#single and seeking

[mizz-stress]

let my tongue slow dance with your pussy

#slow dancing #18+ #mature #tongue #single #love #couple #self love #quote #seggsual #mental health #mylife #dating #reblogged #single and seeking #stoner #queued #shit post #depressed #weed #mizz-stress #txt

[msatlantathickdream]

My latest #Vlog is posted https://youtu.be/HBHTBXyOLB0 regarding "L-O-V-E" this is for the single and seeking and those are nosey about what I am dishing on,make sure you go check it out. I struggled with this topic today as I was distracted by my devices&other life matters-if I need to edit it I shall or I'll delete it&repost it,but for now its up!

#msatlanta #ms atlanta #msatlantathickdream #thickdream #thick women #sex love lust relationships #dating tips #vlog #relationships #single and seeking #singlehood #advice #tips #sexlife #ebony goddess #dating after divorce #love #love life #thick thursday

[inkskinned]

the thing is there's like, a point of oversaturation for everything, and it's why so many things get dropped after a few minutes. and we act like millennials or gen z kids "have short attention spans" but... that's not quite it. it's more like - we did like it. you just ruined it.

capitalism sees product A having moderate success, and then everything has to come out with their "own version" of product A (which is often exactly the same). and they dump extreme amounts of money and environmental waste into each horrible simulacrum they trot out each season.

now it's not just tiktokkers making videos; it's that instagram and even fucking tumblr both think you want live feeds and video-first programming. and it helps them, because videos are easier to sneak native ads into. the books coming out all have to have 78 buzzwords in them for SEO, or otherwise they don't get published. they are making a live-action remake of moana. i haven't googled it, but there's probably another marvel or starwars something coming out, no matter when you're reading this post.

and we are like "hi, this clone of project A completely misses the point of the original. it is soulless and colorless and miserable." and the company nods and says "yes totally. here is a different clone, but special." and we look at clone 2 and we say "nope, this one is still flat and bad, y'all" and they're like "no, totally, we hear you," and then they make another clone but this time it's, like, a joyless prequel. and by the time they've successfully rolled out "clone 89", the market is incredibly oversaturated, and the consumer is blamed because the company isn't turning a profit.

and like - take even something digital like the tumblr "live streaming" function i just mentioned. that has to take up server space and some amount of carbon footprint; just so this brokenass blue hellsite can roll out a feature that literally none of its userbase actually wants. the thing that's the kicker here: even something that doesn't have a physical production plant still impacts the environment.

and it all just feels like it's rolling out of control because like, you watch companies pour hundreds of thousands of dollars into a remake of a remake of something nobody wants anymore and you're like, not able to afford eggs anymore. and you tell the company that really what you want is a good story about survival and they say "okay so you mean a YA white protagonist has some kind of 'spicy' love triangle" and you're like - hey man i think you're misunderstanding the point of storytelling but they've already printed 76 versions of "city of blood and magic" and "queen of diamond rule" and spent literally millions of dollars on the movie "Candy Crush Killer: Coming to Eat You".

it's like being stuck in a room with a clown that keeps telling the same joke over and over but it's worse every time. and that would be fine but he keeps fucking charging you 6.99. and you keep being like "no, i know it made me laugh the first time, but that's because it was different and new" and the clown is just aggressively sitting there saying "well! plenty of people like my jokes! the reason you're bored of this is because maybe there's something wrong with you!"

#this was much longer i had to cut it down for legibility #but i do want to say i am aware this post doesnt touch on human rights violations as a result of fast fashion #that is because it deserves its own post with a completely different tone #i am an environmental educator #so that's what i know the most about. it wouldn't be appropriate of me to mention off-hand the real and legitimate suffering #that people are going through #without doing my research and providing real ways to help #this is a vent post about a thing i'm watching happen; not a call to action. it would be INCREDIBLY demeaning #to all those affected by the fast fashion industry to pretend that a post like this could speak to their suffering #unfortunately one of the horrible things about latestage capitalism as an activist is that SO many things are linked to this #and i WANT to talk about all of them but it would be a book in its own right. in fact there ARE books about each level of this #and i encourage you to seek them out and read them!!! i am not an expert on that i am just a person on tumblr doing my favorite activity #(complaining) #and it's like - this is the individual versus the industry problem again right because im blaming myself #for being an expert on environmental disaster (which is fucking important) but not knowing EVERYTHING about fast fashion #i'm blaming myself for not covering the many layers of this incredibly complicated problem im pointing out #rather than being like. yeah so actually the fault here lies with the billion dollar industries actually. #my failure to be able to condense an incredibly immense problem that is BOOK-LENGTH into a single text post that i post for free #is not in ANY fucking way the same amount of harm as. you know. the ACTUAL COMPANIES doing this ACTUAL THING for ACTUAL MONEY. #anyway im gonna go donate money while i'm thinking about it. maybe you can too. we can both just agree - well i fuckin tried didn't i #which is more than their CEOs can say

