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razzek · 6 months

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I'm starting to feel about artistic depictions of trans scars the same way I feel about artistic depictions of blindness: they suck.

At first the art of all the jagged lined scars I saw for trans characters seemed neat. But then I started to remember that I have those scars and they don't look like that. At all. And it's kinda shitty to draw all these trans men and nbs in such a way that they look like someone took an axe to their chests. Mastectomy/top surgery scars don't look like that at all! Even when you have a slash and dash quick surgery like I did, the results are much nicer and most trans guys you can't even tell.

This is like drawing people with white/pale, unfocused eyes as a shorthand for blindness. It's a shitty stereotype and I think in the long run it causes more harm than good. Just like with real trans folks you may have to just say out loud that your guy is trans instead of giving him a design that's kinda shitty to the bros out there who went through some shit to look really good.

#queer #transgender #trans masc #mastectomy #like for real #I am five or six years post op #can't actually remember anymore haha #and the only way you know it is cuz my bones are kinda messed up from the weight I had to drag around #also no nip nops XD #but otherwise all the scar tissue is internal #my surgeon was an awesome lady who actually had to operate twice #cuz shit was that massive and she missed a huge chunk of it on one side o_o #that was a hell of a summer XD #I kinda envy all the boys who get to see doctors who do this for trans folks #it sounds so cozy and nice #I spent about a week total in hospital and lived with my sister for weeks after to recover #it got done though and everyone who played a part made my life so much better <3 #I will tell you my funny horrible top surgery stories if anyone wants XD #razz rambles

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literarilylost · 10 months

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#booklr #polls #mine #also if ur listening to music does it have to be music that fits the tone of what you're reading? bc thats fascinating to me #ive read while music has been playing but i tone it out completely (it's just there so i dont hear the screech of the tube which is even #more off-putting)#i prefer no noise but i do like the cozy feeling of rain while reading - not necessarily enough to actually play rain sounds tho #i did once with friends in a reading sprint and it was nice

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ante--meridiem · 6 months

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To socialise or not to socialise, that is the question.

#Looked at two places I could move out to & they are complete opposite vibes in terms of socialableness #Both have roommates ofc but one gives me a lot more of my own space & it seems like I would barely have to interact with them at all #So I'd be left pretty much completely alone. Which is usually the dream #And ngl knowing the other people there would keep to themselves & have no interest in knowing me is especially relieving #Given the whole thing that pushed me to move out in the first place #The other has extremely small & cozy vibes. Owner's stuff all over the place #By cozy I do mean cluttered #The girl I met with there (not the person I'd be renting from) gave me a tour for five-ten mins #And then the next 30 mins-60 mins we spent chatting over tea #Someone more sociable than me might call it instant bestie vibes #Which. Has been something I've kind of very much been missing/yearning for irl I will admit #& from the sound of it the person subletting has the same vibes with her #She says he's 'interesting' and 'I'd like him'#From the combination of her description and the clutter I'm getting eccentric professor vibes #Which is generally a good vibe to me #But I am even more skittish of renting from someone t #Too sociable #After prev landlord #Though I want to trust othet tenant's vibe check. Because it might actually be very nice to have some kind of real life friends #It's also a very different kind of sociable than prev landlord #She was 'chatty and gets you to open up easily' sociable & it sounds like the other guy will be approximately the same #& also 'repeatedly assures you can ask her to stop if she's being too much' sociable. Which is always a relief #Meanwhile prev landlord was 'wants to know why you're not relaxed & tells you you should be without doing anything to help you be' sociable #'gets very pushy about finding time to talk/hang out' sociable #'teases you for being awkward' sociable #None of which were the real issue with him of course. But they didn't help & I can't help but see them as red flags in retrospect #I'm currently leaning towards 'to socialise' because it was a very cosy vibe & I do feel starved of irl friendship just a bit #But it could either be very good or very bad #& I don't want to risk very bad again #Anyway. This has been missives from a pizza shop I ducked into to charge my phone before I go back to being lost in a snowstorm

