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daily-starlo · 3 months

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[Day 15]

happy aromantic awareness week!!!

here's the flag i used as a reference! 👍

#starlo undertale yellow #starlo uty #undertale yellow #undertale yellow starlo #uty #uty starlo #undertale yellow fanart #uty fanart #aromantic #aromantic awareness week #aro #aro week #aro awareness week #he wouldnt be aro imo however i fully believe that he would be and extremely supportive ally. personal opinion!!!#however it would be extremely neato to see him as aroallo and that he had a squish on ceroba #and that he told his parents it was a crush because he didnt know that right terminology yet and it seemed close enough to how he felt.#after all this is aro week. aro headcanons win yippee!!!!!!!!!!!!#from: a cupioromantic <2 #i probably couldve toned the green down on him a bit more but EHHH its fine. hes a little too green but im too lazy to fix it so!!!!!!! <2 #ah fuck i forgot his pattern on the poncho. eeehhhhhh its fine. i cant fix it at the moment anyways its FINe-#love loses /pos

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jinhua-shu · 1 year

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OVERTHINKING, Scaramouche/Wanderer x GN!Reader

PART 1: OVERTHINKING

PART 2: HIS POINT OF VIEW

PART 3: HELPLESS

PART 4: THE AFTER-EFFECT

PART 5: I LOVE YOU DUMMY

It’ll all go down hill if the other party decides that he is not interested in pursuing something further with you. it will all lead to something sad. like you for example, aren’t you overthinking, assuming, being overly anxious of what has happened between the connection with the person whom you’re talking to? Let’s all calmly and sadly face the truth, that not everyone wants to be with us and etc. because, no one bothers to stay even when we’re at our lowest, there would always be that one person whom will just glance and look away at you. there would always be that one person who will simply, just stop to see what’s happening and walk away. there would be someone who will not care less of what you’re feeling, and simply intentionally ignore you. Leading to whatever feeling you’re feeling.

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It has all begun, when you had enough courage to talk to your crush to show him that you’re interested in him, only for it to backfire.

Scara isn’t really a person who you can keep conversations with, he’d simply brush you away or ignore you, but suddenly he started replying to your messages.

which gave you a bit of hope. but you had also hoped that you did not fall for that stupid shit. Being in the same Group Chats as him made you delusional, whenever he chats you’re there swooning at his cold replies towards your group of friends.

you’d hit the reply button the instant he texts something in the GC, only to be ignored completely, which made you even more determined to gather his attention.

you’ll always go and complain to your friends on why you’re such a cupioromantic or why you’re such a hopeless romantic, in which made them become fed up with your delusions.

“ He has only seen my message! is he that speechless? “ ‘ Yeah, girl he is. ‘ ‘ No doubt he’s trying to think of ways to confess ‘

‘ He’s ignoring you for being a nuisance. ‘ “ ... “ that’s how everyday conversations with your friends go. two are feeding you DELULU and one is fed up and wants you to focus on yourself.

* *

Scara is seen walking down the halls cellular phone on hand, he seems to not be paying attention to where he’s going, ending up him stumbling backwards because he just bumped onto you.

grumpily regaining his footing he glared at the person.

“ Watch where you’re going. “ he spat out continuing to scroll down through his phone, you stood still trying to comprehend the fact that he just talked to you.. before squealing. Scara looked back at you in confusion and waved it off, walking fast paced towards the exit, Scara hummed to himself continuing scrolling through his phone, before stopping at the message notification, he grumbled. it’s you again, that one annoying pest that doesn’t even know how to get the hint. he sighed as he started typing a response, he seems to have an idea in mind.

completely getting carried away, he found that talking to you is quite refreshing. he found solace in your company. he would never admit it but he seemed to have quite a huge interest on you.

2 weeks has passed, and you’re feeling over the clouds, who would never know? that the SCARAMOUCHE has been talking to you for 2 WEEKS! amazing!

you giggled as you sat on your bed, hugging a penguin plush tightly before sending scara a screenshot of a lyric from a song.