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

howdy <3 also obligatory Wally being done™️ with barnaby & howdy flirting<3

#I CONTINUE TO PUSH MY LAUGHINGSTOCK AGENDA #they wont stop. they single-handedly unlocked the emotion 'irritation' in wally #i have the vivid image in my head of wally deciding theyre done for the day #so he just walks off into the store and pushes over a shelf #a la 'annoyed / attention-seeking cat #scribble salad #LaughingStock #welcome home puppet show #welcome home fanart

[the-kipsabian]

what is your favorite quote from the infamous hp fanfic, my immortal

#my immortal #ive been obsessed with the strange aeons full reading of the fic ive just listened to it like five times this week alone #sorry im gonna subject you to it now too #if you have never read it or havent even heard it before please. seek out my immortal #that fic is legendary and i want everyone to be aware #so heres my collective fave quotes. vote for one or add your own!! #my favorite is the 'but im also a satanist' one i fucking laugh out loud every single time #anyways heres a poll ive wanted to make like all week enjoy <3 #polls #night is an absolute mess on main

[starcurtain]

Listen, the greatest appeal of Diluven is how desperately chained Diluc is to his past, to his personal losses, to the expectations of his father's legacy, because Venti is the god of liberation, of hope, the breaker of chains, the capricious breeze that ever uplifts--it's about letting yourself be set free, listen--

#genshin impact #diluven #diluc #venti voice: I could fix him #do you see the design? #my favorite trope is 'single emotional disaster seeking equally disastrous partner' #because the sum is always more than its parts! #'I'll be yours and you'll be free' #and the best part is it goes both waysss #Venti has burdens he needs to be set free from too!! #it's sooo good my dudes

[kuruk]

help men will describe emotional cheating and go "I know I shouldn't feel guilty but I do for some reason.." Well that's because you go on weekly dates with your old ex girlfriend who you say you were deeply in love with and never wanted to break up with and who just gave you an "intense wave of feelings" when reuniting and she hugs you and kisses your cheek and you're hiding it on purpose and justify it with "my wife has her own friend group too and I don't need the details" ... sorry I feel like people don't even consider that cheating isn't just sex your partner typically isn't just a friend you have sex with so

#and emotional cheating leads to physical cheating #it's just a phase of it like if you did this to a single woman it would clearly be flirting with her and seeing where things go #if you feel guilty it's because you know that you've been swayed emotionally and are seeking that out further in secret. #looking for reassurance but just feeling that guilt alone says everything. you wouldn't feel that way if you weren't

[skunkes]

observations while im continuing my first DM reread after the talon brain invasion of september 2023

#which is funny bc i am not a huge izutsumi fan but the similarities that come from Being Cats is undeniable #talkys #also ive reread dm lots of times by now but i always Forget bc thats how my brain is #and like. dude i always forget how 😧 mithruns whole thing is. #ykwim. when he's. ykwim. jesus #''what part of me are you [______]'' jesus christ. #also wait ok just rambling abt dm here god god god god recent self development has me clinging to thistle so hard. #i dont know what it is. (i do know what it is.) #ohhhhh the unending single minded devotionnn the not being young but drawn and written as a forever child throwing a tantrummm #codependency and denial and not really ever being granted the love you seek.

[grayintogreen]

We joke about polynein and polyhells and polymachina, but it is HILARIOUS how the Crownkeepers straight up go “you are my sibling” to each other most of the time.

#tbf almost every single one of them HAS a sibling #so I think they seek out bonds like that #but it comes up SO OFTEN #idk it’s really cute how they have a very unique bond with each other #that’s just a bunch of shitty siblings #critical role #cr spoilers

[fistfuloflightning]

You promised— He always liked to think that Earendil hated him. It made it easier, somehow. To push back the grief and the guilt and the filthiness that clung to his bones. But his nephew was constantly in his presence, laughing and chattering like a little bird. And Maeglin hated himself all the more for what he had done.

