#Where the girl's boyfriend said

[gonedeviant]

*Nines trying to get on his future-in-laws good side by playing catchphrase with them*

Gavin, on Nines' team: *pulls out a card* B- Okay, I think we'll skip this one.

Nines, taking the card from Gavin: Something Gavin gives me that he can't get himself.

Gavin: *dumbfounded*

Elijah:

Gavin: Boner. It was boner.

#something Bridget gives me #reed900 #gavin reed #rk900 #dbh #elijah kamski #he's trying you guys #based on a thing I saw on tik tok #Where the girl's boyfriend said #Trans gavin

[plant-dad-sulu]

So I go by Nick with most of my friends at this point and use any pronouns and theyre all very good about switching it up sometimes but one of my friends primarily refers to me as "he" which is cool i dont care but it didnt register to me as an issue until i met up with him and some of his straight friends a while back and on seeing me they all had identical looks on their faces like they were short circuiting and one even asked my friend "this is Nick?" At which point i realized they were probably expecting a cis man and not a fem person in a crop top with boobs and so on and now i eagerly await the day i meet more of his friends just to see it happen again because why have a gender if ur not gonna be funny about it

#nottrek #gender stuff #it was on the same level as when i was getting a tour of a new job #and the person was like 'and womens bathrooms are over there! ...and... gender neutral is... there' #because my hawaiian shirt threw them off #or when people would be talking to a group of girls and me and go 'and we all get boyfriends!' or whatever and then #after a moment 'or girlfriends' #that moment of hesitation where they realized they just said something Straight or Cis #and remember i am there and give off queer vibes #guess this'll be a lifelong thing then #hilarious let me at them

[softquietsteadylove]

Some awkward moments in 10 things au💕

"What is the delinquent doing here?"

"Isn't he Thena's situationship?"

"He's kinda cute, though."

Thena did her best to ignore her teammates. None of what they said was true. Well, it wasn't, but she looked over and Gilgamesh was indeed seating himself on the bleachers overlooking the soccer field. She blinked.

He waved.

Thena gripped her water bottle even tighter. What was he doing here?

"You should go talk to him."

Her teammates were far more social, all of them with multiple friend groups, different niches they could jump into and out of per the situation.

"No, you!"

"Ask him if he's going to the party tonight!"

Thena had no clue how there were so many parties in one school year. They were all in the same position: on the cusp of graduating, preparing to move on in life. Did they not have any schoolwork to do?

"He drives, right? Ask him for a ride!"

Thena dropped her water bottle into her bag on her way past the bench.

"Thena?"

"Hey Princess," he greeted her as if he had laid a trap simply by sitting there. He leaned back in his posture, resting his palm on the bench, "how's practice?"

"What are you doing here?" she stared down at him from the back of the seats in front of him. Most would be frozen solid from that look.

"Just thought I'd walk around a bit after school, y'know," he shrugged, seeming so casual about it.

"I thought we said we wouldn't do this," she growled at him, her ponytail swaying from the upward tilt of her head.

"Uh," Gilgamesh looked down at his hoodie, toying with the string of it, "you said."

"What?"

"Maybe you said we wouldn't do this kinda thing," he muttered through somewhat pursed lips, pouting and sulking in broad daylight.

Thena sighed, relaxing her - possibly overly - confrontational stance. She looked down at the cleats on her feet. "Are you really here just to watch?"

"Well," he shrugged, "uh, what are you doing after practice?"

"I see," she scoffed, but the look on Gil's face made her want to snatch the words back as soon as she said them. She looked away, guilt washing over her, maybe even shame. Gil wasn't like that, and she damn well he wasn't. "I...I didn't have anything planned."

"Oh," he looked up at her again. "Well, I heard there was this-"

"Party," she cut him off, and then felt unnerved by it, looking away again. "I heard."

"Well?"

Thena shifted on her feet.

"Look," Gil began, leaning forward with his elbows on his knees. "I know you don't wanna do the whole 'couple' thing."

