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[pyaari-naari]

Hello apki ankhe badi nashili hogi.. na

Bilkul tequila ki tarah! 🍸🥂

#anon ask #pyaare anon #hamari gupchup baatein

[hum-suffer]

Aur jii kaise ho?!?! Sab badhiya?!?? Kuch dinoo se aapki khabar nahi leee !!!

Arrey ek dum badhiya ji. Aap kaise ho? Padhai sab thik? Tabiyat kaisi hai?

#desiblr #suffer ye suhana nahi #desi tumblr #pyaare anon

[btw-its-tamanna]

I love the bit written in ur description, hope I can apply it irl too 🤞

I too love this dialogue from Ye Jawani Hai Deewani. I wanted to apply it in real life too and yup life gets a lot more better when you enjoy your present. Btw loved the way how you supported RCB par main to CSK fan hu to IPL main dekhenge kisme hai kitna dum 🤝

#tamanna ke pyaare anons #mutuals #hauxicrook<3 #Ipl main to CSK hi jeetegi

[daughterofruins]

Hey! what books have you read by Jane Austen?

I'm about to read Pride and Prejudice after my exams(and i know I'll love it), but I have another book by her downloaded, so thought of asking your opinion

Persuasion, it's called

Hey!

Exama rn? Wait are you giving your 10th boards? Because I am

that sounded like kya aapke toothpaste mein namak hai

Anyways Jane Austen you say my sweet summer child? Buckle up because that is my favourite author right there hehe

PRIDE AND PREJUDICE IS EXCELLENT ITS JUST MUAH GO GIVE IT A READ IT'S FANTASTIC. I read first when I was in class 4 and it was an abridged version and believed for a very long time that Jane was the main character and yet Liz had so much more drama lol. I absolutely love that book possibly because I have a thing for arrogant dummies who turn into softies around women they love and use meanness as methods of flirting

Anyways I have not read Persuasion but will be reading it after my exams. What I have read, though, is Emma. Only partly because then I fell sick and thats a story for another day. But the thing is, you should read Emma. ABSOLUTELY. i read this meme somewhere that Jane Austen always named her books according to the problems that were mainly present in them like in pride and prejudice it was Darcy's pride and Liz's prejudice and in Emma its Emma lol. Plus my sister keeps calling me Emma because I love matchmaking.

Anyways she has another book, some Alley that I haven't read but will read soon, hopefully.

Hope this helped. Feel free to ask anything else<3

#radha rambles #sorry this deviated so much lol #pyaare pyaare anons

[jalebi-weds-bluetooth]

IPKKND thought i would love your take on:

I think when it comes to Shyam's revelation scene the only disappointment i felt was in Arnav's reaction which we can chalk upto Barun's unavailability but its honestly not surprising that other members didnt respond very strongly. We have a bias as viewers since we are witness to everything so we are aggressively countering Shyam's arguments from our screen. But for everyone else its a massive shock and they dont wanna jump the gun about a decision which will possibly break the family. Even with Khushi, she was a victim and its very unfair for us to expect her to counter this logically like a debate. This took a heavy emotional toll on her which is why its understandable why she is mumbling even if she is in the right. Same with her confrontation scene with Arnav. For Khushi, these moments are too overwhelming to be able to answer the questions thrown at her with logical. Maybe once her emotions are settled down a bit but in the moment i totally understand it and i dont feel its OOC like many claim. I would've loved to see her actually sit through it and talk it out with someone who has the emotional bandwidth to help her or atleast listen to her. But yeah I don't understand when people expect her to be bold and bindass when she is confronting (kind of) her abuser.

Hi Anon,

This is an absolutely valid point. You see my issue with these scenes is actually not the characters but the INTENT of these scenes and the tightness of the writing and how well it delivers a payoff.

As you’ve aptly put out - expecting rationality from Khushi from either situations is unfair cause she’s in deep stress and there’s a HUGE shock for most characters when they come to hear what Shyam and Khushi have to say.

But the INTENT is what ruins both of these scenes.

During the final showdown between Arnav and Khushi on the terrace - the very fact that Khushi’s attempt to unalive herself is treated with comedy is disgusting and disparaging.

Out of everything that could’ve been a trigger for Khushi to demand the truth, for her to go with Arnav has married her to get rid of his fault on his astronomical birth chart is so stupid. The makers are going “lol, Khushi so crazy she can think anything!”

The show keeps branding Khushi as “crazy”, which, to be honest, after a point is offensive because Khushi’s inability to rationalize is a serious problem if it’s leading to her justification on unaliving herself over things that don’t exist at all.

She needs help, serious help.

It’s not even played for dark humour. Rather slapstick humor.

And when I talk about her and Arnav’s conversation - the dialogues aren’t veered towards an angst or angry conversation! In fact a few things are kept in mind for their showdown.