Day 4: Earendil & Maeglin for @nolofinweanweek

#nolofinweanweek #nolofinweanweek2023 #the silmarillion #maeglin #earendil #gondolin #my art #tolkien art #decided to use my origin design for maeglin this time #a happier moment before shit went down #i love the idea of earendil calling him uncle and dragging maeglin away from his forges and mines to explore the markets #… #damn it #theres another au rattling around #maeglin escapes angband with a silmaril and returns to gondolin #morgoth sends out his army earlier than expected and gondolin falls without maeglin’s betrayal #he flees the city with the orphaned earendil and the silmaril and they seek asylum with the feanorians/the feanorians hunt them down #maeglin makes himself indispensable with his knowledge of galvorn and becomes their weapons master while raising earendil #single dad maeglin teaching earendil how to forge weapons and to fight #the feanorians sneaking in to throw out advice #knowing me it’d probably end up including maemae lmao #bc maedhros finds competence sexy 😏

[spearxwind]

Well god damn!! I'M gonna be the one blocking you!! jesus christ!!! Imagine having this heated of a reaction to this image like hello:

its not even remotely about heavy breathing what the fuck are you talking about

i think you seriously need to go outside.

#we are not allowed to find a common friend group call experience meme funny........................................................ #thunderclap #dont seek this person out to harass them i left their url out for a reason #but like cmon man. get mad about something else. #other than that just saying youd rather kill yourself than go off for absolutely no reason on a strangers post is so.... genuinely weird #i honestly literally dont understand this reaction at all though what the fuck are they talking about #what do the last few tags even mean. we cant find it funny because that dictates our whole life experience? #a meme that talks about a single very common goof?? #what... #this is giving 'person who is experiencing humor for the first time ever' ngl

[mizz-stress]

seeking: creep, weirdo, someone who just doesn't belong here

#creep #weirdo #radiohead #alt girl #seeking #couple #single #single and seeking #mine #txt #mizz-stress

[twink-teach-tolerance]

#💥 casual twink in candid #📚 in underwear after school #🔞 twink single & seeking love

[mixelation]

In this reborn x2 scenario, is Tori going from publicly dating Itachi to Obito? Do people assume she's got a type or something?

i don't think anyone in their immediate social circle would think this because itachi and obito have very different ~vibes~. but to outsiders following gossip..... yeah, probably looks like tori is an uchiha chaser

tori: you're a huge downgrade tho

obito: i am

obito: but you like it >:)

#idk i might cut the itatori stuff from toxicity #fewer things to juggle #maybe tori starts dating him when she's 16 and kushina actually attempts to kill him #every single person in obito's life is like 'NO????' #fun times all around #the catalyst for them getting together is tori's cave incident. obito is the only who helps her seek Revenge #reborn au au: it's gotten sillier

[dark-elf-writes]

Trooper whose been theorizing for years that once the science Department finally runs out of willing experiments, the Turks will start disappearing the troopers next: hmm, can’t say I have heard from him. Sorry I couldn’t help ya.

Reno: *stomps away in pure frustration*

Trooper: *slowly pulls tinfoil hat from uniform and places it on top of his helmet*

Trooper: I knew they were coming for us 0-0

Trooper who was convinced that Cloud was an escaped lab experiment one wrong move away from being hauled back to the science floors: I always knew this day would come though I thought there would be more screaming and explosions.

Their Sargent tipping the contents of his flask into his coffee: Don’t. Give. Him. Ideas.

#the elf talks #ff7 #this would be even funnier if none of them knew cloud’s birthday so they have no idea this is a soulmate thing #like he is their baby brother and craziest bastard but they could not tell you his age #under gunpoint #and then yhey find out and not a single one of them is surprised. #this is the exact level of avoidance Cloud Fucking Strife would go to when presented a possibly emotional situation #hide and seek au

[boyfridged]

i’ve been thinking a lot about what is so unique and appealing about 80s robin jay’s moral standing that got completely lost in plot later on. and i think a huge part of it is that in a genre so focused on crime-fighting, his motivations and approach don’t focus on the category of crime at all. in fact, he doesn’t seem to believe in any moral dogma; and it’s not motivated by nihilism, but rather his open-heartedness and relational ethical outlook.

