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god yeah about the exclusionism post and asking the queer community to hold itself accountable...
like, i'm young. im only 18. so i wasn't super around for the vast majority of the height of aphobic bigotry in this community.... but i've been around for most of the anti-bilesbian, anti-xenogender, anti-mogai stuff, and it has hurt so so much.
im a xenogender, genderqueer aroace bi lesbian. all of these things mean so so much to me. because they taught me to know and love all parts of myself, which has taught me my love of radical love and kindness. the queer community is what has transformed me into being a radical, queer-anarchist, anti-racist, anti-bigotry, and those things are so fucking critical to who i am. i wouldn't be who i am without the queer community and what its members have taught me about equity and compassion... and yet, it has also traumatized me to the point that it's hard to think about getting involved in irl queer events which breaks my heart.
in 2021, 11,000 people signed a petition telling me specifically to end my life for being part of the campaign that had the lgbta wiki support bi lesbians. i had a message board on there, and everytime i went on there, there were 10 new messages with different descriptions of how i should end my life. it got so bad that i couldn't sleep. i was shaking and crying ALL THE TIME. and despite that wiki being the one place i could be open about my queerness, i was forced off of it because if i stayed, i would be continually threatened and my mental health couldn't take it.
as a result, i lost contact with most of my online queer friends. i was so fucking angry all the time. everytime i saw any form of exclusionist rhetoric, i would become so anxious that i would spiral. i've been baited, threatened, relentlessly bullied, forced out of a queer 'safe' space, and treated like absolute fucking shit. all because i put the words 'bi' and 'lesbian' next to each other in a bio about me.
i can't put words to describe the kind of shit this has done to my mental health. i already had personality disorders from Emotional Trauma that made anger hard to deal with- so getting involved on Tumblr after the wiki went away, where exclusionism was sadly rampant, was hard because I felt like I had to choose- be an online part of the community that has made me who i am, but suffer bullying and self hatred in the process, or give up that community entirely. i don't think people truly comprehend how traumatizing it is for anyone, but especially a TEENAGER, to have to make a decision like that.
it's been almost two years now, and still, everytime i see exclusionism, everytime i get a death threat (sadly still a somewhat frequent occurrence), i spiral because it takes me right back to the height of my harassment two years ago. and part of my brain still genuinely believes i deserved it.
that's just me. that's just one person influenced by this. and yet it's not just me. the same stuff that's happened to me, has happened to thousands. and thousands more. and i don't think people truly understand that, just because it's online stuff and didn't really happen irl, doesn't mean it's some small little thing that we should stop complaining about because there's REAL problems for REAL queer people to worry about.
so, very long story short, coming from someone who has been hugely impacted by exclusionism, and i may be unique in this position, but every person who was once an exclusionist like that and has grown and apologized, seriously means the world to me. because i know that there's no excuse for it, and yet i understand the reasons why so many people struggle with it. out of all the self hatred exclusionism has caued me, how can i turn around and blame the exclusionists who were acting out of the same exact insecurities i was?
there is no excuse for bigotry. but you are not a bad person. thank you for growing. seeing your post actually gave me so much hope because i've had several people come to me personally and say that me being open about my identity has helped them grow out of their exclusionist mindsets and grown as a person, so seeing people grow like this just warms my heart because we all have the capacity for both good and bad- taking the opportunity to learn to be better is a prime example of the good and it fills me with hope that other people can learn too.
i also wanted to comment on something else from your post. you were talking about the generational trauma you've experienced, and how you perceived the concept of 'aphobia' as disrespectful to the victims of horrible systemic oppression irl, and while yes, that is not what aphobia as a concept is, you don't need to apologize for being angry because yes, you perceived something the incorrect way in that moment, but your anger was 100% justified. as a white queer person, i fully believe that inclusionism still needs room to acknowledge intersecting oppressions and that comparing intracommunity exclusionism to centuries of genocidal colonialism, is absolutely appalling. your actions were unjustified- your anger was not. i want you to know that you do not need to feel guilty for being angry like that. anger is an important emotion, so i hope you can truly internalize that you had every right to be angry, even if your actions were wrong.
