#anyway. in case you couldnt tell i talked to someone with Bad Opinions again today and i want to bite something

[ererokii]

Birthday Kisses || Ochako Uraraka

Ochako Uraraka x Fem! Reader

Warnings: none!

Word Count: 4745

Synopsis: Your birthday has arrived and Uraraka has a sweet surprise for you on your special day.

This is for the @bnhabookclub bingo event!

Prompt: Suprise Birthday Party

Bingo Masterlist

Taglist (DM me to be apart): @shoutodoki @shoutosplaything @lady-bakuhoe @stupidbuttwaifu @sugacookiies @kingtamakimurder

Once again this is for my girl Tima except... HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO @saltie !!! I KNOW TODAY ISNT YOUR BIRTHDAY BUT I COULDNT WAIT ANY LONGER!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND EVEN THOUGH WE ONLY KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR LITTLE TIME I TRUST YOU SO SO MUCH, HAVE AN AMAZING DAY WHEN YOUR BIRTHDAY ARRIVES BB💘💘

Uraraka was fond of birthdays. Whether it was her own or someone else’s. She always wanted to know the details about it. She had a bad case of ruining surprises, but she promised Mina that she would stay quiet since she did ruin the surprise when it was Denki’s birthday.

You were ecstatic about your birthday. Your birthday was something that you always loved to celebrate with people. This one however was more special because you had your now girlfriend with you, Ochako Uraraka.

Both of you have been dating for a little over a year. You remembered being the stuttering mess as you handed her flowers as you concentrated on asking her on a date. Panicked at your outburst it led to her crying, leading up to your nervous breakdown, which she comforted you right after. Needless to say, a beautiful relationship blossomed.

Uraraka slowly opened your door, peeking her head through the open slit as her eyes focused on the lump of your body on your bed, covered in blankets. At the sight of you, her mouth tugged in a smile as she fully opened the door to let her body in, making her way towards the curtains.

“Up up Y/N!” She cheered and swung them open, the shining light of the sun immediately hitting your face. Your whine resonated throughout the room as you buried your face in your pillow, nuzzling into it. “No..”

“No?! Why not?!”

“Early..” you mumbled and felt yourself drift back into your deep slumber that she awakened you from.

“Eh?!” She pouted and walked over to your bed, letting herself sit beside your curled up body in the cocoon of blankets. “But Y/N it’s your birthday!” She said, hopefully, it would snap you out of your daze.

You froze before shifting your body, turning your back to face her. “Early.”

A groan left her lips as she came behind you, placing her hands on your side as she started shaking you. “Why am I more excited than you?! Come on baby get up!!” She dragged her words in a whine as she felt you squirm underneath her until you finally looked up to face her.

“Because you weren’t up late last night” you yawned, a hand covering your mouth. You stretched your legs and let out a groan, feeling the sleep wash away from you. “What time is it anyway?”

“It’s about 10 AM.”

Oh. Guess it wasn’t early as you thought it was.

“Fine fine” you grumble as you sat up, her body moving to allow her to sit on her knees. A hand came and cradled your cheek as her lips kissed the tip of your nose. “I’ll be downstairs waiting for you okay?”

“But you just came here and now I don’t want you to leave me Ocha” you quickly wrapped your arms around her, bringing the brunette close to your body as she let out a surprised squeak at your motions.

She quickly shook herself out of her shock as she copied your motion, wrapping her arms around your body, her head resting on top of yours that was on her chest.

It was a peaceful silence between the two of you. It was never awkward. As you had your head on her chest, you were listening to the beat of her heart. It put on a smile on your face knowing she was here with you, in the now.

One of her fingers dragged themselves on the bare skin of your lower back, her pads rubbing small circles.

“I feel like I can fall asleep again…” you whispered against her clothing, your eyes getting heavier by the second.

“No!” She suddenly pushed you off and stood up quickly. “You get up and get ready while I’ll be downstairs okay?”

A pout formed at your lips as you nodded. “Fine. I’ll get up in a bit”

A goofy smile appeared on her face as she made her way to the door. “Don’t take long... Even though you will!” She teased and slipped out, shutting the door behind her.

After watching her leave, a happy sigh escaped your lips as you fell back against the bed, arms lifted in the air with raised fists. “Eighteen..” you whispered to yourself. A grin broke out on your face as you let out a squeal of happiness, immediately jumping out of bed and rushing over to your drawer to get yourself some clothes.

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You walked down the stairs into the common room where the rest of class 3-A was at.

“Y/N Happy Birthday babe!!” Mina yelled out in excitement as she threw herself at you, immediately latching onto you. “You’re so old now!! Welcome to the club!”

A laugh left your lips as you shook your head, squeezing the girl back in a hug. “Thank you, Mina! Happy to be an old lady beside you now!”

“Hey, you can’t just hog her up for yourself Mina!” A pouty Denki said from behind her, his arms crossed over his chest as he tapped his foot against the ground impatiently. “We want to give her hugs too!”

Mina let out a dramatic sigh as she pulled away from you. “Don’t mess her up you got that?”

