#it literally doesn’t affect you at all

[ocdhuacheng]

When chainsaw man dudebros act like headcanoning denji as bi is the worst most hurtful unfair ooc thing you can do to him like… okay mind your business clearly you don’t know what fun is I bet you have So many friends who Love to hang out with you.

#I’m not even saying this in a justifying shipping way not everything is about shipping or the fucking fujoshis or whatever #I’m ​saying this because why does it hurt you so much for people to think this #this is not shipping discourse bc that’s stupid I just think it would be cool if he was bi #it literally doesn’t affect you at all #.txt #csm #denji #cc #anyway I love denji my bi best friend who is bi swings both ways if you will even if he doesn’t know it yet

[cock-holliday]

Sometimes wild attraction shit happens when you learn to separate masc/fem from man/woman. I’ve known queer women find the femininity in a man attractive. I’ve known gay men get so hot and bothered by the masculinity of a woman.

There was once a guy who was not really my type but then he did drag and was suddenly wildly attractive to me. And since I’m bisexual it doesn’t give me a crisis when someone is suddenly hot to me in an unconventional way. I used to think this was particularly a bi experience.

Then I’ve met plenty of gay men and lesbians who are also chill about that sort of thing. Sometimes life is like that “oops made out with a twink in Brighton who turned out to be a lesbian who thought I was a lesbian” and sometimes it’s like “hey, I’m not normally into men but this guy has got something hot going on.”

#and this of course leaves out androgyny in all its formss #or feminine masculinity and masculine feminity and so on #gender and sexuality are weird #don’t get too hung up on it #you don’t HAVE to like anyone #someone liking you doesnt mean you have to return it! #AND two people who you don’t think should fit together fitting together doesn’t affect you literally at all #LJsm

[daylighteclipsed]

actually it’s kinda funny how KH1 ends with Riku telling Sora to take care of Kairi and then Sora completely does not do that and searches for Riku refusing to go home at all without him

#kingdom hearts #soriku #like from the hetnorm view of ‘ah the love triangle is resolved! sora gets the girl and who knows when we’ll see riku again ! #there’s even a montage in sepia like he’s dead ! but that’s okay cause sora will be happy with kairi :)’ #and then sora immediately not going home with kairi #and the epilogue or whatever showing he’s looking for riku #that’s p funny i can’t lie #i love how CoM has repliku literally call sora out on this too #and sora has nothing to say bc what can he say #he feels bad but he’s not sorry #his pride won’t let him say what he wants to say ‘i want you to come home. i miss you’ #especially with ‘riku’ acting like a jerk again. sora doesnt want to risk coming across desperate or weak. pathetic #which is ironic since bc i think if sora was willing to say how much riku means to him that would’ve had an affect on repliku #bc that’s what kh1 era riku needs to hear right? he needs to know that sora really loves him #and isn’t just playing hero for his ego or bc kairi is waiting for riku to come back or something #…which makes the kh2 reunion hit harder. bc all of sora’s walls are down then and he is basically pouring his heart out to riku #he’s weak and he doesn’t care. he’s pathetic but it’s not a bad thing #he’s just being honest about how much riku means to him

[deityofhearts]

cheerleaders 🤝 equestrians (but specifically horse girls): your sport not being taken seriously by other people and being treated like a joke

#deity dialogue #when I was in middle school my computer teacher was also a football coach and would have ‘banter’ with the cheer coach (who was also an #assistant teacher for my math class btw she was so sweet she helped me a lot in class and also made me a bow which was stolen from me :( ) #about how ‘football was a real sport and cheerleading wasn’t’ LIKE ARE YOU KIDDING ME #jsut because cheerleaders look cute and are peppy and more often than not girls and women you don’t take anything they do seriously #do you understand the strength and agility and flexibility needed to be a cheerleader do you see the shit they’re doing and you have the #gall not to respect what they do as a sport??? i wasn’t a cheerleader but a few of my friends were and I respect them so much that shit must #have taken so much of everything #obvs I’m not covering the full scale of what it takes to be a cheerleader cause again I wasn’t one but like I’m so pissed whenever people #have the audacity to act like it’s not a serious sport and I’m mad at the same for equestrians as well. #Also generally I hate people who think cheerleaders are inherently awful and bitches like y’all shouldn’t generalize just because some #people in a group are mean or popularly portrayed as mean doesn’t mean it’s true my friends from school were sweet to literally everyone so #can it. this isn’t me like dismissing anyone who’s been bullied by anyone but don’t like assume everyone is terrible thanks bye #it’s the misogyny and we all know it :/ it affects men in the sports as well because if you’re a male cheerleader you’re treated badly and #it’s the misogyny and we all know it

[swordmaid]

was taking screencaps of shri’iia and astarion making out in the sewers like the little rats they are and I just caught shri’iia’s shy smile…..omg……what if I ended it all….