[ Maghihintay ako Hanggang mapasayo ]

[ (translation) I will wait until I’m yours ]

scaramouche scoffs as he simply reacted at the ss you sent and typed a response

“ I need some time to think. “ and sent it to you. you smiled as you stare at his response for more than 2 minutes before sending another message.

“ Take your time “

you smiled happily without knowing the confusion and discomfort that will settle down in your heart the next day.

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( Y/N POV )

I woke up feeling giddy, I sat down on my couch as i opened messenger, to check whether he has replied nor seen it.. turns out he hasn’t read it so I spent all of my time, distracting myself by doing my homework and watching movies on Netflix.

bored. i opened my phone to see him online, i checked the conversation whether he has seen it, i shrugged as i find out he still hasn’t read my message.

couple of hours has passed. i am now staring at his icon with a green dot, below his profile. he’s online and he won’t reply? is he that busy?

i gnawed on my nails as i laid down on my bed. i shouldn’t worry too much, he must be doing something and left the tab open.

i sleepily closed my eyes as i fell into a deep slumber. It is the start. of my feelings downfall.

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waking up completely out of void, feeling like something bad is happening or coming, i sighed as I checked once more, before becoming disappointed. Feeling empty and confused, i am left with my over bearing thoughts that is eating me alive. ‘ Why did he show that he’s interested in me? ‘, ‘ why did he show that he cares for me..? why? only to leave me in the dust. ‘ i shook those thoughts away as i calmed myself down. ‘It’s going to be fine, it has only been 2 days since then, it won’t impact you that much.’ oh how i was completely wrong.

i stayed in my room wondering what could’ve happened if I didn’t fully show him my feelings towards him, if i didn’t really let him know of what i was feeling.

a bunch of “what if’s” a bunch of “Why’s” but never “ I shouldn’t have. “

i sobbed on my pillow feeling distressed, the gnawing pain that’s on my heart, the confusion that’s lingering on my brain. the exasperated breathing that i am doing to inhale oxygen.

He must be talking to his friends. He must be having fun or playing.. but in all honesty, why should I care, why should i have to endure all of this emotions, all of these feelings, when he’s not even mine.

i shouldn’t have messaged him, i should’ve just admired him from afar and let time make me move on slowly.

why does it have to hurt this bad? you’re not even mine..

why do i have to overthink?.. when you’re not even mine.

#scaramouche #genshin scaramouche #genshin angst #genshin impact #genshin wanderer #genshin scara #wanderer x y/n #wanderer x reader #kunikuzushi #kabukimono #scara x reader #scara x y/n #scara x you #wanderer x traveler #nahida #aunt nahida #genshin high school au #teyvat

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aroacesafeplaceforall · 26 days

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Hey I was wndering if you know which flag is the cupiaro one and which is the cupioace one

Im cupioaro but i honestly dont know which one is my flag?? Everytime i search for one both of these appear:

Image descriptions:

1. A pride flag with 5 horizontal stripes, from top to bottom: Reddish nude, lighter reddish nude, white, lavender and gray.

2. A pride flag with 4 horizontal stripes, from top to bottom: Gray, lavender, whie and light pink. /end ID.

Sometimes there is a green one too and idk which is which 🫠 does somebody know the answer

I could not tell you even with a gun to my head hang on a moment while I google

Okay so yeah cupioromantic is apparently image 2, (four stripes)

#asks #ask #cupio #cupioromantic #cupiosexual

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spirits-gender-coining · 1 month

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Cupioromflagic

[pt: Cupioromflagic /end pt]

A gender related to the colors of the Cupioromantic flag.

The upper flags include the original Cupioromantic flag. The lower flags include an edited version of the Cupioromantic flag, in hopes to reduce eyestrain.

[ID 1: Two Flags with five horizontal stripes each. The colors are from top to bottom: dark pastel pink, pastel pink, white, pastel purple, pastel black. On the flag is a smaller version of the Cupioromantic flag that follows the same color order, with a white outline. On the left flag the stripes are messy, while on the right flag the stripes are straight. /end ID 1]

[ID 2: Two Flags with five horizontal stripes each. The colors are from top to bottom: dark pink, lighter pink, white, purple, dark purple. On the flag is a smaller version of the alternative Cupioromantic flag that follows the same color order, with a white outline. On the left flag the stripes are straight, while on the right flag the stripes are messy. /end ID 2]

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averagecatdoodlesenjoyer · 3 months

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Strawberry Shortcake Lady pride pfps (part 3)

Part 1

Part 2

Aro and ace-spec identities edition! (continuation in reblogs)

Free to use without credit.

