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All I can say is that there is a special place in hell for some of these people, lol.

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Madeleine Miller, The Song of Achilles

#txt #hope you remember this you snake

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“The most dangerous liars are those who think they are telling the truth.”

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#txt

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The volume of your voice does not increase the validity of your argument.

Steve Maraboli (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

#txt

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Block Gaslighting:

Don’t tell me what happened, I was there.

Now on top of saying that, you claim you didn’t, that’s two lies in a row.

I heard you the first time. If you can’t stand behind your words maybe keep them in.

Do you honestly think I don’t have a working memory? I know exactly what happened

It’s a little late to revision the past now, don’t you think?

You don’t get to change the past, sorry.

Maybe if you wish thats how it happened, you should have done it that way? And not pretend later

You seem to think you can convince me that my memory is wrong. This will not happen.

Facts will stay the same no matter how many times you say that.

Don’t smile expecting me to take this as a joke.

Sure, except that’s not what happened.

Yeah, and then we all climbed on top of the easter bunny, sure.

Stop insulting my memory.

Regretful for you, I know what happened, maybe you should try convincing the dog.

Even you know it didn’t happen that way. Don’t lie.

And now how about you tell the truth? I’m tired

Tell the truth or leave me alone. You’re sickening.

I will not have you change what happened just because it makes you look better. You did what you did. It’s time to live with it, as I have lived with it. You don’t get a revision.

(Only use those in non-dangerous situation, I know a lot of abusers will turn more dangerous and violent if their gaslighting is rejected. You can still say these in your head to keep yourself sane. You can always, in 100% cases trust your memory over what they say happened. And know if they’re trying to get you enraged with their lies they’re only doing it because it’s easy to manipulate a person once they’re overwhelmed with emotions, keep aware that their words hold no ground at all.)

#txt #sounds about right lmmaooo

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#image #relatable

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me: *sees a ghost* omg are you dead

the ghost: of corpse

#txt

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if anybody has beef with me, it’s one-sided. i do not care. i do not have the energy. i am tired.

#txt #yeah #basically #also #I just don't care at all sorry #opinions are only opinions

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Mermay 2020 (part 2) by Faith Schaffer

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“Is it foolish to speak of little joys that occur in the middle of tragedy? It is our humanity. Whatever we have left of it. We must not deny it to ourselves.”

— Ilya Kaminsky, from Still Dancing: An Interview With Ilya Kaminsky by Garth Greenwell

#txt #sounds about right

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Lawrence Alma-Tadema - The Roses of Heliogabalus (1888), detail

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no offense but I look forward to having a healthy way of thinking and coping and living

#txt #preach #something a lot of people could learn from

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😔😌

where would i be without these two emojis. my emotional range is entirely bounded by these two expressions

#txt #lmaooooo #this made me laugh #accurate as hell

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Both of us have known Ren for years as well as his ex. In fact, there was a point she was my best friend and I’ll be honest in saying that I witnessed much of the abuse she caused and inflicted upon Ren, not vice versa. There were even times when she would call me and admit she pushed and bullied Ren around and put him down because he needed someone to control him. That being said, I stopped supporting her because I watched her blame and attack someone she had continued to abuse for years and I finally had enough because Ren was my friend too. You have literally no proof that she was groomed or anything because she wasn’t. I spent hours on phone calls with her and talking to her as well as joint calls between her and Ren and through it all, she was the only one who was ever abusive towards him. No, I wasn’t a part of the relationship, but she confided in me with many things that mortify me to this day and I’m tired of people believing in a girl who is simply angry that she can’t control someone she held under her thumb for years. Stop speaking for someone who is not the victim when a lot of us can say that she even went after us in many ways. She attempted to break up other’s relationships and friendships and has been manipulative towards a large number of people and it’s sad that you can’t see that. That being said, leave Ren alone when he is in fact the victim. You are participating in harming an already victim and it shows.

This just breaks my fucking heart man. You people are awful. You have no idea what you’re supporting or what you’re talking about no matter how much you want to say it. He’s my best friend. I know him like the back of my hand. I’ve seen and been through everything with him. I knew his ex. I knew what she was like. I knew every situation in detail. Everything is so wrong. Leave him alone. This is so beyond wrong. 

#txt #important

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Yun Ling  -  https://lingy000.tumblr.com  -  https://www.instagram.com/lingy000  -  https://www.lingy000.com  -  https://twitter.com/lingy000?lang=es  -  https://www.linkedin.com/in/lingy0  -  https://www.facebook.com/yun.ling.904

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You won’t lay your filthy hands on him ever again or force your abuse down his throat any longer. Mark my words. You’ll have to go through every single one of us. Careful what you do though, all your abusive words and actions will come to light and then everyone will see that you were the perpetrator all these years.

#txt #mine