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asagiri what did you mean when you had mori say dazai reminded him of himself right after dazai talked extensively abt how mori shouldve let him kill himself after he took over the PM. what did you mean by that. why did you have a whole scene of mori miserably folding the gifted business permit into a paper airplane and tossing it off his desk after dazai left at the end of dark era. why did you have mori look so crushed when dazai said he burned the coat he gave him in the guild war arc. dont run away i just wanna talk

more importantly. asagiri why do fukuzawa and mori still have each others phone numbers saved. how frequently do they talk to each other. why was their first instinct upon seeing each other in dead apple to help the other defeat their ability bc they knew they couldnt do it on their own bc they knew they had what the other one was missing that was necessary to do it. more importantly how did they realize that so quickly. what did you mean when you let harukawa draw mori like that in the cannibalism scene where hes standing over fukuzawa about to kill him saying "what a shame" why does he look so devastated. asagiri. ASAGIRI OPEN UP

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[bungoustraypups]

they took my fucking eyes

asagiri what did you mean when you had mori say dazai reminded him of himself right after dazai talked extensively abt how mori shouldve let him kill himself after he took over the PM. what did you mean by that. why did you have a whole scene of mori miserably folding the gifted business permit into a paper airplane and tossing it off his desk after dazai left at the end of dark era. why did you have mori look so crushed when dazai said he burned the coat he gave him in the guild war arc. dont run away i just wanna talk

more importantly. asagiri why do fukuzawa and mori still have each others phone numbers saved. how frequently do they talk to each other. why was their first instinct upon seeing each other in dead apple to help the other defeat their ability bc they knew they couldnt do it on their own bc they knew they had what the other one was missing that was necessary to do it. more importantly how did they realize that so quickly. what did you mean when you let harukawa draw mori like that in the cannibalism scene where hes standing over fukuzawa about to kill him saying "what a shame" why does he look so devastated. asagiri. ASAGIRI OPEN UP

#slash meme reference #me #my voice #bsd #shitpost #mori #cio.rb

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asagiri what did you mean when you had mori say dazai reminded him of himself right after dazai talked extensively abt how mori shouldve let him kill himself after he took over the PM. what did you mean by that. why did you have a whole scene of mori miserably folding the gifted business permit into a paper airplane and tossing it off his desk after dazai left at the end of dark era. why did you have mori look so crushed when dazai said he burned the coat he gave him in the guild war arc. dont run away i just wanna talk

more importantly. asagiri why do fukuzawa and mori still have each others phone numbers saved. how frequently do they talk to each other. why was their first instinct upon seeing each other in dead apple to help the other defeat their ability bc they knew they couldnt do it on their own bc they knew they had what the other one was missing that was necessary to do it. more importantly how did they realize that so quickly. what did you mean when you let harukawa draw mori like that in the cannibalism scene where hes standing over fukuzawa about to kill him saying "what a shame" why does he look so devastated. asagiri. ASAGIRI OPEN UP

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@hellonoblesky

sorry to my beloved mutuals about my category 7 autism event

#aint this ur game #friend tag #friend turtledove #turtledove tag

[bungoustraypups]

William B. “Bill” Watterson II.

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[bungoustraypups]

Is there anywhere I can read more about nonbinary medical transitions? I’ve never heard about it before, but as a cis woman, I am trying to educate myself about the issues others face and make sure that I don’t perpetuate myths / falsehoods.

Anything else that you think could help me understand about being non binary too would be appreciated. Again, I’m learning as I go.

Thank you.

Phallo.net and metoidioplasty.net both have sections on nonbinary bottom surgery; I don't know if they have sister sites for vulval/vaginal-making surgeries. transfemscience.org has an article on nonbinary estrogen HRT options.

Some basics on nonbinary* medical transitions:

Nonbinary people can want any or all of the same things a binary trans person can want out of medical transition. We should be allowed to get any or all of the same treatments a binary person can get without having to lie about who we are.