“How can I when you already did?! Come here!” He grabbed you by your wrist and brought you to his chest, lifting you off the ground in a warm welcoming hug. “Happy Birthday Y/N! How do you feel?!”

“The same as yesterday!” You placed your hands on his shoulders for stability. “Maybe a bit better today!”

“Now that’s what I like to hear!”

“Not very manly to hold another person’s girl like that Kaminari!”

“Oh please!” He brushed it off with an eye roll and turned to Ochako, you still in his arms. “You don’t mind me holding her like this right?!”

“I don’t because I know she wouldn’t like someone like you,” she replied, a smile on her lips.

He gasped in feigned hurt, putting you back down on the floor as he placed a hand on his chest in an offended way. “What’s that supposed to mean?! Any girl wants me!”

“Then where’s your fucking girlfriend hah?! I don’t see one!!” Bakugo yelled from the table, his forefinger pointing in accusation.

“I don’t remember seeing you with one either!! You’re too scary for girls!!”

“What did you say?! Did you lose your brain already or are you just that stupid?! I’ll kill you!!”

“Kaminari! Bakugo! No yelling at this hour! It will awaken everyone else here!”

Everyone was already in the room but let Iida talk on.

An invisible hand wrapped around your wrist as you got tugged away, stumbling as you had no chance but to follow. “H-Hey!”

“Happy Birthday! We made you breakfast! Now sit down and eat!!”

“Happy Birthday Y/N-Chan,” Asui said from across the table beside Jirou and Momo.

You were pushed into a chair rather abruptly as you stared down at the plate filled with your favorite things for breakfast. “No way!!” You gasped and looked up excitedly at your friends. “You did this for me?!”

“Course we did Y/N-San!” Momo’s eyes glimmered in glee, hands locked together, and brought up to the side of her face. “It was Ochako’s idea and we wanted to help!”

As on cue, the brunette made her way over and placed her hands on your shoulders from behind, leaning over and placed a gentle kiss on your cheek. “Eat up Y/N. You wouldn’t want it to go bad would you?”

Your neck heated up as it reached the front of your face to the tips of your ears. “N-No. Thank you, guys. Thank you Ochako” you whispered the last part and kissed her softly, placing a hand on the swell of her cheek. She immediately kissed back and deepened it, her hand bringing your head closer.

“Woah woah!” Jirou shook her head as her hands waved in front of her in attempts to stop you both. “We get you guys are in love but let the birthday girl eat! Get a room later but not now!”

Ochako pulled away, a small smirk at the corner of her lips at the sight of your disheveled face, panting softly as she fully stood up.

“Sorry guys!” She said sweetly and clapped her hands together. “Can’t help it sometimes! Can you blame a girl?”

“Yes, we can pink cheeks!!”

“Can it Bakubro!! It’s super manly in my opinion! But for girls!” Kirishima yelled and shook his head in disapproval at Bakugo’s words. “It’s amazing! You just can’t see it. Don’t let him get you down Uraraka!” He said in reassurance, sending a peace sign her way as she sent him on back.

“So Y/N” Todoroki started as he leaned against the wall, watching you eat your breakfast. “What did you want to do today?”

You looked up at him and swallowed, wiping your mouth with a napkin. “I’m not sure yet. Ochako said she wanted to go out and do some things then come back. She didn’t tell me what though”

He nodded, shoving his hands into his front pockets as his posture had a slight hunch. “I’m sure whatever she has in store will be fun.”

You smiled faintly and nodded. “Yeah me too.”

Before he could open his mouth Mineta let out a sob. “Why can’t I?! Come on let me touch them!!”

“Mineta chill dude! You aren’t touching Y/N!”

“Why?! She’s a total babe! Just once! I can say I touched a hot lady!!”

“You are so gross, man!” Sero gagged and taped Mineta’s mouth shut. The purple balled boy screamed into the tape as he tried his best to take it off.

☽✧ ✦ ✧☾

“You guys got it right?” Ochako whispered lowly to Deku as she eyed you by the door, watching you put your shoes on. “We shouldn’t be back for maybe another 6 hours or so. You guys can get it done in time?”

Deku nodded and clenched his fist in determination. “We do! You can count on us! Just make sure if you end early to just keep her occupied!”

Ochako nodded in agreement as she grabbed her bag, putting her arms through the straps. She fixed the sleeves of her white t-shirt and flattened out her plaid skirt. “Alright then. I trust you guys, don’t mess it up! Or else!”

“Or else what?” Deku asked but immediately regretted, tensing up at the glare she sent his way. “There will be no what else” she said then smiled, rubbing the back of her head. “Anyway, we gotta get going!”

She made her over to you, fixing the straps of her backpack. “All ready to go?”

You nodded in enthusiasm.

You were wearing a denim overall dress with an off the shoulder white long sleeve underneath. A simple outfit that had Ochako swooning for you.

“Let’s go! What do we have planned for today!”

Ochako let out a small breath and shrugged, a playful smile on her lips. “I don’t have anything! We’ll just see where fate takes us!”

“Eh?! Thought you had things planned for us!”