1. Arnav needs to insult Khushi’s character as much as possible (right after she tried to unalive herself for his happiness - WTF?)

2. Khushi has to be fulfill the necessity of a good bahu. That is, her motivation to hide Shyam’s truth is never the honest threat it posed to Payal’s impending marriage. Rather Khushi is such a nice bahu that she wants to preserve Anjali’s ideals of marriage and happiness. This is very very ITV sanskaar coded because Shyam has harassed Khushi at multiple points by this time and it’s never shown that she’s bound to preserve Anjali’s marriage by no choice but that she truly believes Anjali should be kept happy (because Arnav won’t be able to take the truth?) and that Khushi is perfectly fine with Anjali staying married with a harasser.

3. No acknowledgement of Khushi being harassed and absolutely nothing to show Khushi being at fault and nothing to indicate to Arnav he might be mistaken. This is critical. The show keeps wanting to maintain that Arnav’s terrible opinion of Khushi is unchanged! Arnav’s PTSD is conveniently forgotten (which they remember every other time) and Khushi will absolutely not clear anything that can give Arnav another perspective. The show, despite showing harassment multiple times, sidesteps from acknowledging Khushi is being harassed. So Khushi obviously has no “idea” of the terrace. And it’s not written that she’s so traumatized she has suppressed it.

4. Khushi needs to prove herself to Arnav. Arnav has emotionally and verbally abused Khushi multiple times in this marriage and they had to ensure that this is all about Khushi proving her character to a man who never believed she had one. It’s terrible because Khushi needs to prove that she’s not having a relationship with the man who has been sexually harassing her. No justification is expected from Shyam and he’s pretty much Scot free for sexually harassing Khushi.

This showdown was everything. We needed a PAYOFF. A payoff for why Arnav was quiet for three months. A payoff for the whole misunderstanding.

You realize this would’ve been perfectly angsty if Arnav came to the conclusion that Khushi ultimately chose to condemn Anjali in a terrible marriage because it would protect Payal’s marriage. This was a valid reason to be upset on Khushi that is non sexist.

And Arnav makes far more sense in these episodes than Khushi does. And this is important because for the show Arnav has to maintain his misunderstanding of Khushi.

Khushi dissociates in traumatic situations - again this is not addressed and this is a grave situation.

And now coming to the Shyam revelation scene. I feel this was a perfect situation to give the other characters dialogues to explain their utter confusion.

Because the intent of this episode was to show “oh Arnav believes her over everything” and the whole family needs to have doubts over Khushi’s character and I was just personally DONE with a female lead’s character come up in question multiple times.

And the intent is to make Arnav feel heroic for slapping Shyam.

That’s why it makes no sense why Khushi admits she said she hated Arnav and wanted his property to lure Shyam out. What is the intent of this?

To show Arnav still believes her and he’s hero?

Shyam had the best dialogues and Arnav had the least impactful. They needed to give Arnav dialogues (everyone else could have had more valid follow up questions). Arnav’s dialogue is so bleh and the things is Arnav KNOWS.

He isn’t blindly choosing Khushi - he just saw Shyam switch narratives because Shyam himself told Arnav that HE is obsessed with Khushi and he’ll do anything to get Khushi back!!

And it’s again to really horn in that “oh Arnav has defected towards his wife who we can’t quite trust,”

So you see these cause an issues.

It’s not a payoff to Arnav having misunderstood her so grossly. They tried to do it but it came out flat as best barring Shyam - man what amazing dialogues and it’s so in character because he IS a lawyer.

And like what was with NK behaving like as if he was going to flip on Khushi?

See moments like these heighten my issue with these scenes. Neither gives a payoff to the misunderstanding of the terrace night.

So these are my point of views.

Thank you and take care,

- JWB

#ipkknd #iss pyaar ko kya naam doon #ask #anon

[maihonhassan]

have you ever been in love? or are you in love? how was it?

As Jāun Eliya said:

"Shayad mujhe kisi se mohabbat nahin hui, lekin yaqin sab ko dilata raha hun main"

#ask anon #thanks anon! #anonymous #anon ask #anon answered #jaun elia #jaun eliya #aesthetics #urdu stuff #reply #ask reply #replied #dark academia #dark romanticism #hopelessly in love #love #pyaar #urdu #urdu lines #urdu adab #rekhta #urdu poetry #artist on tumblr #urdu shayari #writer on tumblr #famous writers #famous poets #sher o shayari #urdu sher #urdu shairi

[mera-mann-kehne-laga]

I love you

Ain't that the worst thing you ever heard? (was listening to this and thought of you <3)

Awww I love you tooo <<33

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omg..................ouch..... personal attack.......................YES!