What the flags stand for under the cut

From left to right:

Asexual

Aromantic

Aromantic-Asexual/AroAce

Aromantic-Asexual/AroAce (alternative flag)

Graysexual

Grayromantic

Demisexual

Demiromantic

Aegosexual

Aegoromantic

Apothisexual

Apothiromantic

Cupiosexual

Cupioromantic

Fraysexual

Frayromantic

Aceflux

Aroflux

Aroaceflux

Desinosexual

Desinoromantic

Lithsexual/lithromantic

Lithromantic

Quoisexual

Quoiromantic

Reciprosexual

Recipromantic

Asexual spectrum

Aromantic spectrum

#your turn to die #yttd #eyestrain

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plantboiart · 4 months

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I love polls. Another one.

#just roll with it #jrwi #jrwi show #jrwi bitb #jrwi riptide #jrwi prime defenders #jrwi fanfiction #jrwi blood in the bayou #jrwi pd #prime defenders #blood in the bayou #riptide

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webby-mogai · 4 months

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cupioromantic + cannibalistic attraction

[pt: cupioromantic + cannibalistic attraction /end pt]

A flag for when you're cupioromantic and also experience cannibalistic attraction(link)

simplified/accessible

[pt: simplified/accessible /end pt]

Based on the gendercannibal(link) and the cupioromantic flag

[cupioromantic cannibalistic attraction flag id: a rectangular flag with 13 horizontal lines. the 1st, 2nd, 12th, and 13th line are triangular. the 4th and 10th line are wavy, and the rest are straight. line sizes in this order from top to bottom: 2 thick, 9 medium, 2 thick. the 4th line has been made to look like it is dripping from multiple spots. colors in this order starting from the top and reflected after the last listed color: dark pink, reddish pink, pink, light pink, reddish white, light purple, and dark reddish brown. all colors are desaturated. in the center of the flag is a heart shaped piece of meat with desaturated pink flesh. /end id]

[divider id: a transparent divider with cartoon drawings of a heart, an eye, and lungs in that order. it repeats 5 or so times /end id]

[simplified cupioromantic cannibalistic attraction flag id: a rectangular flag with 13 horizontal lines. the 1st, 5th, 6th, 7th, 8th, 9th, and 13th line are medium thickness, the 2nd and 12th lines are thicker, 3rd and 11th are thinnest, and the 4th and 10th are thickest. colors in this order starting from the top and reflected after the last listed color: dark pink, reddish pink, pink, light pink, reddish white, light purple, and dark reddish brown. all colors are desaturated. in the center of the flag is a heart shaped piece of meat with desaturated pink flesh. /end id]

[divider id: a transparent divider with cartoon images of a brain, a tooth, and intestines in that order. it's repeated 5 or so times /end id]

[banner id: a black banner with a white outline and white outlined text with a drawing to the left on a transparent background. the text reads "READ MY IWC" in big text and underneath it reads "anyone can use my terms but I will block you" in smaller text. to the left is a drawing of Higan drawn by John/TOOBOE squatting with her knees together. /end id]

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skyes-fanweeks · 9 months

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Act Addict Aro Week 2023

Please look forward to Act Addict Aro Week this November! The text version of all the information in the graphic will be under the cut.

A3! Act! Addict! Aro! Week 2023 will be held from November 13 to November 19.

Rules and Information:

This is a week for celebrating aro(spec) identities and hcs! This includes all identities and labels under the aro spectrum, such as cupioromantic, lithromantic, etc, and can be combined with other forms of attraction.

The prompts are just for ideas, you do not need to strictly follow them!

All contributions must be tagged with the appropriate content warnings.

All kinds of contributions are welcomed, including fics, art, edits, etc. If you have questions, please let me know!

