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[zhansww]

Seeing people say that they just want ggdd to be happy makes me so damn happy. They’re both such lovely, caring and hard-working people. They really deserve the best, whatever that may be for them. There’s always so much drama in their fandoms (I try to avoid most of it, but there’s only so much one can avoid w/o completely being out of touch), I wish more people would just care about ggdd’s happiness instead of *gestures vaguely*

Oh, I wholly agree. Like I mentioned in my previous ask, you can't control what others do. We can't stop antis from pointlessly hating or shippers from treating ggdd's relationship like a piece of bl fiction. We can only look to ourselves and how we treat ggdd. Like, I never wanted to believe that they are more than friends but now that I do, I want to be respectful and supportive of their relationship while also appreciating them and their talents as individuals. The latter is easy to do for me, I actually adore them so damn much it's insane. Being respectful is so weirdly subjective in this fandom, though. I've actually been thinking about this a lot recently and for me, I think the most important thing is to be empathetic to their situation, to think about them first. This is something that I haven't always done myself but I def try to keep in mind now; my feelings don't matter as much as theirs and I obviously can't always know what they feel about any thing but I can try by putting myself in their shoes before deciding what is alright to share or not.

I don't care how long it'll take for ggdd to get to a point where they can freely show their happiness - with each other as friends or smth or someone else, doesn't f-cking matter - I wanna see them get there. They deserve to be happy and this is the hill I will die on 🙃

#ask #qlexqnderlightwood

[darcyolsson]

I also got idiots to lovers and now i’m very eagerly Waiting For It To Happen

me too bitch! the fuck!

#qlexqnderlightwood #answered asks

[llilychen]

no one: you: [forgets what you asked me and gets confuced when i answer]

that’s not fair this has only happened a few times and in my defense we’re often having like three different conversations at once 😠

rant in the tags!!

#the amount of times we have talked about the weather / your cursed sleeping schedule / the untamed at the exact same time? astronomical #we cant stick to only have convo we need to have them ALL #this often means we think we know what the other one is talking about but we really dont #remember that ronja fiasco when it took us like two whole hours to realize we had been talking about completely different thing?? #THINGS #YEAH I GET CONFUSED SO WHAT #remember cold medicine leena??? #YOU ARE DUMB TOO #ask #leena #qlexqnderlightwood #😠😠😠

[marquisoforder]

Not me unfollowing you bc I didn’t look at your header or carrd and thought you were a random person I had accidentally followed😭😭

sfdkgkagfsjf the way I was so confused when I got the notification that you JUST followed me 😂💀I was like wait River wasn’t following me all this time??

#asks #answered #qlexqnderlightwood

[unofficial-estonia]

nägin aske kohukeste kohta ja nüüd tahan kell üks öösel kohukest aga kuskilt pole saada rip rip

Bolt and/or Wolt would make bank if they opened kohuke delivery service

#qlexqnderlightwood

[lemoncielart]

i’m also voting for raphael santiago

VOTE FOR THE SIX FANARTS CHALLENGE TSC EDITION!

The Kieran/Raphael debate is on!

#SixFanartsChallenge #Ask!Me #qlexqnderlightwood

[1938485748377575876]

17, 1, 2

is there a book on your tbr pile that you don't think you will ever read?

i wanna say no but Shatter Me has been on my list forever but i just can't bring myself to read it oop

what book did you last read?

i read the first two books of the Truly Devious trilogy (i think?) by Maureen Johnson and I LOVE IT. like they're not the best and they start kinda slow but im a sucker for murdery

what book are you currently reading?

im about 20 pages into If We Were Villains by M L Rio and i. am. hooked.

thank you for asking iloveyou

#fr thankkk #you're like #my tumblr crush #or smth #asks #qlexqnderlightwood

[youve-cath-to-be-kitten-me]

Pineapple Fight

Someone gets stabbed with a pizza cutter by someone on the other side:

@cowboykieran : Rude

@qlexqnderlightwood : That’s fair

@ladyshadowqueen : Can I keep this or are you going to want it back?

#oops my brain did a thing #pineapple fight #cowboykieran #ladyshadowqueen #qlexqnderlightwood #incorrect quote #source: tumblr

[judenightfell]

qlexqnderlightwood replied to your post “.”

holy shit i-

it baffles me too ajfoiwjoi i posted nothing but an innocent selfie and now all the creeps are coming out of the woodwork lmao

#qlexqnderlightwood

[qlecs]

❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤ You've been Tagged to Send Love to 10 or more of your Mutuals ❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤

ooh my gosh thaanks !! 

i don’t wanna spam my followers too much so i’m just gona tag @max--lightwood-bane and thank you too !! for this !!