#man I love her smile lines too it is so cute to me #I found a mod that reduces its appearance im like nooooo…. I can’t be without her cute smile wrinkles #mmmhm shri’iia’s journey with expressing affections is like. it’s not that she’s against it AT all it’s more like her forms of affections #before we’re literally let me kill this person for you PLEASE dog tail wagging I want to please you so bad and the only way I know how is #to ruin people’s lives for you 😍😍🥰 like see how useful I am to you don’t you love that praise me #please please pleeeaaseeee……..!!!!! 🥹🥹 but now she has to be more normal I think #like acts of affections is just SO new to her and she is just shy because she doesn’t know how to handle it yet. but once she does and #she’s more comfy with it she def likes it … like I was thinking she prob has never hugged or been hugged before #the first time she was held she’s like 🧍‍♀️❓❓ what are you doing and what do I do. #it’s like when u adopt a stray and they’re not used to being loved yet <- literally her #but she’s learning hehe 🤭 and in the epilogue she goes around hugging everybody bc she discovered she likes to hug and hold and be held etc #her love language is def acts of service .. #shut up about bg3. #bg3

[ven-of-the-valley]

I will never turn down the opportunity to hear about someone’s OC or WIP. I love hearing people talk about stuff they made and are passionate about. It makes me so genuinely happy.

It doesn’t matter if we’re strangers or best friends. It doesn’t matter if you’re on the verge of publishing or it will never see the light of day. It doesn’t matter if the lore is deep and developed or if you literally just came up with some dude two minutes ago. Tell me the things! I love the things!

#I love creators so much #even the smallest ones have the biggest stories #I love it #I always feel so special when people share that with me #and so excited too #I was talking with random the other day about this #I hope they know I meant it when I said I want all the lore #even the lore that doesn’t affect me #I don’t care #I love wips and ocs #people are so cool and creative #I’m dead serious too #I know these tags are long sorry #but if you’ve gotten this far and you have no one to share your stuff with #you do now bitch #ocs #wips #original characters #works in progress #writers on tumblr #writeblr #artists on tumblr #artblr #literally just throw me in a discord where we only talk about ocs and I will die happy #normalize chatting about ocs #normalize fandoms of two people who know about a wip #ven diaries

[francisforever2014]

“i hate children but—“ is honestly such an annoying fucking way to start a sentence . even if it’s saying that you’re still kind to them etc etc it’s still so weird to me that people constantly have to express their hatred for a group of people that have no control over being “annoying” or whatever makes people “HATE” them. like that is just such an unnecessarily strong word to use against the most helpless people among us imo. you can dislike children you can think they’re a bit much sometimes you can not want to be around them bc they stress you out . its good for people to know their limits so they’re not in situations where their stress would harm children !!but to say you hate them is so??? like obnoxious to me idk. also maybe it’s just bc i was an observant kid and am around observant kids but i feel like if you profess that you hate children constantly but “act nice” around they probably feel that hate . bc children know when they’re not wanted and guess what . it fucks them up like why would you add to that even minutely. maybe work on not hating vulnerable small beings instead of being so proud of it . it’s just unnecessary and annoying to me like okay . good for you ig

#this is kinda words recreationally like i don’t necessarily think it’s That Serious all the time #but i do think that little things add up #and the fact that it’s so acceptable to profess HATRED for an entire vulnerable group of people #is part (even if it’s a tiny part) of the large scale disrespect aduse and disenfranchisement of children #basically i think it’s over dramatic to say at best and actively harmful at worst #but idk #i just hate when there’s a post like about x topic . and so many people have to add on their little caveats and adjustments . like who care #s #that’s not really the point and the fact that you can’t see a post about literally just being nice to children without being like #me personally i HATE THEM is so 😭😭 #maybe have a little kid come up and hug you and show you a picture they drew for you and maybe you’ll chill a little…. #speaking as somebody who doesn’t want children and knows my limits and sets clear boundaries with the children in my life to avoid them #being negatively affected by any stress/overstimulation i feel #it’s weird TO ME how often this seems to be stretched to generalized hatred

[dilf-phoenix-rights]

Abled neurotypical people love to pull out the “not everything needs to be tailored to you!!” when disabled people are literally just asking that you don’t talk down to people who can’t prioritize the super “easy” lifestyle choices you promote.

