to disability #and dont talk #or move the way we expect #because of disability and neurological differences #but #this isn't autistic or disabled kids just acting like this it is a significant amount of kids that dont even fall into those groups #kids not hitting milestones that they would have otherwise #bc they had no socialization as toddlers

[incontinence-girl]

Guten Morgen lieber Herbst. Heute etwas länger geschlafen. Die Molicare Elastic 10 Tropfen erweist mir treue Dienste.

#molicare #disabled #disabled girl #Inkontinenz #Lebenmitinkontinenz #adult incontinence #incontinence #wetting diaper

[babey-lewis]

Affirmations for tiny tots!

I'm allowed to be a kid and do kid things

I'm brave for being small when I need to

I can mess up, and still be good

I love myself

#agere #age regression #agere blog #sfw agere #age regressor #sfw diaper #caregiver #boy agere #agereg #agere help #ageregression #agere community #agere positivity #parenting #affirmations #im a caregiver #caregiver blog #disabled caregiver #sfw caregiver #agere caregiver #age regression caregiver #caregiverlife #agere girl

[crippl-hacker]

People passionate about sustainability need to realize that not everything can be reusable. Some things need to be disposable!

Inhalers, IV’s, Catheters, PIC lines, NG tubes, Adult Diapers, Cutlery and Dishes, Ostomy Bags, and many more things are all single use.

Most of these things aren’t easy to replace or have a reusable version of; especially when you are disabled and dealing with low energy.

If you want a more sustainable future make disposable products for us that use better materials and better manufacturing choices. Don’t pick on disabled people for needing them to live.

#I will die on the hill of needing disposable dishes and cutlery #I also need adult diapers and those are absolutely single use #it would be awesome if they were made from better materials etc but that isn’t an affordable widespread option #set your sights on abled people if you only want to complain about single use products and not make solutions #cripplepunk #cpunk #sustainability #environmentalism #actually disabled #zero waste #low waste #reusable #sustainable

[wheeliecuties]

Paraplegic girl putting on her diaper

#handicapped girl #paralyzed #paragirl #disabled girls #crippled girl #paraplegic girl #paraplegic #wheelchairgirl #wheelchair girl #diaper gal

[agerefandom]

Hiya!!!! You can call me Batty, I was wondering if you feel comfy with doing a moodboard for a regressor Toshinori. (Specifically a disabled little if possible). He's my favorite and I project on him so much.

Thank you for your time!!! Have a great day and happy halloween!!!!! ~ 🦇🧡🦇

Toshinori is also my favourite!! I love him very much and I think he deserves the whole entire world. Thank you for the request, Batty!

#asks #bnha agere #my moodboards #fandom agere #agere moodboard #regressor moodboard #/diapers #batty anon #sfw agere #disabled agere #bnha

[seppukart]

The next fucking weirdo I see using the "#incontinence" and "#adult diapers" tag for fucking porn or "kinwky baby rowlepay uwu" I'm hunting them for sport. Have some damned basic respect. Jesus.

#incontinence #adult diapers #disabled #chronic illness #chronic pain #cripple punk #cripplepunk #disability #disability pride #physically disabled

[dangerradio]

labby!

#she has on a diaper bc of incontinence #bc she is disabled like me #pls be normal about it!! #owyart #owyocs #furry #fursona #labkat #sona #original character #oc

[anfisawheel]

#disabled #paraplegic #paraplegic girl #pretty para #wheelchair #women #paraplegicfeet #cast #brockentoe #castedleg #wheelchair girl #silla de ruedas #diaper pee

[mochiipudding]

Age regression discord server?

I made a cafe themed age regression server for those who are 18+ if anyone is interested, I seen most age regression servers were for underaged people most so I made one . Especially for those who are autistic , disabled (especially physically) but abled welcomed if want . Lemme know if anyone want to join, be aware its new so yeah. You can also roleplay that you're in a cafe too!

Run by physically disabled and autistic owner if that matters to you (for other disabled people who like being around other disabled people so saying this just in case)

#age regression #agere community #sfw agere #age dreaming #agere #age regressor #autistic agere #disabled agere #physically disabled regressor #baby regression #sfw toddler regression #sfw dips #sfw diaper wearing