again, thank you for being awesome and making that post. i'm very sorry if my super long ramble was unsolicited, and if you don't want to respond i completely understand! please please take care and have a wonderful time zone <3
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the yakuza games
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resident evil
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cute animals
zodiac
graphics
shitposts
cinderella phenomeon
xoxo droplets
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the soul calibur series
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personal shit
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persona 5
far cry series
food
flowers
fashion/jewelry
nopixel!! (nopixel sideblog is @nicholas-simone)
twisted wonderland
court of darkness
dead by daylight
the call of duty reboot from 2022 (gaz is kind of a babe)
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messages
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my icons
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discourse
sova
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fc5
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p5
fcnd
twst
cod
mw
nopixel
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i also try to tag spoiler/spoilers. i do a general rule of after 1 month of me seeing something or it being out for 1 month+ , i don’t spoiler tag then
what i need tagged
insects
spiders
body horror (a little blood is ok because i play m rated games)
the arcana, fuck that stupid fucking game
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fujoshi
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maga/conservative
TERFs/Radfems
Bigots/supporters of hateful viewpoints or ideologies (racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, islamophobia, nazism, fatphobic, white supremacy, aphobic etc.)
pro-life
anti BLM
if you see nothing wrong with rpf
anti-vaxxers/anti-mask
thinspo
animal abuse
LGBT-exclusionist
overwatch league blog, its still a v sensitive topic so i dont want to see anything that reminds me of it despite him not being in the league anymore
xqc fan; dude is a piece of shit with a gross fanbase. dude has been banned from like 4 different games and owl because of how awful he is
cg/st/hydra fan; fuck em and the toxic vibes they bring to the np community
old scu fan; what they (a large chunk of scu) did to jakka re: their chats is super fucking shitty, fuck em
serval x gepard shippers
jing yuan x yanqing shippers
brian knight fans, only because i talk shit about him a lot and it's for your protection, not mine :3
empty or untitled blog - this is always going to lead to at least a block. i will likely report you for being a bot
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I need to stop reading “ace discourse” before trying to sleep. It makes me so upset and uncomfortable and then I have to spend a long time calming down enough to sleep. I hate it but I do it anyway knowing that I’ll have nothing to say because I’ll just lay there and internalize it and then I’ve fucked over my sleep schedule and my self-esteem. I’ve got more than enough reasons for my brain to say I’m not enough, I don’t need to keep actively seeking out more.
#if any aphobes come at me on this post i will fucking cry#self deprication#not really but the posts im reading are making me feel shitty#tw cursing#mentioned aphobia#spite gripes
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Today...is bad
#toy txt post#d.0n't r3b/0g pls#like if you read#aphobes everywhere..fear#slight paranoia#exhaustion from yesterday + this morning#and now!!!! an ant!!!on me! on my body!! in my bedroom!! on my bed!!!!#iam crying and shaking and feel like pbantom ants all over me and i cant fucking see bc tears fick#i need to take a fucking shower asap but!!!!!! fucku g cantaaaa brothers in the fuckjf shower#never just one ant#where are the others i dont want to know i need to k iw i dont want to loom#i feel sick#im sitting at the dingin room tabke shak8ng and half looking for any tiny movemwnts of ants ah#and half purpisefully Not Looki g#G O D#i neeedd to gwt i. n the showeerrr i need to shower i have to take off the otbes ants could be hiding in#ants dont die they dont die they just move and come back for cengeamce i feel sick i feel sick i feel sick#fuck!!!!#i want to stop feeling my fucking skin im done!!!!!!!!!!! im done woth this!!!!!#i need to take a shower and then strip my bed and wash it and then take another zhower and then not sleep at all bc i cant#trust the room for a good week even after throrough cleaning ofc bc ants are fucking bullshit#fuck!!!!!!!!!!!!!#im gonna claw my ficking arms off. peel my neck#this needs to stop!!!! why do my reactions just keep gettti g worse!!!!! why is thris such a fu li g joke!!!!!#i need to clean my room#but i cant even go in therr. now#i thought it was safe in there
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Why Asexual Awareness Is Important To Me
because growing up, I was told that one day I’d get married and have a honeymoon. like it was as inevitable as death. it terrified me. I didn’t know there was any other option. “You’ll understand when you’re older.”
because when I started dating, I was never exactly opposed to sexual experiences. but I got rejected anyway out of impatience, because I didn’t pick up on clues, or I didn’t initiate. I’m still not sure. ‘We’ve been dating a few weeks and you don’t wanna do anything, so forget it.’ You didn’t ask. How am I supposed to know? In retrospect, I’m glad.