#like im not saying you as an abled person have to make videos on how curly haired disabled people can more easily style their hair #(tho that would be cool) #im saying ‘hey maybe don’t imply that people who say they don’t have the time/energy to do this are lazy and/or stupid.’ #…that’s literally it!! #even if someone is completely abled… if they don’t want to spend a lot of time on their hair that doesn’t make them ‘bad at prioritizing’ #when hair styling is obviously very cosmetic #it has personal importance to a lot of people but if some ppl decide they don’t want to do all that #what right does that give you to say they ‘dont have their priorities straight’?? It’s not like a moral failing #or even something that is physically bad for them #I swear you will ask abled people to just not needlessly shame people when they are explaining something #and they’ll be like ‘oh so it’s *my* responsibility to think about how my words affect other people??’ #like… yes. yes it is.

[iliveinprocrasti-nationn]

ppl will go “i’d notice if society was going to sacrifice a marginalised group of people and if they said that it’s ok that a bunch of people would die then i would stand against it” and then they’ll hear people saying “well only disabled and vulnerable people will die of covid” and go “yes this is normal and ok and fine”

#first of all it’s not only disabled people who are dying and also covid can disable you real quick and make you part of that group that #people are fine with dying #but also do y’all hear yourself bed sometimes. the amount of people who claim to be allies but with throw others aside as soon as it #interferes with their comfort #also there have been so many studies and reports and articles on how covid disproportionally affects poc. not to mention inequalities in #healthcare that come into play too when you’re dealing with a pandemic #but as soon as y’all have to stop going to parties or restaurants or isolating for two weeks when exposed or confirmed positive or even if #you suspect you have it. or any of the millions of other things that at this point are important facets of community care and protecting #yourself and others from a disease that has been proven and continues to be proven to do a lot of damage to the body #y’all just balk. you don’t drop your claims but that doesn’t mean you’ve dropped your allyship #I’d love to go back to normal. i’d love to go out without a mask and eat in restaurants and do all the things i did before covid #but i won’t. because i know that isn’t safe for me or my friends/family/community and also quite literally isn’t possible now because we’re #still in a pandemic. if you claim to be an ally to disabled people then prove it and mask #I can’t speak as fully on allyship to other communities who are disproportionately impacted but not masking harms everyone and if anyone #does want to speak on allyship to their communit(y/ies) feel free to go ahead #covid tw #fired up about this because i’m doing radioactive iodine treatment in a few weeks and my mother is taking no precautions. not only am i at #risk if i catch covid but if she gets sick i either have to postpone my treatment to care for her (which risks giving my cancer more time to #metastasise if there are cells left) or i have to figure out another plan for treatment since my current plan hinges on her help since i #have to isolate #im just tired and frustrated. a pandemic doesn’t stop just because you get bored #vent tw #this is not as eloquent as i wish it was and the lack of punctuation and tone can make parts confusing but i think y’all get my point

[onyx-got-clowned]

I’m ranting in the tags because the topic is apparently sensitive on here

no tw or cw, just pissed off and concerned

#One of my favorite artist l//nk sh//ps… #I feel like it’s the plague and i don’t know who has it tho #it’s like a jumpscare when i find out they l//nksh//ip #There is a reason it’s also called l//nk c3st #But tumblr is fuckin wild sometimes anyway #“But cringe culture is dead! Stop bullying people for their ships!” #I’m going to interrogate anyone who steps foot on my blog who l//nk sh//ps #If i get an anon who says im a horrible person for hating on something that doesn’t affect me? #Im interrogating you on why you think it’s ok for the same person to kiss and feel romantic with themselves #(Also pointing out the people writing literal smut?) #And it does affect me #I’m a link introject! Of course I’m going to despise those type of ships #It affects me and my fellow legend of Zelda fictives #So yeah #I’m going to be fucking salty about l//nk sh//pping #Onyx vents⭐️ #I feel like i always rant whenever i see l//nk c//st #Because it’s so common and normalized on here #No clue why #its like the onceler shit all over again #🌊 speaks