Aww really 😭😭😭😭😭 that's so.......IDK😭😭 IM OVERWHELMED

I LOVE CRUEL SUMMER!!!! Turn the anon off please😭 i want to meet the fellow cruel summer listener😭😭

#anon ask #pyaare pyaare anon

[berrylovesmymood]

what is that one lyric you can’t get out of your head?

I feel your coffee breath all up on my neck Is this really how it's supposed to be? And you close the door, it'll lead to more As if to conquer every piece of me

And I have a fear that I'll stay right here 'Cause you say you like my company But I have no clue what I am to you Is this what we'll ever get to be?

Nobody told me how lonely it feels to be Young in the 21st century I just wish I would get with the times, but I'm not cut out to love in the 21st century

~ tlit21c - lyn lapid

#uff pyaare anon ji #lyrics bohot hai anon ji but abhi ke liye isse hooked hu bohot jyada

[pyaari-naari]

Flower for you 🌻

Oh 🥺

Thank you so much!

Here's some tulips for you! 🌷

#pyaare anon #hamari gupchup baatein #anon ask

[phati-sari]

Hi PS! Hope you are doing well. You are incredibly gifted in analyzing the nuances of the characters and their emotions. Thank you so much for your recaps, it truly gives an insight into a character’s mindset and perspective. I wanted to know if Khushi’s act of returning the key to Arnav on bandagement (thus briefly jeopardizing Anjali’s married life) signify/imply that she no longer held the key to his (complete) happiness? Wishing you and your family a merry Xmas and a Happy New Year. Cheers!

Hi!

Hope your Christmas was great and that the new year brings lots of love and light into your life! Thanks for your well wishes!!

I think your theory is great! The key certainly did symbolise Khushi being the key to Arnav's happiness. I've always interpreted her giving up the key as giving up her haq to him. Arnav felt an entitlement or haq towards Khushi from almost the first meeting and Khushi felt something similar very early as well. He was always hers to annoy, to insult, to hate and whine about. The key ended up symbolising her haq to him, and Khushi giving it up was her acknowledging that she had no right to feel that way about him.

I'm really glad you like the recaps and the blog, thank you so much for the kind words!

#ipkknd #iss pyaar ko kya naam doon #arnav singh raizada #khushi kumari gupta #arshi #anon ask #answered

[hum-suffer]

Hieeeee!!!!!! Kaise hai aap?!?! Sab badhiya?!?? Hope sooo ekdum mazeed kar rahe ho

Ur pyaara anon

Arrey hiiiiii aap kaise ho?? Main ek dum badhiya, bas abhi kal exam khatam ho jayenge mere. Kaha chale Gaye the aap? Sab thik?

#desiblr #suffer ye suhana nahi #desi tumblr #pyaare anon

[btw-its-tamanna]

Heads or Tails?

Tails . Kyunki mere paas nahi hai ek tail or jin logo ke paas Jo nahi hota wo wahi choose karte hai 🤌

#Mr 🐧 #tamanna ke pyaare anons #competition to main hi jeetungi

[daughterofruins]

i know the krabby patty secret formula

Right and would you like to share it anonie?

#radha rambles #pyaare pyaare anons

[his-heart-hymns]

👍🏻🕊️🍸

👍🏻 - I love your blog

🕊 - you are lovely

🍸 - you are cool

#love you anon #pyaare pyaare anonymous #desiblr

[mera-mann-kehne-laga]

to my dearest,

Arey aise kaise keh diya ki secret admirer deserve nahi karti? Pyaari toh ho par aaj pata chala bohot pyaar se jhuth bhi bol sakti ho ;)

Ab agar chaand hi nacheez hai toh uski mohabbat mein doobe aashiqon ka kya?

Nacheez na vo chaand hai na tum ho! na vo aashiq jo dil de bethe hai chaand ko (aur tumko)

vo toh chaand ka gurur hai jo vo apne aashiqon se dur hai, har raat ek jhalak! kabhi aur, kabhi kum dikhta hai, vo chaand ka gurur hai ki chahe jo bhi ho vo aashiq roz apni chatt pe khada hai

Dher saara pyaar from your aur chand ka secret admirer <3

Yrr ye three words "to my dearest" hi ghaayal kar rhe hain mujhe mai aage kaise padhu😭😭 haaaye ok pdhti hoon.....

I-

#I HAVE NO WORDS FOR THAT......... #THAT BEAUTY #THAT ART YOU DECIDED TO FLOOD MY HEART WITH #the reactions EXACTLY convey meri haalat rn #Istg #Dheeeeerr saara pyaar to you too gorgeous super kind sweetie pie anon ji😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️ #aashiq anon ji

[pyaari-naari]

How old are you?

Hello good day.

I'm 23 😊

My bad, I should have put it up in my description.

#anon ask #pyaare anon