#qlexqnderlightwood

[zhansww]

oh gosh, i agree w your answer to the last ask so much. i’m not a bxg myself, but i’ve been following you for a while, so i tend to always have some sort of idea of what’s going on in the fandom, including right now, and hearing about all of this from you and other people has been so distressing. it’s honestly baffling to me that people don’t even realize(or care) how disrespectful and damaging (not to mention, selfish) it is to spread around clips that 1) shouldn’t have been filmed and sold in the first place 2) could have a negative impact on gg and dd

Selfish is the right word. They’re also being hypocrites by doing the same thing they constantly berate solos for which is just believing whatever is more convenient for them. In this case, bxg don’t know what ggdd think or feel about all this so they just decide that they’d be okay with it. What they should rather do is try to put themselves in ggdd’s shoes. Assuming they’re actually certain that those two are a couple, they can’t possibly think that ggdd would approve of drawing this much attention to their relationship again. We probably can’t imagine how difficult this must all be for them, how hard it must have been for dd to not be able to openly support or defend gg while the whole internet hated on him and to keep staying distant, they couldn’t even pretend to be friendly. When I try to empathize with them, I think that just seeing all the reactions from cp fans would be enough to make any hope I had to work with my bf again drop. I remember, after weibo night, the common consensus among (not only) cp fans was that gg very obviously kept his distance from dd because he wanted to not only protect what they have but also not ruin any chance of working with dd again. But then shit happened in February and these recent videos - that would probably make anyone question their relationship - only serve to get thirsty fangirls excited. That’s literally the only purpose of those videos. You can argue about whether ggdd want this or not but they definitely don’t f-cking need this. I don’t think those videos were taken without their consent or knowledge so the fact that they exist isn’t a problem imo. But people, making thousands of dollars off of selling those videos is undeniable fucked up. And the ones who share or get excited about this aren’t better either. There’s obviously nothing I can change or control about this, though, which is why I just try to ignore it now tbh. I made like two posts about it and I remember being frustrated and depressed af yesterday morning because of the new clips that had been shared earlier (but then gg saved the day by appearing outta nowhere on cctv TTTT). They only thing I think I can do - besides pointlessly complaining about it just to vent (lol) - is hope that it won’t affect ggdd’s already strained public relationship. Lucky you for not being a bxg by the way, heh. As much as I dislike the fandom, I still love gg and dd and I’m also still certain about their relationship. So I’m in this to stay but what I try to do with this blog is to filter all the bs and only keep the good things. Also, thank you for your message and please know that I appreciate you for your critical, selfless and empathetic thinking. Or in other words, I appreciate that you respect ggdd~

#ask #qlexqnderlightwood

[darcyolsson]

1, 14, 19

1. Song of the year? according to spotify, cardigan by taylor swift

14. Favorite book you read this year? i didnt read a whole lost this year, but i think loveless by alice oseman:)

19. What’re you excited about for next year? hopefully being able to hug my friends again :

#qlexqnderlightwood #answered asks

[llilychen]

jane the virgin for the ask game. (i kinda wanted to say the untamed to guilt trip you)

favorite male character: rogelio

favorite female character: petra

least favorite character: maybe rafael

prettiest character: JANE RAMOS

funniest character: petra and the narrator

favorite season: i remember liking season 3

favorite episode: i don’t have one

favorite romantic ship: jane ramos and petra

favorite family ship: xiomara, jane, and alba

favorite friend ship: jane villanueva and petra

worst ship: luisa and rose

#thank youu bird #qlexqnderlightwood #ask

[midshipmank]

Some time ago you said your mom was reading qooad(or just some scenes from it idk). What did she think if the malec wedding?

She loved it! My mom is one of the sappiest people I know, and she loved all of the (and I quote) “starry night imagery” (I think because of the mix of blue and gold). She’s been reading these books almost as long as I have (she works in education, so she reads a lot of MG and YA + she just likes it), so she’s also been waiting ages for them to get married 

#she doesn't care as much as me obviously but she was also Unsurprised and a little bemused when she found out why I was sobbing over qooad #she read it after me bc she had to catch up on gotsm #asks #qlexqnderlightwood #qooad #tda #tsc #Malec #Magnus Bane #Alec Lightwood

[lemoncielart]

woah that sounded v mean and ungrateful! i meant to just say i’d like to see your drawings of them, ily

No problem at all, darling, all the people send similar asks, isn’t a issue ♥ ♥

#Ask!me #Cute! #Mutuals!tag #qlexqnderlightwood

[1938485748377575876]

12, 19, 20

12: did you enjoy any compulsory high school reading?

we always complained about it in school but now that i think about it i really enjoyed Shakespeare's Merchant of Venice and i miss it

19: most disliked popular books?

ok don't @ me but i don't like the acotar trilogy as much as the ya tumblr does. like i did enjoy it but i wouldn't reread it.

20: what do you look for in books?

i love books with good plot twists!! and i prefer character oriented to plot oriented ones. the plot has to be god but i need to connect with the characters to really love a book.

thank you so much for asking !!!

#ily lena #qlexqnderlightwood #asks