And he did. He did, and he told her, and let it show in his actions. He did that at every opportunity, and she was the one constantly dodging and deflecting his desire to be more romantic.

"But we can, like, hangout," he finished rather lamely, "right?"

He was right. She was the one being childish, and for what? To avoid looking for too long at the man whose lips had been on hers? Whose tongue had been in her mouth...and other places.

She blushed.

Gil sighed, moving his feet to stand. "Okay, this was a mistake-"

Thena put her hand on his shoulder, preventing him from standing fully. She pushed with her fingertips to lower him back to the bench. "No."

"No?" he looked up at her, still poised to get up and leave but not pushing against her. "No, it's not a mistake? Or no, you're not going?"

Thena just barely glanced back at the team. They weren't even trying to seem like they weren't watching them with intrigue. She sighed, trying to ignore it. "It wasn't a mistake."

Gil relaxed his shoulder against her touch. He really was ridiculously well built for someone their age. She was well aware of what it felt like to dig her nails into those shoulders.

"I'll go," she murmured, feeling the warmth in her cheeks worsen, "if you do."

Now she really was being childish.

But Gilgamesh smiled up at her eagerly, "yeah, I was planning on going. Do you want a ride?"

She longed for her water bottle, just for something to occupy her idle hands. Her fingers flexed on her hips. "I'll probably drive Sersi, so... "

"Right," he nodded.

"I'll meet you there," she added, then seeing there was no need. She toyed with some hair that had slipped from her ponytail, "out front?"

"Okay sweetheart," he grinned, back to being his usual cocky self. He did stand now, leaning closer to her, "you got yourself a deal."

She pursed her lips, "it wasn't a business proposal."

He just chuckled, slipping his hands into the pockets of his hoodie again, "you leave the proposing to me, your ladyship."

She rolled her eyes.

"I'll wait for you, Thena," he promised, and it came out so heartfelt she really felt it. He leaned even closer, "for as long as it takes."

Thena leaned just her head back faintly. He wasn't going to kiss her, right?--here and now?!

"Just say the word," he chuckled, leaning even closer.

She didn't lean back. And then he leaned in and kissed her! The bastard really kissed her, in front of the whole team! And he was still a good kisser (fuck). And she kissed him back (just a little).

"Relax, they can't see from this angle, it just looks like I'm being a jerk," he leaned back to laugh more loudly.

Thena kept quiet, mostly unable to come up with a reply to that amidst her fluster.

"See you tonight, Princess," he gave her one last little wave before stepping back more visibly. He waved to the team, "keep it up, ladies!"

Thena huffed, trying to collect some breath before going back to the team. She watched Gilgamesh strolling slowly to the stairs, like he was god's gift to women. Specifically, her.

"All right girls, get back out there."

Thena jogged past the bench and back onto the field, falling back into the fold of her teammates.

"Ooh, Thena talked to her boyfriend!"

"He's not my boyfriend!" she snarled.

"Oh, so I can ask him out?"

Thena deliberately changed course, bumping shoulders on the way to her position front and center, "I didn't say that, either."

#Thenamesh 10 Things AU #Thena is in d e n i a l #she said just because this boy and I are in love #he thinks he can come around and ask to be my boyfriend? #just because I dream of him every night get over yourself #Gil is so sweet #he kind of lingers around #Sersi is like uh what's up? #Gil: well...where's your sister? #Sersi is like ohhhhhhh my god you're so transparent #she's at the field #Gil goes and just kind of hopes he'll get to talk to her #in the end he leaves and he's like yessss!!! #'cause he got to kiss his girl #meanwhile Thena's team teases her relentlessly #but every single one of them gets a ball in the thigh for it #coach benches her but fine #later Gil gets wind of how the whole girl's senior soccer team is scared to talk to him #he assumes it's the delinquent thing but it's Thena being jealous

[spiffyflypie]

starting to suspect that a lot of cishet people just arent attracted to each other

not only is there that thing where cishet men seem to hate everything fun and real about a cishet woman (body hair, rolls, tummy, sagging breasts, genitalia that aren't a certain way)

but ive also noticed a thing where cishet women aren't attracted to cishet men either, and treating sex as a thing they have to put up with/something that cishet men "naturally" want more than cishet women. there's the idea that cishet women think penises "look like thumbs" and find balls unattractive.