(Also its just generally important to remember that abinary people (those who do not identify as men or women) are only part of "nonbinary" which can include a wide variety of men, women, menwomen, womenmen, others and etc.)

Hormones: Some people will go on HRT for a certain period of time to get some effects, and then go off it (or switch to a different kind, if they've had a gonadectomy) to get other effects. Some people will go on a lower dose of hormones to get effects slower or to a lesser extent. Some people will use certain hormones to counteract certain effects (for example, DHT blockers inhibit androgenic hair loss & growth, SERMS inhibit breast growth)

Surgery: Some people will transition by getting sterilized a way cis people typically do (hysterectomy, vasectomy, gonadectomies). Some people will get breast reduction but not removal. Some people will get breast implants. Some trans people will only get "part" of bottom surgery (vaginectomy, orchiectomy). Some people will get both a penis and a vagina (through phallo/meta or peritoneal pull through vaginoplasty). Some people will get a large clitoris or a small penis. Some people will get "nulloplasty" and remove external genitals entirely.

*nonbinary here not so much referring to gender identity as much as medical processes that are used to actively creating an outside-the-binary body.

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[bungoustraypups]

What's the punishment for breaking the laws of physics?

10-15 years in prism.

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[bungoustraypups]

girls go to mars to get cool scars boys go to venus to suck more penis

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[bungoustraypups]

Vultures are holy creatures.

Tending the dead.

Bowing low.

Bared head.

Whispers to cold flesh,

“Your old name is not your king.

I rename you ‘Everything.’”

#poetry #writing #not my writing #fave #save #important #me #cio.rb

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something you said has been on my mind for a while - "kink is not inherently sexual". good faith! I don't understand that at all, could you explain it a bit?

This post is educational, hooray! Extensive discussion of kink under the cut. Nothing explicitly sexual is described in detail.

Please note that in this post, I use the terms top and Dom/me interchangeably. This is because I personally identify as a "top" and not a Dom. Some communities draw sharp lines between these two terms, and it's useful to make sure that you're using the same definition as other people when you're talking. Some people use "top" solely to refer to the giving or penetrative partner, which is not synonymous with the dominant partner. Topping subs, power bottoms, and all other permutations exist. I just use that term for myself because I don't like being called a Dom. It sounds like a guy's name to me, I don't like it.

When I text my wife in every morning, "Please bring me my coffee," and she answers, "Yes, Sir!" is that sexual? I'm surely not feeling sexual when I'm barely awake. When I hold my other wife's hand when she's having a depressive fit and tell her, "Daddy's got you, it's okay," that's kink, but it's not sexual. In that moment, neither of us feel particularly sexy, and we're surely not engaging in sex, but it's kink that - forgive the pun - binds us more strongly together.

One of my girls wears a 24/7 collar that I locked in place. (She can ask me at any point to take it off, or she can take it off herself if she wants to, but she chooses this.) That's kink. It's also... a necklace. That's not any more inherently sexual than her wedding ring, though it - for us - certainly symbolizes part of our relationship that happens to sometimes include sex, exactly the same as a wedding ring.

There are a lot of types of kink that don't include sexual contact in any way or which might include sexual contact but don't need to. One of my friends is a sex-repulsed ace bootblack. They literally take care of the boots of tops, usually at play parties. For them, this act of service and submission allows them to go into a particular headspace that's very fulfilling for them. They are explicitly serving the people whose boots they clean and polish. The Dom/mes receive that service and not only get really great-looking boots out of the deal but also get the feeling of power from having someone eager to take care of them and serve them. For some of us, that kind of service allows us access to a feeling of power that can be hard to access in our daily life, and that feels really good.

Sometimes, it can feel good in a sexy way, and sometimes it feels good in a "makes lizard brain feel powerful but not sexy" way. Neither one is inherently better or worse or more or less kinky than the other.

Sometimes, people who like being whipped like it because the line between pain and pleasure is like a wave on the ocean, and they want to surf it. Sometimes, that involves mashing squishy bits together, and sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes, it's just about riding that endorphin wave and then having someone take care of you afterwards.