“Only way you would get up! We’ll be back!” She pushed you out the door quickly, turning around as she faced the rest of your class. “Don’t mess up! I’m counting on you guys!”

“Go go shoo!” Mina waved her off with both hands. “You got me and the rest of us! We know what our girl likes!”

“Good! Bye!” Ochako’s head disappeared from behind the door as it slammed shut.

A sigh of relief fell from Mina’s lips as she turned a full three-sixty to face everyone. “We probably have at least 5 hours or more! That gives us enough time to get everything done if we don’t slack off!” She said, a tone of authority evident in her voice.

“Sero, Kaminari, and Kirishima are on decoration duty! The girls will be focusing on the food except for Jirou and Asui!! We don’t trust you guys with the stove plus if there’s a fire Momo can make fire extinguishers! Oijirou, Sato, Tokoyami along with Jirou and Asui, you guys will be buying her the gifts! We all pitched in so it should be enough for more than one present!” She yelled, hands on her hips.

“Bakugo, Deku, Todoroki, and Iida will be for the drinks! Along with watch duty!”

“Hah?! I got paired with icy-hot?!”

“And Mineta!” She ignored Bakugo and stared down at the little pervert who stared up at her with the utmost glee displayed in his eyes. She cringed and backed up. “Don’t get in the way and help. Let’s get started, people!”

☽✧ ✦ ✧☾

You and Ochako walked down the busy streets of Musutafu, swinging your conjoined hands. You expected Ochako to have a plan for the both of you, considering she was the one who always came up with places you guys should go.

“So..” you spoke up and looked over at her. “You have nothing planned?”

She swiftly shook her head and turned a corner, a fountain coming into view with benches surrounding it. “Nope! This is just an adventure without a plan. We’re gonna do what you want even though you might not know yourself. But first, let me get some photos of you.”

“M-me?!” you gasped, your cheeks a darker tone than your natural pigment. “Why?!”

“To celebrate and keep these photos for memory.” She said as if it was the most obvious thing in the world and sat you down in front of the fountain. “Now just sit there and be your pretty self.” You twiddled your fingers as you lowered your head in embarrassment. “I-in the middle of the city?! Can’t this wait Ocha?”

“Now is the best time Y/N. This is a big destination for photos.”

She was right. It was smack dab in the middle of the city, benches, and trees surrounding the area to give it a delicate but beautiful background, plus the stores brought out the busy view. Perfect for a photoshoot in her eyes.

“How many photos then?”

She thought about it then shrugged. “As many as I want. Plus I’m going to ask someone random to take a couple of both of us.”

Oh, she was going all out for it.

You nodded and fixed your hair, and posed however she wanted you.

A small smile appeared on her face as she snapped yet another photo of you. No other girl could compare to you in her eyes. In her eyes, you were the only girl that mattered to her. She would do anything for you and would do anything to protect you from any harm. As she held up a finger indicating that she was looking, she swiped through each photo, her love for you growing stronger at the sight of your smile that was meant for her eyes only.

“Beautiful as always huh Y/N?!” She laughed and approached a young couple. “Do you think you could take a picture or two of us?” she motioned to you sitting by yourself on the bench as you played with the pocket of your overall.

The girl smiled and nodded excitedly. “I would love too!” she followed Uraraka and took the given phone to her as Ochako sat beside you, wrapping an arm around your shoulder, squeezing the bare skin.

You shivered at the skin on skin contact and ignored the goosebumps that formed. “Plus this will make a great home screen! Don’t you think Y/N-Chan?”

You meekly nodded and looked up before the photos started to be taken.

After a couple of poses which consisted of squishing your face against Ochako’s, her placing a kiss on your cheek and vice versa, and a final one of the both of you sharing a sweet kiss.

“Thanks again!” Ochako waved at the couple in which the girl returned the wave before walking off with her boyfriend.

“Do they look good?” You asked and peeked over her shoulder to look at her phone. “Course they look good! You’re in them after all!”

You fumbled over your words as you scratched the back of your head, cheeks flaring up. “Y-yeah well so are you!”

“Aww Y/N you’re so cute!” She laughed and placed a quick kiss on your cheek before grabbing your hand. “Are you getting thirsty?”

“Mm… yeah a little bit but not to ba-“

She let out a noise that stopped you from finishing and nodded her head, pointing in the direction of a bakery. “Then let’s go! I’m sure they have your favorite!”

☽✧ ✦ ✧☾

You quietly sipped on your strawberry milk as you watched Ochako speak on the phone with whoever it was.

“Is it going fine then?” She whispered, placing a hand over the phone so you wouldn’t hear who was on the other end.

“Yes! At least I’d say so! I sent Todoroki, Bakugo, Deku, and Iida to get drinks! They’ve been gone for quite some time so I’m hoping they didn’t kill each other just yet!” Mina said on the other line.

In the background, you could hear Momo’s yelling at Sero and Kaminari for popping balloons with Sero’s tape. “Now is not the time to mess around!!”

Mina let out a nervous chuckle as she rubbed the back of her neck. “Don’t worry everything is fine! Do you guys plan on going to the mall by any chance?”