Prompts:

Day 1 - Firsts / Lasts Day 2 - Too Soon / Too Late Day 3 - Sweet Dreams / Bitter Reality Day 4 - Satisfaction / Regret Day 5 - Love / Heartbreak Day 6 - Technicolor / Monochrome Day 7 - Free Day

#act addict aro 2023 #a3 #aromantic #fan week

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starrzies · 21 days

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★Meet the Artist 2024★

I might have forgotten to post this </3

Hello there!!

I'm Starrzies, but I also go by Rodimus!! Of these two names I prefer my nicknames (Starrz/Roddy) more than the formality of my full username/chosen name!! I'm 19 and a full time college student! (I want to become a Forensic Pathologist!) My pronouns are He/They ONLY and my chosen gender identity is Demiboy! I'm also Aroace, my specific labels being Cupioromantic/sexual!

I'm just a silly little guy trying to do his best. I am a hobbyist artist and writer and I love to share what I come with in the hopes that other people will enjoy it as much as I do! I tend to post art related to my own characters, art I've done for other people and - more rarely - fandom related art! I also stream on Twitch!!! Usually it's art streams (especially for Art Fight!) or me playing my games - either solo or with other people! I do have a Discord server full of my friends, mutuals and people interested in my stuff and community! Feel free to come join :) I'm on basically on every platform (maybe not active, but I'm there!)

My special interest (been into it for as long as I can remember) is Transformers!! It will almost always show up at some point! I'm also super into Lego Monkie Kid, Overwatch and Genshin Impact!! (The last of the 2 I on and off play!) I tend to reblog content form these 4 fandoms! (They're the main 4 but I may branch out!)

I try and be super friendly! Really, I don't bite, but I do have a very limited social battery! So conversations may not last very long when it comes to talking! I also sometimes just don't have the energy to reply. If I don't reply then it's nothing against you, I promise!! That being said I AM TOTALLY OPEN TO BEING FRIENDS/MUTUALS!! Please note, if you are younger than 18 I will NOT be your close friend, close mutuals at most. This is just due to safety! (Pre-established friends before I became an adult are still a nd will remain my friends.)

Pets! I own,,, a few. Just a small little amount. They're all my babies though and I adore them. I do my beast to take proper care of them and give them long, happy and fulfilling lives! Hiraeth and Ravage both came from litters I've raised! (Hiraeth being an accident and Ravage from a foster litter.) Ember was my sibling's cat but became mine because she just,,, likes me more? My other pets were 100% intended! All of these guys are spoiled rotten,,,

Silly little notes/explanations!!

Cupioromantic/sexual; someone who doesn't feel/feels little romantic/sexual attraction but desires a romantic/sexual relationship

Demiboy; someone whose gender identity partially identifies with masculinity, but is not entirely binary

I've been in relationships before! However, I generally only feel platonic love for people around me. I genuinely love (/p) all of my friends and you'll see me make that very clear! I am NOT interested in relationships, especially after this most recent one. Things have gotten complicated AF and I don't even want to bother entertaining anyone.

I have a Decepticon Insignia Tattoo on my left wrist! My first tattoo ever and I LOVE it so much! I will be going back in October for hopefully, my second tattoo!

I own a 2001 Ford Mustang!! It's a convertible too! I ADORE my car so much and there is so much I have planned for it!!

I own 4 dogtags! They are NOT military related at all though! They just have special meaning to me and I've been wearing them since 2018! I did actually let someone borrow one of them for a decent amount of time but it was returned to me! I don't think I'm ever going to let them go again, they mean too much to me.

Ravage is named after the TF character! :D He was my little gaming buddy back when I was fostering a litter of kittens for my senior project. I ended up keeping him, I got too attached. Now he is best friends with Ember!

Hiraeth was a TOTAL accident. I was supposed to just have her mom but she was pregnant much to our surprise! (Someone was getting rid of her, probably because they knew she was pregnant, and gave her to us without telling us that lol) I was allowed to keep Hiraeth but none of the other cats were allowed :( They all went to loving homes though!

