#im also not a fan of dark/angsty topics even in ships i do like

[delightfuldevin]

It sucks how much people genuinely think that supporting something in a fictional context is the same as supporting that thing in real life :((

Like, do you people really truly believe that fictional characters are in any way equivalent to real life people? Do you understand how absolutely ridiculous that sounds?

“But they’re minors/siblings/victims/etc!” NO THEY’RE NOT. They are a figment of someone’s imagination that can have literally any traits you want them to cause fiction is something made to be manipulated for our viewing pleasure. That’s why AUs are a thing. That’s why headcanons are a thing. Cause fiction is meant to be manipulated for you to enjoy! You can’t have headcanons for a real life person. Because real people are not the same as fictional people. At least, I hope you don’t treat real people like they are fictional characters.

“But why would you want to ship [insert thing here]? It’s gross!” Okay, and? It isn’t hurting any actual real person, and it could even be helping someone who is using this to cope with their own trauma! And no, your personal discomfort is not a reason to completely delete content cause you can easily just block the tag/the creator and never see it. It is your responsibility to curate your own experience and if you are incapable of doing that, it is your responsibility to stay out of fandom spaces until you are mature enough to do so. It is not the responsibility of everyone else in the world to cater to your specific needs. You shouldn’t expect every single person to have the exact same needs as you and the exact same ways of coping with said needs.

“But groomers will use this thing to manipulate vulnerable people!” Indeed, that does happen. But it is not the fault of the person who made the content. It is always, and I mean always, the fault of the groomer themself. By saying “I was groomed by this content” you take away the responsibility of the actual groomer who did it. Don’t absolve them of their crime because of what they used for the crime. No matter what, it was always their fault and the responsibility of that is on their shoulders. Even if that content didn’t exist, they would’ve found some other way to groom you because that is simply who they chose to be and that is the unfortunate and sad truth.

It is completely okay to be uncomfortable with something! Grossed out even! Or something can be literally triggering for you. That is okay! And if someone doesn’t tag their content properly and it gets to you, you have every right to be mad about that! But that does not mean the person who made the content needs to delete what they made. You just have to block them so that you’ll never see their content again. You don’t even have to engage with them. That’s the beauty of the internet! We’re all strangers and once someone is blocked, it’s as if they never even existed! You’ll never meet them irl or be forced to interact with them. They are dead to you.

Also side note, but helpful information! When you block someone on Tumblr, their posts can still end up on your dash if someone else reblogs from them. Idk if Tumblr has changed this in the few years I’ve been gone, but a way around that is to add their blog name to your filtered content! That way, even if someone else reblogs from them, it’ll still be hidden from you :D

#i dont expect the target audience of this post to actually read it so its more just a vent for me #i just cant believe this is something that is so hard to grasp for some people #im not using any main tags for this because i reeeeeally want to stay out of discourse #i just really needed to say this #i dont even like most problematic ships #they are not appealing to me and some of them are even downright uncomfortable to me #but do i care if anyone else ships them? no i dont #because i have the power to simply not engage with the content and curate my own internet experiences #honestly the worst ship for me isnt even a problematic one but it makes me feel faaar worse than any problematic ship ever could #and yes i have the tag for it blocked #if i see a post that says it has my filtered content in it i simply scroll passed it #im also not a fan of dark/angsty topics even in ships i do like #so once again i avoid it like the plague #i dont care if other people enjoy that stuff. good for them! i hope theyre having fun/gen #i will simply stay in my lane and make sure i never have to see that stuff #king sad sack #<- thats my vent tag lol

[kyutown]

hi :) i would like to request a ship for enhypen, txt, stray kids and bts.

i am 19, i have a gemini sun, aquarius moon and a capicorn rising. i am a intp. i honestly don’t even know how to describe myself but i’ll try my best. i am pretty chill, i mean i could have my chaotic moments ya know but most of the time i mind my business and i just vibe. i am an introvert and honestly not. a big fan of people but you know they’re cool, i have only close knit friend groups but i do somehow make friends easily.

people say i’m mysterious but i’m pretty sure it’s because i don’t talk much. they also say i am very wise. i have curly natural hair but it’s dead cause i dye it a lot, right now i have two different colors in my hair blonde and brown, i have short hair because fuck long hair, oh i also curse a lot but i am very much mature enough to know when to and when not too. you know

i like to say i am funny, i really do think my humor is a good part of myself, i am very generous and i love to travel. anything adventurous, i’m down. i’m 5’2 and a quarter, wish i was taller sighhh anyways i play sims 4 a lot, mainly just stay in my room and vibe, i play with my cats a lot because i love them, i do hangout with friends a lot too. i am an anxious bitch, i don’t show it but inside i am dying lmao, i have tried a lot of hobbies but none of them stick since i get bored easily.

i love astrology! that’s my shit. everyone comes to me to ask me about their birth charts and i always have everyone’s birth chart in my phone, well my families and my close friends ya know. i love to read, mainly mangas and sad books. i love horror movies!!! anything scary and gory that’s my shit. i love to take pictures of pretty views and aesthetically pleasing photos. i love shopping like seriously i have a shopping addiction, especially sneakers or shoes in general, and hoodies. i just love spending money!

my favorite time of day is honestly probably like the moment from like 2 am - 4 am, the stars shine brighter between those hours. i love road trips. also if you cant tell i am like everywhere, mainly i have trouble sticking to one topic but like everyone is use to it all the time lmao, i am very aloof like weirdly enough i’m smart at stuff too.

my friends say i’m angsty but that’s because i read edgar allen poe a lot. i love music, especially like the grunge era nirvana is my favorite band ever, i love small bands like local bands, i go to concerts a lot, one direction was my shit, harry styles i love him.

i’m honestly trying to give you as much detail of myself because i asked for four ships i’m sorry 😭

i’m the type of friend who never really goes out much but like when we link, everyone always has the best time. i am the designated driver of my friends, i also love giving gifts! especially expensive because like i buy multiple gifts for each of my friends. i am bilingual. i love amusement parks, love stimulated death, arcades, ice cream (vanilla but im not picky) love to try new types of foods, gah i don’t know what else to say because i feel like i’m just going off abt myself. i hope this helps!! i hope you have a great day and thank you so much! (also i think my tumblr is pretty much me :)) THANK YOU ❤️🐝

hi! thank you for responding!

for enhypen, i think jay would be a nice match for you! jay would be the type who would gift you gifts and would enjoy receiving gifts from you! exchanging gifts would be one of your guys ways to show love to each other and he would also enjoy shopping with you! he would love shopping and would often pick out outfits for you and would buy you clothes!

for txt, i think huening kai would fit you well! i thought of huening kai because he would be the type who would love going to amusement parks with you and would enjoy going to arcades as well! he would always make you laugh and would laugh at your jokes which would make you happy as well!

for stray kids, i think changbin would pair nicely with you! changbin would be the one who would watch horror movies with you and would be the type who would be the most dark. he would, of course always be his funny self to you but would also enjoy watching horror movies with you and would love trying new food!

for bts, i think rm would be nice with you! rm would be the type who wouldn't mind you cursing and would be okay with you cursing when you do. he would be the type who would watch the stars with you and would read with you! he would love going with you on road trips and reading with you when you guys have free time!

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