“Uh-huh. I told Y/N we could buy her some new clothes.”

“Uh oh ..”

Ochako narrowed her eyes as she began to pace back and forth. “What do you mean uh oh? What’s the uh oh?”

“Well, you see I sent Jirou, Asui, Oijirou, Sato, and Tokoyami to go buy her gifts at the mall… so there is a high chance you’ll possibly bump into them”

“For real?”

“Yes for real”

Ochako let out a frustrated groan and rubbed the bridge of her nose. “I already told Y/N we’re going. Can you at least give them a heads up that we’re gonna be there too?”

“Yeah of course! Plus you can always hide in the girls bathroom and maybe make out!”

Ochako’s pink cheeks darkened as she kicked at the cement. “Don’t say things like that! Just let them know okay?!”

Mina let out a cheeky laugh. “Yup! Bye!”

Ochako hung up and held the phone to her cheek letting out a breath she didn’t know she was holding. “Just avoiding people is easy right..yeah totally easy” she mumbled and put her phone in her bag.

“Ocha? Is something wrong?” You asked, your eyebrows furrowed as you stood up.

“Yeah, everything is okay. Did you still want to go to the mall?”

You nodded excitedly. “I do! Unless you wanted to do something else?”

“No, we’re going to the mall. And we’re taking the train that is leaving soon so we best make a move on” she reached for your hand and immediately began to drag you in the direction of the train which you hopelessly followed her.

Eventually, the both of you were cramped up in the train, her body pushed up against yours from behind. Her hands placed themselves on her hips as your head laid against her collarbone.

The soft light of the afternoon sun beamed on the both of you, flooding on your skin in a soft yellow haze. Her hand made its way up the supple skin of your arm until she reached your collarbone, tracing it with her fingernail. “I almost didn’t see you wearing this” she spoke quietly, a rose gold chain resting in between her fingers that had an open locket.

“Course I did. You gave it to me and I adore it” a smile made its way to your lips as her chin rested on your shoulder. “I think it looks beautiful on you, after all, I do have a beautiful girlfriend.”

You hummed in acknowledgment and leaned over, giving her a gentle kiss.

☽✧ ✦ ✧☾

“Okay balloons check! The cake is good! Drinks are all here! You got her presents! Oh by the way did you see them?! Oh well who cares, it doesn't matter!” Mina yelled at the top of her lungs, checking off everything to make sure it was ready.

It was at about 6 PM. You and Ochako left at 10:30 so you were bound to show up at any minute.

“Alright Sero you’re in charge of turning the light off!”

Sero stared at the pink-haired girl and scratched the back of his head, the other hand lifting in a questioning manner. “Does it matter who does it? It’s as long as it’s dark right?”

“I don’t care! You do it and that’s it! This is Y/N we’re talking about!”

She glanced over by the window where Midoryia and Iida stood, staring at the arrival of both of you.

“Anything yet Midoryia?”

He shook his head quickly. “No sign of them yet! Uraraka messaged me no longer than 5 minutes that they’re almost he- HERE!” He yelled and pointed at the door. “They’re coming up now!!”

Her eyes widened as everyone scrambled to their designated places— which was just to hide.

“Sero get th-“

“I know!” The black-haired boy yelled interrupting her mid-sentence and turned the lights off, leaving everyone in pitch-black darkness.

“Ow! Who is there?! I’ll kill you!!” Bakugo yelled, small explosions forming in the palm of his hands.

“That’s dangerous!” Kaminari yelled and backed away from Bakugo, bumping into another body in the process.

“Shut up!!” Mina yelled and pressed her ear against the door. “I can hear them! Okay, everyone be quiet!”

Bakugo opened his mouth to retort something but got tape slapped across his face again. His screams came out muffled.

“I really can’t thank you enough Ocha! I had an amazing time with you today” you said, your hand wrapped around her bicep as your head was resting against her shoulder.

She kissed the crown of your head as you guys approached the doors to 3-A Dorms. “It’s even better when it’s just the two of us” you added on.

“Yeah? I’m glad. I had fun with you too. Hopefully, we can have more dates like this again in the future!” Her hand reached out and bit her lip.

‘Please tell me it’s ready’ she thought, having a mental panic.

“Babe? The door? What’s wrong is it locked?” You stepped closer and placed your hand on top of hers.

“N-no!” She yelled, startling you in the process. “It’s not locked see?!” She twisted the knob that allowed the door to open slightly. “It’s open! Haha, let's go in! Yeah!” She said quickly and swung the door open, grabbing you by your wrist and quickly covered your eyes with her hands.

“H-Hey I can’t see now! Take your hands off!”

Both of you shuffled inside the pitch-black room as both of you stood with what seemed like the middle of the room. The pressure of her hands relieved, her head lowering and you could feel the small puffs of hot air near your ear.

“Happy Birthday Y/N”

The lights suddenly flickered on as your classmates jumped out of their hiding spots, all popping the party poppers and canned streamers.

“SURPRISE!!”

Your eyes widened as you took a step back, placing a hand on your chest. “Y-you guys did this for me?!”