maybe you specifically just aren't that into cishet men? you don't have to tolerate mid sex with people you aren't into! you don't have to have sex with anybody at all, or you can find someone you're genuinely attracted to to have sex with!

no genitals are uglier/less worthy of attraction than any other

and whats sad is i Know there's cishet people who love each other's bodies, but the ones who don't treat it as this universal thing, and this idea has spread into larger cultural zeitgeists

when you've seen how hungry and reverent queer people can be for each other, how can you accept begrudging tolerance in your sexual relationships?

maybe being t4t has spoiled me but cishet people do you even like each other's bodies???

#i just saw a reddit post where this girls boyfriend said her pussy was ugly #which is abhorrent #but then people in the comments were like #thats rich coming from someone with a penis #as if penises are somehow all ugly #and even a cishet man was saying he loved his penis but acknowleged it as objectively ugly #excuse me sir but theres thousands of people who find penises beautiful

[caffeinatedopossum]

That sad realization that not only did the undiagnosed autism lead to me not realizing my "friends" were actually bullying me the whole time I knew them but I was also unintentionally doing something similar to neurotypical friends because I didn't understand how we thought differently

#i just want yall to know that when i first wrote undiagnosed my phone autocortected that to undigested so. yeah #you heard it hear folks. autism is undigestable. thats why we all got tummy problems #anyway this is why is struggling with communication and maintaining relationships is a symptom #although my relationships always seem fine to *me* because im oblivious as fuck #and this is why autism questionnaires need to be phrased differently #alsp yeah. thinking about that one time i went to a summer camp and i joked about a girl in mine and my friends dorm #who was sleep talking that night. and one of the counselors immediately shamed me for bullying #like we were all there and awake. everyone already knew and laughed so i assumrd it was funny #but then suddenly *I* was being mean...? i understand more now but i wish someone explained it to me more gently #why did everyone laugh it was mean? i thought they laughed because it was funny #still dont understand why people laugh if something is hurtful. i didnt want to insult the girl either #i considered us friends and i was just trying to include her in the conversation #it was still not ok though... #theres another time that comes to mind when i said matter of factly that my sister was a liar #in front of her boyfriend who then very aggressively silenced me #i didnt understand why you would lie if you cant accept being a liar #it wasnt meant as an insult it was meant as the truth #but maybe if it was insulting she should stop lying #idk it was really weird #maybe this is why i didnt realize people where insulting me #because to them they were picking on me #but to me they were either stating a fact or falsely accusing me #i get embarrassed too of course but only because its whats expected of me #that makes me feel scared and inferior and alone. and thats what embarrassment feels like for me #it feels like everyone is unforgivingly looking at me with a magnifying glass

[ladsofsorrow24]

honestly that date scene is so hilarious because asa is such a try hard loser trying to impress denji with her knowledge and then there's denji who just wanna see the cute penguins...

#asa is giving me 'try hard to look cool boyfriend' kind of energy lmao #and yeah it's also reminds me how fujimoto like putting denji in this kind of... position #where the narrative typically put a female character in #especially when someone point out denji wanting to see penguins on a date is similar to the girl in the song reze's singing #and that whole date feels like if you put asa and denji is this typical date scene but switch the usual roles #which once again proved that fujimoto is consistent with his character's personality #like yeah denji as a try hard make sense if we're gonna put him in a typical boyfriend role #but him getting excited by the penguins and yelling at asa because she forced him to look things he doesn't like is just... very him #and asa being such a try hard is so true to her character #she's awkward yet because she looks down on denji #she thinks her plan is better than his spontaneity #which... resulted in such hilarious scene #also that repetitive panels really makes it even funnier lol #but yeah anyway this is not me excusing fujimoto's other bullshit or anything but i just personally #like the way he write his characters in a way that doesn't rely much on gender expectations #which... can't really be said about many other mangakas... or even writers out there #tmi tag #chainsaw man spoilers