Discord is my main, preferred way of communication!! I always have it open on my second monitor so I tend to respond really quickly on there :) You should totally add me on there! I'm under the same username ;)

Feel free to interact with me!! Just be aware of my boundaries and DNI! (Very basic btw!) I'm always happy to chat and meet new people :)

I want to make a comic!! I have so much more planning before I can work on it though :( One day! You may see little teasers to it being posted on my socials!!

This blog is my SFW blog!! I do have,, other accounts but those will remain unnamed! If you are curious and have your age visible feel free to ask me about it in DMs!

WHEW, I think that's enough personal info that I'm putting on the internet LMFAOOO I'll be sure to redo this next year as well ;))

Quick Reminder!! I DO NOT allow people to reupload, repost, claim, trace, reference or use my art without my Permission! If my art is posted anywhere else other than my accounts it’s not mine! If you like my work, consider following me or commissioning me!! (This does not count if the art was made for you! Please remember to credit me though!!)

Art Trades are Open! Commissions are Open!! Do NOT ask me about Requests!! Do NOT; Reupload, Repost, Claim, Trace, Reference or use my art without my Permission! 💜

You can Dm me Questions or Concerns! Like my work? Check out my Carrd for where else you can find me!

#starrz-art #starrz txt #starrz info #digital art #art #digital artist #meet the artist #meet the artist 2024 #art meme #art challenge #This is a few months late WHOOPS #Use this information as you will lol #Don't get parasocial though #I will block you lmao #all this info is available in my carrd too!!

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cepheusgalaxy · 4 months

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Hello and welcome! Take a seat.

(Askbox is open, any questions go in. I may take a while to answer since I'm in full time highschool but yea 👍)

My name's Angel, but you can also call me Blanc or Bug. My pronouns are fluid but they usually float around they/he/it in English, and ele/elu/dile in Portuguese. I am a cupioromantic asexual pal whose first language is not English (I'm Brazilian), so, sometimes y'all's language won't make sense to me.

Pride: (pride)

Things to do for Pride (my list)

Angel is not reblogging anything undescribed for Pride

Cool posts I did:

Oc intro post! <2 (new)

Whumpblr introdution

Taglist masterpost

My Febuwhump writing masterlist

"So, you wanna make them ace?" - a guide to writing ace characters

Other important stuff:

My #pronouns tag and #name tag

Angel's list of bad words (slurs, am I right)

> How you can help Palestine

> "I'm a minor and I want to help Palestine!"

> Proteja sua arte de IA no Tumblr!/Protect your art from AI on Tumblr!

(Wadda wadda important thing for my current wip)

What you'll mostly see here:

Whumpblr

Writeblr

Artblr

Reblogs about fandom stuff

Oc stuff

Queer

Disclaimers:

If you don't like whump, I advise you to block the tags "whump" and "whump prompts". All of my whump posts and reblogs are tagged with either one or another.

I have a lot of ocs! If you wanna meet them, check the oc masterpost or feel free to ask me about them!

If I ever miss a trigger warning, please warn me!

You can also block 'vent', 'swearing', 'swearing in tags', 'undescribed', 'self rb' and 'hate tag'.

And if you ever see that I described a post of yours, feel free to adding it to your post! You don't need to tag me.

Note:

I love love love receiving asks. I love ask games specifically. If you want to send an ask, feel free!

(Magic system ideas post)

#intro #intro post #pinned post #artblr #whumpblr #writeblr #about me #new pinned post #put the febuwhump masterlist coz i dont wanna lose it #btw these last two links #about ai and art #theres one in portuguese and one on english 👍#colored text

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mogai-headcanons · 9 months

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Scout from Team Fortress 2 is an autistic queerplatonic nebularomantic nebulasexual mspc straight boydyke transfeminine boy genderpunk bulletsgender autigender lesboyconnec trans man with hyperactive ADHD, bipolar disorder, dyslexia, misophonia, NPD, psychosis, and tics who mainly uses he/him pronouns, but occasionally uses she/her, and he's in a QPR with Pyro and Sniper!