“We did! Are you surprised?!” Hagakure said from the further end of the room, standing next to the table that was full of assortments.

“Hah! I bet she almost pissed herself!” Bakugo laughed mockingly, the party popper that was in his hand was long gone, resting against the floor.

“Whatever! All that matters is that we show Y/N how much we appreciate her! Would be a waste if all our hard work went to waste right?!” Kirishima yelled, hitting his knuckles together as he activated his quirk to prove his point.

Everyone cheered in unison. You were dragged to the kitchen as you were bombarded by many gifts and treats.

“Turns out we can’t bake!” Momo said sheepishly, rubbing the nape of her neck in embarrassment as her cheeks were tinted. “But Sato here helped us instead!”

Sato brushed it off with a laugh. “It was nothing! I would have helped regardless!”

☽✧ ✦ ✧☾

The night ended with your friends singing you happy birthday in the most off-key voice. If you were honest you would of flat out told them that it sucked but at the moment you were too busy enjoying yourself to say anything.

“Oh thank you Todoroki! You didn’t have to help me bring them!”

“Nonsense” with a shake of his head he placed your gifts by your desk. “There was a lot and you would have kept going back and forth. I don’t mind”

With an exchange of small talk, Todoroki left your room with a quick stiff hug and a wave.

You hummed softly and took the gifts out of their boxes or bags and began to neatly line them up on your work desk, debating on whether to fully put them away in the morning.

The squeak of your door caught your attention as  Ochako walked in, closing the door behind her. She was currently in her night gear, holding a plush animal in her arms.

“Not bothering you right?” She asked and sat down on your bed, watching as you moved quicker to finish taking everything out. “You never do Ocha. That’s a cute stuffie, is it new?”

“Yeah guess you can say that. It’s for you anyway”

“For me?” You turned on your heel and walked over to her as she nodded, lifting it for you to grab. “I made sure for them to buy you it specifically with my money. Do you like it?”

It was a tan and white Shiba Inu stuffed animal. It looked like a pillow more than anything with it being so big.

“I love it!” You cried out and took it from her, holding it close to your chest as you squished it, letting out little noises of excitement. “More to add to my collection!”

“And that’s exactly why I got it for you.”

She stuck her hand out for you to grab. “Come on. Lets lay down yeah? It’s been a long day and I’m kinda beat”

You pouted but took her hand. “But I’m not ready for my birthday to be over yet.”

Her gaze softened as the both of you went under the covers of your bed. “Not yet? What did you want to do?”

A shrug of your shoulders, you reached over your side and turned the lamp off, letting the room be filled with complete darkness. You reached for her hand, interlocking your fingers together. With a squeeze, you looked back up at the outline of her face. “Not sure. But I want to stay awake for a bit more at this moment. If that’s okay with you of course”

“Course I don’t mind baby. You know I’ll do anything for you.”

A smile crossed your lips as your legs tangled together with hers under the heavy blankets, an arm wrapping around your body to bring her closer to you. “I know. Thank you”

“You’re welcome but what for?”

“For being here with me. I appreciate you in ways that I can’t express with words...I just love you so much Ocha.”

Her heart ached at your confession as she quickly reciprocated your motion. “And I love you just as much or if not, even more.”

She buried her head into your hair, a whiff of your lavender shampoo hitting her nose and giving her a sense of satisfaction. She let out a small hum as her fingers wandered on the small of your back, your body shivering from her touch.

Part of her still couldn’t believe that you were hers. That you were the one who saw her at her most vulnerable state. That you were the one who saw all parts of her, inside and out. You were the one she wanted to spend the rest of her life with. You were her rock, her home, her angel. And she didn’t plan on letting go any time soon.

She closed her eyes for a second and let out a small sigh of happiness. It may have been your birthday, but having you in her arms was the only gift she could ever ask for.

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[perfectionistincrisis]

-2-

now this sucks. the patient my friend had to write a case report about was a very very sick one with a lot of problems. i dont know if he could talk. so he had a maid with him at the hospital. his parents used to visit him. when my friend went to take history, she found the maid and she figured that the maid must speak in hindi or bangle which i would be able to understand so i could help her because the maid didnt know english or arabic well. so i went to the washroom and as soon as i came out she just pulled me to the patients room and goes like, help me please ‘-’ and i was totally cluless. i had no idea what was the nationality of the maid but when she saw me she started talking in hindi which i understand but find difficulty in talking though. so i kind of managed to translate whatever i understood. and then suddenly i notice bangla writings on a paper the maid was holding so i asked her if shes bangladeshi and she said yeah. so i told her im bangladeshi too and bam. she asked me where im from in bangladesh and i told her so and she started telling where she is from. but to be honest i dont know much about bangladesh nor do i have any interest about the country. to add to that i was born here and i sued to visit there during vacations and it has been around 3 years i havent been there either thank god. anyways so before she could keep talking about bangladesh, i told her that i was brought up here so i dont know much about bangladesh. 