[maddy-ferguson]

"Quick test tho, replace girlfriend with boyfriend and see if ur still bothered by it." me when i'm 7 and have yet to realize that men and women have a very different place in the social hierarchy because we live in a society

#joke 7-year-olds have already realized this because they're smarter than the person i'm quoting #and because they're boys and girls themselves and are treated differently based on that from the moment they're born lmao #i was reading a book the other day (last month) where boys were already doing the weaponized incompetence thing and girls already cleaned #up after them automatically without being asked BEFORE THE AGE OF 5 like it's bad for us (it was like a sociological study) #and literally the weaponized incompetence thing makes sense it's normal/smart to try to get out of doing something you don't wanna do like #chores and stuff but it's the fact that girls internalize that they have to be the ones who stop doing what they're doing to clean up after #boys/men AS CHILDREN and then keep doing that for the rest of their lives. i'll kill myself #i was raised with just my sister and my mom and my sister is the man of the house in the sense that i'll ask her to do things a certain #way a thousand times because it's better for everyone and she'll always be like yeah you're right and then never do it. and i'm always like #if i actually had to go through that with a partner...and with male partners statistically i probably would #when women make posts like oh look what my boyfriend/husband bought vs what i asked for haha he's so silly...KILL HIM #anyway. my point was you internalize it early enough to realize some of it is off as a kid. so why would you say there's nothing wrong with #saying something about women if the same thing being said about men doesn't offend you #like are you stupid #and like i say: brf slt

[lacking-hydration]

being poc and a sketch comedy fan is like being two parts oil and two parts water

I enjoy engaging in a lot of some really funny stuff and then all of a sudden someone pulls out the blackface and I just have to sit down .and I don't think either communities I've been in that pertain to that ever discuss it much which is always a little isolating, you know?

#id like to maybe talk about the kith sketch where that girl brings her boyfriend to her parents house #said boyfriend is played by ST in blackface #i dont know if anyone would really. want to hear about my. opinion on that sketch but i think maybe they ought to

[dirt-str1der]

Do you consider any of the non protagonist yakuza girls well writen?

I think none of them had rights

#Thanks for the ask ! #like you have to actively like girls to notice them theyre inconsequential #also who is this why are you sewing discorse in my inbox #i spelled discourse wrong. my mom ordered the dog trainers to train ollie right now because he is insane and hes eating soo many treats #not because hes a good boy but because they are tossing that shit at him #they were literally almost there with yasuko #i thought her story was so fucking interesting ... #like its really not a fault of the girls they are all pretty good characters in their own right #like we have a variety of them too. we had miss tatsu who was out there turning guys inside out but she randomly had to go get kidnapped in #order to complete kiryus training arc. like how funny would it be for the whole thing to be staged and miss tatsus like Lol good job kiryu #for passing my test. oh this guy ? yeah he did get the better of me but i kicked the shit out of him then roped him into my schemes. dont #you think practical application is more effective than training ? anyway theres nothing more i can teach you but you can come train whenevr #we didnt even get an in game appearance for yuko but apparently she was a massive troll but too cute to get into any real trouble #mirei was. . . i literally said ‘are you kidding me’ when they revealed what happened to her like seriously ? is this real ? they did #that ? like literally she should have been living it up in cahoots with katsuya and being so sexy and divorced forever. she should have #faked her death because every single parentsl figure haruka had leaves her. and god haruka like honest to god i love that she just ran off #like that i thought it was so kiryu of her to be an absent father. but also my friends have all brought up very good points which is that #haruka should NOT have gone back to morning glory like she should have stayed in ono michi with her loser girlfriend whos a boyfriend with #her new extended family and only go back every now and then to see her siblings honestly i hated that .... like girl spread your wings .. #choose where you want to roost stop going back !! just get out !!!!!! its literally okay to tell the rest of your family ‘i dont wanna wipe #your asses forever i love you guys but im out of here’. and god i .. as much as i loved y0 makoto should have left her shitassed husband #girl had a whole ass baby with him ... find someone better im sorry ..!!! like whatever i know that thst was the ‘best’ option for her and #she deserves financial stability and a rich doctor husband but she also deserves crazy sex with a girl with one eye #i think what yumi did was awesome but like. actually i have no complaints about yumi. wait no i do. kazama was a shitass for marrying her #off to that politician because he couldnt stand having a woman in his house. im now thinking of that unecessarily hot doctor from y0 wtf was #her deal. and god the unnecessarily hot cho-han lady from y5.. oh wait ako had rights. she fell in love with kiryu at first sight then got #over him which is literally the best thing a girl could do for herself. PLUS she throws molotovs and is generally awesome #i cant remember any other girl. oh yeah god reina. .. reina .... god milky though .... i think she was fantastic and i want her badly. and #yayoi fucking disappeared after a certain point in time and ran off to another city with her baby daddy and sugared him to open a bar #well its not canon but im certain thats what happened because she literally went radio silence like girl where are you ....