we first meet (post-crisis) jay when he is stealing. when confronted about his actions by bruce he’s confident that he didn’t do anything wrong – he’s not apologetic, he doesn’t seem to think that he has morally failed on any account. later on, when confronted by batman again, jay says that he’s no “crook.” at this point, the reader might assume that jay has no concept of wrong-doing, or that stealing is just not one of the deeds that he considers wrong-doing. yet, later on we see jay so intent on stopping ma gunn and her students, refusing to be implicit in their actions. there are, of course, lots of reasons for which we can assume he was against stealing in this specific instance (an authority figure being involved, the target, the motivations, the school itself being an abusive environment etc.), but what we gather is that jay has an extremely strong sense of justice and is committed to moral duty. that's all typical for characters in superhero comics, isn't it? however, what remains distinctive is that this moral duty is not dictated by any dogma – he trusts his moral instincts. this attitude – his distrust toward power structures, confidence in his moral compass, and situational approach, is something that is maintained throughout his robin run. it is also evident in how he evaluates other people – we never see him condemning his parents, for example, and that includes willis, who was a petty criminal. i think from there arises the potential for a rift between bruce and jay that could be, have jay lived, far more utilised in batman comics than it was within his short robin run.

after all, while bruce’s approach is often called a ‘philosophy of love and care,’ he doesn’t ascribe to the ethics of care [eoc] (as defined in modern scholarship btw) in the same way that jay does. ethics of care ‘deny that morality consists in obedience to a universal law’ and focus on the ideals of caring for other people and non-institutionalized justice. bruce, while obviously caring, is still bound by his belief in the legal system and deontological norms. he is benevolent, but he is also ultimately morally committed to the idea of a legal system and thus frames criminals as failing to meet these moral (legal-adjacent) standards (even when he recognizes it is a result of their circumstances). in other words, he might think that a criminal is a good person despite leading a life of crime. meanwhile, for jay there is no despite; jay doesn't think that engaging in crime says anything about a person's moral personality at all. morality, for him, is more of an emotional practice, grounded in empathy and the question of what he can do for people ‘here and now.’ he doesn’t ascribe to maxims nor utilitarian calculations. for jay, in morality, there’s no place for impartiality that bruce believes in; moral decisions are embedded within a net of interpersonal relationships and social structures that cannot be generalised like the law or even a “moral code” does it. it’s all about responsiveness. 

to sum up, jay's moral compass is relative and passionate in a way that doesn't fit batman's philosophy. this is mostly because bruce wants to avoid the sort of arbitrariness that seems to guide eoc. also, both for vigilantism, and jay, eoc poses a challenge in the sense that it doesn't create a certain 'intellectualised' distance from both the victims and the perpetrators; there's no proximity in the judgment; it's emotional.

all of this is of course hardly relevant post-2004. there might be minimal space for accommodating some of it within the canon progression (for example, the fact that eoc typically emphasises the responsibility that comes with pre-existing familial relationships and allows for prioritizing them, as well as the flexibility regarding moral deliberations), but the utilitarian framework and the question of stopping the crime vs controlling the underworld is not something that can be easily reconciled with jay’s previous lack of interest in labeling crime. 

#fyi i'm ignoring a single panel in which jay says 'evil wins. he chose the life of crime' because i think there's much more nuance to that #as in: choosing a life of crime to deliberately cause harm is a whole another matter #also: inb4 this post is not bruce slander. please do not read it as such #as i said eoc is highly criticised for being arbitrary which is something that bruce seeks to avoid #also ethics of care are highly controversial esp that their early iterations are gender essentialist and ascribe this attitude to women #wow look at me accidentally girl-coding jay #but also on the topic of post-res jay. #it's typically assumed that ethics of care take a family model and extend it into morality as a whole #'the ethics of care considers the family as the primary sphere in which to understand ethical behavior' #so #an over-simplification: you are allowed to care for your family over everything else #re: jay's lack of understanding of bruce's conflict in duty as batman vs father #for jay there's no dilemma. how you conduct yourself in the familial context determines who you are as a person #also if you are interested in eoc feel free to ask because googling will only confuse you... #as a term it's used in many weird ways. but i'm thinking about a general line of thought that evolves into slote's philosophy #look at me giving in and bringing philosophy into comics. sorry. i tried to simplify it as much as possible #i didn't even say anything on criminology and the label and the strain theories. #i'm so brave for not info-dumping #i said even though i just info-dumped #jay.zip #jay.txt #dc #fatal flaw #core texts #robin days