She then asked me the. most. weirdest. question. Eveeeeer

she asked me if i am a muslim? 

well it was the most weirdest thing for me, cause i dont think i ever heard that question being asked to me ever. infact, sure as hell, this is not a question id expect in a million years if i am in my hijab. well i got shocked and i looked at her and made a face and i was like ‘yes’ and then she started to ask me, then why am i wearing these clothes? - Okay, so i was wearing scrubs and a labcoat on top just to be clear - and i was like, ‘what type of clothes?’ and shes goes like ‘these. you are supposed to wear an abaya on top of it. muslims shoudnt wear these’ - so after she said that i just looked away from her and towards my friend helping her to figure out what the cartons beside the patients bed were. they looked like liquid supplement to give to the patient. I tried to avoid any eye contact or talk with that lady and kept telling my friend to finish her shit asap cause i want to leave. well then all of a sudden the lady asked me - did you mind what i said? i said so because as muslims you have to cover and ---- and i interrupted her asking ‘we have to what?’ so she said ‘we have to cover’ and i went like ‘so am i not covered?’ and she went like, - but your clothes are not loose, you have to wear an abaya on top of these. - and I just looked away again. and then my friend had some more ws to ask her about the patient and then we left. I didnt talk to the lady anymore. 

what she said was stuck in my head. Not because i was worried if i am covering properly or not. but because i felt like she had no right to tell me how i should be dressing. she barely know a single thing about me. she has no idea about my commitment to my God. she has no idea how much effort i personally put to maintain whatever ‘hijab’ i follow. She does not know the struggles i face daily. She has no idea about my life. 

I think it was totally inappropriate for her to throw her opinion on me like that. I am knowledgeable enough to know very well what my religion asks for, and I know very well how much of it I am being able to follow and how much of it i am not being able to do so. But the thing is, we are all struggling. Struggling to be better muslims. I have seen many post on social media saying how to not lay out your opinion to people who have problems in following their religion properly. like people who dont cover, but you never know how religious their minds may be in actual. and then there are people who cover but may be they dont even pray the mandatory five prayers a day. I personally have seen a variety of people. so basically you can not  judge someone about their religious commitment just by their look. And I have also read in a lot of places about how not to make it hard for people who just started to do something new in theire religion - like people who start covering newly or something, and then people start commenting on how they are not covering the right way, or people go like this is not enough, you should also cover your face - this is how society pressurizes a person so much that the person starts to feel low and worthless and most of the time they give up whatever good step they had newly taken in getting closer to God. there are some people who sometimes cover, and sometimes they dont - and yet again we find society talking about how they think if someone cant cover themselves all the time, they shouldnt do it at all - and yet again we are demotivating these weak people who instead need motivation from the people around them. 

in fact, to be honest, after that lady said those stuff to me. my mind got totally messed up - i couldnt concentrate on anything for the rest of the day and even the next day. and then i started thinking about the day before. i mean just a day ago i didnt enter an OR because id have to remove my scarf and although i can use a head cap, there were no disposable scarves to wear and so if i would go, id have to go with my neck exposed which i woudnt agree on. and today a random lady wanted to know if i am even a muslim? like am i doing something wrong? that day i came home and i wasnt feeling good at all. and i dont really listen to songs like for two main reasons - one is that i really dont like it being stuck in my head - i dont like the idea of something else having more control over me than my own self. and secondly, and most importantly, i really dont think i can deal with the extra emotion it brings up depending on the song - also ofocurse, its not really recommended in my religion to listen to songs and i think i understand why. but nonetheless, i do feel like listening to songs very often - i however stop myself from doing so. that particular day, when i was feeling really bad at home, i suudenly felt like listening to some music - and i usualy get that feeling when im down or sometimes tooo excited like right after and exam -- and a really common response is -- ugh nah bleh whatever, i can find some better stuff to do -- but that day, i was telling myself that, does it even matter? i mean a lady things i dont even cover properly so maybe i should listen to songs too, what difference does it make, i am a sucky muslim anyways.. 

and then all of a sudden it hit me - that i am letting that lady eat up my head. i cant give her that much power. and then i realized this is what people mean when they keep saying to always encourage every single person who is trying to do something good, even though they might not be doing it 100%. so it took some time, but slowly i got over it. like i said, i personally have seen and know a lot of people and ik how you can not just judge them by the looks. and i personally dont do that. and now that i have felt victim of such a situation, i will make sure i dont let myself feel low if something like this happens again.  

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[somedaypast-thesunset]

i did not need his negativity yesterday nor did i have the mental strength to not be affected by it. 

he seems to have a rose colored view on his past friends who have lived even more passively than i have while doing hard drugs, drinking and having sex with so many partners that diseases are spread among them. but yet i’m told i’m just a welfare case, that i should just get over it, try harder etc. but there is never ever an admission that perhaps the troubles ive had in life directly relate to the struggles i still have now. 