because when I came out to my mother as gay, it felt so simple to me. matter of fact. how could it be any different? but she made sure it hurt. she twisted my words and screamed at me. she called me an embarrassment. she asked if i’d ever had sex with a girl, and of course I said no. why would I have to have sex to know? why is straight the default when no one else at my age has had sex either? why would sex ever be a prerequisite? but she screamed at me that it didn’t count then. I couldn’t be gay. didn’t count. she made sure that I ended up in tears. and to this day I see other LGBT screaming at aces that we don’t count. That not having sex or not feeling sexual attraction towards the same sex is homophobic. the same homophobic arguments that were used against me when I identified as a lesbian, recycled by the people whose rights I’ve stood and fought for my entire life.
because when I had my first Real girlfriend, my first Love, my first sexual experiences, I was never frightened, but also never into it. I didn’t understand why it didn’t click for me. Why I was never struck breathless by her beautiful form but instead, oh no. How am I supposed to react so she doesn’t take offense? because she was Gorgeous, but whatever I felt was clearly... lacking. not enough. and I felt broken, broken, broken.
because in my time, the A in LGBTQIA often did stand for ally. Sometimes asexuality was mentioned offhandedly, interchangeably. an afterthought. barely a footnote. but I never knew what it was. The information I was given was limited. aces aren’t interested in sex. as if it were all wrapped up in a neat little bow for them, content and perfect. but i was interested in sex. how could i not be? it haunted me. I didn’t know you could feel romantic attraction separately from sexual attraction, or that aces could deal with sex without feeling attraction. I thought I was “gay but just really bad at it.”
because I spent so many sleepless nights crying myself to sleep wondering and worrying if the person I was dating really knew and believed that I loved them even if I couldn’t feel sexual attraction towards them.
because I was so terrified of sex that I became obsessed with it. I thought I had to learn as much as I could and that would somehow cure me. Read articles, learn in theory how to do the acts, what to expect, how to behave. Consume fiction, consume porn, brace myself for the inevitable, condition myself to grow into it. All I managed to do was become very good at writing smut and still have a complete disconnect in real life.
because when I finally questioned myself, my ex boyfriend, who was asexual, told me flat out that because I wrote and enjoyed fictional porn, I “didn’t count” as asexual. because I thought that he, as someone who had already claimed the label of asexual, surely knew better than me what it meant. and nothing online that I could find, at the time, contradicted him. I thought to myself, but... that’s fiction. but nothing supported me. so I cried and then I buried it and I tried even harder to fit in with my sexualized peers and didn’t let myself think about it anymore. for years.
because I admittedly put myself into really dangerous situations, thinking that if I could just lose my virginity and get it over with, I’d be better off down the line for someone else. like it was something I could just break out of me.
because despite literally years of trying to condition myself to think and behave sexually online, to roll with the jokes that made me cringe, eventually it got to me. I started having breakdowns, panic attacks, crying fits, and I had no idea why or what was wrong with me.
because when I revisited asexuality and finally found just a single line that said aces can masturbate and enjoy porn and still be ace, it was the single biggest relief of my life. I finally felt like I belonged somewhere. I didn’t have to keep breaking myself trying to fit where I didn’t belong. I wasn’t broken in the first place.
because when I came out as ace, on my first ace week, several of my fandom friends did as well, and none of us had known the others felt the same way. We’d been so lost and isolated and alone and now we weren’t anymore.
because just knowing and being able to set boundaries for myself and give myself permission to walk away from conversations that became too uncomfortable, was a tremendous relief on my mental health and happiness.
because when I came out, my blog was posted on r*dd*t for the lulz and I had anons coming to harass me and ask me if I had been assaulted and traumatized and wishing for me to seek a ‘cure’. Complete fucking strangers. I saw my friends get death threats and rape threats just for saying ‘I’m ace’.
because despite personally writing smut and knowing other aces who write smut, I’ve still been personally attacked and accused of ‘hating nsfw’ and I’ve seen aphobes react like aces existing is somehow a fucking moral judgement against non-aces
because even aces who are completely sex-repulsed shouldn’t have to suck it up and act like they personally approve of sex in any form, in order to make other sex-crazed people mind their own fucking business and give them a ‘pass’. I’m not ‘one of those good aces’ just because I like fictional porn, to a degree. and I’m not breaking into your fucking house to stop you from wanking just because I personally don’t like a thing. It’s called personal preferences. one person having negative associations with sex is not a reflection on you personally. Someone saying “I don’t like sex, it disgusts me” is not the same as someone literally saying “you’re disgusting for having sex.” Grow the fuck up.
because not knowing that asexuality was an option caused me years of pain, and being given wrong information and gatekeeping held me back even longer in that prison.