[the-mad-prince-of-denmark]

Hilarious statement both for how out of left field it is and because if only one of these two men into dudes, ITS FUCKIN DAN BABY

#literally the way I’ve explained the homoeroticism of Reanimator to several friends/ #the plot doesn’t really make sense and the characters relationship doesn’t really make sense if they don’t feel SOMETHING for each other #that goes beyond traditional heterosexual plutonic affection #and like #there are A Lot of shades of grey within that #there are many ways you can interpret #their dynamic #famously Jeffrey Colmbs. the actor who plays Herbert. reads him as acearo and is kinda… weird about any gay subtext readings #but like. the plot simply doesn’t work I’d Dan isn’t drawn to Herbert in some way #if any and all of their closeness is just total manipulation on Herbert’s part. then that indicated there’s something in Dan that craves #physical connection and emotional intimacy. and RESPONDS to that manipulation. it WORKS on the man #re-alr #live read

[sylver-drawer]

Tfw you make a whole new love interest for Athy because you dislike both of the canon ones

#both of them have similar flaws at different levels #no hobbies #no interests #no meaningful relationships nor the desire for any outside of her #they care but only at surface level and don’t care at a deeper empathetic level #like hey I like you but I actually don’t think I know what I like about you #and my care for you is explicitly more like I care for your attention #and I don’t really care about what you love #I only care about what you love if it affects you because if something happens to you your attention is also gone #I also don’t actually know that much about you #even though they’ve both spent different amounts of time with her #they don’t actually know nor understand Athy emotionally nor has Athy actually opened up about a lot of things #like the closest she’s opened up in her whole third life was to Jennette and that’s depressing #Ijekiel has seen a lot of her lonely and sad side but doesn’t know her internally or at a deeper level #Lucas has spent the most time with her but doesn’t understand her feelings completely at all nor does he understand her reasons and drive #nor does he really care about them as long as she’s alive #which applies to them both #also both would kinda suck politically and foreign affairs-wise speaking #Lucas would suck at foreign affairs because I physically cannot see him understanding or caring enough about others #he can fake kindness but he can’t fake understanding #and understanding is key for foreign affairs #Ijekiel would be better and his foreign Arlanta knowledge would help #but also #his social skills aren’t that much better than Lucas’ #there are too many cons for both of them that could outweigh the pros #and plus the pros Athy can easily access as friends anyway #I am a strong advocate for single Empress Athy or marrying a completely different and qualified person she meets in adulthood #like what happened to the flowery boy and lone wolf or literally any other noble in Obelia that’s around her age #or even foreign nobles #syl tea

[ezraphobicsoup]

someone needs to stop me playing tomodachi life like some kinda strategy game

#i’m like ok. so these two people are fighting and they’re both doing the same angry emote so i attribute that to the same level of anger. #well this person finds them a lot of fun but the other only finds them fun #ohhh but then the one that only finds the other fun is super close to levelling up so if they get depressed #that’s a massive backtrack in progress. and then that doesn’t even affect anything at all #on the other hand ive only recently realised that the bath sets are like the best way to stop miis being angry it’s that and the music box #it literally says so in the description and i’m only just grasping this #anyway miiblr if you see this are you also like this or do i have problems #i do the same with miitopia tbh. and sorta animal crossing but not quite so much cause that’s a lot of effort and i also don’t play it enoug #ezra’s real life rambles

[grandprix-ao3]

same anon as before!! love the logan enthusiasm, u’re single-handedly making ME want to show him off to people around me

i’m so glad it’s contagious. thank god 😭😭 what else am i here for if not to infect random internet users w the logan disease… i mean look at him. it’s so over

cutie

#ask #i am patient zero for logan insanity #like i did this to myself. welcome to point b #if the never have i ever video doesn’t infect anyone then we’ve failed #literally giggling and blushing the whole time he’s on screen and for WHAT #we all know you practiced ur victory pose in the mirror you fucking loser #AFFECTION. it’s endearing #okay now i’m just rambling #uhm thanks anon i love logan #showing him off. jazz hands

[mars-ipan]

currently thinking abt the despair disease and the character analysis potential it brings