“well her mother was crazy so she had to leave at 15 and take care of herself”

??? my mother was crazy and my father was sick and i had to take care of myself and him. without giving into the temptation of an easy escape through literal hallucinations. i am better than everyone who did give into the temptation. my will is stronger. sorry. that might bother him because he is a drug user. and he wans to convince me that my weed smoking is comparable to people shooting drugs. and it simply is not in any way. i am a functioning member of society in so much that i do not have a drug den, i do not have needles around, i do not have any long term physial effects of drug use im just a fucking stoner. just like people who HAVE to buy starbucks everyday. theyre just basic bitches. theyre not coffee addicts. and he trappe the conversation - all addicts say this. but i am making a choice and it would be incredibly easy for me to make other choices if i felt they were worth it in my depression. i am ADDICTED to DEPRESSION. i do not control that addiction and it is harmful to people around me and myself.

me smoking a joint is not. me smoking a joint is only beneifical to not only myself but the people around me. i am alive today right now because i smoke weed. THAT is how i am “strong”. 

it didnt matter though. i was already spiraling and wanted to go home but knew i couldnt because it was cold and almost midnight and i didnt even have proper boots and the weight of my entire life and being began crushing me. 

these are panic attacks. these are not attacks which can be seen as the typical display of it but not everyone will hyperventilate into a paper bag. my parents called it an asthma attack because i wasnt breathing right. i wasnt allowed to act out. if i acted out my mother attacked me in such severe ways that i trained myself not to react to anything. but you cant do hthis you cant just be a robot forever your emotions will operate whether you acknowlege them or not.

so it builds. and during the build up which always happens the same way my thoughts are spiraling. if someone latches on to a brief idea of the issues im battling inside, it now solidified the thought and i start to panic. it wasnt being called a drug addict. it was the fact that im constantly put on the bottom of the list for like existing human beings. no one ever goes, ‘well you had to take care of your father’. i dont get that. why? am i not blonde and cute enough? did i not suck enough dick? should i have done drugs and been more pathetic? why is it that everyone else gets a ‘well this and this happened tot hem so is understandable’. for me it’s literally well you cant focus on your past you just gotta move on. it’s not fair, it’s frustrating and when it comes from the only person even giving you any sort of love at that moment in time, it feels trapping. deal with this or have nothing. 

i cannot explain this though. it starts here and by the time i’ve freaked out so hard i cant even communicate the intricacies of these thoughts. i’m now totally overwhelmed and i want to scratch out my eyes and tear out my hair and i’m sobbing so hard i cannot breathe. 

i told him he outright had to help me because he did not listen to my warnings that what he was saying was bothering me. because i told him i didn need that negativity right now and i didn’t nee him focusing on being a  “drug addict” because i dont spend my rent money on shooting drugs. i dontand thats not part of my problem. it’s just a matter of opinion regarding marijuana. period. my opinion differs greatly and i advocate for the VERY PROVEN medical benefits of it. not just “its been shown K helps depression”. so does lsd. so did lsd. so much so that people dosed other people unknowingly to try and “help” them becuase they thought lsd “helped them” and “opened their mind”. but shold you do LSD everyday? no. i really dont think you should. can you ingest something that has minimal effects on a normally healthy person with no pre desposition to mental health issues everday? yes. cancer patients smoke weed because of its legitimate medical benefits. they should not be k-holing. thats not the appropriate way to deal with cancer. nor does it help any of the issues of cancer except moderate pain relief and slight alleviaton of mental pain if you dont put yourself into a k-hole. 

i can smoke 4 grams of weed and not die. i can smoke 4 grams of weed everyday for the next week and have no side effects except not even getting stoned anymore. i wont have to go to the hospital for “exhaustion”. i wont have spent my time at clubs or raves. i probably spent a lot of money on food. i will have no track marks or prolems with my nasal cavity and depending on how i smoke the weed, if i vape it - i may not even have lung problems. and in those days of smoking 4 grams i will STILL DO PRODUCTIVE ACTIVITIES and not just lay around wondering when i’ll get high again. 

so to put me with heroin users is wrong and a surprisingly antiquated view. but i cannot explain all of this and maybe he’ll still disagree but now i’m just in a position where a person who is supposd to love me is telling me im as bad as a heroin addict. i am not and that is not an excuse to not change - i can still change my habits but you have no idea what i wold be for someone like me to do that. he made an “effort” to help but he doesnt have the tools in him to actually help. he told me to think of skating because he wanted to take me skating. 

this morning as i was dropped off he asked if we were going skating. i said i guess and he said no more “i guess” i had to make a solid decision for what iiii wanted to do. and i guess i appreciate that - acknowledging that his personality is not okay for someone like me in the state i am in. i explained to him that our mutual friend came to my place and spoke to the roommate for me and was very like... it was as good as having a medical therapist come and advocate on my behalf. it wasnt like a “you shouldnt do this this is bad” it was “the person you live with suffers from very serious mental issues which affects her daily life and there are reasons as to why she is avoiding confrontation or choosing to live with things that others consider unreasonable” and it was really very good. like not only did i feel like it helped bridge a gap but that someone legitimately felt like they wanted to advocate for me. i didnt ask her to do it. i just explained this is my life and she was like no this is not okay and you need assistance to overcome this hurdle so you can continue on to the next one. i really really appreciate that. no one advocates for me. 