Soldier is an autistic disabled polyamorous T4T aspec pansexual boydyke bear transfeminine boy autigender raccoongender warhistogender genderqueer guy with delusions, hyperactive ADHD, bipolar disorder, misophonia, PTSD, psychosis, schizophrenia, and tics who uses he/him and they/them pronouns, and he's married to Demo and Zhanna and dating Engineer!

Pyro is an autistic GNC thistle femme polyamorous T4T queerplatonic objectum aromantic aegosexual gaybian leather bear genderpunk autigender agendercute unicorngender pyromanienigmatic pyrogender firething girlboything genderqueer bigender thing with delusions, bipolar disorder, DPDR, MaDD, misophonia, OCD, C-PTSD, psychosis, and schizophrenia who uses he/him, she/her, and any neopronouns, and pop is in a QPR with Scout and dating Demoman!

Demoman is an autistic disabled polyamorous T4T queerplatonic omni gay bear genderpunk trans man with chronic pain, chronic fatigue, combined ADHD, bipolar disorder, DPDR, misophonia, OCD, PTSD, psychosis, and tics who uses he/him pronouns, and he's married to Soldier and Zhanna and dating Pyro!

Heavy is an autistic disabled objectum demiqueerplatonic demiromantic gay lesther bear cassgender trans man with chronic fatigue, alexithymia, ASPD, bipolar disorder, depression, misophonia, OCD, PTSD, and psychosis who uses he/him pronouns, and he's married to Medic and dating Engineer!

Engineer is an autistic disabled polyamorous T4T queerplatonic objectum cupioromantic acespec mspec gay bear autigender techfluid nonbinary man with chronic pain, delusions, bipolar disorder, DPDR, misophonia, NPD, and psychosis who uses he/him, it/its, and she/her pronouns, and it's dating Soldier, Heavy, and Medic!

Medic is an autistic GNC polyamorous T4T aroacespec gay leather twink dovegender madsciencegender agender person with delusions, ASPD, bipolar disorder, misophonia, NPD, OCD, psychosis, and tics who uses any pronouns, and xe are married to Heavy and dating Engineer!

Sniper is an autistic queerplatonic objectum aroflux demisexual unlabeled transmasc animalcoric autigender agender person with chronic pain, chronic fatigue, alexithymia, ASPD, bipolar disorder, DPDR, misophonia, C-PTSD, psychosis, and tics who uses they/them and he/him pronouns and is experimenting with ve/veir, and they're in a QPR with Scout!

Spy is an autistic GNC futch polyamorous arospec apressexual abosexual girlfag monsieurgender gendernoir genderfluid pronounfluid lesboy turigirl with alexithymia, combined ADHD, bipolar disorder, DPDR, misophonia, NPD, OCD, and psychosis!

Miss Pauling is an autistic thistle femme demiqueeplatonic T4T acespec lesbian girlfag genderpunk trans woman with chronic fatigue, alexithymia, ASPD, bipolar disorder, depression, misophonia, OCD, and psychosis who uses she/her pronouns!

Zhanna is an autistic disabled butch polyamorous T4T bisexual girlfag cassgender trans woman with alexithymia, bipolar disorder, misophonia, PTSD, psychosis, and tics who uses she/her, he/him, and they/them pronouns, and she's married to Soldier and Demoman!

Merasmus is an autistic disabled GNC soft butch aromantic bi lesbian transmasculine girl bigender demiboy lesboy with chronic pain, ASPD, bipolar disorder, depression, misophonia, NPD, OCD, and psychosis who mainly uses she/her pronouns, but occasionally uses he/him or any pronouns!

dni link

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love-you-like-the-movies · 10 months

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cool so next question what is "arospike"?

AH HI I DID NOT SEE THIS LMAO

So, Im gonna guess you have an understanding of aromantic right? Where you dont feel romantic attraction.

Well, just like ace, aro has a spectrum. The ace equivalent of arospike is actually just called acespike.