[omgsomeonesomewhereonearth]

Can't believe I just watched a Bengali movie where a gay man and a woman settled together in what essentially boils down to a queerplatonic marriage

What a world.

#i mean like #the movie wasn't *about* them #it wasn't like 'omg massive groundbreaking moment for queer rep in indian movies' #the movie was mostly about the girl's elderly parents and also their family as a whole #but there was this amazing scene where the girl and her dad were talking and he asked her when she and her husband were having a baby #as indian parents do #and she told him never and that her husband is gay #and that she didn't know until after marriage because his parents had forced him into an arranged heterosexual marriage #and her father said - well you two should get divorced immediately because then you'll both be free #and she was like #actually no. #(the following is translated and paraphrased and not as poetic as it was in the movie.) #is marriage only good for one thing? for romance and children? #we make eachother happy. there are no lies between us. we live together and take care of one another. #ive had plenty of relationships during our marriage. he's had a boyfriend. even so we've decided to stay with eachother. #and she like talked about how their friendship is so strong and they fulfill their wedding vows to eachother without needing romance #it was nice #i don't think it was perfect or outstanding rep but i personally never expected to hear the word gay in a bangali movie #like it wasn't even bollywood guys #and like I know they didn't use the word 'queerplatonic' #but from that description I would say it fits?

[tiktaalic]

They weren’t lying that destiel Christmas movie can have doctor winchester in it

#it wasn’t on the illegal site that has literally everything and it wasn’t on Netflix even tho it said it was so for a good 3-5 minutes I #thought that yall had gonched this movie into existence despite the imdb page and where to watch websites. #no angel has appeared yet but I think this might be a case where it’s cas4cas #her boyfriends like ohhhh she’s a workaholic too involved in her job. girl she works in the ER #you clock out of your fake business job literally nothing of consequence happens. #she ignores a call about her patient’s labs and someone gets billed for another day of hospital stay which their insurance won’t cover bc it #wasn’t necessary bc the labs are normal ! #etxt

[starsarebleeding]

im still not sure exactly what's going on but apparently im driving far down memory lane to my first bf and, like, am In It. wwwwwtfffffff

#jillpost #like um excuse me #i dont even know how to comment on this lol #im in my 20 year old brain experiencing something i had totally forgotten or like left behind as i got older #said boyfriend knocked up a girl in kenya while working there and married her n now has a ten yr old son #lmao like our lives could not have diverged more #and its not even really about him honestly #its entirely about me and what im feeling about myself and im so grateful to have this glimpse into past me #we dated on and off for a year but started our longterm relationship right after my dad died #and the trauma of that i am realizing blocked off some memories and truths about myself #and i cant wait to go exploring in myseld and figure out what im meant to learn and feel from this #and music is always the best way!!! soooo #depeche mode was our band #lets see where 2006 takes me