because there are still misconceptions about what it means to be asexual.
because I remember what it was like to be stuck in that dark place, feeling broken and confused and alone because I didn’t quite fit the mold, and I want to help others find themselves sooner.
because despite all of the bullshit thrown at us, embracing my asexuality has made me the happiest I’ve ever been. I love being asexual. I love being me.
because I’ve had numerous people come to me privately inquiring about their own asexuality, just for the sake of confirming it privately, and then vow to never come out publicly because they’ve seen all of the hate and harassment aces get, even from fellow LGBTQ folks, and they couldn’t handle that. and I don’t blame them one little bit. it would be naive to pretend that doesn’t exist. it does, and it’s ugly, and it hurts so much to see. but just remember, there are so many more people who will love and support you.
you don’t have to come out. but just knowing for yourself? is so much better. and there are so many more of us than you’d think and you’re not alone.
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Could you not say qu**r so often, please? Or at least tag it? Alternatives could be SGA or trans (depending on which part you're referring to) or LGBT? It's uncomfortable to quite a lot of people if it's used as an umbrella term too. Thank you
While I’m not interested in delving into that discourse on this blog…well, I guess it was gonna happen sooner or later.
So just to be clear, before I say anything else, let me preface this post by saying that I’m going to state my position on this, but I will not admit any further discussion on the subject on this blog. You’re free to talk to me @talysalankil if you feel like having further discussion, but this blog isn’t the right place to do so. Also I’m going to use links from my personal blog because it’s just easier. But frankly if you want better sources on the subject, they’re out there.
Warning for massive wall of text. I tried to structure it, but there you go.
“Queer” has been reclaimed for decades. Many people who are much more knowledgeable than myself have pointed out that it’s been used at least as long as LGBT as an umbrella term (and that it was reclaimed before SGA was even invented), and it has the benefit of being inclusionary. The fact that is a historical slur cannot and should not be ignored, but the thing is, there is literally not a single word in use to refer to people who aren’t cis and straight that hasn’t been used as a slur at one point or another. Fuck’s sake, people still use “gay” today as a derogatory term, even when discussing things that have nothing to do with sexuality.
Meanwhile, SGA is an acronym that takes its root from conversion therapy (yes, really; SGA discoursers have claimed otherwise but survivors of conversion therapy attest to it), so I’m pretty sure it is equally trigger or even more triggering that queer to people.
SGL (same-gender loving) is a less historically charged acronym that I feel less strongly about for that reason, but it also comes from AAVE and I feel like there’s an element of cultural appropriation for me to use it as a white person, just like I wouldn’t use two-spirits because it’s a native american term.
But that’s not my only issue with either acronym. See, the issue I have with SGA/SGL are multiple, and I’m going to put a cut here because this is getting out of hand:
It is an inherently binarist concept. Meaning, it either excludes nonbinary people entirely, since for many of them, the concept of “same gender” is compeltely irrelevant; or it partially erases nonbinary identities by grouping them together as “male-aligned” or “female-aligned”, i.e. implying they’re “basically a man” or “basically a woman”. Which, even if that is something some nonbinary people do identify with, is not something anyone should be entitled to force on people. Plus, you know, I guess people who aren’t on the male/female spectrum or agender people don’t exist at all and/or don’t belong in the community according to those people?
Bisexuality and polysexuality does not necessarily include “SGA”, even for cis male/female people. Implying that a bi person is straight if they experience attraction for the opposite binary gender and for nonbinary people is, once again, erasing those nonbinary people’s identities.
Because of these two points, the concept of SGA is inherently transphobic, since you cannot use it without assuming people’s gender.
This also adds a shade of exclusion of intersex people, whose status with regards to the community has always been complicated. Some intersex people don’t want to be included, some do. But “SGA and trans” doesn’t leave room for those who do, but don’t identify as trans (and those people exist), to join the community, even though they deserve a place.
Bisexual and polysexual people are constantly erased, and reducing their right to belong to the community as their attraction to their own gender is harmful rhetoric even for those who do experience that attraction (such as myself). It is the kind of thinking that leads to saying they’re “basically gay and using bisexual to ease into it” or that they’re “basically straight and just experimenting/lying” (the latter is particularly directed at women, especially if they are in a committed relationship with men, while the former is particularly directed at men, including myself). I am not “basically gay” and I don’t want to use an umbrella term for my community that reduces me to that in all but name.