But to put it simply, my ‘baseline’ attraction level is little to none. Im basically just aromantic 90% of the time. Every once in a while though, I will just get this ‘spike’ of romantic attraction targeted at a person. Usually it only lasts from a few days to like 2 weeks. But because I dont feel these emotions often, they can be REALLY overwhelming and usually (for me at least) all I can really focus on. And then once the spike is over I go back to my ‘baseline’ level

It took me a while to figure out I was a-spec actually because of that. I didnt start IDing as a-spec until half way through college, and found the term arospike existed about a year ago now? For a little while I used cupioromantic, but arospike is a LOT more accurate for me

#mail tag #friends!!!#arospike #aromantic

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scribblemew · 10 months

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SEASON 2 HEARTSTOPPER KINDA SPOILERS!! READ AT YOUR OWN RISK!!! :)

Isaac is so cupioromantic coded in this show and I as a cupioromantic person myself, have NEVER related to a character so specifically.

Cupioromanticism (for those who don’t know) are people that are on the aromantic spectrum (feel little to no romantic attraction) but these people have the want or desire for a romantic relationship. The idea of a romantic relationship is appealing to them, but they don’t feel the romantic attraction that supposedly comes with these relationships.

A tiny bit of backstory, I didn’t know about being cupioromantic until more recently. I’ve identified as aroace for a very long time, but often found myself questioning it. While I know i’ve never felt romantic or sexual attraction, the idea of a romantic relationship has always appealed to me. I desire to have that intense closeness and intimacy people only seem to get when they have a partner. I wondered if I were a lesbian for a very long time, but never pictured myself having sexual or romantic feelings for someone else, even another woman.

While doing research, I came across the terms “romance favorable” and “cupioromantic”. The concept of being cupioromantic resonated with me almost immediately. It’s as if everything I’d been feeling had been described in one singular word.

Cupioromanticism is something that not tons of people are aware of, from what I’ve noticed, especially since it is part of the aromantic spectrum (which also, is something that the world and even the queer community don’t always address)

Back to heartstopper, Isaac, exhibits so many cupioromantic traits, especially in season 2. Throughout the series you see him reading many queer books, and not only ones about asexuality. (Here’s a link to an article discussing all the books he’s read throughout the series so far)

From this and from his behaviors in season 2, it’s clear that he wants to be in love. He WANTS to have romantic feelings for James (the gay boy that has a crush on him) and Isaac goes as far as asking Charlie what it feels like to actually like someone.

When James kissed Isaac, he had anticipated for it to be magical, and fantastic, but it wasn’t. There weren’t any feelings involved on his end. When he talked to James about it later, he states that he’s been doing research so he’d know what it’s like to have feelings for another person. he wanted it to happen, he EXPECTED to have feelings for James. He genuinely thought the kiss they shared was going to be just as amazing as everyone said, but it wasn’t.

Later on, as Isaac looks at the art piece made to represent the aro/ace spectrum, he seems to relate to it a lot. As it’s been confirmed that he is on the aro/ace spec, they haven’t specified where. Regardless though, throughout the series it’s clear that Isaac does in fact have an interest in romantic relationships, he seemingly even wants to have one with James. He was excited about it, up until he realized he didn’t have the same romantic attraction James had for him.

Considering that cupioromanticism isn’t very well- known, I doubt they are going to explore the topic much. However, as a cupioromantic, I’ve decided this is some of the best representation for it that I’ve ever seen. whether it’s intentional or not, I relate to Isaac in a very cupioromantic way.

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lifmera · 3 months

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Hihi (took me 2-3 minutes to figure out how to start this lmao) anyways i would like to request a match-make for a hazbin character pretty please with a cherry on top🙏🙏

Trans masc (any pronouns but prefer he/it)

Pansexual, lithromantic, and cupioromantic

5’5, long-ish blonde faded to black hair, sky blue eyes with glasses, and i either dress wannabe goth, or adam sandler. No inbetween haha.

Southern (and texan).

Favorite colors are hot pink and blood red.

I like Hazbin/Helluva, Gravity Falls, Steven Universe, Rick & Morty, and American Dad

I love drawin and readin 🫶

Favorite music artists are Elvis Presley, Melanie Martinez, Calypso, and ICP currently

Favorite songs from them are, Only You, Moon Cycle or Dollhouse, Creature or Carnival of Carnage, And Great Milenko or In My Room

Favorite games are Fnaf, Dying Light, Skyrim, and Farcry

I have 9 pets. 5 cats, 3 dogs, and a snake

Thats about it I believe, take your time and consider (i’m awesome/j)🙏

IVE FINALLY GOT TO YOU.

