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If people didnt appreciate me at my kindness, then ok. From today. I’ll be fckin harsh.

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Verb ‘ To Be ‘ Hona

Main hu - I am

Tum ho - You are

Yeh/Veh - She/He is

Ham hain - We are

Tum sab ho - You all are

Aap sab hain - You all are ( formal )

Yeh/Veh hain - They are

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Headless John The Baptist Hitchhiking, C.T. Salazar

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Look happy from the outside, but im dead inside

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This trauma kills me so bad.

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Got me thinking if i can’t move on with my past or i’m still trauma to know new people.

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the relationship between a girl and her favourite mug is something that can be so personal

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Jane Austen - "Sense and Sensibility"

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Your purpose in life is not to love yourself but to love being yourself.

If you goal is to love yourself, then your focus is directed inward toward yourself, and you end up constantly watching yourself from the outside, disconnected, trying to summon the “correct” feelings towards yourself or fashion yourself into something you can approve of.

If your goal is to love being yourself, then your focus is directed outward towards life, on living and making decisions based on what brings you pleasure and fulfillment.

Be the subject, not the object. It doesn’t matter what you think of yourself. You are experiencing life. Life is not experiencing you.

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you’re going to love again, find a job again, create art again, do what you love again, feel powerful again. you’re going to be back on track. i don’t know when, but you are going to feel like yourself again, eventually. this isn’t the end. hang in there.

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You ever think about how old people have no idea what “survivor bias” is, and take full credit for being excellent out of things where they lucked out?

“Back in my day we didn’t have any of these childhood protective things, we were smart enough not to do stupid shit on our own!” Except your little neighbour, who got the funniest idea at the age of seven, and got his skull pierced when he slipped?

“Back in my day nobody got divorced, we stuck together and fixed our problems!” What about your cousin, who was slowly killed by her husband because she had nowhere to escape him?

“Back in my day nobody had ‘mental problems’, we didn’t whine, we just toughed it out and endured life!” Hey remember that guy you used to work with, who seemed really friendly and normal, and then suddenly hanged himself ‘for no reason’?

“Back in my day we didn’t have any of this ‘gay’ or ‘transgender’ thing.” You did, but your family cut all ties with her before you were born.

 You kinda start seeing it in everything they think, if you start looking for it.

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I went back. After 9 months I reached out to my ex. It wasn’t what I had hoped for. He destroyed me for the second time. For once I have no words to describe how he made me feel. I was blind slighted. He filled me with hope only to rip my heart out my chest. I don’t wish him ill. I only wish to him that he miss me like I missed him. I only wish that he feels what I felt all these months.

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I miss you so much but I can't tell anyone. They would all think I'm stupid for feeling this way. So I write on a page that noone knows about. I write to the universe about you; hoping that one day you'll stumble across my page and you'll say you feel the same.

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Hot Language Immersion Tip

I find it super hard to find the content to consume but one thing that works quite well on youtube:

searching "interview with" in the language you're learning (as in: "Interview mit" (for german), "interview met" (for dutch), "interview avec" (for french), ...

Pros:

You learn about the coolest/craziest/weirdest people

You get to know who's trendy in the country right now (like singers, politicians, etc) as well as what topic

The videos are typically posted by target-language channels (I for example found out about "vice nederlands" through an interview with the dutch singer Froukje)

Typically, interviews are done with quite interesting topics/people AND they're 10-20min long (thus not overbearing)

Many have subtitles!

Hope this helps someone!

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i have a little switch in my head. its two settings are “do everything immediately” and “do nothing at all”. i do not control what the switch is set to, and there is no third setting

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You have tortured my mental health, so so so badly. 😔