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synchlora · 6 days

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bro I know we've all heard abt cloth mother vs wire mother but working in animal care its become so obvious everywhere

#this kitten season has been rough lately #all of the stray babies born in april are sick and dying #and so there's been a lot of death happening at the clinic #but its genuinely amazing to see how much better they do with another kitten #or with their mom or with a foster to cuddle and hang out with them #as important as medication and treatment plans are so is comfort #im overnighting a little spunky girl named spitfire currently #and she's improving with meds and fluids of course #but she isnt resting as much as id hoped which she absolutely needs to do to get stronger #so i just laid down with her wrapped up in a blanky on my chest and she slept immediately #she was so much more comfortable cuddling with me than sleeping in a crate with a heat bag #shes one whos mom was likely poisoned and is semi paralyzed so she finds it hard to get cozy #i was just happy to see her sleep #anyway im on a tangent now #but long story short: comfort is so fucking important in animal care and rehabilitation #and as grim as it sounds its also nice for them if they end up passing away #because at least they had comfort at the end #shelter posting #animal death

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swinging-stars-from-satellites · 1 year

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gratitude list time I'll go first

#stopped caring about some things I was caring far too much about #it's another rainy dreary day which means I can wear cozy clothes and curl up with my brother's dog and coffee and a book #little guy and I are just chillin. he's tiny and shorthaired so he gets cold easily and likes to cuddle up #and seeing as I'm the only person home rn... doggo cuddle time it is!!!#I've been reading more lately!! I'm having trouble with tbosas so I got out a couple other things (sea of tranquility included)#that I've really enjoyed. I'm reading turtles all the way down right now and oh boy I forgot how nice a little contemporary #coming of age novel can be at times. also forgot that john green is a genuinely good writer. as in I personally enjoy his style.#let's see... my favorite sound guy for church is home from college for the summer which means THERES SOMEONE HERE #WHO ACTUALLY KNOWS HOW THE SOUND SYSTEM WORKS. me and the other sound guys have been barely #managing the last couple months bc there's been a ton of random technical glitches (the system is pretty old tbh)#so HALLELUJAH THE PERSON WHO ACTUALLY KNOWS WHAT TO DO IS BACK!!!!#I've been branching out into a bunch of things I wouldn't have thought to enjoy lately bc of the time I've been spending #with my sister in law. music and tv shows and even foods and stuff!!!#Gurt is coming to visit me in a week and a day!!!!!! I'm SO EXCITED #and last but certainly not least I gave myself bangs again and honestly I'm so happy about it.

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invinciblerodent · 6 days

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A potentially weird idea has wormed its way into my head, and I have to ask-

My thought is that I'd start from scratch by remaking the character I have now entirely, and maybe if I have someone watching to keep me honest, I won't chicken out of making the "evil" choices, lol.

The very base idea for the character is essentially that he's a male drow who is willing to do anything anyone with authority (especially women, and especially female drow) would ever tell him to do, which would include killing Karlach, raiding the Grove, eventually ascending Astarion and making Shadowheart a Dark Justiciar, and other such delicious choices I've never made yet!

#baldur's gate 3 #squirrel plays bg3 #baldur's gate iii #bg3 #baldurs gate 3 #what other tags may help this show up #if it's just 1-2-3 mutuals in a cozy friendly chat that would already be nice #but it might be fun to hang out with more people too!#i just set up the sound as well as I could and let me tell you listening back to my tests was weird #but i don't find my own voice and accent annoying so that's a plus!

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mitamicah · 1 month

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Just had my first consultation with a tattoo artist ever (the other times I've litterally just shown up x'D) and it was online.