[ace-no-isha]

ew im in love how did that happen

#with a white man no less #one day a few years ago my older sister said sumn abt how desi girls sometimes date white men and it’s the healthiest relationships they’ve #ever been in #and it felt like an omen at the time #i was right cus flash forward to may and i meet my boyfriend a pasty hospital worker #with the prettiest deep resonant voice who’s sweet to the elderly and is absolutely so charming #also he told me this much later but he said when he saw me smile it was a wrap for him like instant crush #our chemistry is magnetic it’s kinda insane that i wouldn’t have met him otherwise ya know #like he’s only in my life because i didn’t die #and was in the hospital next to a specific old lady who needed her heart checked in the hospital #he also told me that he lied about forgetting some papers down on the floor where i was at cus he just wanted an excuse to see me #and that when he sets up his machine for the next patient it usually takes like 30 seconds but cus he wanted to talk to me it took like 5mn #adore him #seriously thought i was a lesbian before him #was terrified to publicly admit it cus of the consequences of what it would do to my family relations… #oh well #anyways just random rant #isha rambles

[watermelinoe]

question is: which manhwa have you read?

ooh ok ok i had several of u gyns ask me this!! i only just started getting into manhwa recently bc i ran out of isekai manga jskfgjjkfg so you have to understand that i. love isekai tropes. i love them so much. i love a female protagonist who is just so, so stupid and completely oblivious to the lead's or anyone else's romantic feelings bc she is Busy and has One Brain Cell. if you like bakarina from hamefura/my next life as a villainess, that's my genre ok. i do not typically like stories where the female lead falls in love first bc men don't deserve love unprompted, let's be real. men should exist to dote on women bc that's what i would do to atone for being male

so i'm gonna do my best w the titles bc i am completely new to korean and i'm gonna try to give the english titles that the scan teams use so they're easier to find. the main sites i've been using are ladymanga and manhwatop

my very favorite manhwa i've read is actually not an isekai but it's f/f historical fantasy and it's so good, it's called her tale of shim chong/her shim cheong. it's about a beggar girl who befriends a newly-wed bride of a powerful man, and their struggle to stay together and survive. it's really poignant and makes incredible insights on misogyny, but it's satisfying!

then there's doctor elise: the royal lady with the lamp/queen with a scalpel about a skilled surgeon with memories of a past life who ends up reincarnating back into that past life and deciding to become a doctor instead of marrying the prince. but this time around, he's the one in love w her bc she's so cool and smart hehe, but she is v busy being amazing at her job

the rest of these are still releasing so i have to wait :'( but i'm really into them so far. first one is a wicked tale of cinderella's stepmom/i raised cinderella preciously, where the protagonist wakes up as the evil stepmother from cinderella. so she decides she'll just get good marriages for all three of her girls and then live in a cottage somewhere, except cinderella meeting w the prince didn't go as planned and this baron dude and his "apprentice" are always hanging around them. i love this one bc she's kind of a sexy mama bear and the daughters are all surprisingly fleshed out and don't actually want to just follow the plot of cinderella lol

also i like i'm a stepmother but my daughter is just too cute which is similar to the previous one where the protagonist is now the wicked stepmother from snow white. but she was originally a children's clothing designer and snow white is adorable, so instead she dotes all over her. and it turns out the king has a reason for being cold to both of them. (trigger warning on this one for past implied sexual assault and pedophilia that is taken seriously - the abuser is deceased before the start of the story)

and finally i'm waiting on the villainess flips the script/it's time to change the genre, where a woman is reincarnated into her favorite revenge novel as the main character's abusive aunt. she plans to hand him off to his real uncle so he can get along with his story, but instead he gets so attached to her that she ends up joining him and pretending to be his mom so she can keep him and his uncle safe from the events of the novel. except things are playing out differently than the story she knows.

those have been all my favs so far!! based on this if any of you gyns think there's one i might like feel free to lmk so i can add it to my anilist lol