More biphobia: it assumes that there’s such a thing as “straight passing privilege” and that anyone who’s not presently dating someone from their own gender is benefitting from that. That line of thought literally started off as biphobic rhetoric. Oh, and, you know, “straight passing privilege” is just being in the closet. Kind of like how TERFS say that trans women experience male privilege instead of being trans women in the closet. Apparently the closet only applies to you if you’re gay.
The unifying experience of the community is not homophobia. I mean, the fact that you have to use “SGA and/or trans” should be proof enough that you’re already adding trans people as an afterthought. But beyond that, biphobia is a different beast from homophobia, as is transphobia, as is aphobia. They stem from a similar form of societal bigotry, and there is intersection (a bi person dating someone of the same gender will probably experience similar issues as a gay couple, corrective rape which lesbians and ace people are both targeted by), but there are also differences of specificities (I already mentioned bi erasure; ace/aro people are targeted for being “mentally ill”; and I don’t think I have to explain the specificities of transphobia in a world where “bathroom bills” is a phrase that exists)
As others have pointed out, the phrasing makes it sound like the community started with “SGA people” and then was gracious enough to include trans people, which is historical revisionism.
The queer label offers grey areas for people who need time to figure out their own identity or just cannot place their identity on the existing, mainstream labels. SGA does the exact opposite of that by forcing people to place themselves on one side or another of a pretty ill-defined line.
Even if it weren’t for any of these points, the term has now been claimed as the rallying cry for exclusionary LGBT+ people, particularly to target ace and aro people. And by that I mean it started of as that, but let’s pretend it was already around and was claimed by those people. Well, I will not stand for that, just like I’m not standing by TERF rhetorics. Interestingly enough, “queer is a slur” only emerged as discourse at the same time (and usually from the same people) who tried to enforce that exclusion.
LGBT+ aphobes have time and again shown that they were recycling biphobic and transphobic rhetorics (as I’ve shown myself earlier in this list), and in many cases, have proven to be the same people who used biphobic and transphobic rhetorics a few years ago, and that they haven’t given up on those views, merely grown more careful about where and how they advertise them.
If you want more I suggest you run a search for “SGA” on my main blog. It’ll be a lot of the same idea as what I just summarized here, just with more details.
So…yeah. If anything, I do not want to be included under the SGA umbrella, even though I am a bisexual man who so far has only ever dated other men. Well, one other man, but my dating history is kind of irrelevant anyway. Point is, I’m not using that umbrella. And I have every right to reclaim queer since…well, I just said I’m a bi man, which I’m pretty sure that should be enough.
I don’t have as many issues with LGBT, but at the same time, the acronym has also been pushed as “it’s LGBT and only LGBT therefore anyone who’s not lesbian, gay, bi or trans doesn’t belong” by the same people, enough that it feels sour in my mouth. I still use it liberally, although I try to use LGBT+ or other variations, such as LGBTQ, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, LGBTQIAP+, etc, but ultimately, queer is just easier and has the benefit of being more inclusive than any of the above.
I understand that it’ll make some people uncomfortable, but until someone comes up with a word that makes no one uncomfortable (which, again, does not exist yet—the closest we got was MOGAI, but that one was targeted by a smear campaign from, you guessed it, exclusionists who didn’t like that it included ace/aro or trans people and now people can’t use it without starting a similar debate as this), I’m gonna have to settle for one, and I’ll pick the one that makes me the most comfortable, because I am a member of this community too and I have the right to do that. Just like you have the right to use SGA and it’ll make me uncomfortable, but I won’t come to your blog sending you an anon message asking you to stop, because I understand that no umbrella exists that satisfies everyone at the moment, and I have more pressing issues to deal with.
If that’s an issue, feel free to unfollow or whatever else it is you feel like doing. But I will not budge on this.
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the yakuza games
genshin impact
obey me
a3!