I loved that the first thing that the artist notices is my Cha Cha Cha mixtape and/or Bojere artwork on my wall x'D

(she litterally said: "Is that Käärijä back there!?". Bless her :'D)

#it went really well #she was really nice #I am quite excited tbh #sounds like she has reserved the whole day for me so that'll be cozy #plus the fact that she a) pointed out käärijä and b) recently submitted a häärijä tattoo she'd made makes me feel even more at home #love that my first tattoo in finland will be with a (maybe) fan xD #waiting to pay the consultation fee now :3 #micahs thoughts #micahs foolery

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iamthekarmapolice · 2 months

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ok so I’m learning that the weekends are actually more fun when you don’t get even a little drunk

#it’s been a rainy cozy spring day and i did my chores and a little cooking #walked to the donut shop nearby for some treats #and im going to play stardew valley with my sister later #the sound of the rain against the window is so calming lol #im having a nice day so far

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jeellyjams · 5 months

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i love you btw

#you can't stop me #jamjams #in whichever way you wish to be loved. i love you that way #to everyone reading this post #i hope you are so cozy in your blankets tonight. i hope you have a lovely drink of water. i hope you fall asleep to a nice sound

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bumblingbabooshka · 8 months

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'Parturition' is so brave for being the yaoi ship trope episode of Voyager. "Neelix and Tom Paris had a physical.....fight." Also continuing Tom's beautiful habit of loving both infidelity and child abandonment with all his heart. Also, wonderful out of context quote: "I had no right to push that pasta in your lap."

#Also I forgot about the Tom/Kes stuff in early seasons #You know what? I think Kes can flirt. Disaster as a real couple/ship but I do believe they'd do some going-nowhere flirting #post Neelix breakup. Also once again Kes SHOULD have been able to ADVENTURE more!!!#Tom's true wife is a beautiful woman named infidelity and he loves her more than anything except Harry Kim #Tom: (bothered & horny) Play the clarinet Harry.#Harry has a really cozy couch setup btw #OH ??? I sthis a thing???#In two different episodes now Harry's said 'there's an old chinese expression...' <- was that something they were trying out??#Thank God it didn't stick.#Harry: You keep setting yourself up for rejection. You must like playing the part. / Tom: Don't knock it 'till you've tried it.#<- Sound of a nail being hit squarely on the head...Harry's so handsome #YEEEAAAAH THE GIRLS ARE FIIIIIGHTIIIIIINGGGGG!!!!#Neelix being so possessive of Kes is obviously bad but him just out of nowhere insulting and tossing pasta on Tom IS very fun and good #removed from context. Tom: -eating. doing nothing- / Neelix: You fucking lowlife asshole. =_=#SNRKAHAHHAAH 'I'LL KILL YOU!!!!' CARTOON ROLLING AROUND ON THE TABLES~!!?!??#I like how this is a fight but NOT serious at all....they are looney tunesing it #Even the background crew are like...smiling & laughing. This is so funny <3 #The doctor would love if two men fought over him. He'd be concerned and tell them to stop but he'd secretly love it I know him I know this.#'How delightful!' indeed. Kes' green & black outfit in this episode is really pretty! Also she & the doctor's banter is nice~!#'That's not funny!' / 'It's not meant to be. You LOVE autopsies?' and her laughing at him saying 'then your world must have very dry lit.'#Also love the doc's ultimate advice of 'It's not your problem' bc it's not~!! Yaoi sin planet with cure what ails em #NEELIX SAID TECHNOBABBLE!!!! HE SAID THE LINE!!!!#Tom: I'm picking up caves west of here. / Neelix: Yaaay. <3 <- negative. sarcastic. hateful.#YEEEEAAAAAAHHHH DINO PUPPET BABYYYY!!!!!#Janeway: Tuvok can you do X? / Tuvok: (preening) I have anticipated your request Captain. / Chakotay: =_=#Tom: The baby's shivering...that's normal right?? <- Yeah Tom <3 It's so normal <3 You're gonna be a great dad <3 #Also Neelix just smiling earnestly at being called Godmother...-raises brow-#Neelix & Tom: Kes - Captain - we've worked out our differences! We had a baby <3