i also made a doctors appt next week and that kind of alleviates some of he pressure i feel about dealing. i know i can now go talk to this person. and if i need to, i have a drive really to see him more often. our mutual friend also came in and casually asked for my razors. and that is something i also appreciate. i made avery large step by freely admitting a relapse. it wasnt like omg cry for help it was this is what occurred. period no discussion because you are not the person trained to deal with such maters of the psyche however as a human being you can acknowledge a crisis and offer assistance to he best of your own abilities. if you have the ability to say ‘hey do you mind if i take your razors with me to get them out of the house’ that is perfectly fine and good and helpful. 

he does not know i relapsed. he has continually said he has no judgement on what i choose to do but does not support it and will only ever advocate for stopping outright. which is totally fair but it compounds the severity. 

hes still trying though? last night he took time to have a moment of private affection and when i tol him about the door knob lock situation he immediately said he would buy one and just let him know. he then said we would “drink sake” tomorrow and added on the skating activity and these things were nice because there is rarely time put aside for just me in the “us”. i follow what he wants to do when he wants to do. i rarely ever ask to go somewhere and when i do i may be able to go but ill have to put up with mock fighting about it. but its not terrible. its not like im dragged to bars or baseball games. he decides we will go hiking and we do. we’ll go to this random thing an hour away and look at i and we do. and i get to exprience sooooo many things i would have never otherwise experienced if i was not with him. and this is why i remain with him. no one else has ever shown me this much of the actual world beyond the bubble i was trapped in. my ex did a decent job but we rarely did anything. like any activities at all. it would be a big deal to take a walk in the woods by our house. 

i’ve gotten to canoe and climb beautiful ontario landscapes. i’ve gotten to eat food from all over the world. ive been given nothing but useful or beautiful and sentimental and meaningful gifts. i have never been given something frivolous ust for the sake of gifts. i’ve been given flowers on more than one occasion. 

it’s really hard to come up with a complaint when i still get to do these wonderful things? like how can i be upset about hiking different parks? i think i’d want to do that anyways. so it’s nice i guess to have it acknowledged this morning that i had the freedom to choose. we did not have to skate and i didnt have to do it because he offered. 

i kind of wanted to though. i think he knew also last night’s dinner with his family friends was just super awkward for me and woul be for literally anyone not related to them. it’s amazing how well they can make someone feel like an outsider while simultaneously telling them they’re “apart of the family”. that wasnt really his fault though. or maybe it s. i dont know. those people sucked and it took forever to eat and i did not even say goodbye to them because literally two sentences were said to me during the night which were, “so you do work in x city or do you commute to another?” and “are you flying out to see him when hes living out west?”  both of which are questions that should never be asked. just period. i mean theyre reasonable questions but to ask them to me results in really awkward answers. like “~ im an artist.” to which she asked, “where” - bitch everywhere. i am a fucking artist of life. and of course its not within my parameters to explain - well you know i’m fucking pretty mentally ill so i’m generally unemployed and collect social assistance hbu. its not like i can outright lie either as the two people who do know my life are sitting there too. and its shitty in some ways that these eople are close tot hem and i am at their house everyday and never once has it been explained that this is in fact his girlfriend, this is what she does and why she is the way she is etc. lie most people would get a “this is ashley, she works at shoppers drug mart and shes a great mom”. but since i have none of this i am nothing to them 

i am also very open about my struggles and where i came from in most situations. this is going to define my interaction with you and you should know that i’m aware of it an am working on it everyday. i am a very self aware empathetic person and i know that becaue of my unusual life i may cause unintentional offense or harm or burden someone in a way that i would not mean to if i understood differently or had a different journey. and everyone has their own journey but it’s a bit like a soldier coming back from war and it’s not on us to judge the severity of harm their journey caused them because we dont know. if theyre so encumbered by the thoughts of death they saw and were apart of it while others are not - we still need to respect the severity ad toll it tok on those individuals. and in no way do they want to be affected by this. theyre not choosing to take it home with them. but it now shapes everything they ever do and being a military person now defines you. it is apart of your definition and character. 

it woul not be appropriate to xplain this to the wasps who think theyre daughter had it rough because she coudnt talk of her prividledge life to stuggling immigrants working to survive while she worked for 2 weeks for extra spending money when she went on her vacation to australia. and it’s ironic of course - i’m now offended by him and i was concerned for offending them; well i was. but then i gave up because i didnt give a shit about them and i didnt think they were actually good members of society. i thought maybe they were “good” fathers or mothers. maybe decent employees. but like a real active good member of society who is bringing a positive vibe to the world? no. i really dont think so. and i have mt people i believe do this. people who i also see really negative traits in as well. theyre not perfect but “good people of society” like working an seeing the whole of society - every part of it as an equal and good thing. maybe theyre bad mothers or fathers though. or maybe not great. i wouldnt say bad. but maybe not great, definitely could be better parents. but they atleast will instill their values, hopefully, into their children who will also be good people of society. i am currently in daily contact with atleast three people who were raised by shitty people of society. people who cared only for heir own exprience and saw everything else as an outside. they now gave that quality to their children. “good mother”. shitty person. 

its up to the people in my support system to advocate for me. honestly.