Sometimes, people want to be tied up in elaborate shibari knots and fucked. Sometimes, people want to be tied up in elaborate shibari knots because that process requires a lot of trust and is an intimate ritual that takes a lot of time. Sometimes, it's both. Sometimes, people want to tie up others because it's a beautiful work of art, because that ritual of binding is a ritual and accesses something sacred for them. Sometimes, they want to be tied up because it's playtime, and that's fun for them! Sometimes, they want to be tied up because when they're tied up, they are 0% in control, and they want to just surrender control to someone whom they can trust.

Some people want to go into sub space - that headspace I talked about earlier - because in their everyday life, they have a lot of responsibilities and stress, and going into that space where nobody can ask anything from them, where they have no responsibility to make any decisions at all, is a relief to them. That might involve squishy bits, or it might not. Some people like going into that sub space because being someone's Good Boy, Sweet Girl, or Good Pup is gender-affirming for them. A friend of mine only feels really safe when he's got his pup hood on, because that means he's With Master, who will protect him.

Some people get gender affirmation out of being in control, being someone's Daddy or Mistress, Sir or Boss. It allows them to access a power that helps them to square their shoulders and take on the world.

All of this entirely skips over the fact that a person's primary sexual organ is between their ears, and some people do get sexual fulfillment out of kink even when no genitalia are involved at all, but I cannot stress enough that the reasons that people enter into the multitude of kink situations in the world are as varied as the people involved. People gain access to comfort, to feelings of stability and order and control over their lives, to gender affirmation, to endorphins that are or aren't sexual in nature, to release from responsibility, to ritual and intimacy, to the ability to provide for others and take care of others in a way that their outside lives may or may not permit. For that matter, they may simply gain access to a paycheck, and that's fine, too. That's no more or less "selling your body" than when I used to run my ass off for 13+ hours a day at my retail job, and I guarantee they're making way, way better money.

The fact that so many people see kink as only and purely sexual means they're missing out on so much of what kink can offer, and narrowing down the experiences of others to this tiny little sliver of what actually exists. Yes, it can be sexual, but it doesn't have to be. The reasons that people engage in kink are as varied as the reasons that people engage in any other kind of interaction, and the fulfillment they get from it is as varied, too.

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[bungoustraypups]

when a professor asked me if i'd ever want to go into teaching, i laughed and said i wouldn't make a good teacher.

not that i don't love explaining things, but that i don't know if i could handle the moral weight of shaping young lives.

at the time i couldn't imagine it, but now i realise that the moral weight is even heavier than that. if you cannot picture yourself as a teacher going to protect your students from a police state trying to stop their free speech, do not become a teacher. you're their mentor, their protector, and their guardian, from the first day of class until graduation, and forever after. don't take it lightly.

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Could use some help getting food today because they shut off my food stamps again for literally no reason and they won’t return my calls

Cshapp | Vnmo | Paypl

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Shocking how many people don’t know that hens lay non-fertilized eggs and think the yolk they’re eating is a baby chicken

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History of Step

What is Stepping?

What is Step?

Stepping or step dancing is “a percussive dance in which the participant’s body is used to produce complex rhythms and sounds through a mixture of footsteps, spoken word, and hand-claps,” writes the African American Registry.

Step has its origins in Africa, as dancing has been a large part of traditional African culture for centuries.

Calling Step a "bizarre silent dance without music" has to be one of the wilder antiblack racist descriptions I've ever heard of stepping lmao. Anyway if you see the video, it's step!!! They're stepping!! It's a Black American form of dance!!

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One thing that's vitally important to remember is that feeling ''weirded out'' is not a form of harm. It is a completely normal part of socializing. It is the feeling of encountering something unfamiliar. In order to be a kind person, you must learn to how to distinguish between "harmful" and "weird." And then you must accept the weird.

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How I feel posting

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