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mothram · 5 months

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#diana's music diary #🌨️#okay I actually do feel better now #good morning :3 #sleep is the cure to all #yesterday I spent the day helping my partner set up her DAW so she could stream with it #and then also set up a cobblemon mod pack for us 😊#it's not actually done yet but it's pretty much there #just needs some finishing touches #will maybe skim it a little today too idk #there are probably some unnecessary parts I added yesterday in my hyperfocus so idk #it went surprisingly well and smooth though #feel like I got some things done yesterday which is always nice #sleeping at a reasonable time works? what?#who would have thought......#I'm still having a lot of trouble actually staying asleep actually but it's working either way somehow.. I'm used to being tired so it's ok #thinking about it the only bad part of yesterday was a panic attack near the end and being in pain...#that doesn't sound like a good thing but for me lately especially that's actually good.#let's try to make today fun and cozy and painless...#will make sure to take my pain medicine #if you are reading this I hope your day is good especially too n_n #also on the music... I think I'm on my touhou music shit again... been listening to Koishi music a lot and this one Alice album...

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hanzajesthanza · 1 year

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there are many good and even superb and even life-changing scenes in the witcher books, when asked “favorite scene?” we of course hear the classics — the striga fight, the death of essi daven, geralt leaving ciri outside of brokilon, geralt and ciri reuniting in something more, ciri at kaer morhen, shaerrawedd, ciri at ellander, yennefer and geralt at thanedd, the thanedd coup, the mandrake distillate, the horseshoe, the fish soup, the battle of the bridge, the slaughter of the rats, brisingamen, the ice skating on tarn mira, the stay in beauclair, ciri travelling between worlds, the battle of brenna, the assault on stygga castle, rivia…

but there’s also just the scenes you like that are not so grand or epic or even relevant to the main plot…

i have to have played and reread the conversation and philosophizing between regis and the rest of the company in chapter 7 of baptism of fire at least twenty times by now… and more, in my head

#the audiodrama added a running/bubbling water sound effect which is just so nice #this is like legit my bedtime story like i listen to this when im having an anxiety attack. its very special to me #regis: [describing how his life went horribly wrong and his severe alcoholism led to a stupid death-suicide] | me: oh so cozy… 😴🥱💙💤#i am making this post because i have repeated the ‘that is to say Me — and my Myth —‘ phrase over and over in my head for the past hour #embody all of your fears…#sit. and think. in silence. | don’t admonish him geralt…#do lustra?#i dont reflect in mirrors…#the emphasis his VA puts on dzień and noc … :) <3 #does the explanation satisfy you my dear milva #UMNA będę. socjologia aktywocja srututucja wilkołacja…#txt

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sage-is-in-fact-very-tired · 1 year

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I'd like to imagine in s3, Alerion and Will just have a very nice, very cozy (very very cozy, blankets and pillows and soft things *everywhere*) log cabin somewhere in the woods.

it's the coziest thing in hundreds of thousands of blocks, and rarely do either of them leave the 30 block radius around the house-

#its so cozy #the dream house #honestly #so cozy #as someone with a very probable cronic pain condition #or somthing like that #this sounds like the best thing on bad pain days where all i wanna do is lay in bed and do nothing #very cozy home with my god parent who probably gives really good really nice hugs #willowmvp #fable smp #fsmp #a tag to help find my own posts

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absentmoon · 1 year

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iiiii think

#the 38 is. urg. its ours #but i think i like being at the tops a little bit more.....#i like the 38 because its big and its just me and my friends and the 'cule #its nice and cozy and safe and i love it #being at the tops is loud and busy and there's always people there. its very overstimulating #but my room is quiet at night..its on the 13th floor so even in day sound doesn't carry that well...#sighhh. i don't know..#daisy.txt #🎰.benny #📺.yesman

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pepprs · 1 year

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