#literally the best motive in the whole franchise <3333 #i regularly think abt how it affected komaeda. he got the fucking Liar Disease #why? because he is completely and fully sincere in everything he does #he lies occasionally yes but overall he is honest and hides nothing #he’s an incredibly earnest person. that’s what makes him so scary #and it’s also why the liar disease would be the perfect source of despair for him. makes a lot of sense #personally i don’t believe that despair disease gives you the ‘opposite’ trait #just a trait you would hate to have or is very uncharacteristic of you #i mainly think that bc the opposite of ibuki isn’t ‘gullible.’ but she probably doesn’t like listening to others (punk and eccentric) #so the gullible disease that forces her to always believe what she’s told is despair inducing #and akane! obviously she’s very good at compartmentalizing #she never seems to show fear. ever! #as such the coward disease is Mortifying. she hates being anxious and she hates showing it even more. literal hell i’ve been there girlie #so overall. i think it’s a great way to analyze a character #obvi with komaeda it’s an EXCELLENT analysis tool bc it’s basically a roundabout truth serum #if everything you say is a lie then all you need to do is reverse it and that’s the full genuine truth #so we get confirmation of things with him. like his desire for companionship. and his genuine distress when he wants to tell everyone to be #hopeful but all he can say is ‘despair’- he gets so worked up about it that he collapses #i also like to imagine what it would have been like with other characters #what would hajime have? i’ve seen an honesty disease. i’ve also seen a happy disease #both are great. i think he has a good few options #personally though i think the thing that would stress him out a Ton would be an affectionate disease #not in like a silly friend ‘i hug everyone’ way #but in a ‘tells everyone specifically what qualities he admires about them and is vulnerable to others’ way #i think he’d be MORTIFIED. haji’s a very blunt snarky person #and he does have a lot of affection for his friends but it’s mostly shown in a teasing manner #he’s also quite closed off about his own insecurities. AND he finds komaeda incredibly offputting #to wake up one day and start both genuinely making himself vulnerable and praising everyone nagito-style would actualky be hell for him #maybe call it the admiration disease. or affectionate disease depends on ur perspective #other character have interesting possibilities too (even dr1 + v3) but I Care Hinata so. he gets spotlight for a sec

[designernishiki]

kazumaji nation, if the pairing were to be canonized in y8, how do you imagine it happening? either realistically or ideally. go

#PLEASE tell me your ideas #I will put mine in the tags in a moment #kazumaji #yakuza #yakuza 8 #rgg #goro majima #kazuma kiryu #also please don’t respond to this with just ‘it won’t happen’ or something man like. you can be Honest but I’d rather hear ideas that are #POSSIBLE- that doesn’t mean they absolutely 100% will happen or something. tldr: just have fun #personally I am somewhat hopeful for something vague yet There at the end associated with kiryu’s retirement/general fate #like realistically something like.. majima getting genuinely upset with him because of how tired he is of kiryu being away from him in such #a way that he never can totally be sure if he’s alive or dead or if he’s ever going to see him again- because let’s be real they are #IMPORTANT to one another and I think BOTH of them would be affected by all the death scares and the loneliness when they’re apart. they’ve #been odd but fundamental pillars in one another’s lives for like… 30 years? 35? #even if they’re apart I don’t think kiryu could deny at least for the past decade he could go to majima for help no matter the situation #and he would drop everything to help him #I don’t think majima is nearly as hopeful about having his feelings reciprocated or really about anyone truly loving him in General but #he sure as hell knows how far he’d go for kiryu regardless of that fact. why do you think he’s been single and not looking #at anyone else romantically for literally decades. #so yeah anyway point is. realistically I think that would come up very emotionally and would hopefully end in kiryu holding him real tight #and reassuring him that he’s not going anywhere. not again. not without him. he promises #something something wherever they go in the end they go together. that’s also the only way I can see majima actually being content to any #degree in retirement from such a high-risk life #that’s. one idea anyway. I have many ideas. but that one comes to mind as a realistic option cause it’s romantic but not overtly enough to #have to worry about censors particularly or anything like that. believe me though I’d much prefer if they finally got to fucking kiss after #35 god damn years. I think majima needs and deserves that. both of them do but especially majima because i really think he feels hopeless as #it stands right now both about his love for kiryu that he can’t seem to shake and about being lovable by anyone in general #he seriously seriously needs this. being all over the place and never settling may be fun but it really doesn’t help the emptiness inside #and the loneliness. and the self loathing. and purposelessness. and so on.