Eughahwhe love the pfp.

I’ve decided to pair you with…… ADAM!

He definitely loves your style. When he first saw your gothy style he begged you to become an exorcist. I also think if Adam wasn’t always wearing a robe he’d probably dress like Adam Sandler too.

He loves ur accent. He definitely would think its hot!!

Blood red?!!! Join the exorcists!!!!! He loves it too!!! Hot pink- not so much. But he’s happy if you are.

He would love American Dad. This man probably binges it on the weekend.

He doesn’t get the point of reading, but then again, it’s Adam. He’d definitely like to listen to bed time stories because if he talks, he’ll be up all night.

HE LOVES ICP. LETS BE SO REAL. ICP FOR LIFE!!! Personally I think his fav song is dead body man

He’s make you play FNAF and screams at all the jumpscares.

THE AMOUNT OF PETS?? He’d be so surprised. But probably loves animals. He’ll definitely think you are a badass for owning a snake, but i think he also hates snakes cause of lucifer.

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HOPE THIS WAS OKAY DARLING !!

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aroacesafeplaceforall · 6 months

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Hey Jamie, thought maybe it was better to send an ask instead of texting idk.

I'm confused :(

I can't tell the difference between platonic, sexual, and romantic attractions.

Bc the thing is, I'm polyamorous, sexual, and have made out with friends and such. My views on platonic relationships aren't the most common.

And I crave love and a romantic relationship. I have been in several, I've also been in love (which is quite distinct from crushes so I don't put those 2 in the same box). And there's a few ppl I could be interested in/see myself with...

However, even in my prev relationships, it's like I only gain romantic feelings after we start dating. Before that it's just like we hv chemistry and so I'm up for it. But I'm not crushing on the person, yk? I usually don't develop feelings unless the other person has them too.

Do I want to date these people bc I have feelings or bc we're friends and they're nice and hot? Idk, is this an arospec thing...? Help-

I missed this, fuck im so sorry Jaylien-

I got you're message about maybe grayromantic but heres a few more just in case :)

Aroflux: People who identify as aroflux may experience their romantic orientation as fluctuating between experiencing and not experiencing romantic attraction, or that attraction is being experienced to alternating or changing degrees Cupioromantic: describes those who do not experience attraction but do desire a romantic relationship Demiromantic: describes people who do not experience romantic attraction until they have formed a deep emotional connection with someone, grayromantic includes, but is not limited to, people who feel low amounts of romantic attraction, rarely feel romantic attraction, only feel romantic attraction under specific circumstances, or are not sure if they experience romantic attraction

source

Hope this helps and again im so fucking sorry

#ask #asks #aromantic #aro #aro pride

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golden-haired-native · 5 months

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I just realized I’ve never done this so, here’s a quick intro post!

Name: Dan/Danny

Pronouns: Any, He/they preferred. Neopronouns welcome

Gender: AMAB nonbinary/2 spirit

Sexuality: Aroace and bi (demiromantic, cupioromantic, biromantic, and apothisexual. I do not feel sexual attraction at all, and I feel minimal romantic attraction, yet I like the idea of romance itself.)

Religion: Nonchristian, ex-mormon, animistic. I believe all living things have a soul, whether small or large and that all of the gods of each religion are derived from a universal energy, different gods being different aspects of the energy. I regard certain things as sacred such as certain plants and animals as well as many objects and symbols of significance.

Likes: The Magnus Archives, Welcome to Nightvale, The Owl House, South Park, Futurama, I love art and drawing. My main hobby is spreading awareness and sharing about the aro and ace spec identities!

Dislikes: TERFS, aphobes, zionists, bigots, JK Rowling, racists, homophobes, and all assholes in general. And I have a pet peeve for when people randomly stop walking when they are right in front of you.

#intro post #blog intro #lgbtq #lgbtqia #aroace

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