resident evil
red dead redemption
cute animals
zodiac
graphics
shitposts
cinderella phenomeon
xoxo droplets
the ikemen series
the soul calibur series
wrestling (wrestling only page is @hyo-watanabe)
fanfic (fanfic only page is @kristenssinbin. all reblogs of smuttiness will come from there)
romantic shit
personal shit
digimon
castlevania
persona 5
far cry series
food
flowers
fashion/jewelry
nopixel!! (nopixel sideblog is @nicholas-simone)
twisted wonderland
court of darkness
dead by daylight
my tags
yakuza
genshin
obey me
a3
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rdr
fave
ref
cinderella
xoxo
ikesen
ikevamp
ikerev
sc
rasslin
rom
shut up kristen
replies
messages
digimon
castle
personal blahness
my edit
my edits
my icons
my gifs
my lockscreens
discourse
sova
hanzo
fc3
fc4
fc5
fc6
p5
fcnd
twst
cod
nopixel
i tw sensitive content. i either go tw: (sensitive thing) or tw (sensitive thing)
i also tag spoiler/spoilers. i do a general rule of after 1 month of me seeing something, i don’t spoiler tag then
what i need tagged
insects
spiders
body horror (a little blood is ok because i play m rated games)
the arcana, fuck that stupid fucking game
ships!!! (please tag your ships. i don’t ship anything, but there are some ships that i am super uncomfy with due to age difference and whatnot)
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fujoshi
pro shipping (especially incest and adult x child ships)
DDlg/CGl(re)/any related age play kink blogs
MAPs/NoMAPs/PEARs/lolicon
maga/conservative
TERFs/Radfems
Bigots/supporters of hateful viewpoints or ideologies (racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, islamophobia, nazism, fatphobic, white supremacy, aphobic etc.)
pro-life
anti BLM
if you see nothing wrong with rpf
anti-vaxxers/anti-mask
thinspo
animal abuse
LGBT-exclusionist
overwatch league blog, its still a v sensitive topic so i dont want to see anything that reminds me of it despite him not being in the league anymore
under 16 (i’m almost 30, its just kinda creepy)
xqc fan; dude is a piece of shit with a gross fanbase. dude has been banned from like 4 different games and owl because of how awful he is
cg/st/hydra fan; fuck em and the toxic vibes they bring to the np community
scu fan; what they (a large chunk of scu) did to jakka re: their chats is super fucking shitty, fuck em
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if you have any issue with these, especially my dni list, please block me
if you need anything tagged that isnt tagged, please let me know! i want to make your experience as comfy as possible
this is lengthy, so more after jump!
(general what i post, what i tag, dni list, and what i need tagged included)
what i post
the yakuza games
genshin impact
obey me
a3!
resident evil
red dead redemption
cute animals
zodiac
graphics
shitposts
cinderella phenomeon
xoxo droplets
the ikemen series
the soul calibur series
wrestling (wrestling only page is @hyo-watanabe)
fanfic (fanfic only page is @kristenssinbin. all reblogs of smuttiness will come from there)
romantic shit
personal shit
digimon
castlevania
persona 5
far cry series
food
flowers
fashion/jewelry
nopixel!! (nopixel sideblog is @nicholas-simone)
twisted wonderland
court of darkness
dead by daylight
the call of duty reboot from 2022 (gaz is kind of a babe)
my tags
yakuza
genshin
obey me
a3
re
rdr
fave
ref
cinderella
xoxo
ikesen
ikevamp
ikerev
sc
rasslin
rom
shut up kristen
replies
messages
digimon
castle
personal blahness
my edit
my edits
my icons
my gifs
my lockscreens
discourse
sova
hanzo
fc3
fc4
fc5
fc6
p5
fcnd
twst
cod
mw
nopixel
i tw sensitive content. i either go tw: (sensitive thing) or tw (sensitive thing)
i also tag spoiler/spoilers. i do a general rule of after 1 month of me seeing something, i don’t spoiler tag then
what i need tagged
insects
spiders
body horror (a little blood is ok because i play m rated games)
the arcana, fuck that stupid fucking game
ships!!! (please tag your ships. i don’t ship anything, but there are some ships that i am super uncomfy with due to age difference and whatnot)
dni if
fujoshi
pro shipping (especially incest and adult x child ships)
DDlg/CGl(re)/any related age play kink blogs
MAPs/NoMAPs/PEARs/lolicon
maga/conservative
TERFs/Radfems
Bigots/supporters of hateful viewpoints or ideologies (racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, islamophobia, nazism, fatphobic, white supremacy, aphobic etc.)
pro-life
anti BLM
if you see nothing wrong with rpf
anti-vaxxers/anti-mask
thinspo
animal abuse
LGBT-exclusionist
overwatch league blog, its still a v sensitive topic so i dont want to see anything that reminds me of it despite him not being in the league anymore
under 16 (i’m over 30, its just kinda creepy and i swear a lot)
xqc fan; dude is a piece of shit with a gross fanbase. dude has been banned from like 4 different games and owl because of how awful he is
cg/st/hydra fan; fuck em and the toxic vibes they bring to the np community
scu fan; what they (a large chunk of scu) did to jakka re: their chats is super fucking shitty, fuck em
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