#weeb hours #long post #this was so fun thank u for asking me!! #i feel pretty isolated in my weebery tbh bc most everyone seems to be into shounen #and like i've said i just can't care abt stories where girls/women are not essential to the plot #so yeah that means i end up reading a lot of het romance ig but the men are so unrealistic and good that they're basically women #i'm reading like wow he is literally me. i could be a girl boyfriend #i have basically zero interest in stories where it's the girl pursuing the guy. 0/10. unrealistic. unrelatable. unnatural. #anyway my fucking double-jointed thumb fucking hurts from all this fucking scrolling!!! My Life Is Not Fair!!!!! #born to read manga on my phone. forced to wear compression gloves bc thumb hurty

[maddy-ferguson]

i spent two hours (two hours) with my "friends" from school today and i'm MISERABLE roman voice you need to stop this (@ me)

#and like i say: brf slt #forgot to say we were literally sitting down. in class. taking notes. like there's genuinely no reason for THAT to make me feel this bad! #i'm not even bad at talking to people i never talk to again in class or only hang out with in school not having real friends doesn't bother #me because i have friends outside of school but it's my third year so everyone already has established groups of friends and it's :/ like #on monday in my first class of the year the girl sitting next to me was very nice we talked and we have more classes in common like apart #from the big ones where everyone's here the ones where it's only maybe 30 people. so i'm like that's fun i hope i see her again and i did #but she's friends with the bigger group of friends my friends who don't actually like me are friends with like my non friend's boyfriend's #friends so THEIR friends. like what are the odds. i guess not that crazy because there's only maybe 200 of us or 150 i have no idea #but still #but anyway #today we have one of these classes where it's not everyone but it was like another group of students so it was #me. this girl i've been hanging out with for two years who i didn't want to keep hanging out with at the end of the year because of the way #she reacted to something i did that was like an honest mistake she took it wayyy too seriously and said some things i didn't like i was #like girl fuck you😭 except then they kept the exact same groups AND I DIDN'T HAVE ANYONE ELSE and it was four months later so i actually #sat next to her and we were together for projects and things like that like my bad. that's on me. #and on her first day last year she met a girl who wasn't in our university the year before and they became bffs basically so it was them + #me. and i like the second girl better i think but she's insanely judgey like not to be like i'm so much better than her but i grew out of #the criticizing everyone 24/7 because it's genuinely a fun activity for me and i enjoy it mindset when i left middle school because the one #friend who liked it as much as me went to a different high school and i stopped seeing her every day. i made a post saying this in january #then during the second semester we became friends with another person i don't wanna explain how. we worked on a thing together for class #basically. them i genuinely like even though i don't think we would actually hang out out of school and have that many things to say to #each other. but they're more friends with girl 1 and girl 2 than they are with me because well i'm not comfortable with them so i talk less #than i would if i was comfortable. and there's also person 3's partner we have a few classes with who's cool but same as person 3 with the #being closer to girl 1 and girl 2 even though they're not even that close. but like. yeah idk #they just (girl 1 and girl 2) make me feel like i'm the weird kid in middle school and that wasn't even my middle school experience i'm #gonna let that happen to me NOW AT 22 YEARS OF AGE? #but last year it was like fine actually it's crazy how one class two hours made me rethink it all #but it's also awkward because like am i just gonna go sit all by myself because i don't wanna hang out with them. especially because we #still have a group thing we're gonna have to do until the end of the year that we started last year and it's not like i'd wanna switch #groups because they're a good group to work with. like they actually do the work. and i guess we only have two classes where it's. tag limi

[lavender---sunshine]

My brother literally thinks since "all the good women are taken" and in relationships, he should hit on women with boyfriends because otherwise its "not fair" to him lol

#as if women were poorly distributed by the kings men and hes missing out on his fair share of bitches lol #its not fair???? are you on dating websites? are you at bars where single women are??? are you a good person a least? #are you attractive? are you confident? do you believe women should have the same rights? #the answer to all these are no btw #but its not fair. as if you can deserve another person. #i hope he does hit on a girl with a boyfriend and she tears him to shreds. or that her 'chad' bf threatens him #gives him of dose of reality #god what an incel #i tried to tell him like..........no.....please dont ask out your coworker who is not single and just had a baby #he said love is love. you love who you love 😔 #bruh